smart girl love tips

Chapter 18 Every girl has a good life, and a girl who can fall in love has a better life (2)
◆Spring is the most suitable season to express the sweet temperament of girls. The key point of dressing is to use pink, orange, pink yellow and other sweet colors to create wonderful color differences in the same color system.

◆The overall style of collocation can also be emphasized by contrast.For example, a rough denim jacket or a casual corduroy jacket can be paired with a delicate tight-fitting knitted underwear. The strong contrast between loose and tight, rough and slender will make you look more casual and heroic.

◆Not only color is the focus of collocation, but also the texture of clothes is one of the key points of selection.

◆Light-colored high-necked sleeveless sweaters paired with dark-colored A-shaped knee-length skirts, fishtail skirts or flared skirts will give people a particularly slender feeling.

Mature girls are wine in the eyes of men
In life, I often hear men say in an appreciative tone: "So-and-so is really a mature girl." That kind of tone is much more admired than talking about a white-collar lady.In the eyes of mature men, compared with mature girls, a white-collar lady is like a jar of half-brewed wine. The foundation is good, but the taste is far from full-bodied.Mature girls are in trouble, when they lift the wine jar, the room is filled with the smell of wine, and everyone sniffs their noses with greed.

Of course, not just a girl who has reached the age of marriage and childbearing can be called a "mature girl".Housewives are not synonymous with "mature girls". No matter how mature and considerate housewives are, they may not necessarily be praised as "mature girls".Therefore, the word "mature" has its specific and complicated meanings.

What kind of girl is a mature girl?
◆ mature girls look pleasing to the eye.They don't pursue trends, but they can use their own ingenuity to show their personal taste.

◆Mature girls are considerate.They are kind, gentle, compassionate and have a sense of justice. They can feel and receive love in the crowd, and they can also give love to others. They can accept themselves and make others accept themselves.

There are always troubles in life. When a mature girl encounters frustration, she will not panic, but turn her attention to her own interests, such as listening to music, reading, and working, and will try to use a flexible and tense life attitude Introduce a brand new self.

◆Mature girls are well-mannered.They are well-educated and reasonable, they will not be swayed by their own emotions, and they will not lose their composure in public.She is a good listener, who can sensitively feel the other party's emotions and understand the other party's distress.She has the generosity to praise others, and at the same time, she can tolerate the shortcomings of others.Do not be overjoyed, worry endlessly, win without arrogance, lose without discouragement, be humble but not humble.

◆Mature girls behave moderately and speak politely.The posture is graceful when standing, the gait is steady when walking, the gait is gentle when eating, the expression is serene when sitting down, and the conversation is calm and gentle.They have good moral cultivation, they don't talk about things that don't match the facts, they don't talk big, they don't hold their own opinions, and they don't blindly express themselves.

◆Mature girls should dress appropriately and dress appropriately.They have unique insights into the choice of clothing. The clothing they choose is neither flashy nor ignorant. They never follow trends, do not care about luxury or famous brands, and advocate the perfect harmony between clothing and people, pursuing a calm, tranquil and elegant artistic conception.They will choose or make clothes that suit them according to their personality, temperament, and economic conditions, and wear them with personality and charm.

◆Mature girls know how to be considerate of others, and know how to love themselves.Mature girls have higher demands on their lives.Mature girls are good at discovering the beauty and brilliance in life, so as to break through the boundless darkness and regain a new life.They like to be close to nature. The beautiful scenery and clear air can soothe their fatigue and hesitation.Family and friendship are also very important parts of mature girls' lives. They pursue independence, and clinging to entangled love is not what they want.

How to make yourself a real mature girl?

1. Be your own master
◆Don't be influenced by others.Girls who are often dominated by others are filled with fear and restlessness.Such a girl must be a loser, because she cannot be her own master.

◆Be brave enough to say “no”.For things that do not meet your wishes, you must dare to speak your true inner thoughts.

◆Don't feel guilty.Feeling guilty when you should be happy and happy must be because your own ideas are distorted. This kind of girl will often have an unnecessary sense of responsibility for the demands of others.

2. Eliminate doubts about insufficient self-ability

◆To overcome the sequelae of "promotion".Some girls, after being promoted, are always afraid that they are not capable enough to be qualified for the new position, so they have doubts and anxiety.

◆Take care of yourself.Everyone is the best actor on the stage of life.

3. Instead of blaming others, change yourself
◆There is no benefit in slandering others.There is no benefit in blindly blaming and slandering others. At best, it is only temporary satisfaction, and it is a kind of empty and illusory satisfaction.And for this temporary, empty satisfaction, you must pay a great price, including no longer motivating yourself and damaging good interpersonal relationships.

◆People who don't want to change themselves will blame themselves more.

4. Don’t get discouraged by small setbacks

◆ Do not indulge in past failures.People who are prone to failure have a common weakness in character, that is, they are extremely sensitive to trivial matters, and they will have strong reactions when encountering small setbacks, and even draw extreme conclusions.

