late night story

Chapter 4

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Lived in Guiyang before university.Guiyang is a city that never sleeps for foodies.In comparison, many people may know more about the cuisines of Chengdu and Chongqing, but after comparison, I found that my hometown is not inferior in this regard.The taste is also mainly spicy, which is different from the Bashu area which is mainly spicy, and ours is mainly hot and sour.And when it comes to eating, it seems to be more enjoyable to eat in the dark night.Supper, as a culture, has penetrated into people's lives.There is a Hequn Road in Guiyang. There are dots of bars and night food stalls on this nightless street. Compared with this densely packed small city, it looks spectacular.People in Guiyang like to drink, and they also like to invite friends to eat supper.From the hot barbecue, hot pot to all kinds of noodles, it is full of color, fragrance and taste.When I was in Guiyang, if I went out to drink and have fun with my friends at night, I didn’t want to go home and sleep peacefully if I didn’t have a supper.It became a fun habit, and everyone was happy to keep it, not only because of the irresistible taste of a late-night snack, but also because of the joy of being together with friends.

Later, he lived in Beijing for many years.The tall and cold buildings in this city are row upon row, and there is a lot of traffic. Perhaps the area is too large. There are very few people walking on the road at night, and the places to eat supper have become scattered.But as time goes on, I gradually become used to it.As a senior foodie player, I have already figured out all kinds of supper strongholds.The famous Guijie Street in Beijing, when the lanterns are lit up at night, it becomes bright red and becomes the busiest place in Beijing.Eating hot pot bullfrog and crayfish at night in winter can sober up and warm up. People who like lively people usually go there.Of course, there are many other options, and some Japanese izakaya will also open until late at night.Hungry in the middle of the night, wanting to have a heart-to-heart talk and chat at night, so I take my partner or best friend to pour a pot of wine for the night, so pleasant.

It has been scientifically proven that eating too many calories at night will directly lead to obesity, and people who lose weight should not eat supper.But many friends who are losing weight seem to make appointments to have supper more frequently than others.Facts have proved that few people can resist the temptation of supper.

It brings a sense of warmth and solidity.Even at a roadside stall, sitting with three or five friends, waiting for the boss to bring you steaming food, can bring people a sense of fulfillment and happiness.

We just need to get together and comfort. It is such a comforting thing for people to gather at the dinner table, drink and talk, and dispel the emptiness accumulated in life.

It's late at night, you just put your cup noodles in the microwave, stop the heating, check your phone, and find a friend to accompany you for supper.

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Some time ago, I always felt angina pectoris. I went to the hospital for an investigation, and it turned out to be a precursor to coronary heart disease. The doctor said that if I don’t want to develop real coronary heart disease, I need to adjust my mood quickly and stay happy anytime, anywhere.Depression, anxiety, and stress can easily induce diseases in this area.The doctor prescribed me a bottle of Jiuxin Pills, which I took when my heart felt uncomfortable, but my mood has not been adjusted, so the discomfort persists.Later, I simply did nothing, ensured to eat well and sleep well, chat with friends without moral integrity every day, watch a few episodes of funny variety shows or American dramas before going to bed, and look for funny jokes on Weibo, within a week, There is no more uncomfortable feeling.

It turns out that humor is the best life-saving pill.

Humor is a foreign word translated into English, and the word in English comes from Latin, and its original meaning is "humor".The ancient Greek doctor Hippocrates believed that human body fluids include blood, mucus, bile, etc., and their composition ratios are different, so that people have different types of temperament.The widespread use of the word humor is due to the British humanist dramatist Jonson.He wrote "Different Personalities" and "Everyone Has Their Oddities" are both famous for their humor.In his satirical comedy masterpiece "Volpongne", the character of the characters is defined by "temperament".Because literature and art itself has the function of social communication, Jonson's theory of humor spread like wildfire.It was the famous Mr. Lin Yutang who brought this word into China. "Humor has a broad sense and a narrow sense. In Western usage, it often refers to all words that make people laugh, including vulgar jokes. In the narrow sense, humor is different from melancholy, sarcasm, and ridicule. These three or four All kinds of demeanors contain small elements. However, there are various kinds of smiles, such as wry smiles, maniacal laughter, light smiles, and smirks. The intentions and attitudes of laughter are also different. Some are hot and sour, some are gentle, some are contemptuous, and some are sympathetic. Some are short sentences, some are based on the whole outlook on life, and some are the sustenance of thoughts. The best humor naturally expresses "the brilliance of the soul and the richness of wisdom". Among all kinds of styles, humor is the most emotional." He said in It is written in "On Reading, On Humor".

