Psychological Suggestion: Awaken Your Best Self

Chapter 15 Talents Are Made by Hints
Section [-] The Best Way to Cultivate Talents

In the world, there is one of the most precious wealth called talents.

Everyone knows that talents are important; everyone knows that talents are in high demand, but few people know how to cultivate talents.In fact, every talent grows up in positive hints, and every talent must have received more or less positive hints before becoming a talent.In other words, talents are actually formed by hints, and only an environment full of positive hints can allow talents to grow healthily and rapidly.

What?You say you don't believe it?You say suggestion can only be used for hypnosis and psychotherapy?
No!I can't agree with your statement.In my opinion, in the field of education, especially in the field of early education, the role of suggestion is the most important, so important that it is indispensable.Because suggestion itself has a magical ability to connect love and instinct tightly.

In the process of a child's growth, or in the process of an ordinary child's transformation into a talent, the impact of positive suggestions is almost immeasurable.

Martin, a professor at the University of Edinburgh and a famous educational psychologist, once did such an experiment: He randomly divided a group of children into two groups, A and B, and then told the teachers: Whether it is from the perspective of quality and will, or from the perspective of intelligence, From the perspective of specialties, the children in group A are better than those in group B.After receiving such hints, the teacher begins to teach the children.In fact, there is no difference in the knowledge taught by the teachers to the two groups of children, but after one semester, the performance of the students in group A is actually much better than that of the students in group B.Professor Martin has done similar experiments more than once, and the results are always the same.

Why?Very simple, early psychological hints from relatives, friends, and teachers really have a huge impact on children, so huge that they can affect a child's life.Professor Martin said: "90.00% of outstanding people with high moral character and wisdom must have received positive hints from relatives such as grandpa, grandma, father, and especially mother when they were very young." There is a fundamental conflict.

"A stable attitude towards reality and a habitual behavior pattern adapted to it" - this is the interpretation of the word "character" by psychologists.Personality determines life. Although this sentence is somewhat biased, it is very reasonable to a certain extent.

Quality, temperament, talent, ability, knowledge, etc. are all important standards for the world to measure talents, and the proportion of character and quality is even higher than knowledge and ability.

Many people say that people's personality comes from heredity, but in fact, surveys show that genetic factors do not have much influence on people's personality. It is the acquired environment, or the acquired living environment, that comes from the hints from people around and parents. It is the most critical factor in determining a person's character.

A child, especially a child aged 0-5, is like a blank sheet of paper. They don't understand anything, but they are full of strong curiosity about the outside world. Therefore, in order to satisfy this curiosity and thirst for knowledge, they They will give full play to their imitative nature and actively imitate those around them, especially their parents.Therefore, every move of the parents will form a reflection on the children.If the parents are rude, the child will be rude, and if the parents are refined, the child will be refined.Of course, this does not mean that parents must be talented if they want to cultivate talents. I just want to say that every parent who wants their children to become talents should set a good example for their children and give them some positive hints, such as, If you tell your child firmly and gently: "You must be strong and study hard", your child will be affected, become strong and study hard, and he will also be confident, firm and gentle like you.On the contrary, if you always say to your child: "You are an idiot! You are not as good as others!" Then your child will also be affected and become timid, cowardly, and inferior.

So, whether you have children or not, whether you have won the honor of being a parent or not, remember this sentence: Wrap your children with positive hints and let them grow up healthily in hints, this is the best way to cultivate talents.

Um?You said that you don't know how to pass on beneficial and positive hints to your children?You say you don't know how to be a role model?Well, as a person who has experienced it, I am happy to share my experience with you, and I hope it can be helpful to you.

First, you must not use negative cues.

Negative hints can directly corrode children's "health" and kill talents in the cradle.

Think about it, do you often hear such words: "My child is too stupid to compare with so-and-so" "If my child can be one tenth as smart and well-behaved as so-and-so, I will be content" "My child is timid".

Maybe the parents just said it casually, but what would the children think when such words were heard in the children's ears?Will the child think: So I am too stupid, I am not well-behaved, I am not smart, I am timid.Don't doubt, the children will definitely think so, and the more times they hear it, the more he thinks about it. Later, he will firmly believe that these words are true and that he is like this.Because in the eyes of children, the closest and most trusted parents will not lie.

