Dong Qing: Be a talented woman
Chapter 2 Your temperament hides the road you have traveled and the people you have read
Chapter 2 Your temperament hides the road you have traveled and the people you have read
Temperament is the most advanced sexiness of a woman
The charm of women does not lie in their age or beauty, but in their calm smiles, their calmness without being surprised, and their calmness without a trace.What has been experienced, what has been felt, what has been pleasantly surprised, and what has been sad, all settle in my heart one by one.
A woman with temperament has a magnetic field, and she is equally attractive without relying on sexy clothes, strong makeup, or stunning beauty.
The image of elegant and beautiful women on the screen added a lot of luster to Dong Qing's hosting.She is like a girl who came from spring, her pure beauty is full of elegance and dignity, and her reserved temperament endows her with an atmosphere and calmness that can be retracted freely, as well as a beauty that has accumulated knowledge and experience.
It was the first time Dong Qing heard someone calling herself a "beauty", and thought they were joking with her.Because apart from being tall, Dong Qing believed that she was not good-looking since she was a child.Now she finally has a little confidence, because temperament is more important than appearance.The cultivation of this temperament stems from her tireless study and pursuit of perfection.
However, in Dong Qing's childhood, she had low self-esteem because of her appearance.The most difficult thing for Dong Qing to accept when she was young was that her father did not allow her to look in the mirror more every day.Not only that, Dong Qing also said: "My father has a famous saying that a potato is still a potato no matter how dressed it is. He said that the time you spend looking in the mirror every day is not as good as reading a book."In addition, her father did not let her mother make new clothes for Dong Qing, thinking that girls should not put too much attention on dressing up.Although this was very painful for Dong Qing, who was still a little girl at the time, she still focused all her attention on her studies.
Eileen Chang once said: "A woman is like a flower, and a woman who is like a flower should maintain a flowery face, a flowery talent, and a flowery quality. Because when the years go by and the face grows old, only the inner quality and temperament remain with you for a lifetime. "
How to be a temperament beauty?Proper hair style, elegant makeup, moderate figure, correct gait, elegant posture, pleasant manner, pleasant voice, pleasant language, intellectual clothing, etc., can all highlight your temperament.
However, the truly enduring temperament comes from excellent quality, profound knowledge, broad-mindedness, strong will, open-minded temperament, lofty ideals, sincere concern, and true love.The more time passes, the more enduring and charming a woman with temperament can exude.
One part of tenderness, two parts of elegance, three parts of romance, and four parts of wisdom. To be a temperamental woman who stands out from the crowd in the city is the real "Gone with the Wind".
On August 2016, 8, Yang Lan, a well-known host, held a new book meeting in Guangzhou with her new book "The World is Big, Fortunately, I Have You".When talking about the topic of "how women become temperamental", Yang Lan said that it is human nature for girls to love beauty, but it takes at least 21 hours to finish the secret of becoming beautiful. "When beauty reaches an advanced stage, you need to know it, and you need to change from caring about other people's opinions to paying attention to what you express. When you reach a certain age, you will find that dressing up is actually just a foil."
Yang Lan shared her views with many women. "Have you noticed that the girls in the women's volleyball team are all very beautiful? They are basically 20-24 years old, but I have noticed Lang Ping in particular. I have known her for more than 20 years. After she entered middle age, she became more and more beautiful. Therefore, the appearance of a girl is not determined in her 20s, as long as your heart becomes full and beautiful, your appearance can undergo a huge change, and then you will become more and more temperamental."
Lin Qingxuan said that the third-rate makeup is the makeup of the face, the second-rate makeup is the makeup of the spirit, and the first-rate makeup is the makeup of life.A woman's inner beauty is the most lasting charm of a woman, and a good inner temperament can make a woman extraordinarily attractive and beautiful.No matter how the years are, that unique temperament will never disappear.
The development of temperament is by no means an overnight effort. It is an external manifestation of a comprehensive strength of ability, knowledge, experience, emotion, and life.A woman with temperament knows how to continuously enrich her knowledge, cultivate her personality, and improve her cultural connotation. Over time, even her eyes and gestures will naturally reveal charming charm.
"Women are not cute because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are cute." Cuteness is the beauty of a woman's temperament.When a woman possesses temperament, just like a mountain with water immediately reveals aura, she immediately becomes radiant, bright-eyed and looking forward, charming and charming.
The process is the scenery, only after experiencing
A great man said: "There is no scenery at the end of the journey." He told us that the joy of life lies in the process of pursuit, not the result.Famous dancer Yang Liping never pays attention to whether her dance works are famous or award-winning. In her opinion, only in the process of dancing can one appreciate the return of the human soul.
Dong Qing likes the host industry very much, and there is always a force in her heart that keeps her from stopping.She said: "Actually, my appearance is relatively stable, but I don't know where the strength in my heart comes from. Everything is for that moment. Sometimes I am afraid, and I feel like I am wearing clothes. Red shoes, I can't stop. Maybe one day I will have regrets. I didn't fall in love when I should be in love. I didn't have a family when I should have a family. There is no one around me. I regret that I didn't give my parents more time. Maybe one day I would also say like a lot of other people that the biggest wish right now is to have a baby, etc., but I can't stop right now."
Tagore once said that there are no traces of flying birds in the sky, but I have already flown.In fact, no matter what the result is, it is a harvest. Don't regret your efforts, because as long as you work hard, success is no longer important.Sometimes passing is the result.If you place too much emphasis on the result, you will lose the experience and insights in the process, and women often end up devastated after failure because they place too much emphasis on the result.
We only need to participate in one thing, do our best, the result is not important, what is important is to gain something in the process, even sometimes we know that we will fail, but we have to go all out.Because we will get a lot of precious things in the process of this effort, such as experience, lessons, friendship and so on.If we give up trying because we are afraid of failure, then these precious things will be impossible to obtain.
As far as everyone's life is concerned, the result is actually predetermined long ago, and that is death.To make our life meaningful and valuable, it may not be how heroic and glorious our death is, but whether the experience of life process is meaningful and valuable, and whether we enjoy our own life.
In the 2016 Rio Olympics, Ding Ning finally won the table tennis women's singles championship.In the post-match interview, the reporter asked Ding Ning if he thought he would win the championship. Ding Ning said: "It is also very lucky for me to meet Li Xiaoxia in the Olympic final. At the time, I didn't think about who would win and who would lose. I just devoted myself to this game and enjoyed it very much. Because we are very familiar teammates, I feel more on the spot during the game Some strains and adjustments."
"Compared to technological breakthroughs, Ding Ning's biggest improvement in the past four years is mentality." Ding Ning's mother said, "Ding Ning has been calm all the way through the women's table tennis competition in the Rio Olympics. I often tell Ding Ning that no matter Whether you win the Olympic championship or not, your skills and achievements are obvious to all. If you want to make a difference in four years, the first thing you have to do is to enjoy the process of these four years of hard work."
A woman who truly feels happy should know how to enjoy the joy of the process, instead of expecting the result to surprise herself.In a person's long life, the so-called success is just a moment, and the happiness it brings is also a moment, and what we are accompanied by is the long process of growth, maturity and aging in life.If we only look forward to the happiness of the result, but do not enjoy the happiness of the process, then what we do will be boring, trivial, and miserable.How painful this life journey must be!
After winning the Nobel Prize, Mrs. Curie gave the medal to her daughter to make toys. All she cares about is doing experiments. The happiness in the process of exploring the truth is far greater than the medal! In the 2000 Sydney Olympic Games, Russian diving star Sautin missed the gold medal, but he was not depressed and decadent. Instead, he smiled and said that every time he took off was a kind of enjoyment, and he was very happy.
Those who enjoy the process will gain real happiness and growth.The process is often more important than the ending, as if a single answer is not worth the long calculation process, so we have to experience it with our hearts.The process is always beautiful, no matter whether the ending is good or bad, the process needs to be treasured carefully and carefully remembered.
Give everyone a sentence from "Flying Birds Collection": When black clouds are kissed by light, they become clouds in the sky.
Behind every kind of brilliance, there is a soul that clenched its teeth
Chai Jing said in "Seeing": "Behind every smile, there is a soul that clenched its teeth." Yes, it is precisely because of this persistence and belief that there is a better tomorrow.
Every outstanding woman has paid a lot for her current position.All the girls who are "open" in their lives have struggled for a long time for the good times in their hands, but we don't know it.
During the recording of "Chinese Poetry Conference", Dong Qing accidentally stepped on the air and fell on the stage.After going to the hospital for an examination, it was discovered that Dong Qing fell directly on the iron frame and hit the patella, and she was so painful that she couldn't speak.However, she did not stop hosting at that time, but resisted the pain and tears and insisted on finishing the program.
When the recording of the show was finished, the staff hurriedly carried Dong Qing back to the studio to be sent to the hospital.However, Dong Qing said to the chief director Yan Fang at this time: "Hurry up and get someone to give me the scripts and question banks of tomorrow's two shows. I don't know how long I will go to the hospital. I have to take them there to watch." Dong Qing's words made Yan Fang and the staff around him were greatly moved.Yan Fang said: "At first, I thought that the host would be unable to stand up because of the injury, and now it's too late to find the host. The recording of tomorrow must be postponed. As a result, she didn't plan to rest at all."