Humor is like a lubricant, making life less boring.A sense of humor is how we regulate our emotions and a tool with which we fit into society.Life is filled with awkward discomfort, or the boredom is unbearable.These leave our minds overloaded and thirsty.Only a sense of humor is the best remedy at this time.People with a sense of humor, like tentacles of wisdom, can find a place to talk and masturbate in many things.Humor is nothing more than reorganizing or destroying logic to make yourself laugh. I can't make a conclusion whether life itself is funny. I only know that it is not difficult to be a funny person.

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I want to try to hold on for love at least once,
Even if the other party doesn't give me anything in return,

I also believe that love can help me resist the years.

If the enthusiasm has not changed,
Who cares about its vicissitudes?
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I tried on your mask and felt that seeing the world became narrow and laborious.Although the mask is beautiful, people cannot touch your warm skin or see your expression.I am glad that I never wear a mask to love and be a human being. I don't need to be defensive.I'm never afraid of scars, they always heal, but I have that burning heart that you never have.

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To describe a lover, my favorite description is: you are my warm gloves, cold beer, shirts with the smell of sunshine, my dreams day after day.

If I want to compare love, my favorite description is: love to me is not a skin-to-skin relationship, not a vegetable or a meal, it is an immortal desire, a heroic dream in a tired life.

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In fact, as long as I hold you for a minute and feel very warm, that's enough.

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There is a huge relationship between love and confidence building.Experience some bad love, it will make our self-confidence damaged.But people will still start over, meet someone who is worth paying for, and then regain their confidence bit by bit.

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If you can't become the person you like,
I can't get closer to you anymore,
I can't find anyone like you anymore,

Then become like you,
Maybe that's how we get closer.

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There must have been an impetuous time when we felt that we wanted to throw away all the red tape, rules and regulations that have always bound us, so we vented our anger on the books, wanted to burn them, and experienced how to behave in the world by ourselves.As a result, the complexity and uncertainty of life makes us realize that we really overestimate ourselves, and we should return to books, otherwise we will have no words to comfort ourselves when we encounter setbacks.

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you'll find someone special,
Shut up with you and don't speak,
Enjoy a moment of silence without embarrassment.

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No matter how dirty this world is,
You can't help opening your eyes wide to see what's going on.

Because you're looking for commonality.

May be the stain of the past,

patience now,
future suffering.

But you are doomed to cling to this world,
though dark,

But it keeps you alive.

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probably in love,

Everyone will tell themselves that what is delivered to their door is not a good thing,

Then the good stuff is really missed.

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When we don't get along well with loneliness, we will start to use love as a drug to paralyze ourselves.So love and possession are confused in the mist, and love and dependence are indistinguishable in the chaos.But what you call those silly, neurotic love affairs are just lies that loneliness tells so easily.If you want to quit these fleeting thoughts, you must first learn to face up to loneliness and learn to get along well with it.

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The past is made up of so many moments,

There are always moments,
We want to stay there forever,

Like every minute and every second with you.

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I'm tired of any begging,

begging for approval,

begging for friendship,

begging for love.

What comes from begging is always cheap alms or sympathy born in a moment,

icy,

With sarcasm, and never for long.

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Doom moves faster than you,
I guess the day it comes,
You didn't come to me either.

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There's nothing wrong with liking someone,
There is nothing wrong with the person you like not liking you.

There are many reasons for this,
It can also be hurtful,

Don't ask why,
We will be happier.

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Life is a process that requires us to let go constantly,

these pick up and put down,

Forgetting and persistence will gradually become commonplace with time.

But there is only one thing that is most regrettable and painful,

That is not being able to say goodbye properly.

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When you think you've grown up,
In fact, the world is just getting ready to start teaching you how childish it is.

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If there's more you want in dreams,
so you don't want to wake up,

Why not try to bring them into reality,
To actually feel it.

From today,

Wake up every day for what you want, not sleep.

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when you are alone,
you say lonely

They sneered that you were weak;

you say lonely,

They ridiculed you for being hypocritical;

You said you need someone to accompany you,
They think you are not self enough.

Then you also became one of "them",

don't feel alone anymore,

don't feel lonely anymore,

Finally, I no longer need people to accompany me.

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All impetuous and false affection will gradually fade away.Time will prove that only a sincere heart can grow with us with time, can it not be destroyed, and can maintain a constant temperature.

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If you are still waiting for him to pay,
It is better to be self-sufficient.

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It is easy for us to remember the happiest moments in our lives, and it is difficult to erase the painful memories, but we can simply forget those ordinary things.It’s like a pair of shoes that you don’t wear often, a book you haven’t read, a person you didn’t fall in love with, but these people or things that we thought were insignificant at the time are accidentally picked out of our memories today, full of regret The dust can also bring you back to the past, and it looks particularly moving.Although they are ordinary, they have witnessed your growth very clearly.

