A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 2 Prologue [-]: The New "Terrorism": Challenge Parents with Self-destructive Ways
In the midsummer of 09, Chengdu was very eye-catching. 26 Ferraris, Maseratis and other luxury sports cars were stopped by the police on the Chengnan Expressway because their owners were suspected of speeding. The 26 controversial luxury sports cars reappeared on the Chengguan Expressway, and they ran 13 kilometers in just 45 minutes, with an average speed of 210 kilometers per hour.According to reports, these sports cars come from all corners of China, and the owners are all "rich second generations".

Another news report: In Chongqing Jiangbei Maoye Department Store, a son of a wealthy high-ranking cadre killed a female college student whom he pursued unsuccessfully with two knives.On the southern coast, Xiao Xiao, a 19-year-old girl, had her gums torn, her entire row of teeth loose, and her right mandible fractured, all because she rejected a "rich second generation" Wang.

The above few are not considered the most "popular" among the "rich second generation".Hu Bin, a son of a wealthy Hangzhou family, was racing in the downtown area and killed Tan Zhuo, a young graduate from Zhejiang University. He was sentenced to three years in prison and paid high compensation to the other family. This result is still controversial.What people are discussing is not the severity of Hu Bin's sentencing, but this picture:
On the side of the highway, several young people chatted and laughed happily while smoking.

If you take it as an ordinary photo, there is nothing to be surprised about. What makes people angry is that this photo was taken at the scene where Hu Bin killed Tan Zhuo, and those young people were Hu Bin's car friends!

Think about it, right next to these people, lies a life that has just passed away.He was 25 years old and in his prime, but he died in an instant under the sports car of these chatting and laughing young people.

Tan Zhuo, a graduate of Zhejiang University, works in a foreign company with excellent performance.I am preparing to marry my girlfriend who has been in love for many years.He had just finished watching the movie "Nanjing!Nanjing! 》, on the way home, his young body with many dreams was hit by a sports car that broke into him without warning.

No matter who Hu Bin's parents are, or whether his speed is 70 kilometers or 120 kilometers, there is only one fact—Tan Zhuo's body was knocked 5 meters high, and the place where he finally landed was more than 20 meters away from the zebra crossing. , died on the spot.

In the dock of the court, Hu Bin denied that he was racing.

What are these "rich second generations" thinking?It's hard for us to understand.

In the movie "New Police Story" that Jackie Chan once starred in, there are also a group of young people who drive sports cars and play games with the police. After robbing the bank, they actively ring the alarm bell to find excitement. Seeing the death of their companions, they seem to be indifferent .Zu, starring Wu Yanzu, did everything just to "kill the policeman", because his father was a well-known local policeman, who was very popular outside, but at home he insulted him and punished him physically, which made Zu hold a grudge, and finally ended up with a self-destructive way. way to challenge the father.

A student in Nanjing once cut off his own finger to express his resistance because he couldn't bear the forced practice of the piano by his parents.Children want to challenge their parents with self-destruction, which shows the depth of their dissatisfaction with their parents and the deviation in their understanding of life. "I would rather destroy myself than make my parents feel better." This "deep hatred" is derived from the dislocation and distortion of love.Behind all these "rich second generation" stories is the question of how the rich dad educated his children.

Wealth can bring a sense of personal achievement and career, but in front of education, wealth can do nothing, or even help, allowing children to "display" their bad deeds to a greater extent and bring disaster to society.

A father without money does not necessarily fail, and a father with money does not necessarily succeed.Even what we think of as being rich may not necessarily be an advantage in education.To be a good father, it is better to let children understand the most basic principles of life than to let their children have no worries about food and clothing.What is worrisome is that many rich dads think that they can be taught by having money.

In family education, there is no distinction between rich and poor, only good or bad methods.A father who doesn't know how to love, with hundreds of millions of fortunes, may make his child out of heart disease; a father who knows how to love, with only one yuan in his pocket, can also give his child a happy and satisfying laugh.To control the "terrorism" of children, what fathers need to do most is to control the habitual thinking in education brought about by their own career success: you have the final say in the company, but you still have to listen more at home Listen to your child.Don't use your wealth to suppress the child's mental distortion.

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