We are always envious of those who are glamorous on the surface, such as celebrities, rich people, and wives of high-ranking officials. Speaking of it, it is full of envy and hatred.But all their brilliance is obtained through countless unknown nights, just as the famous writer Bing Xin described in "Successful Flower": "Successful flower, people are only amazed by her current brilliance! However, her buds were soaked in tears of struggle and sprinkled with blood of sacrifice."
Yang Lan on the screen is a successful strong woman. In life, Yang Lan returns to the role of mother and is still determined.Because of the intense work, Yang Lan suffers from nervous headaches, which are relieved by painkillers in severe cases.But Yang Lan wrote in her autobiography that when she was pregnant in the United States, she didn't dare to take any medicine, and she could only grit her teeth because of the headache and tears.A few years later, during the preparation of Sun TV, Yang Lan became pregnant again, and she still had a big belly to negotiate with the satellite company.Because she was very sensitive to the smell of milk during pregnancy, Yang Lan often felt nauseous and vomited. Sometimes she couldn't bear it anymore and ran into the toilet to vomit.After vomiting, I covered my pale face with rouge powder, put on lipstick, chewed two pieces of gum, and came back to continue talking.
The famous female writer Wu Danru said: "It is always after the rain and the sky clear that the storm has its own meaning." The pain of getting out of the soil is only to meet the beauty of the sun.The heavy snow pressing on the green branches is actually a kind of test. If you hold your head up and bear it, it will evaporate the water and take away your dirt;
On the road of pursuing dreams, there are always the roughest and darkest years. This time is often the darkest moment before the dawn. If you persevere through it, the dawn of success will soon be ushered in.It is a pity that many people often waver and give up at this time, and those who grit their teeth and persist will eventually be treated with tenderness by the years, and the most beautiful flowers will bloom in the tender time.
However, in real life, there are many women who are always enjoying the lazy fun while envious of those glamorous women, envying that they have enough money to travel around the world, and envying that the price of their handbags is enough for themselves. annual living expenses.But if they are really asked to give up their current comfortable jobs for a high-paying position with overtime and day and night, many people are very afraid. They are either worried that they will not be able to do the job, or that they will not be able to stand the high-intensity work pressure, so they can only envy Uncertain, wasting time.
When you see a friend who has played together since childhood from obscurity to a higher and bigger stage, you always think that she is beautiful because of her beauty, and maybe you have even felt sour in your heart: "Isn't it just that she gave birth to a beautiful woman?" Good looks, just catching up with the age of looking at faces." Until later, when I saw her practicing dancing in the practice room until late at night, I saw her body was always bruised and scarred, and I saw her dying from too much training time. Vomiting crazily... Only then do you realize that behind the glamor you envy are silently enduring the pain and sticking to your dreams.
We all envy others, envy those unattainable family backgrounds, envy the money and resources they have.It is true that family and origin cannot be chosen, but vision can be chosen. Stop secretly envious of other people's success and luck. Envy and jealousy will not improve you by half.A mature woman should strive for more opportunities for herself on the basis of accepting the reality and unfairness, grit her teeth and stick to her dreams and pursuits. In the end, you will definitely gain growth and experience, and live the way you want.
Even if the years change and the face declines, no one can take away the memories of this painful struggle and the ability acquired after persistence.
Every time love happens, it's worth it
The title of the preface in "Starting to Happiness" reads, "Every love is a growth".Indeed, every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is fascinating.Love is a questionnaire without an answer, and hard pursuit cannot make life more complete. Maybe a little regret and a little sadness will make this questionnaire more meaningful and longer.
Dong Qing once said that you can say whether it is worth it for other things, but you can't use this to measure love alone.Every time love happens, it is worthwhile, no matter whether it ends or not, it will enrich your life.
Dong Qing's family education is very strict, so her first love is long overdue. "My family is a traditional family. I only fell in love with a boy unrequitedly when I was in the first year of high school. The real first love was in the summer vacation of the year I graduated from high school. I met a boy who was already working. He was older than me. How old are you? We talked about a relationship for a few months, and then the relationship ended without a problem—because I was going to Shanghai to study in university, the two of us couldn’t be together, and although we often corresponded, we forgot about it when things got busy. My First love comes and goes quickly, even now, I won't think of it easily, but at least I won't forget it." Dong Qing said with a smile.
Zhang Ailing said that maybe every man has had two such women, at least two.Marry a red rose, and eventually the red one will be a mosquito-blood smear on the wall, while the white one will be "moonlight in front of my bed"; A cinnabar mole on the heart.
Likewise, most women go through several relationships.Some people are devastated because of the end of a certain relationship, or regret the beginning of this relationship, or complain in their hearts, saying that the appearance of a certain relationship is not worth it.As everyone knows, every occurrence of love has its merits and reasons for it to happen.
Even if a relationship ends in a bad manner, we should continue to have confidence in love and take the next relationship seriously.No matter what age and era we are, what kind of injuries and setbacks we have suffered, we must always believe in love.
Luqiu Luwei said: "Even if you have been hurt 99 times, you still have to believe that you will meet true love the 100th time. Go forward bravely on the emotional road, instead of worrying about gains and losses. Believe me, the end point you reach must be happiness."
Luqiu Luwei met her husband, a scholar, at a Thanksgiving party.There was a gift-giving session at the party that day—everyone had to prepare a gift in advance, and the gift was numbered for everyone to draw lots for.What she got was a beautiful Barbie doll, and there was a small note in the box: "The one who wants to get this gift is a girl, because every girl has a dream of a Barbie doll." Luqiu Luwei was very happy, Because her biggest dream when she was a child was to have a beautiful Barbie doll.And the person who prepared this gift was her later husband.
Once, Luqiu Luwei received an interview task.At that time, she didn't have any time to prepare behind-the-scenes materials. In a hurry, she suddenly thought that the man at the party was a senior scholar in this field.So she hurriedly called him in the car. His voice on the other end of the phone was gentle, unhurried, and even had the power to calm her down.He said: "Don't panic, let alone worry. I will help you draft a few questions, and you can ask questions according to these questions. You will never go wrong." As a result, the interview was not only approved by the interviewee, but also applauded by the audience.Luqiu Luwei suddenly felt admiration for him.
In April 2006, the two held a small wedding.Luqiu Luwei said with confidence: "I have found the most suitable person for me, and found a partner who can understand each other and spend the rest of my life together."
This is not Luqiu Luwei's first love, nor is it her first marriage.But it is precisely because she sticks to love and treats every love with heart that she finally obtains happiness.She said: "A good marriage is really important to a woman. No matter how many difficulties and pressures there are in the workplace, with a happy family, you will always be steadfast and powerful in your heart. I am very grateful to myself for my lonely years. Thank you for always believing in love. Life has rewarded me in the way I want most.”
No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, not by accident.He will definitely teach you something.People who like you give you warmth and courage; people you like teach you love and self-restraint; people you don't like teach you tolerance and respect.No one appears in your life for no reason, and everyone's appearance is fate, which deserves our gratitude and cherishment.
What a blessing it is to find a loved one in the vast sea of people. It may not be as good as you imagined, but it should not be so bad, so we must know the blessings, cherish them, cherish them, and speak more caring words. Say less blame.If you know how to cherish, you will find that you get more and more.Love will not only make your life more beautiful, but also make you a warm and happy woman.
Your attitude towards work determines your temperament
Kazuo Inamori said in his book "Living Law": "Where do people need to stay away from the mundane world? The workplace is the best place to practice the spirit, and work itself is a kind of practice. As long as you really work hard every day and cultivate a noble personality, a beautiful Life will also be at your fingertips."
Dong Qing has always taken her work very seriously.No matter what program she hosts, she is conscientious and meticulous.The same is true for the "Chinese Poetry Conference".The staff behind the Poetry Conference once said: "When she hosted the program "Chinese Poetry Conference", she always had the "Xinhua Dictionary" in her backpack. She flipped through the dictionary every time she put on makeup, and carefully marked the rare words. , Repeatedly and carefully preparing manuscripts, these are extremely common things.”
As for why it is so meticulous, Dong Qing said: "Every time I choose every word carefully, I hope that I can have something to say in the process of hosting, and I hope that I can express my emotions and thoughts in my own language properly in the program, and then I will do it naturally. Tell the audience smoothly, so that the audience has an immersive feeling."
"The so-called attitude determines everything. The world is afraid of the word 'serious'. When you complete a thing with a serious attitude towards TV programs and audiences, you will have unlimited energy to develop your subjective Mobility." Treating daily trivial work as one's life's work and maximizing one's own potential will really affect our personality and temperament.
Some women always complain that their work is boring, even after retirement, their faces are always dull and tired.While other women are full of energy, do not regard work as something that has to be done, and do every little thing in the work well, which is a kind of loyalty to themselves and life.Such a woman has an outstanding natural temperament and radiance.
At the age of 14, Ivanka, who was still in high school, got in touch with the fashion industry and found a part-time job in a modeling agency.When Ivanka was 16 years old, she moved the top management of the company with her dedicated work attitude, and the company began to package her. Of course, her fresh image and hot body are her natural advantages.Since then, Ivanka has frequently appeared in world-class famous fashion magazines, and even became the cover girl. In 1997, she also hosted the Miss Young America beauty pageant.
