Smart Women Should Read Men's Psychology: Secrets Men Don't Want You to Know

Chapter 27 Men's Love White Paper in the E-era (4)
Many political celebrities are playboys. For example, the "zipper door" incident that was known to the whole world around 1999, and the scandal between US President Clinton and Monica Lewinsky, the eyes of men and women all over the world are straightened.The photo of the famous dress was published not only by major websites, but even by newspapers with "serious faces" on weekdays.

As for the showbiz, it is a place where famous men gather. They are all masters of sex hunting, and they perform gossip dramas, which are more exciting than their regular dramas.The "Pornographic" incident that has been hyped from last year to the present can be described as the ultimate showbiz male star.It is said that the number of actresses involved so far has reached 8, and I believe the actual number is far more than these.In fact, there are not many playboys like Edison Chen in the entertainment industry, but they have not been exposed.

Men's nature of liking the new and disliking the old makes them frequently cause scandals. They are unwilling to be forgotten and create scandals.Everything seems to be fate, fate, and unavoidable opportunities, but all of them seem to be painstakingly planned, secretly planned, and carefully constructed.One by one, the philandering men have tasted the wonderful benefits of being published in the newspapers and appearing frequently under the flashing mirror.

In short, most of the fancy men are some master hunters, and they all have a zoo inside them. He has the ferocity of a lion, the sharpness of an eagle, the cleverness of a fox, and the mystery of a cat. Sometimes he pretends to be cute like a rabbit and learns from a sheep. Pretending to be well-behaved, most of the master hunters are chameleons, with three characteristics in one person:
1. He may be unmarried

Please note that "maybe" is not "certain", because it is clear that if you are not married, you just want to have fun, and the other party will not be hooked, so he often says: "I have always longed for a destination, I just didn't meet the right person until I met You." Then repeat the trick to different women.

2. He's Romantic

Of course he is romantic, he always follows his feelings, so when he meets you, he will say: "I have restrained myself, but I really can't help it, you are so attractive." This kind of person, he is an animal that is in heat all the year round, and will be in heat at any time.

3. He is the eternal tenderness
Gentleness is the best weapon. Please remember this sentence, so he knows how to pretend to be sincere in front of beautiful women.As for whether he still has long-term gentle patience after he succeeds, only God knows.

Playboys are the most destructive category among the Lieyan tribe, because they have taken advantage of the right time, location, and harmony, and have the advantages of fame, wealth (talent), appearance, etc. All crushes should be careful not to fall into their hands. prey.

However, we can't completely classify "famous men" into the ranks of "fancy men".Among the famous men, there are also some who don’t spend money, such as Jet Li. After 10 years of long-distance love running with Chile, he always regards her as the focus of his life, handing over every penny he earns. None of the actresses he has worked with called. In order to show his loyalty, he even refused to make intimate scenes with the actresses.A man like this belongs to the blue-chip stocks in the stock market, capable and careless, if you have the opportunity to meet, don't miss it!
"Bad girls" must know how to quarrel with their boyfriends

Once you're in a relationship, you'll inevitably find that you and your boyfriend have differences in your opinions and preferences.Even if two people love each other very much and share a common philosophy of life, sometimes it is inevitable to ignore each other's needs.When this happens, the person who feels left out must speak up.If this person happens to be you, you must stand firm, even if you have a big fight with him.

If your boyfriend is a "big man," your life can become very frustrating.His first reaction to any challenge was to feel threatened and to be rough rather than listen first.In this way, you will feel that he is intimidating, so you often swallow your anger to avoid any situation that seems to be confrontational with the man.As a result, you may be putting yourself in a strained relationship worse than you have to be.

You may be so busy caring about your boyfriend that you may miss out on some of your hobbies.Women always like to take a compromise approach, while men rarely do.

Often, it is the woman who makes a big concession in order to ease things up.For example, when a man and a woman move in together, it is always the woman who gives up her apartment; in order to spend more time together, it is always the woman who gives up her hobbies to pass the time; and it is always the woman who rearranges her vacations to accommodate Men's time, not the other way around.

In fact, most girls are willing to do almost anything to avoid confrontation with their boyfriends, even lying.You'll be tempted to keep it a secret just to avoid an argument with your boyfriend over certain issues.When he asks who you had lunch with, you blurt out, "My friend Lili." Instead of saying, you went out for his birthday lunch with ex-boyfriend Jun Zhao, even though the two of you were just loyal friends. You don't want to explain to your suspicious and excited new boyfriend why you're with other men.

