Psychological Suggestion: Awaken Your Best Self

Chapter 8
The first section sticks to the inner city wall

Every person's body is a kingdom, and there is a palace in the depths of every kingdom. There are two kings living in the palace. They control all the power of the kingdom. As long as they are captured, the kingdom will fall. Our life It will also lose color and sunshine from now on.

In fact, from the moment we were born, countless "invaders" have led the "tiger and wolf army" to the city. However, fortunately, we also have our own patron saint, that is, the tall, tall warriors surrounding the palace. Strong and thick walls.

This circle of city walls is not made of blue bricks, nor is it made of stones, but is poured with all positive will, character, and beliefs.No one can easily surpass it, and no siege machine can easily cause damage to it, except of course, except for external negative hints.

You can think that this is just my wishful thinking and unrealistic arbitrariness. I will not argue, because facts always speak louder than words.

Let's take a look at the "bombs" thrown by these "aggressors":

"You are an idiot!"

"You are doomed to accomplish nothing!"

"You can't do it!"

"you are wrong."

"You are a complete loser and will never succeed in this life."

"It doesn't matter how powerful you are, it doesn't matter, you have no background, no connections, you still can't accomplish anything."

"When you are old, the world no longer belongs to you, but to young people."

"Economic crisis, can you not be affected?"

"No matter how much you do, no one cares what you do."

"What are you trying to do? Others can obliterate all your hard work with a word, so don't waste your efforts."

"You are ill, very ill."

"Your life has always been full of trials and tribulations."

"You are so naive, so naive as to be stupid, don't trust anyone, or you will be bloodied."

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There are many more "bombs" like this, and they "bomb" the walls of our hearts in various ways, either gentle, violent, direct, secretive, or weird, once we are "bombed", once We firmly believe that we have been "injured", and a gap will appear in the inner city wall, and the "enemy" will swarm in like a tide, completely occupying our territory, driving out all the positive, beautiful, and positive things in our heart, leaving All over the place.The Frank I will mention below is a "captive" whose palace has been occupied:
Frank was born in New York State of the United States. His father was a big businessman with billions of dollars and a shrewd ability. But Frank didn't seem to have inherited his father's shrewdness. Very upset and disappointed. "You fool!" "How could I have such a stupid son as you?" "You are hopelessly stupid" are his father's catchphrase and Frank's childhood accompaniment. Grow slowly.After a long time, even Frank himself felt that he was really stupid, that he was a fool, that he couldn't do anything well, so he stopped doing it, and even if he did, he would make a mess of things.

As an adult, Frank played his "stupid" as always.Although he entered his father's company and took over part of the business, his ability was really bad. He didn't understand all kinds of calculations and intrigues in the mall, and he lost money after operating several orders. Rumors immediately spread in the company: , Boss has no successor" "If he is not the son of Boss, how could he take the position of manager" "Bastard, why is he so stupid, such a simple trap can't be found".

Frank couldn't bear these rumors, and he believed that he was a fool, a fool, anything would be very bad in his hands, and that his life was doomed to failure and impossible to succeed.As a result, he became decadent, depressed, alcoholic, and eventually even addicted to drugs.Many years later, a beggar was found frozen to death on the streets of New York, and his name was John Frank.

Frank fell, his life was miserable, it was no accident, the "captive" never ended well.

Now, do you still doubt the power of negative suggestion?Now can you still say lightly that you don't care?

Oh, of course, although the "aggressor" is terrible, it is not omnipotent. On the contrary, the initiative of the "war" is actually in our own hands from the very beginning. Whether it is victory or defeat, the "aggressor" does not count , what we say is what we say.

Negative hints from outsiders are scary and frightening, and fragile and fragile.Scary because it can lead you to destroy your own life with your own hands; fragile because its "attack" method is very single, as long as you refuse to believe it, refuse to accept it, even if it is really powerful and powerful, It can't do you any harm either.

Deman is my friend and a well-known wise man in Nancy. He is cheerful, enthusiastic, and wise. He can live an extremely happy and wonderful life every day. Many people come here especially to ask him the secret of happiness and success. Jie Jason is one of them, and even, in order to "learn the scriptures", Jason lived in Deman's home.

On the first day, it was a sunny day. In the morning, Deman opened the door, looked at the sky, and smiled: "What a beautiful day!"

The next day, it was a rainy day. In the morning, Deman opened the door, looked at the sky, and smiled: "What a romantic day!"

