A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 1 Prologue [-]: Being a father is a comparison
In the evening, Meixi and I were playing in the community, as well as Wang Yueyue, Sunshine, and Shanlan.Sunshine and Bright are sisters, one is nine years old and the other is four years old.

We play "three words" - with palms and backs of everyone's hands, one person is determined to be the chaser, and the other person cannot be touched by him, otherwise the chaser will be replaced.When you are about to be overtaken, as long as you call out three words, such as "Zhou Meixi", "Zhu Bajie" and "Wooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh touched you.However, you can't move anymore, you just stand there like a wooden man, and you can only continue running when your partner comes to touch it...

Later, in order to train Meixi's arithmetic, I changed the rules of the game: when the chaser is about to catch up with a person, he shouts: "What is 8 plus 13?" or: "What is 15 minus 9?"

The other party must quickly give the correct answer in an emergency to be considered as self-protection.

After playing tired, everyone sat on the slide and chatted, Wang Yueyue said: "Meixi, I really envy you..."

Wang Yueyue's family is very superior, like a proud little princess, she would not say such things easily.

The topic was interrupted by Sunshine, and then, Meixi asked: "Yueyue, what do you envy me?"

Wang Yueyue said: "Because you have such a father."

My heart is filled with honey.

This is a plot in the writer Zhou Dedong's book about the growth of his daughter Meixi, "Meixi Meixi". Wang Yueyue's father is very rich, but in his daughter's mind, he is not as happy as Zhou Meixi's father .

Meixi's father is not a rich man with a lot of money, but a well-to-do family with a stable job.But he is very willing to spend his time on his daughter, as long as her daughter can be happy, he is willing to try almost everything.He can always spare time to play with Meixi, and when Meixi goes out alone, he will follow behind silently; he can always make a very ordinary life interesting, and always let his daughter find a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction; and After his wife separated, Meixi went to France, and he was able to make funny stories and knowledge into jokes and pass them on to Meixi; It is convenient for him and Meixi to ride to the most beautiful scenery together...

Any rich dad can get a feeling in Zhou Dedong's "Beautiful Beauty": I have done so little for my children!In other words, I feel that I can do more things for my children!

How many people are trying to become Wang Yueyue's rich dad, but what the children really like is Zhou Meixi's loving dad.As the title of our book says: A loving dad is better than a rich dad.

Although wealth can bring some advantages to children's lives, in this society where opportunities are becoming more and more equal, individual ability is the core of competition.A person who has been well-educated since childhood has a healthier and more complete heart, and his life is naturally more able to stand the test.For a child, father's care is an important indicator to determine the quality of his life.Isn't it a huge waste and regret to have a father but not get the right love?
In fact, even a successful father may not be a good father.Behind every father, there is a family that silently supports him - how can a father full of potential enter the society without the support of his grandparents?If there is no mother's support, how can a professional father work with peace of mind?If there is no "stimulation" from the child, how can a forbearing father struggle and make progress in an unideal reality?The whole family has made Dad, and Dad's success belongs to the whole family.

Because of this, Dad's success should be given back to the family and shared with the whole family.

Sharing is not just handing in a month's salary, taking children or wives to several dinner parties, this is just part of Dad's success, and Dad's greatest success is experience and experience.This is exactly what children need most, and it is something that others cannot talk about.Only when the father shares this experience with the children, can it be considered that the father has shared his success with the family to the greatest extent.Dad's life adds value in this kind of sharing.

However, the reality is that many fathers are busy with work and unknowingly neglect their responsibilities in educating their children. It seems that apart from supporting the family, other things belong to the mother.This kind of awareness can easily make Dad give up his unique advantages in education and become an idle educational resource.

Some people joked that in the eyes of fathers, children should be like the best business partner, the most honored customer, and the best subordinate.After all, it is necessary for fathers to treat their children with the eyes of doing business.

Wealth is always an adjustable number, it can go up or down, and there is no limit. Once a millionaire with assets of over 100 million becomes a father, he will face the same problem: how to raise children to be socially useful person.However, a father's life experience is difficult for others to compare, and it is also based on the father's upbringing and wisdom.

This book combines the most common current educational problems to analyze the important role of fathers in education.Part [-]: What else do dads need to do when they have money? Use practical problems and educational theories to help dads realize the important role of dads in education; The cultivation of awareness, the guidance of learning methods, and the cultivation of morality are used to list various life scenes, so that fathers can easily grasp the rules of education; Part Two: To be a learning father, broaden yourself is to broaden education Lu Zhong is recharging father’s charge, supplementing father’s educational thoughts from the aspects of communication, psychological common sense, and the difference between boys and girls, so as to make education sustainable development!Use real role models and concrete and feasible methods to guide those fathers who care about wealth to the normal track of family education.

Don't be a "upstart" father, and share your most unique wealth with your children.

(End of this chapter)