smart girl love tips
Chapter 2 Smart girls have clear judgments about love
Chapter 2 Smart girls have clear judgments about love (1)
do you know?he is already in love with you
After falling in love with someone quietly, I was afraid of "falling flowers with intention, flowing water is merciless", so I had to keep silent, and I had to worry and worry myself.In fact, it is not difficult to judge whether the other party is also interested in you. See if he is also paying attention to you like this?
1. He suddenly becomes extra concerned about you
Under normal circumstances, the opposite sex is more cautious when expressing concern and help to each other, and often pulls a few companions to act together, and rarely expresses to each other alone.If you find that he suddenly becomes very concerned about you, and quietly gives you unexpected help alone, at least it means that you occupy an important position in his heart.
For example, if you have a bad complexion, no one else can see it. Only he will quietly ask you: "What's wrong? Are you feeling unwell?" You express your condolences or persuasion, which is obviously something you have heard from others, indicating that he is always paying attention to you.If you are absent from work occasionally for some reason, he will quickly find out and ask why you didn't come.If the unit has any good or bad things for you, he will tell you quickly, happy or worried for you, and so on.
2. He often meets you "by chance"
The research of love psychology shows that when one party develops admiration for the other party, he always hopes to appear in front of the other party frequently in order to attract the other party's attention.However, due to the constraints of factors such as self-esteem, reserve, and social evaluation, and do not want the other party to find out that they are doing this on purpose, they often pretend to be "unintentional" or "accidental" as a cover-up.Once this kind of "accidental" happens often, then you need to think more about it.
For example, on a university campus, every time you take a walk with your companion on a secluded boulevard, he often "accidentally" walks in front of you at that moment.When eating in the cafeteria, he often "accidentally" sits next to the dining table where you are used to sitting, chats with you, watches you, and even lets you taste delicious food.In a meeting or watching a movie, almost every time he "accidentally" sits not far from you, or even next to your seat.When he gets off work, he often "accidentally" meets you at the door, and will walk with you "by the way" every time, even though it will make him walk a long way.Especially if you tentatively change your activity route and time, he will also "accidentally" change accordingly.Then, this kind of "accidental" is probably not accidental, it is very likely that he is deliberately attracting your attention.
3. He suddenly wants to know you
On the one hand, he always wants to know you, often asks about your family situation, listens to your childhood and past stories, has a special curiosity about your family affairs, and even often asks others about your life, always looking for opportunities to visit your home.This is often a sign of willingness to be part of your family.
On the other hand, he also wants you to get to know him. He often talks to you about his childhood, shows you photos of the past, tells interesting stories about him when he was in school, tells you about the demographics of his family, his parents’ personalities and hobbies, and hints that he welcomes you. Go to his house to play.This is often a sign of a willingness to accept you as part of his family.
4. He becomes fond of playing pranks on you
He suddenly becomes fond of playing pranks on you. For example, when you are off work, you suddenly find that the valve core of your bicycle has been pulled out, and others quietly tell you that he did it; in front of everyone, he will open you specially. Joking or intentionally using words to anger you, so that you can't get off the stage... This kind of situation is often manifested in young men, mostly because you can't find a valid reason to approach you, or you never thought of paying attention to him, so He uses pranks to express, one is to attract your attention, and the other is to obtain a kind of psychological satisfaction.However, this kind of behavior is basically a failed expression method, because it often makes the other party feel disgusted and doesn't think about your true intentions hidden in your heart.
5. His eyes often follow you
Generally speaking, people feel that they can't get enough of the things they particularly like and want to see more often.Once the "person of interest" appears, his eyes will be drawn involuntarily.It's just that when the two parties haven't expressed their thoughts clearly, this kind of gaze is often shot at each other quietly.
When you look back occasionally during work breaks, you will suddenly find a pair of bright eyes staring at you.In the occasion of the unit assembly, you will also find that his eyes are staring at you from the gaps of many heads.In short, as long as he is present, you will always feel that there are pairs of eyes staring at you, sometimes flashing past.
At the same time, you will also feel that his eyes are different from those of others. It has the power of staring, hope and warmth, and seems to attract your eyes and make your heart move.This is because the eyes are the windows to the soul, and many emotions that cannot be expressed in words can be conveyed with eyes.According to the research, if people see something exciting, their pupils will dilate unconsciously. When the two parties are silent at each other, but the other party has been looking at you for more than 6 seconds, you will have a special attention to him, and even feel unnatural .It can be seen how important the eyes are in conveying emotions.Because of this, the gaze also provides information for you to understand the other person's mind.