On the third day, it was a cloudy day. In the morning, Deman opened the door, looked at the sky, and smiled: "What a cool day!"

On the fourth day, Jason left because he had found what he was looking for, and he understood the secret of Mr. Deman's success and happiness - to stick to his inner walls, not to be affected by any negative external cues, to let Constructive positive cues occupy your heart.

Yes, it is that simple.If you win the inner battle, happiness, happiness, health, success, and all the good things you want will come one after another.

The ancients said: "One thought of heaven, one thought of hell", this sentence is perfectly applicable to the "battlefield" in our hearts.Positive hints lead us into heaven, and negative hints lead us to hell. Whether we are forged or destroyed, these are all in our mind.

Please remember this point!
Section [-] "The Tree of Progress" cannot have "worms"

An authoritative investigation agency once conducted such a survey: Randomly searched for a hundred passers-by on the streets of Paris, and then asked them the same three questions: Are you eager to succeed?have you made it?Why?
For the first question, 90.00% of the people gave an affirmative answer, and only one lady expressed hesitation and did not give a definite answer.

For the second question, 90.00% of the four people gave a negative answer.This proportion surprised investigators.

For the third question, [-]% of the people gave the answer. The reasons are varied and reasonable, and many of the answers are unbelievable.After the investigation, an investigator said that he never knew that there were so many reasons in the world, and he was sincerely dissatisfied with his lack of imagination.

Afterwards, the survey agency conducted a comprehensive and systematic analysis of the survey results, and then came to the conclusion: the vast majority of people are eager to succeed, but very few people can really embrace success. There are many reasons for success, but not There are more reasons for success, and the difference between the two is almost a hundred times.

Such a conclusion, at first glance, may not be rigorous and authoritative, but it is indeed reasonable, true, and universal.

In daily life, there are indeed many people who yearn for success, happiness, health, and happiness. Even, it can be said that there are few people in this world who do not yearn for these beautiful things.However, longing is longing, and there are very few people who can really turn their longing into reality through hard work.

Are our desires too unrealistic?Is our ability too bad?Is our society too ruthless?Or is God being too unfair to us?

No, neither!

There is only one reason, that is, in the forest of our hearts, the tree named "Aggression" is sick and full of insects!

Where are the bugs you ask?Where do the bugs come from, you ask?Look at it, listen to it, you, me, him, all of us, all unsuccessful people find reasons for their own failures, they are all bugs!

This kind of bug is invisible, intangible, and even brings us double "pleasure" physically and mentally.It gives us a reason not to work hard, an excuse not to move forward, it makes failure a matter of course, and it makes non-progress impeccable.It is so tempting, like an apple filled with poison, exuding a deadly sweetness, so many people can't help but want to take a bite!
Do not believe?Okay, so now ask yourself, do you have "worms" in your heart?Is the "Tree of Progress" in your heart still growing?

Don't give an answer right away, you need to think about it.If you don't have an answer yet, then answer the three questions at the beginning of this article. After answering, you will find your own answer.

I don't know what your answer is, and I don't need to know, it doesn't matter whether there are worms on the tree of progress in your heart, I just need to tell you, and please remember one sentence, that is - success The fruit of success only grows on the tree of progress, and when the tree dies, success is gone.

Don't accuse me of being too arbitrary, because what I said is the truth; don't worry about "worms", because each of us has "pesticides"; The worms on the tree of love are everywhere. If you are not careful, they will burrow into your heart and eat the roots of the tree.

What?You said you still have "moth phobia"?Well, I really can't help you, let's talk about the trick of "killing insects" now.

First, let's talk about the origin of "bugs".The so-called cure the disease and eliminate the root cause, and prescribe the right medicine. If you want to kill insects and cure diseases, the first step is naturally to know where the lesion is, where the insects come from, and how they are produced.

We have mentioned before that suggestion is the source of power, and belief is the source of suggestion. Our every word, deed, every action, every thought, every behavior actually comes from belief, and it is belief that passes through the subconscious Mapping made in reality.

In this way, "killing insects" is easy, right? "Bugs" originate from inappropriate beliefs in our hearts, so when these inappropriate and negative beliefs are eradicated, "bugs" will naturally be killed in the cradle.

God!You said you still can't "kill"? OK, I will teach you step by step.