Therefore, children unreservedly believe in the evaluations from their parents, and these evaluations become negative hints that affect the child's subconscious mind, and the subconscious mind believes in such "facts".Therefore, if the child changes in the direction he (she) "want", he (she) will really become stupid, timid and stubborn.

Second, the hint should be full of sincere love.

We all know that hints are divided into two categories, negative hints and positive hints, but this does not mean that hints are only divided into these two categories. In fact, there are many specific and detailed classifications of hints under the two categories. .For example, positive hints can also be divided into ordinary positive hints and positive hints full of love.Think about it, if two people said to you "you are excellent", but one of them said "you are excellent", but one of them was perfunctory and flat, and the other was sincere and full of love, who would you like more?Who would you be more inclined to trust?

For example, if a child is often praised, and this kind of praise is rational and frequent, and occasionally contains untrue content, over time, the child will become bored with this kind of praise, and even feel extremely uncomfortable. pressure.On the contrary, hints full of true love are always true, positive, without falsehood, and not mixed with utilitarianism. This kind of hint is like the mark branded in the heart and blood, and it will always produce long-term effects. Influence.

If the child's parents can always find some shining points in him (her), and praise it proudly, sincerely, and lovingly, it will be difficult for the child to become a talent over time.

Again, your hint should not make the child disgusted, but should make him (her) happy.

Growing children, especially those in adolescence, have a habitual rebellious psychology.They have a strong need for independence and respect for others. Therefore, at this time, when talking with your child, you cannot use a commanding tone, which will make him resent, resist, and bore him. Serious consequences, for example, if you ask your child to study hard, be honest and diligent, the child will fight against you under the psychological effect of "you make me like this, I don't want to be like this, I want to be like that", and thus become disgusted with learning , Lying impetuous.

Be gentle and firm, and make the child willing to listen to you. This is what you must do when you give hints.

In addition, in front of your children, try not to do or say inappropriate things.For example, you scolded the maid who made a mistake in front of the child.Maybe you think this is normal, but remember, your child will follow suit, and when he or she grows up, he or she will do the same, and even become irritable and selfish because of it.

Also, don't be impatient with your child. When he asks you some naive questions, don't wave your hand and say to him (her) "You are very annoying, you will know later", Then his (her) thirst for knowledge will be hit; you don't hit the child, even if he (she) is really not smart enough or good enough.What you have to do is to create a good environment, let him (her) believe that he (she) is improving every day, he (she) is getting better every day, and will get better and better.

Last but not least, don't scare your kids.Many people like to say to a child when he or she is crying, resisting, or being disobedient: "If you cry again, the monster will come, catch you, and eat you." Well, you succeeded, The child stopped crying, but you planted a seed of fear in his (her) heart. As the child grows, this seed will germinate, branch, grow leaves, bloom, and bear fruit. (She) became a timid, cowardly, inferior, and sensitive person.

All in all, hints really play a very important role in a child's growth process. If you want your child to be successful and healthy, then create a garden full of positive energy and positive hints for him (her) !
Section [-] Misunderstandings in the field of education

A piece of log, if you split it into firewood with an axe, it can only be burned in the boiler room; If you leave it where it is, it will slowly decay in the forest.

Our children are actually a piece of log. Whether they become wood carvings or firewood, whether they enter the colorful human society or rot silently in the forest, in fact, everything depends on education.

A child is very simple, he (she) will not paint himself, nor will he take himself away, he will carve himself, how his (her) life will develop, how his (her) intelligence is, how will he (her) How (her) character is, how his (her) character is, all depends on the education and suggestion received.

"Positive cues from relatives and friends are like the most magical magic of life, which can have an extraordinary positive effect on a child's growth; on the contrary, negative cues from relatives and friends are like the most vicious poison in the world. The beautiful life of the child will be killed." The above-mentioned views are correct and beneficial in my opinion, but obviously Mrs. Nice doesn't think so.

In her view, when God created each life, he had already divided these lives into different grades.Some people are born very smart, some people are born stupid, some people are born with good character and learning, and some people are born with bad qualities.In other words, she believes that all the shining points of human beings are innate and cannot be cultivated, including quality, character, intelligence, will, what they are born with, they are what they are, and cannot be changed.But I just hold the opposite view. I think it is acquired education that determines a person's quality, character, intelligence and talent.I don't think that Einstein was born with great wisdom, and I don't think that Napoleon was born with bravery and skill. No one is destined to become a great man. All acquired results only depend on acquired education, hard work and environment.