After graduating from high school, Ivanka entered the famous Wharton Business School for further studies. However, after graduating from university, she did not work in the family company, but went to a real estate company in New York to work hard from the bottom.She didn't start joining the family business until 2006, eventually becoming the company's vice president.Some people may question, isn't it a quick thing to get promoted when you work in your father's company?In fact, Ivanka is a complete workaholic. Even during her pregnancy, she worked 16 hours a day. It is this professionalism cultivated since childhood that made this post-80s female president.
Try to have a high-quality relationship with your work, and you will find that your life will shine like never before.When you absolutely love what you do, it stops being a chore and becomes a joy.
A girl who just graduated from university works as a secretary in the office of the unit. The salary is not very high, and she often suffers from the plywood from above and below. The job is not commensurate with her talent.Nevertheless, she is still dedicated and conscientious to her work.Her catchphrase is: "I need a job, and work is a joy to me, how can I not love it?"
Treat work as a kind of happiness, and a strong emotion will appear immediately, and it is indeed the case when you think about it carefully.Work can make people feel fulfilled and happy.Getting up, commuting, and going to bed on time every day has rules to follow and is more regular in life. Once these rules are broken, people will feel uncomfortable and even endanger their health.A worker who had been laid off and returned to work said: "I like the steadfastness when I go to work. It makes my heart beat more smoothly than before." The most important thing about work is to make us feel that our value has been realized, and it makes us feel extremely calm .
Helen Walton once told young people: No matter how poor you are or how rich you are, you need a job.If you don't want to make your job a burden, love your job.Successful women work so hard because they truly enjoy their work.They have a very ingenious ability to adjust, often able to turn monotonous and hard work into simple joy.Gibran believes that to work with love is to "infuse all your products with the breath of your soul".
Therefore, we should face work with the mood of falling in love, not only to choose what we love, to be loyal to our choice, but also to work hard on the long road of love, so that love can last long, so that we can gain something at work .May we all be upright and charismatic in the practice of work.
You have your strength, don't let outside evaluation affect your heart
Carnegie, the master of success, said that the biggest weakness of people is that they pay too much attention to other people's opinions and reactions, worrying a lot, and complicating things that are originally quite simple.If a person wants to dominate his own life, he must stick to his own path, do his own thing, and live his own happy life.
Dong Qing, who just entered the Zhejiang Academy of Arts, was very unconfident.During the physical class, the teacher said to her: "You look very slender, why are your movements so stiff?" Dong Qing lowered her head shyly.She saw that the movements of her classmates were very graceful, but she couldn't even do the splits.Her heart is very conflicted.
She also wondered if she should concentrate on body training like her classmates.But after some deliberation, she decided not to do this. What she is best at is culture, and she still has to study hard. It doesn't matter what others say.
After half a year, Dong Qing began to emerge. Not only did she rank among the best in cultural subjects, but her body and lines also gradually improved.She listened to her heart, and finally exchanged her own strength for everything she wanted, instead of losing herself in the evaluation of others.
Goethe once said: "Everyone should stick to the path he has opened for himself, and not be intimidated by gossip, and not be restrained by other people's opinions." The most valuable thing about an independent and temperamental woman is to stick to her own opinions, not Follow the crowd blindly, so that you lose your way on the road of life.
Most women in life tend to affect their emotions according to the opinions of others around them.Moreover, there is always no shortage of people in life who like to criticize others and are good at being teachers.You wore a new style of clothes, she said the fabric was too bad; you worked hard day and night, she said you did it on purpose to show your boss; you designed a new product idea, she said it seems like where seen...
In the journey of life, everyone will be criticized and looked at strangely by others. At this time, we will inevitably feel angry.But don't get really angry, your anger will only excite those judgmental people.Remember Dante's famous words: go your own way and let others say it.It tells us not to care too much about other people's opinions, don't take some things to heart, let alone worry about them.Only in this way can you maintain a peaceful and tranquil state of mind.
The famous American actress Sonia Smits spent her childhood on a dairy farm outside Ottawa, Canada.When Sonia was in elementary school, one day she came home crying, and her father asked her why, and she said intermittently: "A girl in the class said I was ugly, and my running posture was ugly." The father heard After that, just smile.Suddenly he said: "I can touch the ceiling of our house." Sonia, who was crying, stopped crying and looked up at the ceiling. The ceiling was nearly four meters high, could my father touch it?She couldn't believe it.The father smiled and said triumphantly, "Don't you believe it? Then don't believe that girl's words, because what some people say is not the truth." Sonia understood that, she shouldn't care too much about what others said, she had to make up her own mind.
At the age of 24, she was already a well-known actress.Once, she was going to attend a rally, but her agent told her that because of the bad weather, only a few people attended the rally, and the atmosphere at the venue was a bit deserted.What the agent meant was that Sonia had just become famous, so she should spend her time on some large-scale activities to improve her reputation.But Sonia insisted on attending the rally, because she had promised to attend in the newspaper, "I must keep my promise."As a result, because of Sonia's participation in that rally, the audience increased, and her fame and popularity rose sharply.
Everyone will inevitably have a herd mentality. We often cling to the thoughts and cognitions of others for the sake of face, thus losing our independent judgment.Sometimes, other people’s opinions can be used as a mirror of our own behavior, and we can correct our life goals according to other people’s suggestions, but if we are always influenced by other people’s opinions, we will live in the eyes and words of others, lacking independent opinions, If you can't find the right course, you won't be able to reach the other shore you want to go.
If we want our mood not to be controlled by others, and not to live in the opinions of others, we must start from re-understanding ourselves, list our strengths and advantages, think more about what we have done well, and remember : Good or bad is entirely your own judgment, don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions, because everyone knows themselves better than yourself, and because of different angles and purposes of attention, of course, evaluations are not the same.It is difficult and tiring to let everyone say good things about you. As long as you act according to your own principles, values and outlook on life, you will live a wonderful life.
Turn your focus on others to focus on yourself.If you feel that you are not perfect enough, then read more books, learn more, and enrich yourself, so that you can easily feel better about yourself, because when you are rich in your heart, you will feel fulfilled.A woman with a strong heart can truly be fearless.Only with a strong heart can we be calm in life and not be surprised by favor or humiliation. No matter how many temptations and setbacks there are in the outside world, we can have no distractions and still stick to the firmness in our hearts.
Women, don't always think about finding your own value in the kitchen
Women, if you want others to look up to you, you must have the ability to constantly improve your professionalism, so that others can feel your value and your existence.Women don't just find their worth in the kitchen, but also at work.When a woman shows her talents, the envious eyes are the best proof of her charm and temperament.
Dong Qing went from being an unknown TV host to becoming the head of the CCTV host Huadan. During this period, she experienced several major life choices. Among the difficult choices, there were also low moments, but she persisted.Dong Qing, who is good at learning, has been pursuing her perfect career.From a college student in an ordinary college, to further study in Shanghai Opera, to East China Normal University, and then to Shanghai Opera for a master's degree, and then when her career was the most successful, she made a major life choice, which was to study abroad.She once warned women, don't just look for value in the kitchen, women who pursue careers are the most beautiful.
Someone said, "Dong Qing's growth story is a thick inspirational book, and this book will definitely be the most inspiring book among CCTV hosts, and can achieve greater social benefits and social value." Many women who are wandering and confused in their careers have some insights.
In the workplace or in life, when we are asked questions in the professional field, we can answer them professionally. At this time, we immediately shine and shine.Of course, if a woman is always around the pot, in the eyes of others, we are nothing more than a good housewife, but we will always be unrefined women.The most exquisite woman should "go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen", so women should fill themselves with connotations, control their own lives, and find their own value.
According to research by psychologists, if a woman wants to show her own value, she must pay attention to three things, the most important of which is to have a career of her own.The other two things are: learn to manage time reasonably, have your own circle of interpersonal communication; learn to control yourself, and don't have heavy psychological pressure due to work tension.
Women who have their own careers have a broader mind and a richer heart. They will continue to increase their knowledge, and they will always be confident, free and easy, natural, and full of charm.
After marriage, Lin Huiyin did not become a wife who only cared about firewood, rice, oil and salt, but chased the unfinished dream together with her husband.In St. Paul's Cathedral, the first cathedral in Britain, they discussed the architectural characteristics of the Renaissance together; in the Crystal Palace in Hyde Park, England, they debated the aesthetic basis of new buildings; in Dessau, Germany, they visited together to train architects The newly completed school building of the famous Bauhaus Academy was once again shocked by modern beauty.
Lin Huiyin lived a splendid life after marriage. Not only did he not give up his ideals because of marriage and family, but he also made some achievements in architecture.His passionate fighting spirit also played a huge role in promoting Liang Sicheng's achievements in the history of architecture.
It is a unique charm of modern women to have their own pursuit.However, overly virtuous women, who devote themselves to the family, tend to ignore their personal pursuits and dreams, especially those women who give up their jobs after getting married and go home to be full-time wives, and they are abandoned by their husbands everywhere.
A woman who can only cook in the kitchen will indeed grab a man's stomach, but in life other than eating, how to make a man think you are charming and like a book that can never be read, this is a woman A place to work hard!
If there is anything that can make a woman's face shine forever, then "Dream" is this unique treasure.A woman with dreams, her life will be rich, her thoughts will be full, and her life will be different.