Now, ask yourself, why do you think you won't be successful?Why do you say you can't do it?
What is the basis for your judgment?Is the truth?Is it an assumption?Is it a fantasy?Or is it a conclusion that you think is correct but is actually wrong?
Answered?

good!Next, ask yourself four more questions: Is the belief that you are unsuccessful and unable to do this reasonable?Are you really right to hold on to this belief blindly?If someone was in the same situation as you, would you judge him with the same beliefs?If all your beliefs are based on assumptions and speculations, why and on what basis do you think it must be true?
Answer yourself!Yes, not answer my question, but answer your heart, answer yourself!

Now that you have the answer, let’s talk about your feelings and discoveries.

what have you found?Do you find yourself a naive fool?Find yourself lying to yourself often?Do you find yourself overly insecure?Did you find that your original firm belief was shaken?Do you find that the "truth" based on assumptions is too much in your life?Did you discover that what you believed in in the past was actually a mistake?Are you angry?
What are you doing?Curb your anger!No!Come on, there is nothing wrong with being angry.

Anger is certainly a form of venting, but at the same time, it is also the most effective "pesticide" in the world. Do you want to kill the bugs on the tree of progress?think?So, get angry!

Clarence Darrow was once a "problem" youth before he became famous. His mediocrity and failure made everyone look down on him. One thing happened that changed him completely.

That year, in order to buy a house of his own, the young Darrow came to a friend's house with the cheek to borrow two thousand dollars from the friend.Two thousand U.S. dollars was not a small amount at the time, but it was not difficult for a friend with a small family to get it out. The friend readily agreed to borrow the money, but the friend's wife was not happy. She pointed to Darrow, without hesitation, began to complain about his husband: "Honey, are you crazy? You want to lend him money? A guy who has achieved nothing? Are you going to let our money go to waste? He can't spend his life Return the money to you!"

The woman's words were very harsh, so harsh that Darrow couldn't accept it. Although he also admitted that he had accomplished nothing and knew that he was not successful, he was still angry, extremely angry, and this kind of anger seemed to burn him chest.He was angry with women, and he was even more angry with himself.At that moment, he felt that something was growing in his heart, and another thing was annihilating in his heart. At that moment, he decided that he must succeed and be a successful person.

As it turns out, he did.Years later, he became a well-known barrister in the United States and was highly respected.

When asked about the secret of success, Darrow always likes to tell others the story of borrowing money, and then he said: "I didn't understand until now that what was born in my heart on that day was the belief in progress and success. What is annihilated is the negative thoughts that hinder success. On that day, I believed in myself, on that day, I finally understood my heart, I wanted to succeed, so, I succeeded.”

Yes, Darrow succeeded, and it was his anger that made him convert, that made him succeed.

Section [-] Dispel the haze of thinking

If someone told you that all cats are like cats and that tigers are cats, what conclusions would you draw?
Tigers are like cats!Yes, that's it.

If someone told you that no one who has failed can succeed and that you have failed, what conclusion would you draw?
You can't make it!indeed so!

How do you feel when you see such an inference?Do you believe?Would you like to believe it?Do you admit that the inference is true?
You don't admit it?Great, that's it!

Never be superstitious about the so-called authority!In fact, although the syllogism is a relatively common reasoning method in academia, the conclusions drawn from the syllogism are not labeled correctly, and it is sometimes astonishingly absurd.

Thinking requires rationality, and we also need rationality when making the most basic judgments. If a conclusion is neither logical nor reasonable, why should we believe it is correct?

One day, a senior executive of a company consulted a management scientist: "Our company has encountered the biggest management problem in history. How difficult.The management scientist listened quietly, and then asked: "Who is responsible for solving this difficult problem now?" The executive was stunned: "No one is responsible." : "I've said it all, the problem can't be solved!"

Well, look at the logic of this executive, no one was sent to solve it, so why can't it be solved?
In the court, a judge counted the numerous crimes of the defendant: "On a certain day, month, year, kill someone; on a certain day, month, year, rob someone, how much money was stolen..." Finally, the judge came to a conclusion: " This criminal is heinous and has violated Article XX, Article XX of the Criminal Law... He is punished for several crimes and sentenced to death, which will be executed immediately."

In the courtroom, an observer reporter questioned: "Mr. Judge, do you have any evidence of the defendant's crime?"

The judge shook his head: "There is no need for evidence to convict such a heinous criminal!"

