Chapter 196 Yan Mofeng Vents
Luo Ze got up and turned the air conditioner down.
With a simple questionnaire, he already had a general understanding of the weight of Li Manqing and Tang Qianyu in his elder brother's heart.
Almost subconsciously, the elder brother's first choice is Tang Qianyu at any time.
I was afraid that she would sleep outside, so I let her live in a wooden house.
Afraid that she would be eaten by fierce beasts, he took her across the bridge first.
After thinking for a while, Luo Ze said again: "After a gust of wind, the wind and sand blinded your eyes. You seem to have traveled through time and space. When you opened your eyes again, you found that you were lying on the edge of the cliff, holding a person in each of your left and right hands. One has a bun head, and the other is a girl with curly hair. No matter which hand you let go, one of them will fall and be smashed to pieces. However, because of your lack of energy, you have to make a choice and let go of one hand."
"I'll hold on tight to the bun!" Yan Mofeng said.
"That is to say, you will let go of the girl with long curly hair?" Luo Ze confirmed again.
"Yes!" Yan Mofeng said.
Luo Ze has been paying attention to the changes in the elder brother's expression, and he found that the elder brother has no difficulty in choosing between the bun head and the long curly hair.
His eyes flickered for a moment, and he added another dose of serious information: "But the girl with long curly hair told you that she is pregnant! If you let her go, you will die twice."
"It won't be like this in reality!" Yan Mofeng said a little annoyed.
"It may happen in reality. Don't care if it's reality. You let yourself into it. You are in that environment, holding two girls in your hands, and you have to give up one. You need to follow your heart Make a choice. What will you do?" Luo Ze looked closely at Yan Mofeng and asked.
Yan Mofeng frowned, and said irritably, "I will hold on to the bun."
"The girl with long curly hair told you that if you let go, both she and the child will die. Don't you feel at ease?"
Yan Mofeng interrupted irritably: "Why should morality kidnap me? I can't pursue my own happiness? I will choose Baozitou, and I will hold her hand tightly. That is not my child, and I cannot give up on me because of someone else's child Important person."
"What if it happens to be your child?" Luo Ze seemed to be playing a prank.
Yan Mofeng stared at him angrily, and raised his voice: "In your scene, is the long curly hair my wife?"
"No!" Rose laughed.
Yan Mofeng's voice was louder: "I will not have children with women other than my wife, whether in reality or in your damn scene, this principle will not be broken!"
"But it's painful for you to give up on her?" Luo Ze asked.
"That's human life. No bloody person can just watch two lives being lost from his own hands." Yan Mofeng roared loudly, the veins on his forehead twitching violently.
"Do you feel that fate is tricking people now? The reality is like this. Many times, we need to make painful choices. We must face life, old age, illness, and death. The pain of parting, the pain of misunderstanding, the pain of loss, The pain of sadness, the pain of despair..." Luo Ze spoke very fast, as if he deliberately stirred up the madness in Yan Mofeng's heart.
He succeeded.
Yan Mofeng's eyes were scarlet.
Luo Ze said loudly: "You need sandbags now, in the old place!"
Yan Mofeng rushed straight to a room on the left.
After a while, there was a crackling sound coming from inside.
Luo Ze walked slowly towards the room, and when he reached the door, he saw Yan Mofeng beating the sofa frantically, venting his anger all over his body.
"You can shout out!" Luo Ze induced.
"Ahhh—" Yan Mofeng shouted loudly.
Luo Ze is satisfied with Yan Mofeng's current actions.
Everyone needs to find a balance point psychologically in order to live a healthy and happy life.Once the psychology is out of balance, it is necessary to vent and vent, and a breakthrough is needed to relieve the psychological restlessness and depression.It's like people need to clear away heat and detoxify after getting angry.
Sandbags and shouting are the best outlets for psychological depression.
Yan Mofeng slapped the sandbag for a while, and then yelled loudly.
In less than 10 minutes, he was sweating profusely, and suddenly felt much happier, so he took off his gloves.
Luo Ze smiled and said, "Okay, let's continue now."
Yan Mofeng calmed down a lot, he walked to the sofa and sat down.
Luo Ze said with a smile: "We are changing the scene now..."
Yan Mofeng was extremely dissatisfied: "The thing on the cliff is another dream?"
Luo Ze smiled: "Yes, you can treat it as a dream, but the feelings you put into all the scenes are real. In spring, in a beautiful sea of flowers, you and girls with buns and girls with long curly hair are Neighbors. The girl with buns lives on the left of your house, and the girl with long curly hair lives on the right, and the three of you have become friends."
Yan Mofeng frowned, feeling incredible: "In reality, I wouldn't choose two women as friends at the same time."
"Alright then, you're in love with a girl with long curly hair." Luo Ze said.