I can't remember how many times we argued about this topic, but what impressed me the most was the way she raised her children:

It was a summer afternoon, there was not a cloud in the sky, and the air was annoyingly hot.Mrs Lore Ness' youngest son, five, and his two friends went to play in the water in a nearby pond and soiled his clothes.When Mrs. Nice saw it, she was very angry. She pointed to Loll's forehead and cursed: "You stupid child, how many times have I told you, don't go out and play around, don't play by the water, don't jump up and down, Have you forgotten? Look at the good things you did, it’s okay if your clothes are dirty, what if you fall into the water?!"

Lore was obviously frightened by his mother. He looked at Mrs. Nice timidly, and whispered: "Mom, I'm sorry, I know I was wrong."

"What's the use of saying sorry?" Mrs. Nice's anger remained undiminished, "Can sorry make clothes clean? Can sorry make me not angry? Lore, I don't want to hear you say sorry, you say it too many times, I Very disappointed, why can't you be smarter and more obedient?"

Luo Er didn't speak, but the tears in his eyes betrayed him.

Indeed, this incident is very small and insignificant, but from this trivial incident, I saw how Mrs. Nice carves his child, and I also understand why Lore is so timid and a little stupid and selfish.Forgive me, I shouldn't use such serious words to describe a child, but that is indeed the truth.

Lol is very timid, he is afraid to see a rooster, he is unwilling to do anything that may put him in a disadvantaged situation, and he dare not try to do anything that is risky.I once asked Lore to bring me a glass that had been left in his yard, but he refused because he was afraid of breaking it.I couldn't understand it, but I later heard that Lol once broke a glass of milk and Mrs. Ness gave him a hard time.finally, I understand.

Mrs. Nice's way of educating her children is definitely not an exception.In fact, as far as I know, many people educate their children this way.But, besides deepening the fear in the child's heart and making the child more timid, what else can such reprimanding do?

A child makes a mistake, soils his clothes, breaks a milk cup, and is already afraid of being scolded by his parents. The sense of guilt will be infinitely magnified.He will think that he has committed an unforgivable crime, and he will be afraid of being punished, and such fear hints will eventually form an indelible shadow in the child's heart through accumulated fermentation, making him (she) timid, cowardly, self-abasement.Therefore, when a child makes a mistake, don't scold him (her) harshly, you just need to explain the matter to the child gently but seriously, and let him (her) pay more attention in the future.

You must know that people are born with a desire to control, whether they are adults or children, men or women, they will be swayed by this desire from the moment they are born.In other words, people are born independent and want absolute freedom. No one wants their will to be controlled, and no one wants to be dictated by others, even if the person who dictates is his (her) parents.

If parents tell their children, you are not allowed to do this, you cannot do that, if you want to do this, you must do something, such an imperative tone will make the child feel that he has been manipulated, that he cannot control his life, and he will instinctively hate and dislike.On the contrary, if parents can communicate with their children gently, instill in them the principles of life and teach them how to do things by discussing, telling stories, and reasoning, the children will be willing to do their best for their parents like a hospitable host. Service, because he (she) thinks the guest is friendly and kind enough.

Of course, I am not saying that you should always be kind to your children.Sometimes, especially when the child makes a mistake that crosses the bottom line, the parents still have to be strict, but obviously, from the beginning, you used gentle ways and positive hints to lead your child to the bright fast track. The chances of (she) getting into bad habits like drugs, alcohol, gambling, etc. are almost zero.

Having said that, I have to say one more thing. The most important way for children to receive education today is family education, and the other is school education. If parents and teachers can give him (her) active With the hint and correct guidance, there is no child who cannot become a talent.However, it is a pity that many parents and teachers do not understand the true meaning of "education". Under their education, too many children who could have become "wood carvings" have become "firewood". This is really not good news .

Section [-] Talent needs watering with love

The environment affects the future, the environment affects the character, and the environment affects the life, which I have already mentioned in the previous article.

A person in a humble environment, all the hints received by the brain are humble, and he will naturally grow into a humble person; a person in an elegant environment, all the hints received by the brain are elegant, and he will naturally become a humble person. will grow into a graceful person; a person in a confident environment, all the cues received by the brain are confident, and will naturally grow into a confident person; a person in a violent environment, the brain receives all the hints of confidence All hints of tyranny, will naturally grow into a tyrannical person...

The inductive and suggestive effect of the environment on people is too powerful, powerful enough to affect a person's life.