◆Do not generalize.People who are prone to depression often have a certain pattern of interpretation, which is to attribute all unhappiness to their own mistakes.

5. Don't hide the truth
◆ immature people tend to hide their true colors.Hiding the truth will only make an otherwise trivial matter serious.

◆Concealing the truth may lead to two bad results. One is to feel ashamed of others because of cheating others;

◆Do not belittle yourself.The pain of those who underestimate themselves is self-inflicted.

6. Think about your weaknesses from a fresh perspective
◆Do not distort the facts.Facts do not have a bad influence on people's psychology, but people's interpretation of facts often forms an indelible shadow.It can be seen that the biggest enemy is nothing but the girl herself.

◆If you can accept your true self, you will be able to maintain your inner balance.A person with self-knowledge is different from a person with low self-esteem.

3 small details capture a man's heart
Intercourse between men and women is nothing but a process of mutual attraction between the sexes.The real "charge into battle" and "confrontation between two battles" are often achieved by relying on certain "little skills" when men and women interact.Among them, the "three S policy" is very practical.

"Three S policy" is Smile - smile; Sight - eyes and Skin-Ship - contact.

1. Smile, that is, smile
Smiling to the other party can immediately send "friendly" and "favorable" messages to the other party, and it can also make the other party know immediately that when the other party appears, the inner atmosphere of the smiling person is "happy", "happy" and "joyful". of.In other words, smiling lightly at the other person immediately lets the other person know that you are "a source of happiness."And when a person knows that he is "popular", he will have a "flying" feeling, and it is easy to develop a good impression of the other party.

2.Sight, the eyes
By controlling your eyes, you can control the other person's emotions at the same time. The most effective way to use Sight is to use it together with the previous Smile.In the process of attracting each other with the opposite sex, if we smile at the other party on the one hand and give him/her an affectionate look on the other hand, the other party will immediately realize that we have attracted you , became a "beloved".

3.Skin-Ship, is the so-called "skin contact"

Smiles and eyes are not enough to express one party's "love" for the other party. You must hold hands and stand side by side to form this "deep love". This kind of love is deep and wide, and you believe in each other Will understand immediately.

In addition, holding hands, shoulder to shoulder, or even skin-to-skin friction can often give the other party a feeling: you want to become a "two-in-one" with the other party through intimate contact with the skin, forming a "two-person world". ", united into a "community", and achieved the "wedding" on the skin.

Let yourself have the character of being loved
The woman said: "Character is more important than appearance." When a man is asked about a girlfriend's strengths, he will answer: "Her strengths? It should be a good personality." Appearance is a prerequisite for choosing a lover, and personality will determine after dating everything.Once you start to notice your personality, external beauty cannot help you hide it.Even the beautiful appearance will become the subject of discussion, such as "I think I am very self-willed because I think I am beautiful."

What kind of character is the best character as a lover?A psychologist conducted a "Survey on the Ranking of Personality and Trait Preferences", ranking the personalities that the public likes.Of course, looking at it the other way around, this is the order of disliked characters.The subjects of the survey were American college students, who divided 555 personality traits into 0 stages from 6 to 7 from "favorite" to "most disliked".It turns out that honesty, integrity, wisdom, and gentle character are liked by most people.In addition, lying, obscene, and aggressive personalities are hated by most people.

Another researcher analyzed the characteristics of the opposite sex that men and women are attracted to, and the results were slightly different from the ranking of personalities that the public likes.Both men and women like someone who is gentle, happy, and humorous.The survey results in some Asian countries are also gentle, secure, and happy people.It seems that everyone likes gentle people, but the concept of gentleness is very subjective, and the secret of love is deeply hidden in the interaction between two people.

There are also some disagreements among the more attractive characters as lovers.Women like dependable men, and men like women who look good.This is the result of the different division of labor between men and women in society.

What kind of conversation can attract men

The girl's beauty belongs to this world, but the girl's tenderness belongs to him.For this kind of unique tenderness, men are willing to give everything to have it.A beautiful girl moves a man's heart, and only a gentle girl can make a man act.

It doesn't matter whether you're pretending or sincere, boys just have to be gentle.Their usual lives are serious enough, and honestly, no one wants to find a girlfriend to continue talking about political ideas with them, doing this terrible brainstorming, which is really horrible for boys.

Girls can talk more about themselves, but don't explain themselves meticulously from beginning to end, boys don't have the patience to listen; and don't take the initiative to bring up your past feelings, unless the other party asks, just talk lightly.Taking the initiative to bring up the feeling of the past will give boys a sense of oppression, feeling that you are eager to turn over with a new relationship.

Don't think that boys are easy to deceive. In fact, they understand some subtle mentalities, but they just pretend to be stupid from time to time.

Girls are most taboo to talk lightly, it will make boys feel that this girl is very casual and lonely, because she has analyzed herself so thoroughly to an unfamiliar person.

