A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 77 7 Daughter, please protect yourself first
There is a saying that when you have a daughter in your family, you will understand what it means to be "fearful".In such a complex and well-connected modern world, all kinds of crimes happen every day, no one wants their children to be involved in it, let alone their daughter as a victim.The innocence, simplicity, and kindness of girls increase the possibility of such dangers. Therefore, protecting daughters is an important topic of father's survival education.

The Internet is a medium that young people often come into contact with. There are a lot of fake things on the Internet, but when many girls first come into contact with the Internet, they will like the romantic and illusory feeling on it. Participate in the activities of the circle and go to faraway places alone.Although these cannot all be opposed, it is necessary for Dad to know and prepare in advance.

Dad is the umbrella for daughters, but in many cases, girls need to protect themselves. Dad can strengthen children's self-protection awareness from the following aspects:

1. Recognize temptation.There is no free lunch in the world. Except for family and relatives, gifts and good things that fall from the sky generally have secrets. Those things that seem to be beneficial to you and help you may turn into your own disaster in the end.Therefore, if there are news about girls being cheated in the newspapers and TV, the father should tell the child in time to let her have more indirect experience.

2. Say no bravely.Although girls should be polite and well-educated, when someone threatens girls to do things that may bring danger to themselves, things that are not allowed by parents and teachers, or things that you are unwilling to do, you must Say no loudly and boldly, make it clear that you say no, and walk away.Do not hesitate, nor accept reluctantly.

3. Teach girls that self-protection is not the same as being selfish.Self-protection is carried out on the premise of protecting one's legitimate interests, and this behavior is not at the expense of harming the interests of others.

4. Teach girls not to go to unsafe places.Especially adolescent girls are very curious and prefer to "adventure".Parents should restrain them and not allow them to go to strange places alone. If they really want to go, they should tell their parents when, who they are with, when they will come back, etc.

In short, we must tell girls that only when a person is cautious at all times, treats his own life carefully, and knows how to prevent problems before they happen, can he ensure that he is in a safe state.Let girls know that although good people still make up the majority in this world, bad people will harm others when they are not careful. Therefore, they must know how to use a "microscope" to observe the surrounding environment to ensure their own safety.

Because girls are vulnerable to sexual assault, dads also have to take precautions in advance.Physiological knowledge can be explained by the mother, but the father should tell the girl to be more vigilant against men who take the initiative to get close, especially single men.You must resolutely reject the approach of men who are familiar or unfamiliar.

Boys and girls who fall in love early can easily eat the "forbidden fruit" due to emotional impulse.When girls enter puberty, parents should educate girls to treat feelings correctly.If a girl encounters a pervert, she must learn to ask others for help.

There are many courses on self-protection. These things cannot be educated until something goes wrong, but should be prevented before it happens.Therefore, in daily life, fathers must do a good job in safety education.

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