Lin Yutang once described dreams and pursuits in this way: "No matter how vague dreams are, they always lurk in our hearts, making our minds never peaceful until these dreams become reality; like seeds in the ground, they must sprout and grow. Come out of the ground and look for the sunshine.” People must have their own pursuits in life, so as not to get lost on the road.
If a woman does not want the dust of time to become an obstacle to her radiance, then please cherish her dream and never discard it at any time.
You will meet whoever you are: if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come
The famous female writer Sanmao wrote in her essay: "The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passing. Spring flowers, autumn moon, summer, winter snow. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come." Only when girls are excellent can they attract excellent people.Whoever you are, you will meet whoever you are.
When you complain that your social circle is too narrow and you lack the opportunity to enter the upper circle, it is not that God is unfair, but that you are not good enough.It is only possible to become friends when you have equal resources of value.Only by being an excellent woman and enriching one's self-cultivation and connotation can one become a better self.
Since the broadcast of "Challenge the Impossible", Dong Qing's gentle, considerate and genuine judge image has been well received. Faced with others asking her "future career plan", Dong Qing pondered for a while and said: "Career planning may have some problems. , but this plan may sometimes depend on opportunities. Now I am also longing for a better program format and program style, so that I can meet the audience with a better appearance."
In the eyes of many people, Dong Qing is already very good, and she has even become a role model for many colleagues.But Dong Qing said: "Fame, others say that you are already famous. If you maintain the status quo, everyone may recognize and like you, but I always feel that just because everyone recognizes and likes you, you should do better. Better, don't let down those who have been following you. I wonder if there can be a better program format, or a better appearance of Dong Qing, so that everyone can feel that I have been working hard for the past ten years or 20 years, It’s always changing, it’s always improving.”
Only by continuous learning, accumulation and precipitation can progress be made.People who are better than us work harder than us, and we must hurry up and run.We can only get what we want if we work hard enough.
An article wrote: "Girls, you must study hard. Whether you are a junior college or an undergraduate, choose a major that is easy to find or a major you like, and you will have a decent job in the future. In this way, if you fall in love with An excellent boy, you can marry him decently, and his parents will respect you and treat you like jewels. Who said that a girl's work is not important, and a good husband is enough? You must be good enough, good enough You can match well with a good man." If you are a flower, you will burst out with butterflies when it is in full bloom.
Although Lin Huiyin was wearing a narrow cheongsam and was frail and sick, she was able to climb up the dome of an ancient building without any problems.When Jin Yuelin went to their house, he saw Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng climbing on the roof of their house, practicing basic skills for field surveying and mapping. Lao Jin immediately wrote an acronym: A gentleman on the beam, a beauty under the forest.This Tibetan acrostic poem is embedded with the surnames of the couple. The first sentence is a joke to Liang Sicheng, and the second sentence is flattering to Lin Huiyin.Liang Sicheng was very happy, but Lin Huiyin didn't take it seriously: "It's disgusting, what beauty is not beautiful, as if a woman has nothing to do, she is only worthy of decoration!"
Of course, Lin Huiyin is not a decoration. In the famous salon in her living room, she is the protagonist of any dialogue with great Confucianism. Even when she is seriously ill, she still lies on the sofa and talks about poetry and philosophy with guests.Xiao Qian, one of the former salon guests, recalled: "Lin Huiyin is beautiful and talented. Her poetry, novels, prose, drama, painting, including architectural history science, can be said to have achieved relatively high achievements. In addition She has an excellent circle of friends and a husband who loves her."
It is precisely because of Lin Huiyin's extraordinary talent that he has attracted many like-minded friends and created the brilliance of "Wife's Living Room" together.
The more excellent you are, the higher your taste and the more elegant your temperament, this is a kind of beauty that cannot be defeated by time.The writer Huang Mingjian once said, "Women are a kind of indicator. If women exude taste, society will naturally become a great country."
Excellent women love to read, and words are not flashy clouds and feathers to them.They can make themselves beautiful in words.Classic books can give women insight into the world and make women unique.They will show a kind of elegance, a kind of coolness that can be seen from a distance but not played with.A woman with poems and books in her stomach will last forever and have a long aftertaste. She is the most beautiful woman.
A good woman will brew a pot of green tea, close her eyes, and walk into the world of music in the leisurely afternoon of the holiday.Imagine yourself walking on the hillside under the setting sun, bathing in the fragrant breeze; or sitting quietly in the garden under the setting sun, recalling the past...Classic music enlightens people, and all impetuousness becomes calm and breezy.
"Steal half a day's leisure in a floating life", excellent women learn tea ceremony, use their own understanding to get close to it and understand it.A pot of good tea can make a woman's heart more peaceful, exude a soft connotation and a unique taste of a woman.In spare time, meet two or three bosom friends, sip a pot of fragrant tea, talk with each other, only talk about romance, not about fame and wealth, and enjoy the soft time in this rolling red dust.
Be a better person like Dong Qing. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.
Be grateful for all the encounters, let the heart be bright and warm
"The Book of Songs Daya" said: "Throw me a peach, and repay it with a plum." Since ancient times, China has had "the crow has the meaning of feeding back, and the sheep knows the kindness of kneeling milk" and "the kindness of dripping water should be repaid by the spring." According to the saying, each of us should learn to be grateful. This is the most basic moral cultivation of a person, and it is also the source of happiness for a woman.
Anthony Robin, a master of American potential development, said: "The first step to success is to have a grateful heart, always be grateful for your own status quo, and at the same time have respect and gratitude for everything others have done for you Feelings."
Dong Qing self-criticized for a long time because of the unsatisfactory recording of the first episode of "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala", because she thought that "it will be too late when everyone thinks you have a problem".Dong Qing said that she has always been grateful to the stage and the audience, and the reason why she insisted on being serious and strict was "because I was too afraid of disappointing the audience and the stage."In order to "live up" to this stage, she is always making preparations, "one is long-term preparation, such as reading books and newspapers, accumulating knowledge, and making oneself a person with noble character and taste; the other is short-term preparation, that is, when receiving tasks Do your best afterwards."She is eager to bring some enlightenment to the audience, and she can say one or two sentences that will stay in the audience's heart for a long time.
If we can always look at this world with a grateful heart, we will feel that this world is very lovely and rich!The soft singing of the birds on the trees, the selfless light and heat of the sun, and the fragrance of the flowers on the roadside will all make us feel refreshed.
Hawking, the world's science giant, said: "My hands can still move, my brain can still think, I have the ideals I pursue throughout my life, I have relatives and friends who love me and I love, yes, I still have a grateful heart. Heart..." Who would have thought that this open-minded and wonderful text came from a person who has lived in a wheelchair for more than [-] years, how great he must be!
The British philosopher Locke said: "Gratitude is a kind of spiritual treasure." Gratitude is the smallest and greatest of virtues.Gratitude makes one's soul healthier.Learn to be grateful, thank those who accompanied you through the lost days; thank those who listened to your nonsense when you were bored; thank those who helped you when you were helpless; thank all those who passed by your life, Because of them, your life is more colorful.
As a weekly TV program recording "A Man and His Era", "Interview with Yang Lan" held a 2015-day 12th anniversary special exhibition at the Ullens Center for the Arts in Beijing from December 7 to 9, 3.With the theme of "Touch Touch", it reviews the 15-year history of the program.Talking about these 15 years, Yang Lan expressed that it is extremely meaningful. In 15 and 2001, she represented Beijing twice in her bid for the Olympic Games. In the past 2015 years, everyone has undergone great changes, and she has also witnessed the changes in China and the world.
Yang Lan said that the success of the program is largely inseparable from the support of her family.She is very grateful to her family.
Due to the busy work, Yang Lan is also very grateful for the understanding of her parents and husband in family life. "When I was on a business trip, my parents helped me pick up my children from school and urged them to develop good habits. The two children were also very competitive. After elementary school, they completed their studies independently, so I didn't have to worry about it. And my husband would tolerate it for almost a month. My wife, who is on a business trip for 7 days, never cooks, and I often work outside when he needs it, he is really amazing." Yang Lan said that 2015 happened to be the 20th anniversary of her marriage with her husband. "That day I told him thank you for taking care of me for so many years. Mark Twain wrote a very good sentence: love is running fast, marriage is growing slowly."
Throughout our lives, we have been receiving various favors. From the moment we were born, we have accepted the grace of our parents for giving birth, and as we grow up, our parents have continuously paid for the grace of nurturing; Learning, we have received the grace of education from the teacher; when we enter the post, we have the grace of care from leaders and colleagues; and when we encounter danger in life, there are friends who will lend a helping hand to help us out of the predicament. This little bit of kindness will eventually converge into a long river of gratitude, which will flow endlessly throughout our lives.
Because of gratitude, our society is so harmonious; because of gratitude, our life is so full of warmth and heart-warming.Only by being a woman who knows how to be grateful can she interpret the strong family affection, pure friendship, and sincere love more perfectly and vividly, and only then can she truly accompany and walk with happiness.
A woman who knows how to be grateful may not have the ability to succeed, but a successful woman must possess this quality.Because she is grateful, she will voluntarily help others and take pleasure in helping others. No matter where she is, everyone will be happy to get along with her and communicate with her.A woman who knows how to be grateful must be open-minded and broad-minded. Her open-mindedness will drive away the indifference, darkness, and cruelty in the world, and her optimism will pass on love and touch for a long time, making life full of sunshine and the world full of warmth.