Yan Mofeng frowned: "But I have always liked Baozitou, since the time when I started to choose among the four women, or, since she lived in my cabin."
"No, at first you liked girls with long curly hair, but after you broke up because of a misunderstanding, you fell in love with buns." Luo Ze said.
Yan Mo stood up abruptly: "Your surname Luo, are you kidding me?"
"See?" Luo Ze chuckled.
"Don't imagine those things. I have completely let go of Li Manqing. I am very aware of my current situation. No matter what she does, I will be calm. Seeing her making love to Yan Mo Nan, I will not feel anything, nor will I. I want to pay attention to everything about her." Yan Mofeng said.
Luo Ze raised his eyebrows: "So, your current situation is the same as the previous two times, and you still have emotional syndrome. Five years ago, you were troubled by feelings, and three years ago, you were troubled by feelings. Now, you are still troubled by feelings. emotional distress.
Five years ago, when you were in love with Li Manqing, and you cared a lot, your sense of insecurity reached a peak. When you saw a man around Li Manqing, you would panic.In fact, this panic is related to two factors. The first factor is caring. The more you care, the more you are afraid of losing.The second factor is low self-esteem.Low self-esteem is mostly formed in adolescence.This is why we advocate that children must be encouraged more.
In childhood, most of the people who received too much reprimand and lived too tremblingly had low self-esteem. Even if they grew up to live a rich life, they still often introspect themselves.The more introspection you have, the more you will realize your own shortcomings, and the more you realize your own shortcomings, the easier it is to feel inferior, and the more you suspect that you are not doing well enough.This is the case for you. "
Yan Mofeng listened carefully to Luo Ze's analysis, and nodded: "That's right!"
Luo Ze continued: "Your current situation is similar to the previous one. You are satisfied with your current life. You have poured more and more affection into your sister-in-law and cared more and more, so you can't stand seeing the post. You have been Trying to find a balance by yourself, but with limited adjustment ability, inferiority complex, previous emotional trauma and childhood emotional loss caused you to fall short. Small things will also be infinitely magnified in your heart."
"It's more difficult to control emotions now than before." Yan Mofeng said distressedly.
Luo Ze raised his eyebrows and said with a smile: "That's because you haven't known your sister-in-law for a short time, and you don't know her well enough. You always feel that you can't grasp it, so you are uneasy. Only when you have a peaceful heart can you truly show peace .”
"How to do it?" Yan Mofeng asked.
(End of this chapter)
Luo Ze got up and turned the air conditioner down.
With a simple questionnaire, he already had a general understanding of the weight of Li Manqing and Tang Qianyu in his elder brother's heart.
Almost subconsciously, the elder brother's first choice is Tang Qianyu at any time.
I was afraid that she would sleep outside, so I let her live in a wooden house.
Afraid that she would be eaten by fierce beasts, he took her across the bridge first.
After thinking for a while, Luo Ze said again: "After a gust of wind, the wind and sand blinded your eyes. You seem to have traveled through time and space. When you opened your eyes again, you found that you were lying on the edge of the cliff, holding a person in each of your left and right hands. One has a bun head, and the other is a girl with curly hair. No matter which hand you let go, one of them will fall and be smashed to pieces. However, because of your lack of energy, you have to make a choice and let go of one hand."
"I'll hold on tight to the bun!" Yan Mofeng said.
"That is to say, you will let go of the girl with long curly hair?" Luo Ze confirmed again.
"Yes!" Yan Mofeng said.
Luo Ze has been paying attention to the changes in the elder brother's expression, and he found that the elder brother has no difficulty in choosing between the bun head and the long curly hair.
His eyes flickered for a moment, and he added another dose of serious information: "But the girl with long curly hair told you that she is pregnant! If you let her go, you will die twice."
"It won't be like this in reality!" Yan Mofeng said a little annoyed.
"It may happen in reality. Don't care if it's reality. You let yourself into it. You are in that environment, holding two girls in your hands, and you have to give up one. You need to follow your heart Make a choice. What will you do?" Luo Ze looked closely at Yan Mofeng and asked.
Yan Mofeng frowned, and said irritably, "I will hold on to the bun."
"The girl with long curly hair told you that if you let go, both she and the child will die. Don't you feel at ease?"
Yan Mofeng interrupted irritably: "Why should morality kidnap me? I can't pursue my own happiness? I will choose Baozitou, and I will hold her hand tightly. That is not my child, and I cannot give up on me because of someone else's child Important person."
"What if it happens to be your child?" Luo Ze seemed to be playing a prank.
Yan Mofeng stared at him angrily, and raised his voice: "In your scene, is the long curly hair my wife?"
"No!" Rose laughed.
Yan Mofeng's voice was louder: "I will not have children with women other than my wife, whether in reality or in your damn scene, this principle will not be broken!"