To let the other party know that he is not an unguarded girl, and to understand you and gain your trust, he needs to put in more effort.

In addition, when a girl is dating, you should not speak too boldly, talk about sex and pornographic jokes, maybe you don’t feel it, but you must consider the feelings of the other party, because not everyone can accept your boldness .

What kind of girl catches his eye

The 21st century is an era when new and good men are favored. They are generally well educated and have their own careers.They have a higher taste in life, and they are almost harsh on love and girls, and they will dismiss ordinary girls.This kind of man makes girls' eyes shine, and you have to work hard to get him.How can I make myself the girl he likes?

1. Love music

Like music, it is best to master a few instruments.Imagine sitting in a clean hall, wearing a long black dress, with a high bun, playing a piece of "Fur Elise" with your slender fingers.This kind of piano sound, what kind of elegant temperament you have in this kind of occasion.If you don’t know it yet, I suggest you take the time to take a crash course on musical instruments that can reflect femininity. Piano, flute, guzheng, erhu, etc. can all be considered.

2. Love Movies

It's a hobby to like movies.Most women who like movies have a lot of dreams.Girls with dreams are cute.Interest in movies can be wider, it can be art films directed by Akira Kurosawa, Fellini, Antonio, or science fiction films like "Star Wars", at least you have to watch "Braveheart", "Red "Blue and White" is a well-known movie.

Then, after talking with him about movies for a while, I said in a helpless tone, alas, the movie market is always so sluggish, and there are no new ideas.He must think that you are not a woman who echoes what others say.

3. Love sports

On the tennis court, on the golf course, and in the swimming pool, a healthy and beautiful body and a face full of vitality are very attractive to men.They will think that sports women are the most vital.So, if you're good at sports, that's great.It doesn't matter if you are not good at it, what is more important is the feeling of exercise.And this feeling, we can create it.

The first is the dress, you can not play well, but the jersey must fit beautifully and outline your perfect curve.The second is beautiful posture. You may not hit the ball well, but the posture must be good.

4. Childlike

First of all, you must be child-like curious, innocent and enthusiastic in your heart, so that you can reveal an alternative sexiness mixed with innocence and childishness in your eyes.Tell him that you love flowers and plants, and when you see a stray puppy walking on the street, you immediately love him; mingle with the children and play together; when you talk to him, blink your big innocent eyes and show concentration.During these times, he will see innocence and loveliness in your face.Nowadays, there are more and more precautions and indifference between people, some childish girls are always the most able to arouse his love and sympathy from the bottom of his heart.

5. Love books

Modern men think that a woman with connotation is worthy of association, so, the first step is that you are worthy of his association.Then the most direct expression of connotation is that you love books and are a woman of knowledge.If you haven't read "Reminiscence of Things Past", at least you should have such a set on your bookshelf.If you haven't read all four great classics, you must read "Dream of Red Mansions" at least twice.Of course, from Milan Kundera to Haruki Murakami, from Duras to Eileen Chang, it’s a lot to say, and popular bestsellers like "Protein Girl" and "Harry Potter" are best hidden in the bathroom.

voluptuous girl lovable
What kind of girl is the most popular?It is not that having a perfect figure and a beautiful face will definitely win the favor of men.Generally speaking, men favor girls who are not only beautiful but also voluptuous.What kind of girl can have such a man's popularity?
1. Delicate figure
After all, there are only a few tall and heroic men, so most of the enchanting girls are not too tall, 1.7 meters is almost the limit, so that you can wear a pair of low-heeled shoes so that the men around you will not feel embarrassed.A girl who is too tall tends to discourage men, giving up the idea of ​​being close to a kiss, let alone generating affection.The desire to control is a man's innate nature. The ancients have long understood the truth that a bird depends on a man.Therefore, we must not cause pressure on men.

2. Yingying slim waist
It must not be thin and bony, otherwise, although it is thin, it will easily produce a sense of terror to the touch, and it will make people worry that it will break if it is too hard.Adding one point is more, subtracting one point is less, the graceful grip makes many amorous men still tremble in their hearts when they dream back at midnight.

3. Fashionable attire conveys a sexy message
People never choose their own clothes when they were young, because the awareness of the opposite sex was still very weak at that time; during adolescence, they start to really realize the opposite sex and have the idea of ​​"what style can make them look sexier".By the age of 18, women's love for beauty has reached its peak, that is, the desire to make themselves sexy is very strong, so even a T-shirt has to be tried on one by one until they are satisfied.At this time, the choice of clothing is very important.

Clothing was originally invented to cover important parts of the body and keep warm from the cold.However, it is an indisputable fact that occlusion can reflect sexiness more.For example, celebrities with plump breasts will wear fashions that emphasize their breasts; women with beautiful legs can wear skirts with high slits or tight shorts to emphasize their beautiful legs.

Dressing yourself in clothing can emphasize femininity and can also send a strong sexy message.

4. Unique
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