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Life is like a room with unstable power supply that flickers on and off, never indulge in pleasure when it is bright.You should take the time to know where you are in the room and everything around you, such as where you keep your candles, your flashlight.Only in this way can you have the courage to find the emergency light source in the dark when there is a power outage, otherwise you can only be at a loss and be swallowed by the darkness.

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I only make friends based on feelings. Someone treats me well because they simply appreciate and like me, not because they want to get something from me.And I appreciate each other, so I naturally become best friends.Communicating and getting along with each other appreciatively, happy and relaxed, life has already had many narrow doubts and greedy grabs.If you still need too much accommodation, pondering, and patience, then why bother with one more friend and one more thing.Therefore, many people can only click to the end and cannot be close friends.

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You have really appeared in my dreams too often recently.

I don't want to sleep all the time,

It's because I want to stay awake,

I don't want to deceive myself by seeing the illusory you in my dream;
I fell asleep and didn't want to wake up,

I want to stay longer with you in my dream.

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When my thoughts spring forth,
Usually when falling in love.

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In the past, I hated the smell of cigarettes and hated people who smoked.I also think that I will never smoke in the future.But now, I will unconsciously take out the cigarette in my pocket, take out one and start to smoke slowly.When I was irritable and needed to calm down, I even started to rely on it to calm myself down.It turns out that the thing I didn't like the most will one day become difficult to quit.This is human hypocrisy, and it is also human adaptation.Yesterday's habit is not equal to today's persistence.On the contrary, if you throw away the last cigarette butt today, you will be a person who hates the smell of cigarettes one day in the future.For people, everything has a cycle of change.

But smoking is definitely slow suicide, and no one is encouraged to smoke here.It's better to quit early.

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If you really like someone,

But the other party does not have enough feelings for you or has not yet developed feelings,
just being nice to you,
Just grab a glimmer of hope and swipe to post it,
It will naturally be regarded as inferior by the other party and resist you.

This is actually just a normal human psychology, not that the other party deliberately targets you,

From then on, it will be really difficult for you to regain another victory.

No matter how cute you are to please, the other party will think that you embarrass him,
You will find that the hotter your face is,

His ass gets cooler.

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Gradually realized that
Not everyone's opinion of themselves matters,

The most important thing is the eyes of people who care about us.

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We are all looking for a heart to live in, but we have knocked on doors, been rejected, and lived in many times, but none of them are suitable.More time on the road, wind and sun and rain.Maybe on the day when we are tired from walking, we will find that we don't have to force ourselves to find our destination.Wandering without purpose is also very happy, at least you can see the scenery along the way and sing songs of freedom.Why should this process be regarded as being exiled?
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You used to be disheartened because you didn't get recognition from others,
But all this will pass.

because you will eventually know,
your life is yours,
either cold or warm,

It's all just yours.

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the more you relax,

The gentler the eyes of others look at you.

the tighter you are,

It will feel like everyone is frowning at you.

People are like looking in a mirror,
What expression do you use to look at others?

Others will look at you with whatever expression.

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When you find yourself getting serious, your emotions, mind and even concepts will be affected, and every time you get serious, your balance will be broken.Restructuring and rebuilding your heart will allow you to grow, but there is also a risk that your heart will collapse and you will lose a piece.When you start to get serious, you have to bet on what you face.I always choose to give it a go and be serious without reservation, so I have grown up violently, but I also have a young but incomplete heart.

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I have a good friend C, she is a girl who does not worry about material things.A few days ago, I often complained to me that she was pestered by a certain man.She said she didn't like the man at all, even though he was very nice to her. C also often teases this boy's infatuation with me.Of course I believed her words.

In the past few days, this boy came from other places to look for her. C asked me to have dinner with him.The scene in front of me is that they are like glue. C held her arm, and the two of them were in love with each other, and they seemed to have a very good relationship.I couldn't help laughing at C in my heart, and somewhat blamed her for her petty dishonesty.In fact, I'm not sure about the complete thoughts in her heart. I can only see that C needs him, at least emotionally.

If you need it at this second, just hug, cling, and get tired of it. There is someone who can keep you warm, and it is harmless and harmless.

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I like the rainy weather the most.

I would imagine a person,

hug me in bed,

Looking through the curtains, the sky is cloudy and cloudy.

The cool breath mixed with the smell of earth permeates the glass,

Waking up and sleeping,

Smell each other breathe.

Just like that through the other party's sleepy eyes,
Exchange daydreams.

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things that make you sad,
one day,
You're bound to say it with a smile.

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The biggest shortcoming in life is that you can't do it all over again.
But the biggest advantage,

Just don't have to do it all over again.

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As long as a person knows what he is living for,

able to tolerate any form of life.

(End of this chapter)