Only when we are full of gratitude, our hearts will be bright, warm, happy and joyful!
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Temperament is the most advanced sexiness of a woman
The charm of women does not lie in their age or beauty, but in their calm smiles, their calmness without being surprised, and their calmness without a trace.What has been experienced, what has been felt, what has been pleasantly surprised, and what has been sad, all settle in my heart one by one.
A woman with temperament has a magnetic field, and she is equally attractive without relying on sexy clothes, strong makeup, or stunning beauty.
The image of elegant and beautiful women on the screen added a lot of luster to Dong Qing's hosting.She is like a girl who came from spring, her pure beauty is full of elegance and dignity, and her reserved temperament endows her with an atmosphere and calmness that can be retracted freely, as well as a beauty that has accumulated knowledge and experience.
It was the first time Dong Qing heard someone calling herself a "beauty", and thought they were joking with her.Because apart from being tall, Dong Qing believed that she was not good-looking since she was a child.Now she finally has a little confidence, because temperament is more important than appearance.The cultivation of this temperament stems from her tireless study and pursuit of perfection.
However, in Dong Qing's childhood, she had low self-esteem because of her appearance.The most difficult thing for Dong Qing to accept when she was young was that her father did not allow her to look in the mirror more every day.Not only that, Dong Qing also said: "My father has a famous saying that a potato is still a potato no matter how dressed it is. He said that the time you spend looking in the mirror every day is not as good as reading a book."In addition, her father did not let her mother make new clothes for Dong Qing, thinking that girls should not put too much attention on dressing up.Although this was very painful for Dong Qing, who was still a little girl at the time, she still focused all her attention on her studies.
Eileen Chang once said: "A woman is like a flower, and a woman who is like a flower should maintain a flowery face, a flowery talent, and a flowery quality. Because when the years go by and the face grows old, only the inner quality and temperament remain with you for a lifetime. "
How to be a temperament beauty?Proper hair style, elegant makeup, moderate figure, correct gait, elegant posture, pleasant manner, pleasant voice, pleasant language, intellectual clothing, etc., can all highlight your temperament.
However, the truly enduring temperament comes from excellent quality, profound knowledge, broad-mindedness, strong will, open-minded temperament, lofty ideals, sincere concern, and true love.The more time passes, the more enduring and charming a woman with temperament can exude.
One part of tenderness, two parts of elegance, three parts of romance, and four parts of wisdom. To be a temperamental woman who stands out from the crowd in the city is the real "Gone with the Wind".
On August 2016, 8, Yang Lan, a well-known host, held a new book meeting in Guangzhou with her new book "The World is Big, Fortunately, I Have You".When talking about the topic of "how women become temperamental", Yang Lan said that it is human nature for girls to love beauty, but it takes at least 21 hours to finish the secret of becoming beautiful. "When beauty reaches an advanced stage, you need to know it, and you need to change from caring about other people's opinions to paying attention to what you express. When you reach a certain age, you will find that dressing up is actually just a foil."
Yang Lan shared her views with many women. "Have you noticed that the girls in the women's volleyball team are all very beautiful? They are basically 20-24 years old, but I have noticed Lang Ping in particular. I have known her for more than 20 years. After she entered middle age, she became more and more beautiful. Therefore, the appearance of a girl is not determined in her 20s, as long as your heart becomes full and beautiful, your appearance can undergo a huge change, and then you will become more and more temperamental."
Lin Qingxuan said that the third-rate makeup is the makeup of the face, the second-rate makeup is the makeup of the spirit, and the first-rate makeup is the makeup of life.A woman's inner beauty is the most lasting charm of a woman, and a good inner temperament can make a woman extraordinarily attractive and beautiful.No matter how the years are, that unique temperament will never disappear.
The development of temperament is by no means an overnight effort. It is an external manifestation of a comprehensive strength of ability, knowledge, experience, emotion, and life.A woman with temperament knows how to continuously enrich her knowledge, cultivate her personality, and improve her cultural connotation. Over time, even her eyes and gestures will naturally reveal charming charm.
"Women are not cute because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are cute." Cuteness is the beauty of a woman's temperament.When a woman possesses temperament, just like a mountain with water immediately reveals aura, she immediately becomes radiant, bright-eyed and looking forward, charming and charming.
The process is the scenery, only after experiencing
A great man said: "There is no scenery at the end of the journey." He told us that the joy of life lies in the process of pursuit, not the result.Famous dancer Yang Liping never pays attention to whether her dance works are famous or award-winning. In her opinion, only in the process of dancing can one appreciate the return of the human soul.
Dong Qing likes the host industry very much, and there is always a force in her heart that keeps her from stopping.She said: "Actually, my appearance is relatively stable, but I don't know where the strength in my heart comes from. Everything is for that moment. Sometimes I am afraid, and I feel like I am wearing clothes. Red shoes, I can't stop. Maybe one day I will have regrets. I didn't fall in love when I should be in love. I didn't have a family when I should have a family. There is no one around me. I regret that I didn't give my parents more time. Maybe one day I would also say like a lot of other people that the biggest wish right now is to have a baby, etc., but I can't stop right now."
Tagore once said that there are no traces of flying birds in the sky, but I have already flown.In fact, no matter what the result is, it is a harvest. Don't regret your efforts, because as long as you work hard, success is no longer important.Sometimes passing is the result.If you place too much emphasis on the result, you will lose the experience and insights in the process, and women often end up devastated after failure because they place too much emphasis on the result.
We only need to participate in one thing, do our best, the result is not important, what is important is to gain something in the process, even sometimes we know that we will fail, but we have to go all out.Because we will get a lot of precious things in the process of this effort, such as experience, lessons, friendship and so on.If we give up trying because we are afraid of failure, then these precious things will be impossible to obtain.
As far as everyone's life is concerned, the result is actually predetermined long ago, and that is death.To make our life meaningful and valuable, it may not be how heroic and glorious our death is, but whether the experience of life process is meaningful and valuable, and whether we enjoy our own life.
In the 2016 Rio Olympics, Ding Ning finally won the table tennis women's singles championship.In the post-match interview, the reporter asked Ding Ning if he thought he would win the championship. Ding Ning said: "It is also very lucky for me to meet Li Xiaoxia in the Olympic final. At the time, I didn't think about who would win and who would lose. I just devoted myself to this game and enjoyed it very much. Because we are very familiar teammates, I feel more on the spot during the game Some strains and adjustments."
"Compared to technological breakthroughs, Ding Ning's biggest improvement in the past four years is mentality." Ding Ning's mother said, "Ding Ning has been calm all the way through the women's table tennis competition in the Rio Olympics. I often tell Ding Ning that no matter Whether you win the Olympic championship or not, your skills and achievements are obvious to all. If you want to make a difference in four years, the first thing you have to do is to enjoy the process of these four years of hard work."
A woman who truly feels happy should know how to enjoy the joy of the process, instead of expecting the result to surprise herself.In a person's long life, the so-called success is just a moment, and the happiness it brings is also a moment, and what we are accompanied by is the long process of growth, maturity and aging in life.If we only look forward to the happiness of the result, but do not enjoy the happiness of the process, then what we do will be boring, trivial, and miserable.How painful this life journey must be!
After winning the Nobel Prize, Mrs. Curie gave the medal to her daughter to make toys. All she cares about is doing experiments. The happiness in the process of exploring the truth is far greater than the medal! In the 2000 Sydney Olympic Games, Russian diving star Sautin missed the gold medal, but he was not depressed and decadent. Instead, he smiled and said that every time he took off was a kind of enjoyment, and he was very happy.
Those who enjoy the process will gain real happiness and growth.The process is often more important than the ending, as if a single answer is not worth the long calculation process, so we have to experience it with our hearts.The process is always beautiful, no matter whether the ending is good or bad, the process needs to be treasured carefully and carefully remembered.
Give everyone a sentence from "Flying Birds Collection": When black clouds are kissed by light, they become clouds in the sky.
Behind every kind of brilliance, there is a soul that clenched its teeth
Chai Jing said in "Seeing": "Behind every smile, there is a soul that clenched its teeth." Yes, it is precisely because of this persistence and belief that there is a better tomorrow.
Every outstanding woman has paid a lot for her current position.All the girls who are "open" in their lives have struggled for a long time for the good times in their hands, but we don't know it.
During the recording of "Chinese Poetry Conference", Dong Qing accidentally stepped on the air and fell on the stage.After going to the hospital for an examination, it was discovered that Dong Qing fell directly on the iron frame and hit the patella, and she was so painful that she couldn't speak.However, she did not stop hosting at that time, but resisted the pain and tears and insisted on finishing the program.
When the recording of the show was finished, the staff hurriedly carried Dong Qing back to the studio to be sent to the hospital.However, Dong Qing said to the chief director Yan Fang at this time: "Hurry up and get someone to give me the scripts and question banks of tomorrow's two shows. I don't know how long I will go to the hospital. I have to take them there to watch." Dong Qing's words made Yan Fang and the staff around him were greatly moved.Yan Fang said: "At first, I thought that the host would be unable to stand up because of the injury, and now it's too late to find the host. The recording of tomorrow must be postponed. As a result, she didn't plan to rest at all."
