A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 24 2 Suit and leather shoes, decent image

I still remember that at the opening ceremony of the Beijing Olympics, the temperature in the bird's nest was very high, and every bag distributed to the audience contained a fan.After the leaders of various countries took their seats, the attentive audience found that Bush Jr. and others had loosened their ties very rudely, and some had taken off their suit jackets, but our leaders were still fully armed with suits and ties, letting the heat wave Attacking people, I stand still.

The reason why leaders are so concerned about their own image is also because the occasion was different at that time. In the first Olympic Games held in Beijing, even if the temperature was 40°C, everyone still had to endure it.Neat dress reflects a person's solemn and solemn attitude at this time. As the host, it doesn't matter if you cover it up or down.

On the contrary, today's young people don't care about what they wear at all, and they don't cover what should be covered, and what should not be exposed is exposed.Some young people wore outlandish clothes for interviews and were directly rejected.Because the company does not need such a maverick, but being a maverick has increasingly become a slogan for children to advertise themselves.

On a parenting forum, parents discussed the matter of children wearing exotic clothes. Everyone expressed their support for children wearing school uniforms and not spending too much time on dressing up. Acceptable... The patience of parents has been pushed to the limit again and again.

Children love to wear fancy clothes, and they won't listen to what their father tells them. On the contrary, they will easily cause adolescent rebellious symptoms. Saying "don't worry about it" can choke people.Outlandish costumes are only part of their youth slogans. A netizen on the Tianya forum described the "new new human beings" that he couldn't understand:
There was an Internet cafe downstairs, and what caught my attention was not the firecrackers and bands that were set off when it opened, but the "xx mother" that came from time to time after it opened.I always thought who was fighting, but one day I realized that it was a group of kids who came to the Internet every day to play jokes.Later, I really deliberately observed the appearance of these children, that is, the appearance of junior high school students, both boys and girls. I can only say that the quality is really not good.Dressed in strange clothes, looks abnormal, swears at every turn, even chats with swear words, seems to be not seeking to make progress, and is extremely rude.

One day while waiting for the bus, there was a girl next to her, in Ha Han's attire, only in her teens.A few boys came by on bicycles and when they saw the girl, they scolded her as a pig, but the girl didn't respond, she opened her mouth to scold the country, it was very fierce, it surprised me, it's not like what a girl can say!It reminds me of when I was in junior high school, if I met my classmates, everyone said hello, very kind, and I couldn't help but feel like a lifetime away.

I know a boy from a very good family. He is in the third year of junior high school and doesn't like to study.Parents are very anxious, let me persuade.Chatting with him and asking him why he doesn't like to study, I found out that he loves to play computer games, and the whole class likes to play, so we join together to play.His ideal is to open an Internet cafe and play games all day long. The whole class supports him, saying that he will definitely go there every day. Who is responsible for collecting money and who is responsible for cleaning are all arranged.The students in his class are also from good families, but none of them are serious about preparing for the high school entrance examination.

As this netizen who "worry about the world first" said, our eyes seem to be on those students from key middle schools and students from poor families.The former gives us pride and hope, the latter evokes sympathy and admiration.But the children caught in the middle, they are also a part of this society, their academic performance is not good, parents and teachers don't pay much attention to them, the family has no difficulties, and they don't think about the future themselves, just dawdle every day.Some worship the underworld, and some go to heresy ways...

In fact, it all started with a lack of attention.Children wearing exotic clothes just show that they are eager to be noticed and become the center of attention.At this time, if you still don't get attention, you will increase the level of rebellion until you put nails on your body or even take drugs to seek happiness.

So when a child wears a fancy dress, it is a signal: Dad needs to spend more time paying attention to the child.

Of course, not all kids wearing a strange outfit is a red flag.Some children usually study well, but when they go to participate in activities, they dress a little strangely according to the occasion, but they will return to normal when they return home.Parents of children in this situation don't have to worry at all, which shows that he has good adaptability.

Generally speaking, children's clothing will be greatly influenced by the family.The famous American gold digger Hilton has been educated by her mother since she was a child, believing that she is better than Snow White, etc., which is completely the way of super Hollywood training.A family has a family's eating preferences, and a family also has a family's aesthetic orientation.If the father left the child with the impression that the suit is neat, and he can dress appropriately and neatly when attending his parent meeting, he will be very happy in his heart and appreciate this mainstream aesthetics, so he will naturally stay away from "non-mainstream".

Now there is a saying called "image is worth millions". In a society that emphasizes efficiency, a good impression can give yourself extra points, let the child value his own image, and let him accept the aesthetics recognized by the society, so that he can increase the child's interview. Chance.

(End of this chapter)