"But it's painful for you to give up on her?" Luo Ze asked.
"That's human life. No bloody person can just watch two lives being lost from his own hands." Yan Mofeng roared loudly, the veins on his forehead twitching violently.
"Do you feel that fate is tricking people now? The reality is like this. Many times, we need to make painful choices. We must face life, old age, illness, and death. The pain of parting, the pain of misunderstanding, the pain of loss, The pain of sadness, the pain of despair..." Luo Ze spoke very fast, as if he deliberately stirred up the madness in Yan Mofeng's heart.
He succeeded.
Yan Mofeng's eyes were scarlet.
Luo Ze said loudly: "You need sandbags now, in the old place!"
Yan Mofeng rushed straight to a room on the left.
After a while, there was a crackling sound coming from inside.
Luo Ze walked slowly towards the room, and when he reached the door, he saw Yan Mofeng beating the sofa frantically, venting his anger all over his body.
"You can shout out!" Luo Ze induced.
"Ahhh—" Yan Mofeng shouted loudly.
Luo Ze is satisfied with Yan Mofeng's current actions.
Everyone needs to find a balance point psychologically in order to live a healthy and happy life.Once the psychology is out of balance, it is necessary to vent and vent, and a breakthrough is needed to relieve the psychological restlessness and depression.It's like people need to clear away heat and detoxify after getting angry.
Sandbags and shouting are the best outlets for psychological depression.
Yan Mofeng slapped the sandbag for a while, and then yelled loudly.
In less than 10 minutes, he was sweating profusely, and suddenly felt much happier, so he took off his gloves.
Luo Ze smiled and said, "Okay, let's continue now."
Yan Mofeng calmed down a lot, he walked to the sofa and sat down.
Luo Ze said with a smile: "We are changing the scene now..."
Yan Mofeng was extremely dissatisfied: "The thing on the cliff is another dream?"
Luo Ze smiled: "Yes, you can treat it as a dream, but the feelings you put into all the scenes are real. In spring, in a beautiful sea of flowers, you and girls with buns and girls with long curly hair are Neighbors. The girl with buns lives on the left of your house, and the girl with long curly hair lives on the right, and the three of you have become friends."
Yan Mofeng frowned, feeling incredible: "In reality, I wouldn't choose two women as friends at the same time."
"Alright then, you're in love with a girl with long curly hair." Luo Ze said.
Yan Mofeng frowned: "But I have always liked Baozitou, since the time when I started to choose among the four women, or, since she lived in my cabin."
"No, at first you liked girls with long curly hair, but after you broke up because of a misunderstanding, you fell in love with buns." Luo Ze said.
Yan Mo stood up abruptly: "Your surname Luo, are you kidding me?"
"See?" Luo Ze chuckled.
"Don't imagine those things. I have completely let go of Li Manqing. I am very aware of my current situation. No matter what she does, I will be calm. Seeing her making love to Yan Mo Nan, I will not feel anything, nor will I. I want to pay attention to everything about her." Yan Mofeng said.
Luo Ze raised his eyebrows: "So, your current situation is the same as the previous two times, and you still have emotional syndrome. Five years ago, you were troubled by feelings, and three years ago, you were troubled by feelings. Now, you are still troubled by feelings. emotional distress.
Five years ago, when you were in love with Li Manqing, and you cared a lot, your sense of insecurity reached a peak. When you saw a man around Li Manqing, you would panic.In fact, this panic is related to two factors. The first factor is caring. The more you care, the more you are afraid of losing.The second factor is low self-esteem.Low self-esteem is mostly formed in adolescence.This is why we advocate that children must be encouraged more.
In childhood, most of the people who received too much reprimand and lived too tremblingly had low self-esteem. Even if they grew up to live a rich life, they still often introspect themselves.The more introspection you have, the more you will realize your own shortcomings, and the more you realize your own shortcomings, the easier it is to feel inferior, and the more you suspect that you are not doing well enough.This is the case for you. "
Yan Mofeng listened carefully to Luo Ze's analysis, and nodded: "That's right!"
Luo Ze continued: "Your current situation is similar to the previous one. You are satisfied with your current life. You have poured more and more affection into your sister-in-law and cared more and more, so you can't stand seeing the post. You have been Trying to find a balance by yourself, but with limited adjustment ability, inferiority complex, previous emotional trauma and childhood emotional loss caused you to fall short. Small things will also be infinitely magnified in your heart."
"It's more difficult to control emotions now than before." Yan Mofeng said distressedly.
Luo Ze raised his eyebrows and said with a smile: "That's because you haven't known your sister-in-law for a short time, and you don't know her well enough. You always feel that you can't grasp it, so you are uneasy. Only when you have a peaceful heart can you truly show peace .”
"How to do it?" Yan Mofeng asked.
(End of this chapter)
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