We are always envious of those who are glamorous on the surface, such as celebrities, rich people, and wives of high-ranking officials. Speaking of it, it is full of envy and hatred.But all their brilliance is obtained through countless unknown nights, just as the famous writer Bing Xin described in "Successful Flower": "Successful flower, people are only amazed by her current brilliance! However, her buds were soaked in tears of struggle and sprinkled with blood of sacrifice."
Yang Lan on the screen is a successful strong woman. In life, Yang Lan returns to the role of mother and is still determined.Because of the intense work, Yang Lan suffers from nervous headaches, which are relieved by painkillers in severe cases.But Yang Lan wrote in her autobiography that when she was pregnant in the United States, she didn't dare to take any medicine, and she could only grit her teeth because of the headache and tears.A few years later, during the preparation of Sun TV, Yang Lan became pregnant again, and she still had a big belly to negotiate with the satellite company.Because she was very sensitive to the smell of milk during pregnancy, Yang Lan often felt nauseous and vomited. Sometimes she couldn't bear it anymore and ran into the toilet to vomit.After vomiting, I covered my pale face with rouge powder, put on lipstick, chewed two pieces of gum, and came back to continue talking.
The famous female writer Wu Danru said: "It is always after the rain and the sky clear that the storm has its own meaning." The pain of getting out of the soil is only to meet the beauty of the sun.The heavy snow pressing on the green branches is actually a kind of test. If you hold your head up and bear it, it will evaporate the water and take away your dirt;
On the road of pursuing dreams, there are always the roughest and darkest years. This time is often the darkest moment before the dawn. If you persevere through it, the dawn of success will soon be ushered in.It is a pity that many people often waver and give up at this time, and those who grit their teeth and persist will eventually be treated with tenderness by the years, and the most beautiful flowers will bloom in the tender time.
However, in real life, there are many women who are always enjoying the lazy fun while envious of those glamorous women, envying that they have enough money to travel around the world, and envying that the price of their handbags is enough for themselves. annual living expenses.But if they are really asked to give up their current comfortable jobs for a high-paying position with overtime and day and night, many people are very afraid. They are either worried that they will not be able to do the job, or that they will not be able to stand the high-intensity work pressure, so they can only envy Uncertain, wasting time.
When you see a friend who has played together since childhood from obscurity to a higher and bigger stage, you always think that she is beautiful because of her beauty, and maybe you have even felt sour in your heart: "Isn't it just that she gave birth to a beautiful woman?" Good looks, just catching up with the age of looking at faces." Until later, when I saw her practicing dancing in the practice room until late at night, I saw her body was always bruised and scarred, and I saw her dying from too much training time. Vomiting crazily... Only then do you realize that behind the glamor you envy are silently enduring the pain and sticking to your dreams.
We all envy others, envy those unattainable family backgrounds, envy the money and resources they have.It is true that family and origin cannot be chosen, but vision can be chosen. Stop secretly envious of other people's success and luck. Envy and jealousy will not improve you by half.A mature woman should strive for more opportunities for herself on the basis of accepting the reality and unfairness, grit her teeth and stick to her dreams and pursuits. In the end, you will definitely gain growth and experience, and live the way you want.
Even if the years change and the face declines, no one can take away the memories of this painful struggle and the ability acquired after persistence.
Every time love happens, it's worth it
The title of the preface in "Starting to Happiness" reads, "Every love is a growth".Indeed, every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is fascinating.Love is a questionnaire without an answer, and hard pursuit cannot make life more complete. Maybe a little regret and a little sadness will make this questionnaire more meaningful and longer.
Dong Qing once said that you can say whether it is worth it for other things, but you can't use this to measure love alone.Every time love happens, it is worthwhile, no matter whether it ends or not, it will enrich your life.
Dong Qing's family education is very strict, so her first love is long overdue. "My family is a traditional family. I only fell in love with a boy unrequitedly when I was in the first year of high school. The real first love was in the summer vacation of the year I graduated from high school. I met a boy who was already working. He was older than me. How old are you? We talked about a relationship for a few months, and then the relationship ended without a problem—because I was going to Shanghai to study in university, the two of us couldn’t be together, and although we often corresponded, we forgot about it when things got busy. My First love comes and goes quickly, even now, I won't think of it easily, but at least I won't forget it." Dong Qing said with a smile.
Zhang Ailing said that maybe every man has had two such women, at least two.Marry a red rose, and eventually the red one will be a mosquito-blood smear on the wall, while the white one will be "moonlight in front of my bed"; A cinnabar mole on the heart.
Likewise, most women go through several relationships.Some people are devastated because of the end of a certain relationship, or regret the beginning of this relationship, or complain in their hearts, saying that the appearance of a certain relationship is not worth it.As everyone knows, every occurrence of love has its merits and reasons for it to happen.
Even if a relationship ends in a bad manner, we should continue to have confidence in love and take the next relationship seriously.No matter what age and era we are, what kind of injuries and setbacks we have suffered, we must always believe in love.
Luqiu Luwei said: "Even if you have been hurt 99 times, you still have to believe that you will meet true love the 100th time. Go forward bravely on the emotional road, instead of worrying about gains and losses. Believe me, the end point you reach must be happiness."
Luqiu Luwei met her husband, a scholar, at a Thanksgiving party.There was a gift-giving session at the party that day—everyone had to prepare a gift in advance, and the gift was numbered for everyone to draw lots for.What she got was a beautiful Barbie doll, and there was a small note in the box: "The one who wants to get this gift is a girl, because every girl has a dream of a Barbie doll." Luqiu Luwei was very happy, Because her biggest dream when she was a child was to have a beautiful Barbie doll.And the person who prepared this gift was her later husband.
Once, Luqiu Luwei received an interview task.At that time, she didn't have any time to prepare behind-the-scenes materials. In a hurry, she suddenly thought that the man at the party was a senior scholar in this field.So she hurriedly called him in the car. His voice on the other end of the phone was gentle, unhurried, and even had the power to calm her down.He said: "Don't panic, let alone worry. I will help you draft a few questions, and you can ask questions according to these questions. You will never go wrong." As a result, the interview was not only approved by the interviewee, but also applauded by the audience.Luqiu Luwei suddenly felt admiration for him.
In April 2006, the two held a small wedding.Luqiu Luwei said with confidence: "I have found the most suitable person for me, and found a partner who can understand each other and spend the rest of my life together."
This is not Luqiu Luwei's first love, nor is it her first marriage.But it is precisely because she sticks to love and treats every love with heart that she finally obtains happiness.She said: "A good marriage is really important to a woman. No matter how many difficulties and pressures there are in the workplace, with a happy family, you will always be steadfast and powerful in your heart. I am very grateful to myself for my lonely years. Thank you for always believing in love. Life has rewarded me in the way I want most.”
No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, not by accident.He will definitely teach you something.People who like you give you warmth and courage; people you like teach you love and self-restraint; people you don't like teach you tolerance and respect.No one appears in your life for no reason, and everyone's appearance is fate, which deserves our gratitude and cherishment.
What a blessing it is to find a loved one in the vast sea of people. It may not be as good as you imagined, but it should not be so bad, so we must know the blessings, cherish them, cherish them, and speak more caring words. Say less blame.If you know how to cherish, you will find that you get more and more.Love will not only make your life more beautiful, but also make you a warm and happy woman.
Your attitude towards work determines your temperament
Kazuo Inamori said in his book "Living Law": "Where do people need to stay away from the mundane world? The workplace is the best place to practice the spirit, and work itself is a kind of practice. As long as you really work hard every day and cultivate a noble personality, a beautiful Life will also be at your fingertips."
Dong Qing has always taken her work very seriously.No matter what program she hosts, she is conscientious and meticulous.The same is true for the "Chinese Poetry Conference".The staff behind the Poetry Conference once said: "When she hosted the program "Chinese Poetry Conference", she always had the "Xinhua Dictionary" in her backpack. She flipped through the dictionary every time she put on makeup, and carefully marked the rare words. , Repeatedly and carefully preparing manuscripts, these are extremely common things.”
As for why it is so meticulous, Dong Qing said: "Every time I choose every word carefully, I hope that I can have something to say in the process of hosting, and I hope that I can express my emotions and thoughts in my own language properly in the program, and then I will do it naturally. Tell the audience smoothly, so that the audience has an immersive feeling."
"The so-called attitude determines everything. The world is afraid of the word 'serious'. When you complete a thing with a serious attitude towards TV programs and audiences, you will have unlimited energy to develop your subjective Mobility." Treating daily trivial work as one's life's work and maximizing one's own potential will really affect our personality and temperament.
Some women always complain that their work is boring, even after retirement, their faces are always dull and tired.While other women are full of energy, do not regard work as something that has to be done, and do every little thing in the work well, which is a kind of loyalty to themselves and life.Such a woman has an outstanding natural temperament and radiance.
At the age of 14, Ivanka, who was still in high school, got in touch with the fashion industry and found a part-time job in a modeling agency.When Ivanka was 16 years old, she moved the top management of the company with her dedicated work attitude, and the company began to package her. Of course, her fresh image and hot body are her natural advantages.Since then, Ivanka has frequently appeared in world-class famous fashion magazines, and even became the cover girl. In 1997, she also hosted the Miss Young America beauty pageant.