The famous French psychotherapist Hippolyte Bernheim said: "All stimuli from the environment are enzymes that act on the activities of the whole person."

What is the environment?Factors such as geography, society, race, and family can all be attributed to the category of environment.In other words, all external conditions surrounding human beings are the environment.People, things, scenery around, what people say, do, attitude towards others, etc., will be perceived through different senses, thus affecting people's psychology.The environment is a three-dimensional three-dimensional space, and everything in the space will have more or less hints and greater or less influences on the people in the space, and this influence is especially obvious on children.

For a child, especially a child who is still young and whose thinking and character have not yet been finalized, the influence from the external environment, especially the family environment will be very profound.If a child does not become a talent in the end, if a child goes astray, then it is impossible for his parents to shirk responsibility.You know, every child is like the whitest snowflake on the Alps when he is born, so pure and spotless, and this piece of white snow first fell into the hands of his parents, who first dyed him (her). color.If the background color is red, he (she) will naturally become bright; if the background color is gray or black, he (she) will naturally become dull, even if it is painted with a layer of fiery red again in the future, other Colors can also look weird.

A child is a mirror, and the mirror reflects all the thoughts, habits, and attitudes of the parents.If the parents behave well, what is reflected in the mirror is beauty; if the parents behave badly, what is reflected in the mirror is darkness and haze.

Speaking of this, I have to make a special statement, that is: the degree of education of parents is directly related to the degree of talent development of children. To put it bluntly, well-educated parents will pay more attention to family education and will be more happy. Create a good growth environment for children, and such an environment is very important for children's success.According to the survey, almost all outstanding geniuses grew up in a rich and interesting childhood environment. This fact is enough to explain many problems.

Of course, this is not to say that parents with low levels of education cannot raise excellent children. I just mean that parents with high levels of education in this regard will be more active, active, and more methodical.After all, education is the most complicated art in the world, and it requires certain knowledge as support.

When a child is born into this world, the first thing he meets is his parents. Before entering school, all his education comes from his family and his parents. Parents are the earliest mentors of the child. Parents have a profound and profound influence on the life of the child. ,huge.

It is often said that what kind of family will create what kind of children, this sentence is very reasonable, it directly clarifies the role of the family environment in the growth of children.

Well, having said so much, I just want to express one meaning, that is: the first step in talent cultivation is to create a good family environment for him (her).

So, what kind of environment can be called a good home environment?
There is no definite answer to this question, but in general there is still an approximate standard.

We all know that there are two types of environmental cues, one is materialized environmental cues, that is to say the externally visible environment, such as blue sky and white clouds, such as flowers, wind chimes, beautiful decorations, etc.; the other is psychological environmental cues, which refer to It is an atmosphere, for example, rough, warm, strict, free and so on.Correspondingly, a good family environment is also divided into two types, one refers to the layout of the room, the layout of the house, the environment of the house, etc., while the other refers to the family atmosphere and the relationship between family members.Both are indispensable.

In my own case, I started to arrange little Seid's little world for him when he was still in the womb of my wife.I filled his small room with all kinds of books; I spread a light tablecloth on the small desk prepared for him, and put a freshly picked flower; I painted the walls of his bedroom bright sky blue; I hung his cradle full of rich and interesting graphic toys of various shapes.

After little Seid was born, the decoration of his room was constantly changing. I took great pains to create a colorful, graphic and lively growth world for him; of course, after he grew up a little, my workload suddenly increased. Increase, because it is not only his house that needs me to "modify", the living room, bathroom, garden, study room, etc. all need my attention.

What?You say this is enough?No, not even close.

After all, the impact of materialized environment hints on children is not the most critical, the most critical is the psychological environment, in other words, the family atmosphere and precepts and deeds.

A family, its atmosphere is very important to the influence of children's psychological quality.If the family members respect and love each other, have sincere feelings, are intimate and friendly, and the family atmosphere is warm and happy, then the children will become friendly, gentle, and honest under subtle influence; on the contrary, if the family members are indifferent, hostile to each other, There is a deep estrangement, and the family atmosphere is dark and depressing. After a long time, the child will become selfish, indifferent, cowardly, and humble.

"The duty of man is to turn the world into a paradise." The famous French Enlightenment thinker Denis Diderot once said this.I don't have such great integrity, and I don't have such great ability to change the world, but at least I can turn his world into a paradise for my little Seid, and all parents can also change his (her) children's world. Into a paradise.