Therefore, when you find that his eyes are often looking at you, you should understand that this is a good time to convey information. If you also have "meaning" for him, you might as well try to cast your eyes on him and smile affectionately at the same time .If you find that the other party's eyes are not only not avoiding, but appear more energetic, then at least you can conclude that the other party has developed a good impression of you.But whether it is an expression of love needs to be confirmed by other expressions.
6. He suddenly becomes unnatural when alone with you
In the past, when the two of you were alone, he didn't show any unnaturalness.But recently, you suddenly found that he became awkward and at a loss when getting along with you, his speech was not so smooth, and he even blushed.The reason for this change is not that he has done something sorry to you, but it is very likely that he is attracted to you.Psychologists believe that when a person finds that there is a "loved person" around him, but does not confess to the other party, he will often be at a loss in front of the other party, blushing and heartbeating.It's a reaction to anxiety.It is worth noting that when you find that although he will behave unnaturally in front of you, but he is unwilling to walk away immediately, then you are most likely his "person of interest".
Open your eyes and see your love
In the soul, love is a dominant passion; in the spirit, love is a mutual understanding.
There is only one kind of love, but its fakes are thousands of different, and we often get confused.When something like love comes up, we think it's love, but it's not.Because it is similar to love, it is very beautiful at the beginning, but because it is only similar, it is usually fleeting.
Do any of the following forms of love seem familiar to you?
1. When love comes in the form of conquest
Distance, impossibility, and arrogance all have a natural attraction, enough to be a reason to conquer each other.Or to be an excuse for a guy or a girl to say love.
In fact, this is not love.But he needs a beautiful reason to get close to you and completely conquer you.He just needs an object, an opponent to be exact.He has persisted for so many years, not because of his devotion, but because of his desire to conquer so that he ignores those opponents who are not opponents.
However, when he meets you, he will say to you affectionately: I love you!And I won't tell you: I just love the feeling of conquest.
2. When love takes the form of possession
He is an individual, he is free, he can do whatever he wants, he cannot be manipulated, but he doesn't want you to be as free as he is!
Yes, with you, he just wants you to be his accessory and let you obey his arrangement.Your eyes, your smile, all of your spiritual world, including your beautiful dress, can only be shown to him alone.
However, he will gently say to you: I love you!Because I love you, I will be nervous about you, and I don't want you to get too close to people other than him.In fact, he just wants to treat you as his personal item, which can be held in the palm of his hand and put in his pocket wherever he goes.
You don't need to say anything, obedience is the best expression of loving him!Because, the real him is actually a timid person, he doesn't have the courage to share such a touching you with others!He is also a coward, afraid that you will leave suddenly, and he has nothing!
Well then, let him create a heart lock for you in the name of love, so that you will not be released on bail for the rest of your life.
3. When love comes in the form of exploitation
There may be many reasons to love you, but there is only one real reason, that is, you can be used by him.As long as you can provide everything he needs, he has no reason to say he doesn't love you.
It's not difficult to love someone, just pretend to love someone!
It is not difficult to love someone, as long as he loves your other things, such as: your power, your wealth, your beautiful appearance, or anything other than your car, your house, or your heart!
Yes, I love you, he wants everything except your love and your heart!
4. When love takes the form of loneliness
Because of loneliness, he needs a kind of warmth; because of loneliness, he needs a kind of comfort; because of loneliness, he needs you, and the so-called love you bring.
He fell in love with you because he was lonely, because he couldn't stand being alone!If one day he is not lonely, or if he falls in love with loneliness, he will leave you!
A happy love really needs a "good match"
As for the "good match", if you only want love but not marriage, you can despise it; but if you want both love and marriage, you should face it squarely.
Maybe someone can refute this view with stories like Cinderella wearing a glass slipper and finding Prince Charming, but such stories are always fairy tales, and the author just writes that "they had a grand wedding and lived happily ever after "It stopped abruptly, and never told us the final outcome.In fact, "the right family" is the golden key to unraveling the magic of crystal shoes. Couples from different families are like Cinderella and Prince Charming, often have very different living habits, concepts and hobbies.They can't even reach an agreement on what TV content to watch or what price to buy clothes. After all, the vision and concept of the two parties are too different, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be wiped out bit by bit by the friction of reality.