However, subterfuge is often self-defeating, because anytime you lie, you risk being found out, and, because he needs your loyalty so deeply, he feels terribly betrayed.Even though you lied because he pushed you, this explanation is often playing tricks on the bullseye.He will feel that he is right and may even punish you all the time.

It's best to try to avoid lying and overcommitting as this can have a horribly negative effect on your relationship.In a sense, doing so means giving up a romance of an open love exchange.When you decide not to tell your boyfriend how you really feel and what you really think, you are saying, "I don't trust you, I'm 'scared' of you."

You know, before you met this boyfriend, the romance in your mind was honest and open, and you painted a picture of a man-woman relationship that freely talks about what each other needs.You have to take your dreams seriously.You have to be clear about what you really want in this relationship.

Don't start by assuming he's trying to stop you from choosing your own life and condemn him for it; don't assume he's not willing to change yourself at all.Many women have been living lives of silent resentment and self-sacrifice when, had they believed in their boyfriends enough, they could have fought for what they wanted and, if need be, fought to get it.

Your boyfriend may seem difficult at times, but that doesn't mean it's hopeless.Although his machismo pretense makes him very sensitive, it doesn't completely mask his rationality, he lives in the real world and knows what fair game is.

If the relationship between a man and a woman is alive, then it must breathe.That is, even when you are paying attention to his needs, you should also pay attention to your own needs and pursue your needs directly instead of always taking a roundabout way.That way, the promise you've always wanted will satisfy both of you.

Four.Men are a "meat dish"

Any woman who's been in a relationship knows that men think about "that" all day, and if they haven't shown it, either they're too timid or they're still looking for the right moment.Alas, why are men so anxious and can't wait until they get married?Let me tell you, men are a "meat dish", and they are born with the virtue of "emphasizing senses rather than emotions".

The "dirty" psychology of men dating you

Generally speaking, men will experience such pain: Although they have developed to the point of regular dating with the woman they love, they are always worried about when and how to proceed to the stage of having sex.They will even think about what method to take to satisfy the woman at that time.

In fact, from the first date, many men will be tortured by the entanglement and mental pressure of this desire.Next, let's analyze how troubled and overwhelmed a man is after meeting a woman, and how he tries to plan a plan of action, and finally develops a sexual relationship with a woman.

Once a man falls in love with a woman, he generally adopts the following method: First, he will invite her to dinner or watch a movie to facilitate the realization of the date.It is not difficult to reach this step, as long as you are not a timid or too high-minded man, you should be able to achieve it in a relatively relaxed state of mind.When a woman is invited to an appointment, a man will have the desire to touch and touch the girl's body.

The first step is to kiss.Especially when it comes to dating, men are always thinking about when to kiss.Generally, girls also worry about whether men will have sexual impulses when they kiss.But it doesn't happen during a walk or meal in the street, so there's no need to worry.

Usually, when a man has this kind of intention, he will first hope to understand the woman's thoughts, and at the same time try his best to convey his own good feelings to the other party.

It goes without saying that the prerequisite for physical contact must be mutual goodwill, mutual trust, and mutual reassurance.On the basis of being convinced of this premise, how to implement actions?Generally speaking, it is to extend the appointment time.For example, suggest another restaurant to eat, or take a rest in a secluded place in the park.Once this kind of invitation is made, you can probably conclude that the man has ulterior motives.

In addition, while drinking, it is also a common technique for men to confirm the other party's reaction by lightly touching the other party's hand, or touching the other party's knee with their knees.In a bar, sitting side by side facing the bar is the same, because you can test each other's reaction through shoulder-to-shoulder contact.If you don't want to be so intimate with a man too early, it's best to withdraw your hands or knees and don't give him wrong hints.

In fact, this kind of identification of "hopeful" and "no hope" is difficult to do without a certain degree of experience accumulation, and many men often have misunderstandings.For example, as a boss, I asked a female employee out for dinner, and she agreed, but she didn't necessarily go to the appointment because she had a good impression of him, but because it was difficult to refuse the boss.

All in all, men are using various "chemical litmus papers" to identify and judge a woman's sincerity: Can I accept kissing?Can they finally agree with each other?What is common is that they have been simulating the action plan from the night's date to the final ending, deliberating about when and where to kiss the action plan before they implement the action.