After graduating from high school, Ivanka entered the famous Wharton Business School for further studies. However, after graduating from university, she did not work in the family company, but went to a real estate company in New York to work hard from the bottom.She didn't start joining the family business until 2006, eventually becoming the company's vice president.Some people may question, isn't it a quick thing to get promoted when you work in your father's company?In fact, Ivanka is a complete workaholic. Even during her pregnancy, she worked 16 hours a day. It is this professionalism cultivated since childhood that made this post-80s female president.
Try to have a high-quality relationship with your work, and you will find that your life will shine like never before.When you absolutely love what you do, it stops being a chore and becomes a joy.
A girl who just graduated from university works as a secretary in the office of the unit. The salary is not very high, and she often suffers from the plywood from above and below. The job is not commensurate with her talent.Nevertheless, she is still dedicated and conscientious to her work.Her catchphrase is: "I need a job, and work is a joy to me, how can I not love it?"
Treat work as a kind of happiness, and a strong emotion will appear immediately, and it is indeed the case when you think about it carefully.Work can make people feel fulfilled and happy.Getting up, commuting, and going to bed on time every day has rules to follow and is more regular in life. Once these rules are broken, people will feel uncomfortable and even endanger their health.A worker who had been laid off and returned to work said: "I like the steadfastness when I go to work. It makes my heart beat more smoothly than before." The most important thing about work is to make us feel that our value has been realized, and it makes us feel extremely calm .
Helen Walton once told young people: No matter how poor you are or how rich you are, you need a job.If you don't want to make your job a burden, love your job.Successful women work so hard because they truly enjoy their work.They have a very ingenious ability to adjust, often able to turn monotonous and hard work into simple joy.Gibran believes that to work with love is to "infuse all your products with the breath of your soul".
Therefore, we should face work with the mood of falling in love, not only to choose what we love, to be loyal to our choice, but also to work hard on the long road of love, so that love can last long, so that we can gain something at work .May we all be upright and charismatic in the practice of work.
You have your strength, don't let outside evaluation affect your heart
Carnegie, the master of success, said that the biggest weakness of people is that they pay too much attention to other people's opinions and reactions, worrying a lot, and complicating things that are originally quite simple.If a person wants to dominate his own life, he must stick to his own path, do his own thing, and live his own happy life.
Dong Qing, who just entered the Zhejiang Academy of Arts, was very unconfident.During the physical class, the teacher said to her: "You look very slender, why are your movements so stiff?" Dong Qing lowered her head shyly.She saw that the movements of her classmates were very graceful, but she couldn't even do the splits.Her heart is very conflicted.
She also wondered if she should concentrate on body training like her classmates.But after some deliberation, she decided not to do this. What she is best at is culture, and she still has to study hard. It doesn't matter what others say.
After half a year, Dong Qing began to emerge. Not only did she rank among the best in cultural subjects, but her body and lines also gradually improved.She listened to her heart, and finally exchanged her own strength for everything she wanted, instead of losing herself in the evaluation of others.
Goethe once said: "Everyone should stick to the path he has opened for himself, and not be intimidated by gossip, and not be restrained by other people's opinions." The most valuable thing about an independent and temperamental woman is to stick to her own opinions, not Follow the crowd blindly, so that you lose your way on the road of life.
Most women in life tend to affect their emotions according to the opinions of others around them.Moreover, there is always no shortage of people in life who like to criticize others and are good at being teachers.You wore a new style of clothes, she said the fabric was too bad; you worked hard day and night, she said you did it on purpose to show your boss; you designed a new product idea, she said it seems like where seen...
In the journey of life, everyone will be criticized and looked at strangely by others. At this time, we will inevitably feel angry.But don't get really angry, your anger will only excite those judgmental people.Remember Dante's famous words: go your own way and let others say it.It tells us not to care too much about other people's opinions, don't take some things to heart, let alone worry about them.Only in this way can you maintain a peaceful and tranquil state of mind.
The famous American actress Sonia Smits spent her childhood on a dairy farm outside Ottawa, Canada.When Sonia was in elementary school, one day she came home crying, and her father asked her why, and she said intermittently: "A girl in the class said I was ugly, and my running posture was ugly." The father heard After that, just smile.Suddenly he said: "I can touch the ceiling of our house." Sonia, who was crying, stopped crying and looked up at the ceiling. The ceiling was nearly four meters high, could my father touch it?She couldn't believe it.The father smiled and said triumphantly, "Don't you believe it? Then don't believe that girl's words, because what some people say is not the truth." Sonia understood that, she shouldn't care too much about what others said, she had to make up her own mind.
At the age of 24, she was already a well-known actress.Once, she was going to attend a rally, but her agent told her that because of the bad weather, only a few people attended the rally, and the atmosphere at the venue was a bit deserted.What the agent meant was that Sonia had just become famous, so she should spend her time on some large-scale activities to improve her reputation.But Sonia insisted on attending the rally, because she had promised to attend in the newspaper, "I must keep my promise."As a result, because of Sonia's participation in that rally, the audience increased, and her fame and popularity rose sharply.
Everyone will inevitably have a herd mentality. We often cling to the thoughts and cognitions of others for the sake of face, thus losing our independent judgment.Sometimes, other people’s opinions can be used as a mirror of our own behavior, and we can correct our life goals according to other people’s suggestions, but if we are always influenced by other people’s opinions, we will live in the eyes and words of others, lacking independent opinions, If you can't find the right course, you won't be able to reach the other shore you want to go.
If we want our mood not to be controlled by others, and not to live in the opinions of others, we must start from re-understanding ourselves, list our strengths and advantages, think more about what we have done well, and remember : Good or bad is entirely your own judgment, don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions, because everyone knows themselves better than yourself, and because of different angles and purposes of attention, of course, evaluations are not the same.It is difficult and tiring to let everyone say good things about you. As long as you act according to your own principles, values and outlook on life, you will live a wonderful life.
Turn your focus on others to focus on yourself.If you feel that you are not perfect enough, then read more books, learn more, and enrich yourself, so that you can easily feel better about yourself, because when you are rich in your heart, you will feel fulfilled.A woman with a strong heart can truly be fearless.Only with a strong heart can we be calm in life and not be surprised by favor or humiliation. No matter how many temptations and setbacks there are in the outside world, we can have no distractions and still stick to the firmness in our hearts.
Women, don't always think about finding your own value in the kitchen
Women, if you want others to look up to you, you must have the ability to constantly improve your professionalism, so that others can feel your value and your existence.Women don't just find their worth in the kitchen, but also at work.When a woman shows her talents, the envious eyes are the best proof of her charm and temperament.
Dong Qing went from being an unknown TV host to becoming the head of the CCTV host Huadan. During this period, she experienced several major life choices. Among the difficult choices, there were also low moments, but she persisted.Dong Qing, who is good at learning, has been pursuing her perfect career.From a college student in an ordinary college, to further study in Shanghai Opera, to East China Normal University, and then to Shanghai Opera for a master's degree, and then when her career was the most successful, she made a major life choice, which was to study abroad.She once warned women, don't just look for value in the kitchen, women who pursue careers are the most beautiful.
Someone said, "Dong Qing's growth story is a thick inspirational book, and this book will definitely be the most inspiring book among CCTV hosts, and can achieve greater social benefits and social value." Many women who are wandering and confused in their careers have some insights.
In the workplace or in life, when we are asked questions in the professional field, we can answer them professionally. At this time, we immediately shine and shine.Of course, if a woman is always around the pot, in the eyes of others, we are nothing more than a good housewife, but we will always be unrefined women.The most exquisite woman should "go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen", so women should fill themselves with connotations, control their own lives, and find their own value.
According to research by psychologists, if a woman wants to show her own value, she must pay attention to three things, the most important of which is to have a career of her own.The other two things are: learn to manage time reasonably, have your own circle of interpersonal communication; learn to control yourself, and don't have heavy psychological pressure due to work tension.
Women who have their own careers have a broader mind and a richer heart. They will continue to increase their knowledge, and they will always be confident, free and easy, natural, and full of charm.
After marriage, Lin Huiyin did not become a wife who only cared about firewood, rice, oil and salt, but chased the unfinished dream together with her husband.In St. Paul's Cathedral, the first cathedral in Britain, they discussed the architectural characteristics of the Renaissance together; in the Crystal Palace in Hyde Park, England, they debated the aesthetic basis of new buildings; in Dessau, Germany, they visited together to train architects The newly completed school building of the famous Bauhaus Academy was once again shocked by modern beauty.
Lin Huiyin lived a splendid life after marriage. Not only did he not give up his ideals because of marriage and family, but he also made some achievements in architecture.His passionate fighting spirit also played a huge role in promoting Liang Sicheng's achievements in the history of architecture.
It is a unique charm of modern women to have their own pursuit.However, overly virtuous women, who devote themselves to the family, tend to ignore their personal pursuits and dreams, especially those women who give up their jobs after getting married and go home to be full-time wives, and they are abandoned by their husbands everywhere.
A woman who can only cook in the kitchen will indeed grab a man's stomach, but in life other than eating, how to make a man think you are charming and like a book that can never be read, this is a woman A place to work hard!
If there is anything that can make a woman's face shine forever, then "Dream" is this unique treasure.A woman with dreams, her life will be rich, her thoughts will be full, and her life will be different.
Lin Yutang once described dreams and pursuits in this way: "No matter how vague dreams are, they always lurk in our hearts, making our minds never peaceful until these dreams become reality; like seeds in the ground, they must sprout and grow. Come out of the ground and look for the sunshine.” People must have their own pursuits in life, so as not to get lost on the road.