(End of this chapter)
do you know?he is already in love with you
After falling in love with someone quietly, I was afraid of "falling flowers with intention, flowing water is merciless", so I had to keep silent, and I had to worry and worry myself.In fact, it is not difficult to judge whether the other party is also interested in you. See if he is also paying attention to you like this?
1. He suddenly becomes extra concerned about you
Under normal circumstances, the opposite sex is more cautious when expressing concern and help to each other, and often pulls a few companions to act together, and rarely expresses to each other alone.If you find that he suddenly becomes very concerned about you, and quietly gives you unexpected help alone, at least it means that you occupy an important position in his heart.
For example, if you have a bad complexion, no one else can see it. Only he will quietly ask you: "What's wrong? Are you feeling unwell?" You express your condolences or persuasion, which is obviously something you have heard from others, indicating that he is always paying attention to you.If you are absent from work occasionally for some reason, he will quickly find out and ask why you didn't come.If the unit has any good or bad things for you, he will tell you quickly, happy or worried for you, and so on.
2. He often meets you "by chance"
The research of love psychology shows that when one party develops admiration for the other party, he always hopes to appear in front of the other party frequently in order to attract the other party's attention.However, due to the constraints of factors such as self-esteem, reserve, and social evaluation, and do not want the other party to find out that they are doing this on purpose, they often pretend to be "unintentional" or "accidental" as a cover-up.Once this kind of "accidental" happens often, then you need to think more about it.
For example, on a university campus, every time you take a walk with your companion on a secluded boulevard, he often "accidentally" walks in front of you at that moment.When eating in the cafeteria, he often "accidentally" sits next to the dining table where you are used to sitting, chats with you, watches you, and even lets you taste delicious food.In a meeting or watching a movie, almost every time he "accidentally" sits not far from you, or even next to your seat.When he gets off work, he often "accidentally" meets you at the door, and will walk with you "by the way" every time, even though it will make him walk a long way.Especially if you tentatively change your activity route and time, he will also "accidentally" change accordingly.Then, this kind of "accidental" is probably not accidental, it is very likely that he is deliberately attracting your attention.
3. He suddenly wants to know you
On the one hand, he always wants to know you, often asks about your family situation, listens to your childhood and past stories, has a special curiosity about your family affairs, and even often asks others about your life, always looking for opportunities to visit your home.This is often a sign of willingness to be part of your family.
On the other hand, he also wants you to get to know him. He often talks to you about his childhood, shows you photos of the past, tells interesting stories about him when he was in school, tells you about the demographics of his family, his parents’ personalities and hobbies, and hints that he welcomes you. Go to his house to play.This is often a sign of a willingness to accept you as part of his family.
4. He becomes fond of playing pranks on you
He suddenly becomes fond of playing pranks on you. For example, when you are off work, you suddenly find that the valve core of your bicycle has been pulled out, and others quietly tell you that he did it; in front of everyone, he will open you specially. Joking or intentionally using words to anger you, so that you can't get off the stage... This kind of situation is often manifested in young men, mostly because you can't find a valid reason to approach you, or you never thought of paying attention to him, so He uses pranks to express, one is to attract your attention, and the other is to obtain a kind of psychological satisfaction.However, this kind of behavior is basically a failed expression method, because it often makes the other party feel disgusted and doesn't think about your true intentions hidden in your heart.
5. His eyes often follow you
Generally speaking, people feel that they can't get enough of the things they particularly like and want to see more often.Once the "person of interest" appears, his eyes will be drawn involuntarily.It's just that when the two parties haven't expressed their thoughts clearly, this kind of gaze is often shot at each other quietly.
When you look back occasionally during work breaks, you will suddenly find a pair of bright eyes staring at you.In the occasion of the unit assembly, you will also find that his eyes are staring at you from the gaps of many heads.In short, as long as he is present, you will always feel that there are pairs of eyes staring at you, sometimes flashing past.
At the same time, you will also feel that his eyes are different from those of others. It has the power of staring, hope and warmth, and seems to attract your eyes and make your heart move.This is because the eyes are the windows to the soul, and many emotions that cannot be expressed in words can be conveyed with eyes.According to the research, if people see something exciting, their pupils will dilate unconsciously. When the two parties are silent at each other, but the other party has been looking at you for more than 6 seconds, you will have a special attention to him, and even feel unnatural .It can be seen how important the eyes are in conveying emotions.Because of this, the gaze also provides information for you to understand the other person's mind.
