A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 70 9 Inspirational together with children, open up your life
When some people become fathers, they are already successful leaders in their careers, but there are also people who are both happy and heavy when they welcome a new life, because the arrival of a child is also a huge pressure in life.It is the wish of every father to provide children with good living conditions.In fact, it is not difficult to become a rich dad. As long as one persists in the path he likes, there will be a day when all hardships will be rewarded.

There is a girl who is 23 years old. Except for her imagination, she is no different from others. She has an ordinary family, an ordinary appearance, an ordinary university, and no one among her friends really appreciates her.

In college, this girl spent a lot of time imagining, in our words, daydreaming all day long: beautiful girls in white dresses, blue skies, green grass, witches and devils... This is one of her favorite hobbies. No one can see any career from this unsatisfactory hobby.

She fell in love with her classmate from the university, he was the "Prince Charming" in her imagination, but the prince couldn't stand the girl's unrestrained thoughts all day long, so he decided to break up with her.After falling out of love, she left her hometown and came to the romantic Portugal she longed for.There, she found a job as an English teacher and continued to write fairy tales in her spare time.

She falls in love again, this time as a young journalist, humorous, witty and brilliant.they got married.But the story of the prince and princess still did not happen, and her whimsy also made her husband choose to leave.She and her daughter depend on each other for life.Not long after the divorce, she was dismissed by the school again.She returned to her hometown in desperation and lived by receiving social relief funds.

But she still didn't stop writing.And she has no higher requirements, as long as she can tell these fairy tales to her daughter, she will be satisfied.Once, when she was waiting for the subway, a character suddenly popped into her mind.When she got home, she spread out the manuscript paper and started another bold creation.Years of fairy tale conception made her write smoothly.

Her long fairy tale "Harry Potter" came out. At first, the publishers were not optimistic about this book. Unexpectedly, it became a bestseller all over the country as soon as it was released. She continued to write seven books, which became one of the best-selling books in the world.

Her name is Joanna Catherine Rowling, and she is not only the top of the "British Working Women's Earning List", but also ranked 100th among the "25 Most Powerful Celebrities in the World" by the famous American "Forbes" magazine.

Rowling is now a good friend of children all over the world, and the idol of many young and middle-aged people who dream of becoming a writer.She had been ordinary for the first half of her life, but had incredible attention and success in the second half.Now the film adapted from her work has been enthusiastically welcomed by young people as soon as it is released, and has become the most popular topic nowadays.

Rowling's success has once again encouraged parents. Any father who is ambitious and persistent should not lose to her.

Success in career requires Rowling's long-term investment and attention, but children's growth is not like this "straight line to black", because when their lives first started, they needed to get in touch with this society.A success scientist has summed up the "five types of people who lead to success", and fathers can refer to this standard to train their children.

The first type is the professional type, such as beautician, pastry chef, lawyer, etc.; the second type is the innovative type, with creativity and the ability to break through the tradition. Questioning is also the most easily overlooked person in our current education; the third type is the integration type, such as the current CEO, politicians, etc., they are good at organizing people to collaborate, and they are a group of people who are most valued by the current society; the fourth type is Gu Ta type, the most typical one is Lei Feng. Many people think that people like Lei Feng are no longer needed. In fact, in modern society, everyone is not stupid. Only those who know how to put vegetables in other people's bowls can eat their own food. Rice; the fifth type is the noble type, they can combine various advantages in one body, and they are the so-called compound talents now.

The above five categories are the five major trajectories of personal career development, but they all have a major premise in the initial stage: fully understand their strengths, and maximize their strengths and avoid weaknesses.If the father can't appreciate the child's strengths and help the child decide the way to go in the future for no reason, it may be a disaster for the child.

Therefore, fathers should explore their children's strengths and potentials as much as possible, and provide them with a broad platform as much as possible.Generally speaking, the easiest thing for a father to provide to his child, and what is most often overlooked, is to broaden the child's horizons and expose him to the world.

Not everyone can become a well-known successful person, but everyone can have the status of a successful person: active, eager to learn, and constantly improve themselves.Dads are busy with work all day long, checking homework, making money at home, etc. When can they have time to talk to their children about major events in the world?

"Son, who do you think will win the US election?" When he was idle, Dad suddenly thought of such a question, and the child who asked it was caught off guard.

"I don't understand. Why don't you tell me about the candidates?" Fortunately, my father had already known the situation of the two candidates, and said in a tone as plain as picking apples or bananas:

"Obama, black, 48 years old, talkative, inexperienced but very passionate; McKinsey, white, 72 years old, very experienced and very frank." "It's hard to choose." The child scratched his head.He went to his room without saying anything.

Later, my father found that his son was reading a magazine with Obama's face intently.Although the child knows thousands of words, he doesn't know much about the Democratic Party and the Republican Party. It doesn't matter. Looking around the world and searching for information is already a good habit.With the affairs of the world in mind, a person's mind will become broad and wise.

(End of this chapter)