Don't get me wrong, the paradise here does not refer to unprincipled pampering and indulgence, but an atmosphere, a palace, a joyful and loving atmosphere, a palace that can truly allow talents to grow.Parental love, democracy and freedom, and a harmonious family environment will undoubtedly give children a sense of belonging and happiness. Children staying at home can relieve stress, let go of restraints, and gain spiritual security; If there are still quarrels, and the neighbor relationship is stiff, then the child will subconsciously fear and avoid, unwilling to return to this home, and even resent and hate, so that he exiles himself, is willing to degenerate, acquires bad habits, and even embarks on the road of crime , ruin your own life.

So, parents must pay attention, you can quarrel, but don't quarrel in front of your children; you can be rude, but please be graceful in front of your children; you can be humble, but please let your children see your tallness; you can be timid , but don't let your children see your timidity; you can complain about the whole world, but please don't let your children feel that the world is gloomy; you can be angry, sad, depressed, you can drink, smoke, and curse, but still In other words, don't let your kids see it!

"Barbarism breeds brutality, and benevolence breeds benevolence. This is the truth. Treat children without sympathy, and they will become sympathetic. Treating them with friendship is the best way to cultivate their friendship." Herbert, a famous British educator Spencer told us so.

Perhaps adults still have a certain ability to resist negative cues from the environment, but children cannot.A child is like a piece of white paper that can be painted on. Whatever color you give him (her), he (she) must accept the color. Therefore, don’t always blame the child for not becoming a talent. First of all, you have to reflect on whether you have Create a condition for him (her) to become a talent.

Remember, talents need to be watered by love!There is no doubt about this sentence!

Section [-] The Best Way to Stimulate Your Potential

There is a male lion sleeping in everyone's body. This male lion is usually dormant and dormant, but once we wake it up with a special method, it will roar and burst into incredible Strength, to help us achieve success, happiness, health, joy, whatever we want.

What is this lion?Yes, we all know it, the subconscious mind!The power of the subconscious mind is magical and great. As long as we really master the method of using it and manipulating it, the unlimited potential will naturally make our wishes come true.

So, how to stimulate the potential?How to awaken the subconscious lion?It's very simple, the best way is - start from the doll!

don't know?Well, let's put it another way - it's easier to develop your potential when you're young, and the potential you discover is even more powerful!
As we all know, because of immature minds and relatively weak strength, children are the group most susceptible to suggestion.In other words, during this period, the "potential" treasure hidden in the human body is the easiest to be tapped.As long as parents and teachers can give the child enough positive, positive, and sufficient hints when he or she is still ignorant, the child's talent and potential can be better discovered, and the child's future will be brighter.

However, things in this world are usually easier said than done.It is not easy to stimulate children's potential and let them thrive in the direction of "talent".At the very least, educators must do the following three things:

First of all, respect children.

From the moment a child is born, he (she) has his own identity in the world. Besides being a child of parents and a student of teachers, he (she) is an independent individual and an independent person.There is no one who does not want to be respected, and children are no exception.A person who has not been respected by others cannot respect others; a person who has not been respected does not know how to respect others.

When Herbert Spencer educated his adopted son Spencer Jr., the most important thing he paid attention to was respect for Spencer Jr.He never made decisions for Spencer Jr., and he never ordered Spencer Jr. to do anything. He generously gave Spencer Jr. the right to choose.

When little Spencer was ten years old, something happened in the small town of Derby, where they lived, that made all the children feel frustrated. That is, the library in the small town closed down due to lack of funds and poor management.Little Spencer was also very distressed.One day, by chance, he found that the underground warehouse at home was full of books, which were enough to open another library, so he found his father Herbert.

Herbert told Spencer Jr. that the town council would have to approve a new library, and that if he insisted on doing so, the father would support it.Yes, Herbert gave the choice to Spencer Jr. He didn't make the decision for the child.Later, Spencer Jr. decided to open a new library, and Herbert also gave him enough support, such as helping him find a venue, help him organize books, and help him arrange the library.

Of course, not every child can have this kind of experience, but the child will always have similar hopes or prayers, for example, he wants to have his own room, and wants to change his desk to green, which symbolizes life.Regardless of whether the child's request is reasonable or not, the child's request is actually a tactful declaration of his (her) rights as an independent person, and he (she) hopes to be respected.

