A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 23 1 Work clothes - a symbol of social division of labor
Article [-] Super Dad's Parenting Skills

——A father who really knows how to educate must be a father who is good at using his "wrist".Simple handling of complex issues, easy to educate children.

Chapter 4 Suit and tie, dad demonstrates social rules
"Why is Daddy always away?" a child asked his mother.

"Because Dad has to go to work, and he has to be on time for work. He can't be late or leave early. Just like you are studying."

"Can Dad ask for leave?"

"Yes, but it depends on whether he is willing to persist. Dad thinks his job is very important, and he will persist even if he is sick."

When Dad came home in the evening, Mom told him about today's conversation. "The child is very surprised why you are not at home every day. I think you should tell the child what you are doing."

So, the father talked about work and life with the child.

"Dad has to go to work every day, so I can't always be with you, and I feel very sorry. But, you know, everyone has a work uniform."

"Like the work clothes of the uncle in the supermarket?"

"Yes, the uncles in the supermarket wear bright yellow overalls. The police uncles we saw have their uniforms, and the cleaners also have their uniforms. Everyone has them."

"But why does mom wear different clothes every day?"

"In fact, my mother also put on a work clothes, but that dress is transparent, called 'Mom'. Wearing this dress, mother must do everything a mother should do. For example, your teacher, wearing They are different, but they all have to do what teachers should do. We can’t see many people’s work clothes, but they know what they should do.”

"Oh, then will I have one in the future?"

"Yes. So my father said that everyone will have a work uniform, which means that there are other people in this society who need you to do some things. If you wear different work clothes, you have to do different things. For example, if you want to be a scientist, you can do different things. Study hard for a scientist's smock; you want to be a truck driver and learn to drive safely."

"Well, can't the work clothes be taken off?"

"Yes, but there are restrictions. You can't take it off when you want to. It depends on the regulations of your work clothes. Just like my work clothes require me to go to work at nine o'clock in the morning and get off work at six o'clock every day. I can't be late."

"Then I need to choose the easiest and best-looking one."

"Each work uniform has its own value, and there is no big difference. When you wear the work uniform of the Premier of the State Council, you must do what the Premier should do. You must devote a lot of energy and time to thinking about how to make the country better. Good; if you choose sanitation work clothes, you will pay less, and you only need to maintain the environment well. The more beautiful the clothes, the more you have to pay, this is a one-to-one correspondence. And, like It’s like choosing clothes, you have to choose something that fits you well, if it doesn’t suit you, it won’t look good on you.”

Although we hope to do everything for our children, he has to walk most of the journey in life by himself.Which way to go, how to go, he has to complete step by step by himself.What Dad can do is to tell him: Everyone will have a social role, and everyone needs to pay for this role, and no one can just take it completely.Giving is one's duty.

Talking about life ideals and goals of struggle with children always feels very empty; it would be too utopian to just talk about getting into an ideal university without paying attention to where you will go after graduation; Official, and too naked, killing the child's innocence.Might as well tell him that everyone has a work uniform.Everyone must be prepared to be a useful person to society.

It may be difficult for children to understand why everyone has to work, or understand the social division of labor and the differences between different classes.But as long as he understands that he will step into the society in the future, it can also have the effect of stimulating him to think about life and tap his potential.

But many fathers are busy with their work, and children can't understand why fathers are always not at home.If you don't understand, you will have misunderstandings. Some children feel that their father does not love them, and some children feel that their father is irresponsible to the family.In fact, this is Dad's biggest grievance. Why don't we tell the truth, so there will be no more misunderstandings.

Some people are unwilling to talk about work with their children, or they don't talk about other things except study.This avoidance of reality can only breed idealists.And idealism must return to the world after all, and it must be exposed to daily necessities, from nine to six.It's better to let him understand from the beginning that this is the only way in life.

(End of this chapter)