A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 78 1 Listening: Dad, Dad
Chapter 11 Dad's big breakthrough, are you a person who will love now?
There are many people who have good hearing, and take a careless remark from the leader to heart, and the affairs are handled seamlessly, cleanly and beautifully.But at home, these people’s hearing is often compromised. The wife said that the electrical appliances were broken and needed to be repaired, but they could not hear them. The children said that they wanted to go to the botanical garden, but they were selectively filtered.

The first step for a father to become a loving person is listening: Do you hear the children calling "Dad, Dad..." and telling what they want to achieve?

June 6th is Father's Day. Just like sending text messages to her mother on Mother's Day, her daughter also sent a multimedia message to her father on the same day. The content was to thank him for his hard work in raising him, remind him to pay attention to his health, and wish him happiness forever.In fact, the father and daughter are in the same room, but the daughter still wants to send a text message to her father.After the text message was sent, the daughter looked forward to seeing the touched expression of her father after reading it.She imagined a lot of reactions from her father, maybe kiss her, maybe hug her, maybe say something to her, maybe ask her out to dinner and so on.However, plans are not as good as changes.

"This is someone who sent me a multimedia message, and my phone can't be opened." It turned out that in order to create a surprise effect, my daughter specially ordered a multimedia message with a hidden number.Hearing that her father said she couldn't see it, the daughter hurriedly looked at her father's mobile phone, trying to find a way to display the MMS, but her father's mobile phone did not have this function.

The original surprise is gone, but the affection still needs to be said, so the daughter had no choice but to open the outbox of her mobile phone and let her father see the content of the MMS, who knew that after reading it, her father said coldly: "It should have been sent yesterday. "My daughter said to me angrily: "I won't send him any more in the future, it's boring."

In fact, it is often the father's incomprehensible style that makes the children lose their interest in playing and the desire to communicate.It's not that children don't know how to love their father, but that parents always don't know how to enjoy their children's love!When children come back to "wash their mother's feet" according to the school's call, the adult's reaction is often: what's so good about doing these hypocritical things, it's better to study hard; When Tsukuru showed it to his father, his father always reprimanded him for not listening carefully in class and wasting tuition fees; when the child relished telling stories about what happened at school, his father was always busy answering the phone and sending text messages... I have to say Many fathers have problems with their hearing, eyesight and comprehension in front of their children.

In fact, to discover the potential, shortcomings, and advantages of the child requires fathers to carefully observe and listen to the child.Many fathers are willing to pay a high price to send their children to noble schools to be educated, but they are unwilling to spend an extra minute to feel what their children have to say.Isn't this putting the cart before the horse?
When a child sends you a blessing text message, he is actually waiting for your spiritual response.Many fathers just look at it, but they don't know that this is a rare opportunity for communication in a year, and it is also the time for us to express our inner feelings.Let's end this topic with a little note from a caring father to his children:
Dear daughter, thank you for sending me blessings on Father's Day. In fact, every day watching you grow up is my holiday.You are very considerate and never let us worry about it. You didn't tell us many things, but I know you are trying to solve the problem by yourself.

Because of this, I always feel that my love for you is far from enough.Every day when I come home from get off work, I am always busy with my own affairs. Sometimes when you chat with me, you will be interrupted by my job change... These are all in my heart. I feel very sorry for you and my mother .I will try my best to be a good father in the future.

Finally, I still want to thank you. Your presence has made our family more happy, and also made me and my mother grow up and mature a lot.You are my eternal princess, I wish you happiness and happiness forever.

Love you dad

(End of this chapter)