During a date, men have to rack their brains to think about the next move, so they often talk absent-mindedly and chew food without knowing what it tastes like.Sometimes it is rare that a girl has entered a good state of heart-to-heart talk, but the man himself is absent-minded, which makes the woman very disappointed.

However, more often than not, the man has been exhausted by his spiritual efforts, and his self-esteem has been hit by rejection, and he would rather give up in order not to be hurt more.The reason for this is mainly because of the fear of being rejected again, which may even lead to impotence in special cases.Therefore, it takes a lot of courage for a man to pursue a girl who once rejected him again.

Therefore, if you have the sincerity to accept a man, you should send a message accordingly, not just "wait in silence", which will cost you the chance of happiness.Conversely, if you really "don't call" this man, it's best to express your attitude during the first "testing" instead of always avoiding and eventually entering a very embarrassing situation for both parties.

Men "love" for "sex"

In the eyes of women, "sex" and "love" are two completely different concepts. "Love" is a kind of spiritual power, which surpasses the pure physical desire of "sex".However, men don't think so. They feel that without "sex", love does not exist at all.

Those young men may pursue pure and romantic soul collisions at the beginning, thinking that only sexual possession love is not love, but after a long time, they will lose their belief in love and feel that only sex is the relationship between men and women proof.This is a common problem unique to young men.For example, when a man hears a girl say that he likes her, regardless of how he feels about her, he will unconsciously feel a little bit flustered, thinking that he has fallen in love.In fact, even they themselves probably didn't figure out whether they really loved her or just wanted to possess her in the future.

When a man is young, no matter who he is, it is a high honor to be attracted by a girl.Therefore, being pursued by a girl is simply a wish, not to mention that young men have a sexual impulse.

Of course, there are also some men who keep their bodies clean, or do not regard sexual behavior as their sole purpose, but eighty to ninety percent of men will not simply separate love from sexual desire.That said, sex is essential to young men, and the younger they are the more they see love and sex as one.

In this way, even if they are not really in love, or just acting on occasion, men hope to be accompanied by an infatuated woman, especially those hot-blooded young people who are in the period of exuberant sexual desire.

There are some men who have never planned to get married, and spend their days drinking and drinking. When they are bored one day and are thinking about whether to go home, they will suddenly remember a certain girl. Will be rejected, so the two of them can find another place to be chic after having a good time.Of course, this is just one aspect of a man, not all men are like this.

Generally speaking, men who belong to the familist type are mostly more rigorous.This kind of people don't want to be gossiped behind their backs, so they never take a step too easily, so it is rare for them to be resented and cursed by women.However, there is often an extremely strong defensive instinct hidden behind the familistic man, which often makes it difficult for women to approach.

As long as it is not the unappetizing type, men will not object to women's initiative, and even appreciate it. This seems to be a common phenomenon among young men.Through communication, experiencing confusion and experiencing pain, men begin to mature.

At the same time, after several trials and tribulations, men have gained valuable life accumulation from it.They learn what to do that hurts a woman, what to do can cause pain to a woman, and they begin to understand that if they only think about themselves, they may face an unhappy life.

Most men are not prepared to make sacrifices for others when they are young.Because of this, among adolescent lovers, girls always worry and cry for love, while boys seem to be confused, not knowing whether they are in love or what they are doing.

Girls expect their Prince Charming to be gentle and considerate, with extraordinary tolerance, which must be too naive.However, if a woman refuses to communicate because she is afraid of being hurt, she will get nothing on the road of love.Therefore, for a woman, if she already has her own heart, she must go on without hesitation, even if it may not have any results.You know, in this world, there is no such thing as a perfect man.

Women must have a "chastity archway"

The "archway of chastity" we are talking about here is not to ask you to be like the ancients, you will be a widow for a lifetime after your husband dies, and you cannot even touch your hands before marrying a man, but it means that you should be properly reserved in the process of interacting with men , Don't let them taste the sweetness easily.

If a man attacks you first and wins you over with his masculine grit, intelligence, or charm, he'll put you in a higher position.

Men are possessive, and they are willing to try heights that others cannot easily reach.They are like the embodiment of Captain Kirk and Columbus, hoping to explore places that have not been set foot by others.There is only one thing that men use to judge you: how long you have to be reserved before you agree with yourself.

(End of this chapter)