The double-faced president loves his wife to the bone

Chapter 197 Is there a time when my sister-in-law is particularly touching?

"Don't rush, take your time, communicate more, understand more, vent more!" Luo Ze said, "The most important thing is to believe! Be confident!"

Yan Mofeng looked at Luo Ze, frowned, his expression tangled.

Luo Ze said: "I know this is difficult for you, because every time you believe, you will be covered with bruises. In high school, you believed in your classmates, and your classmates took away all your entrepreneurial funds. In college, you believed in Li Manqing, and she was ruthless in your heart. So, you are used to the saying that you must be defensive, and you build a wall in your heart, so that others can't get in, and you can't get out.

However, that cold wall makes you uncomfortable again, and you yearn for warmth and light.You gradually lean towards sister-in-law, you are warmed, and you care more and more about this feeling.

Because you care about it, you feel even less secure, and you are afraid that you will not be able to hold it.You become sensitive, you are afraid of accidents.The slightest thing can irritate you.On the one hand, you can't suppress your temper, and on the other hand, you care about your sister-in-law's mood. You can only adjust yourself. Two kinds of thoughts are constantly fighting in your mind. On the one hand, you want to explode, but on the other hand, you are afraid that your sister-in-law will be hurt. "

"Yes, I am in this state now." Yan Mofeng agreed.

"So, next, I will give you a counseling plan, which requires your cooperation every day!" Luo Ze said.

"En." Yan Mofeng responded.

"First of all, I have three big requests for you. First, trust me at any time!" Luo Ze said.

Yan Mofeng frowned: "If I could do it, why did I come to you? I don't know if I should believe her? Reason is one thing, emotion is another. I saw a picture of Lin Nuofan hugging her, and I Seeing the call records between her and Lin Nuofan, I saw Lin Nuofan's text message calling her Xiaoyu, and I heard her call my full name, I was going crazy, my mind was full of messy thoughts, I couldn't control myself at all."

Luo Ze reached out and touched his nose, and said with a smile, "I'll give you some advice."

"En." Yan Mofeng replied coldly.

"The second requirement, you must be confident!" Luo Ze said.

"I can't control it, and I don't think I'm not confident." Yan Mofeng said.

Luo Ze touched his nose helplessly again, and said, "The third requirement is that you must communicate with sister-in-law."

Yan Mofeng stared at Luo Ze: "Didn't you see that I have a communication barrier now?"

Luo Ze reached out and touched his nose again, and said: "About trust, once you are stimulated by the senses, you can't completely trust your sister-in-law. When you are worried that your relationship will change because of her, you can use examples to psychologically assess yourself." hint."

"What case?" Yan Mofeng asked.

"Did sister-in-law ever particularly move you?" Luo Ze asked.

"Yes!" Yan Mofeng said.

"Like what?" Rose asked.

Yan Mofeng said: "She will take the initiative to hug me and hold my hand!"

"Okay, this is one of the examples. Once you are disturbed by the outside world and can't trust her, you should think about the way she embraced you." Luo Ze said.

Yan Mofeng's expression eased a lot.

Luo Ze asked again: "What else?"

Yan Mofeng said: "When I told her some of my past, she felt distressed. At that moment, I was very moved."

"Well, this is the second case, what else?"

"When she gave me a bouquet of fruit and flowers, I was very moved when the note said that we wished us happiness and sweetness."

"Okay, the third case, what else?"

"After I was driving the car to the point of flying, she cried and said that there were still many things I didn't do with me, didn't cook for me, didn't peel pineapples for me, I asked her if she wanted to do these things for me, I was touched when she answered yes."

"Very good, the fourth case, what else? You think about it slowly, I will record all the cases and compile them into a book, and you can read them every day."

"Ah."

"..."

"She personally designed the zodiac Huang Longyu for you, and even made surprises for you. This is the fifth case."

"She thought it was something important to you, so she specially asked a craftsman to restore it. This is the sixth case."

"..."

"The second requirement is about self-confidence. Once you find that you have an inferiority complex because of introspection or caring too much about your sister-in-law, you must work hard to see the advantages and shining places in yourself." Luo Ze said.

Yan Mofeng frowned: "For example?"

Luo Ze said: "You start a business from scratch! This is an advantage! You don't have those Yingying and Yanyan around you, this is an advantage! You have a high degree of education, this is an advantage! You can speak five foreign languages, this is an advantage! You are gentle and considerate to your sister-in-law , this is an advantage! You have an incomparable wealth, this is an advantage... Oh, I can't count any more, if I keep counting, I should suffer from a disease called inferiority complex. Remember? Once If you have an inferiority complex, you use these advantages to defeat it, overcome it!"

"En." Yan Mofeng responded.

Rose laughed: "There is another effective way."

"Ok?"

"Comparative method. If you use the advantages I mentioned above to compare with Lin Nuofan, you will find that you have no reason to be unconfident. You started your own business, and he is a second-generation ancestor. There are no Yingyingyanyan around you, He is already Su Rong's husband, but he is still cheating..."

Yan Mofeng listened carefully.

Luo Ze raised his eyebrows and smiled: "Okay, let's solve the third problem now, communication, communication is not a quarrel, of course, communication can quarrel, communication must be effective, and effective communication starts with approval. No matter what sister-in-law says, you Try to make yourself identify with her. Don't take her as your wife and beloved woman..."

"What do you take that for?" Yan Mofeng frowned.

"You regard her as your customer. If she is a customer, or an ordinary customer, how would you communicate with her? I believe you are very skillful in dealing with customers, otherwise, there will be no Qingfeng and Chenlang Industry, let alone Tianyong International. Human beings need space. In reality, the environmental space, that is, hard space, also needs software soft space, that is, emotional and psychological space. If you stare too closely, people will suffocate, just like The bird in the cage you mentioned, no bird wants to live in a cage, and the same is true for people, no one wants to live a life that is too restrained."

"I don't understand!" Yan Mofeng said.

Luo Ze touched his nose again, and said with a smile, "Simply put, you want to let her go."

"Flying away?" Yan Mofeng frowned, "Am I being hurt emotionally again?"

Luo Ze laughed: "Those who can run are not true lovers!"

"Fart!" Yan Mo swears violently.

"Haha!" Luo Ze laughed loudly, "Okay, today's psychological counseling is over, don't forget to transfer the consultation fee to my account, I will go to your company to see you tomorrow, and I want to check the results. Remember Three words, believe in sister-in-law! Be confident! Communicate, effective communication starts with recognition, and treat her as a customer."

"En." Yan Mofeng responded.

"Live here?" Luo Ze asked.

"I'll go back!" Yan Mofeng said.

"It's already one o'clock in the morning." Luo Ze reminded.

"It's okay, I have the key." Yan Mofeng got up and walked out.

After doing psychological counseling, hitting a beanbag again, and yelling loudly to vent, I really feel much more comfortable.

Facing the starlight, he drove back to the villa.

After taking a shower and returning to the room, he saw Tang Qianyu's tired and peaceful appearance on the bed, and his heart skipped a beat.

(End of this chapter)