If a woman does not want the dust of time to become an obstacle to her radiance, then please cherish her dream and never discard it at any time.
You will meet whoever you are: if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come
The famous female writer Sanmao wrote in her essay: "The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passing. Spring flowers, autumn moon, summer, winter snow. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come." Only when girls are excellent can they attract excellent people.Whoever you are, you will meet whoever you are.
When you complain that your social circle is too narrow and you lack the opportunity to enter the upper circle, it is not that God is unfair, but that you are not good enough.It is only possible to become friends when you have equal resources of value.Only by being an excellent woman and enriching one's self-cultivation and connotation can one become a better self.
Since the broadcast of "Challenge the Impossible", Dong Qing's gentle, considerate and genuine judge image has been well received. Faced with others asking her "future career plan", Dong Qing pondered for a while and said: "Career planning may have some problems. , but this plan may sometimes depend on opportunities. Now I am also longing for a better program format and program style, so that I can meet the audience with a better appearance."
In the eyes of many people, Dong Qing is already very good, and she has even become a role model for many colleagues.But Dong Qing said: "Fame, others say that you are already famous. If you maintain the status quo, everyone may recognize and like you, but I always feel that just because everyone recognizes and likes you, you should do better. Better, don't let down those who have been following you. I wonder if there can be a better program format, or a better appearance of Dong Qing, so that everyone can feel that I have been working hard for the past ten years or 20 years, It’s always changing, it’s always improving.”
Only by continuous learning, accumulation and precipitation can progress be made.People who are better than us work harder than us, and we must hurry up and run.We can only get what we want if we work hard enough.
An article wrote: "Girls, you must study hard. Whether you are a junior college or an undergraduate, choose a major that is easy to find or a major you like, and you will have a decent job in the future. In this way, if you fall in love with An excellent boy, you can marry him decently, and his parents will respect you and treat you like jewels. Who said that a girl's work is not important, and a good husband is enough? You must be good enough, good enough You can match well with a good man." If you are a flower, you will burst out with butterflies when it is in full bloom.
Although Lin Huiyin was wearing a narrow cheongsam and was frail and sick, she was able to climb up the dome of an ancient building without any problems.When Jin Yuelin went to their house, he saw Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng climbing on the roof of their house, practicing basic skills for field surveying and mapping. Lao Jin immediately wrote an acronym: A gentleman on the beam, a beauty under the forest.This Tibetan acrostic poem is embedded with the surnames of the couple. The first sentence is a joke to Liang Sicheng, and the second sentence is flattering to Lin Huiyin.Liang Sicheng was very happy, but Lin Huiyin didn't take it seriously: "It's disgusting, what beauty is not beautiful, as if a woman has nothing to do, she is only worthy of decoration!"
Of course, Lin Huiyin is not a decoration. In the famous salon in her living room, she is the protagonist of any dialogue with great Confucianism. Even when she is seriously ill, she still lies on the sofa and talks about poetry and philosophy with guests.Xiao Qian, one of the former salon guests, recalled: "Lin Huiyin is beautiful and talented. Her poetry, novels, prose, drama, painting, including architectural history science, can be said to have achieved relatively high achievements. In addition She has an excellent circle of friends and a husband who loves her."
It is precisely because of Lin Huiyin's extraordinary talent that he has attracted many like-minded friends and created the brilliance of "Wife's Living Room" together.
The more excellent you are, the higher your taste and the more elegant your temperament, this is a kind of beauty that cannot be defeated by time.The writer Huang Mingjian once said, "Women are a kind of indicator. If women exude taste, society will naturally become a great country."
Excellent women love to read, and words are not flashy clouds and feathers to them.They can make themselves beautiful in words.Classic books can give women insight into the world and make women unique.They will show a kind of elegance, a kind of coolness that can be seen from a distance but not played with.A woman with poems and books in her stomach will last forever and have a long aftertaste. She is the most beautiful woman.
A good woman will brew a pot of green tea, close her eyes, and walk into the world of music in the leisurely afternoon of the holiday.Imagine yourself walking on the hillside under the setting sun, bathing in the fragrant breeze; or sitting quietly in the garden under the setting sun, recalling the past...Classic music enlightens people, and all impetuousness becomes calm and breezy.
"Steal half a day's leisure in a floating life", excellent women learn tea ceremony, use their own understanding to get close to it and understand it.A pot of good tea can make a woman's heart more peaceful, exude a soft connotation and a unique taste of a woman.In spare time, meet two or three bosom friends, sip a pot of fragrant tea, talk with each other, only talk about romance, not about fame and wealth, and enjoy the soft time in this rolling red dust.
Be a better person like Dong Qing. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.
Be grateful for all the encounters, let the heart be bright and warm
"The Book of Songs Daya" said: "Throw me a peach, and repay it with a plum." Since ancient times, China has had "the crow has the meaning of feeding back, and the sheep knows the kindness of kneeling milk" and "the kindness of dripping water should be repaid by the spring." According to the saying, each of us should learn to be grateful. This is the most basic moral cultivation of a person, and it is also the source of happiness for a woman.
Anthony Robin, a master of American potential development, said: "The first step to success is to have a grateful heart, always be grateful for your own status quo, and at the same time have respect and gratitude for everything others have done for you Feelings."
Dong Qing self-criticized for a long time because of the unsatisfactory recording of the first episode of "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala", because she thought that "it will be too late when everyone thinks you have a problem".Dong Qing said that she has always been grateful to the stage and the audience, and the reason why she insisted on being serious and strict was "because I was too afraid of disappointing the audience and the stage."In order to "live up" to this stage, she is always making preparations, "one is long-term preparation, such as reading books and newspapers, accumulating knowledge, and making oneself a person with noble character and taste; the other is short-term preparation, that is, when receiving tasks Do your best afterwards."She is eager to bring some enlightenment to the audience, and she can say one or two sentences that will stay in the audience's heart for a long time.
If we can always look at this world with a grateful heart, we will feel that this world is very lovely and rich!The soft singing of the birds on the trees, the selfless light and heat of the sun, and the fragrance of the flowers on the roadside will all make us feel refreshed.
Hawking, the world's science giant, said: "My hands can still move, my brain can still think, I have the ideals I pursue throughout my life, I have relatives and friends who love me and I love, yes, I still have a grateful heart. Heart..." Who would have thought that this open-minded and wonderful text came from a person who has lived in a wheelchair for more than [-] years, how great he must be!
The British philosopher Locke said: "Gratitude is a kind of spiritual treasure." Gratitude is the smallest and greatest of virtues.Gratitude makes one's soul healthier.Learn to be grateful, thank those who accompanied you through the lost days; thank those who listened to your nonsense when you were bored; thank those who helped you when you were helpless; thank all those who passed by your life, Because of them, your life is more colorful.
As a weekly TV program recording "A Man and His Era", "Interview with Yang Lan" held a 2015-day 12th anniversary special exhibition at the Ullens Center for the Arts in Beijing from December 7 to 9, 3.With the theme of "Touch Touch", it reviews the 15-year history of the program.Talking about these 15 years, Yang Lan expressed that it is extremely meaningful. In 15 and 2001, she represented Beijing twice in her bid for the Olympic Games. In the past 2015 years, everyone has undergone great changes, and she has also witnessed the changes in China and the world.
Yang Lan said that the success of the program is largely inseparable from the support of her family.She is very grateful to her family.
Due to the busy work, Yang Lan is also very grateful for the understanding of her parents and husband in family life. "When I was on a business trip, my parents helped me pick up my children from school and urged them to develop good habits. The two children were also very competitive. After elementary school, they completed their studies independently, so I didn't have to worry about it. And my husband would tolerate it for almost a month. My wife, who is on a business trip for 7 days, never cooks, and I often work outside when he needs it, he is really amazing." Yang Lan said that 2015 happened to be the 20th anniversary of her marriage with her husband. "That day I told him thank you for taking care of me for so many years. Mark Twain wrote a very good sentence: love is running fast, marriage is growing slowly."
Throughout our lives, we have been receiving various favors. From the moment we were born, we have accepted the grace of our parents for giving birth, and as we grow up, our parents have continuously paid for the grace of nurturing; Learning, we have received the grace of education from the teacher; when we enter the post, we have the grace of care from leaders and colleagues; and when we encounter danger in life, there are friends who will lend a helping hand to help us out of the predicament. This little bit of kindness will eventually converge into a long river of gratitude, which will flow endlessly throughout our lives.
Because of gratitude, our society is so harmonious; because of gratitude, our life is so full of warmth and heart-warming.Only by being a woman who knows how to be grateful can she interpret the strong family affection, pure friendship, and sincere love more perfectly and vividly, and only then can she truly accompany and walk with happiness.
A woman who knows how to be grateful may not have the ability to succeed, but a successful woman must possess this quality.Because she is grateful, she will voluntarily help others and take pleasure in helping others. No matter where she is, everyone will be happy to get along with her and communicate with her.A woman who knows how to be grateful must be open-minded and broad-minded. Her open-mindedness will drive away the indifference, darkness, and cruelty in the world, and her optimism will pass on love and touch for a long time, making life full of sunshine and the world full of warmth.
Only when we are full of gratitude, our hearts will be bright, warm, happy and joyful!
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