Therefore, when you find that his eyes are often looking at you, you should understand that this is a good time to convey information. If you also have "meaning" for him, you might as well try to cast your eyes on him and smile affectionately at the same time .If you find that the other party's eyes are not only not avoiding, but appear more energetic, then at least you can conclude that the other party has developed a good impression of you.But whether it is an expression of love needs to be confirmed by other expressions.
6. He suddenly becomes unnatural when alone with you
In the past, when the two of you were alone, he didn't show any unnaturalness.But recently, you suddenly found that he became awkward and at a loss when getting along with you, his speech was not so smooth, and he even blushed.The reason for this change is not that he has done something sorry to you, but it is very likely that he is attracted to you.Psychologists believe that when a person finds that there is a "loved person" around him, but does not confess to the other party, he will often be at a loss in front of the other party, blushing and heartbeating.It's a reaction to anxiety.It is worth noting that when you find that although he will behave unnaturally in front of you, but he is unwilling to walk away immediately, then you are most likely his "person of interest".
Open your eyes and see your love
In the soul, love is a dominant passion; in the spirit, love is a mutual understanding.
There is only one kind of love, but its fakes are thousands of different, and we often get confused.When something like love comes up, we think it's love, but it's not.Because it is similar to love, it is very beautiful at the beginning, but because it is only similar, it is usually fleeting.
Do any of the following forms of love seem familiar to you?
1. When love comes in the form of conquest
Distance, impossibility, and arrogance all have a natural attraction, enough to be a reason to conquer each other.Or to be an excuse for a guy or a girl to say love.
In fact, this is not love.But he needs a beautiful reason to get close to you and completely conquer you.He just needs an object, an opponent to be exact.He has persisted for so many years, not because of his devotion, but because of his desire to conquer so that he ignores those opponents who are not opponents.
However, when he meets you, he will say to you affectionately: I love you!And I won't tell you: I just love the feeling of conquest.
2. When love takes the form of possession
He is an individual, he is free, he can do whatever he wants, he cannot be manipulated, but he doesn't want you to be as free as he is!
Yes, with you, he just wants you to be his accessory and let you obey his arrangement.Your eyes, your smile, all of your spiritual world, including your beautiful dress, can only be shown to him alone.
However, he will gently say to you: I love you!Because I love you, I will be nervous about you, and I don't want you to get too close to people other than him.In fact, he just wants to treat you as his personal item, which can be held in the palm of his hand and put in his pocket wherever he goes.
You don't need to say anything, obedience is the best expression of loving him!Because, the real him is actually a timid person, he doesn't have the courage to share such a touching you with others!He is also a coward, afraid that you will leave suddenly, and he has nothing!
Well then, let him create a heart lock for you in the name of love, so that you will not be released on bail for the rest of your life.
3. When love comes in the form of exploitation
There may be many reasons to love you, but there is only one real reason, that is, you can be used by him.As long as you can provide everything he needs, he has no reason to say he doesn't love you.
It's not difficult to love someone, just pretend to love someone!
It is not difficult to love someone, as long as he loves your other things, such as: your power, your wealth, your beautiful appearance, or anything other than your car, your house, or your heart!
Yes, I love you, he wants everything except your love and your heart!
4. When love takes the form of loneliness
Because of loneliness, he needs a kind of warmth; because of loneliness, he needs a kind of comfort; because of loneliness, he needs you, and the so-called love you bring.
He fell in love with you because he was lonely, because he couldn't stand being alone!If one day he is not lonely, or if he falls in love with loneliness, he will leave you!
A happy love really needs a "good match"
As for the "good match", if you only want love but not marriage, you can despise it; but if you want both love and marriage, you should face it squarely.
Maybe someone can refute this view with stories like Cinderella wearing a glass slipper and finding Prince Charming, but such stories are always fairy tales, and the author just writes that "they had a grand wedding and lived happily ever after "It stopped abruptly, and never told us the final outcome.In fact, "the right family" is the golden key to unraveling the magic of crystal shoes. Couples from different families are like Cinderella and Prince Charming, often have very different living habits, concepts and hobbies.They can't even reach an agreement on what TV content to watch or what price to buy clothes. After all, the vision and concept of the two parties are too different, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be wiped out bit by bit by the friction of reality.
(End of this chapter)
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