But what is the reality?Although many parents and educators know the importance of respecting children, knowing that respecting children can enhance his (her) self-esteem and self-confidence, and knowing that respecting children is conducive to the cultivation of a healthy personality, they still cannot do it.

They help children enroll in various classes, they help children decide on clothes, hairstyles, friends... everything seems to be taken for granted, but they ignore one thing, they never Asked children: "What do you want?" "What do you like?" "Would you like to go to school? What class do you want to go to?" "What clothes do you want to wear? What hairstyle do you want?" Who do you want to be friends with?"

Don't deny that, in fact, most parents do this, and such behavior is precisely disrespect for children.Perhaps, many people think that choosing and arranging everything for the child is helping him (her) and is good for him (her). However, have parents ever thought that children must live and grow independently after all? , when he (she) leaves the arms of his parents, he (she) needs to face all kinds of social pressure by himself, he (she) needs to choose and arrange by himself, but he (she) will not choose or arrange because he has never tried What should he (she) do?
We don't give children the opportunity to do it, don't give them the right to choose, but mercilessly reprimand them when they can't do it or don't know how to choose. How unfair it is to children.

Therefore, put away your excessive doting, and also put away the mentality of "big parents", give children enough respect, give children enough independent space, let children grow up relatively freely, this is really good for children's growth important.

In addition, there is one thing I have to remind: children and children are different.Every child's personality is unique.The ruler is shorter and the inch is longer, so don't always compare your own children with other children's children, especially don't compare your children's shortcomings with other children's advantages, let alone because you are "comparing" Inexplicably belittling and blaming the child for defeat.There is no template for success, and success cannot be replicated. You must understand this.

Second, never forget to praise and encourage your child.

William James said: "The deepest longing in the depths of human nature is the longing for the admiration of others."

Everyone needs praise, even kids.The greatest success in education is not educating a child to be a profound scholar, but stimulating the infinite potential of the child through praise and encouragement, so that the child can become a unique, healthy, excellent and successful person.

So go praise, it is human nature to like to be praised.Praise your friends, your friendship will be stronger; praise your lover, your relationship will be more intense; praise your leaders and subordinates, your relationship will be more harmonious; praise your students, your students will become talents, will be even better.

Believe me, the power of praise is magical and endless.

Just learn from old Bute, he never spared any encouragement and praise to Little Bute.

He always said, "Bout, you can sing really well." Yes, little Bute was the best singing kid in the choir.

He always said: "Bout, you have improved again, it's great!" In fact, little Bout only got an extra point in the math test, and his math score was still at the bottom of the class.

He always said, "Boot, honey, you're my pride, you're so different. Your dragonflies are so realistic." Well, little Butt did pretty well, But it has nothing to do with realism.However, the praise from his father obviously made Bout Jr. recognize his talent, and his paintings became more and more vivid in the following days, and finally, he became a famous painter.

"Praise is the sunshine that shines on our hearts. Without it, our hearts cannot grow." Shakespeare once said.However, it is obvious that many parents do not understand such an easy-to-understand truth.They regard themselves as the kings of their children, and they are complacent about being able to control their children's lives. They never know how to respect and praise their children.This is really not good news.These parents should really learn from Old Boot and try to discover the shining points in their children. It is not difficult, as long as you are willing to do it.And if you do, the rewards you get will definitely surprise you.

Again, in addition to respect and praise, we also need to teach children positive self-suggestion.

Marc Aurelius said: "A man's life is what he wants to be."

If a child thinks he or she is stupid, he or she will become stupid because that is what he or she wants to be; if a child always tells himself "I have a bad memory", then he or she ( Her) memory will become worse and worse; if a child often blames himself "I am too sloppy", then he (she) will become more and more sloppy.

Because, this is the power of suggestion!
"One of our greatest discoveries is that by changing our minds we can change our lives," said William James.Positive hints can stimulate positive energy, and positive hints can stimulate the unlimited potential of the human body. I have said this many times.Therefore, parents who want their children to become talents, don't hesitate to teach their children to have positive self-suggestion, which is very important for his (her) growth.

Tell the children to keep saying to themselves: "I can do it! I can do it!"

Tell your child to keep saying to yourself, "I'm brave! I'm very brave!"

Tell your child to keep saying to yourself, "I'm smart! I'm very smart!"

Tell your child to keep saying to yourself, "I'm capable! I'm very capable!"

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That's it, keep going, you will find that he (she) is changing and getting better and better!

(End of this chapter)