The reporter felt absurd: "There is no evidence, so why do you believe that the defendant is extremely vicious?"

yes!How ridiculous and absurd such a judgment is, you must be laughing at the judge's arbitrariness, stupidity and unreasonableness, right?But, do you know that there are many people in this world who behave like this judge, but what they judge is not the lives of others, but their own lives.

I failed once, so I can't possibly succeed again, even if I never try again.

I don't have money, I don't have the ability to make money, so I'm doomed to be poor all my life, even though I never try to make money.

I'm not musical, so the songs I sing must be terrible, even if I haven't sung them once.

This is how many people think logically, and this is how many people determine "facts"!

Ask yourself, are you the same?Is harmful, incorrect, absurd logical thinking also dominating your life?

If so, get rid of it quickly, and then change to a new, reasonable, positive and logical way of thinking.Believe me, it's not too late to change.

Everyone's heart, at the beginning, is a barren land. What kind of plants will grow on the land, whether it is green trees, flowers, food, thorns, or weeds, these are not what the land can grow. decided.The land is only the breeder, but we are the real deciders, because we sow all the seeds on the land.

My friend Allen failed in his investment, and his girlfriend left him. He was very distressed. He said to me: "I failed, my situation is terrible, I know I can't rise again, I don't know I How will I live in the future."

I told him, "Your real problem is not that you are in a bad situation, but that you have planted a weed seed of failure inside yourself by accepting the 'fact' that you will always fail. What you have to do now, Nothing else, but to dig out the weed seeds, and then plant a flower seed that represents beauty, health, and positivity, and you have to establish a new concept and thinking in your heart and let your subconscious believe it."

Allen followed my advice, redrawing another beautiful picture in his heart, constructing another "fact" for himself, and planting a flower seed.He told himself: "My subconscious mind has infinite wisdom, and it can help me dispel all the haze in my life. My body is healthy, my love is perfect, I have happiness, peace and wealth, and I can feel my happiness. The subconscious mind is at work."

Every day, Allen told himself this three times, and his life changed, becoming better, more relaxed, and more positive.

Of course, although Allen's example is not an exception, it is not suitable for everyone.Sometimes, the changes in our hearts can’t bring about obvious changes in our lives in a short period of time. However, it takes time for a seed to take root, germinate, bloom and bear fruit. We can’t expect the seeds just planted Immediately there will be abundant fruit.

So, don’t be eager for quick success, don’t be depressed because you haven’t harvested yet, remember, as long as you dispel the haze in your thinking, as long as you sow flower seeds, then you will eventually have a miracle garden of your own. Doubt.

Don't you understand by now?Don't be dazed, immediately, immediately, expel all the haze in your heart, and replace it with blue sky, white clouds and bright sunshine.

Remember, all good, happy, harmonious, healthy, positive thoughts and beliefs can be turned into the brightest and warmest sunshine, illuminating your inner world; all good, happy, harmonious, Healthy, positive thinking and beliefs are the best seeds, as long as you plant them, you will reap blooming flowers and green trees!
Section [-] Shut up the "nagging ghost" in my heart

Have you ever seen a nagging ghost?Have you ever been "harassed" by a nagging ghost?How do you deal with the chatter of a nagging ghost?

Punch it and make it quiet?Shout out loud and make it shut up?Plug in your headphones and ignore it?Helpless to listen, resigned?

People are different, and everyone's way of dealing with "nagging ghosts" is also very different, but no matter what method we adopt, what attitude we have to deal with, there is one thing in common, that is, there is no Who really likes a nag always around.

As close as a mother, as close as a lover, frequent nagging will be annoying, let alone a nagging ghost who has never met.

In our daily work and life, we will more or less come into contact with such people. They like to express, like to judge others, like to talk endlessly, and like to bombard others with words. Maybe they are very suitable to be speakers, maybe , they can be fully qualified for the role of salesmen, perhaps their eloquence is indeed an advantage at certain times, but it is too much, too much, too much, and they have developed into "nagging ghosts" and "nagging ghosts". Your Majesty", that would be annoying.

There is an old saying in Eastern China: "If you can't provoke them, you can hide them." When facing nagging ghosts in reality, many people choose to stay at a respectful distance, out of sight, out of mind, and ears out of hearing.However, the nagging ghosts in reality are easy to hide, but the nagging ghosts in our own hearts cannot be avoided no matter what.

That's right, you read that right, it's the nagging ghost in your heart!

I didn't want to say it at first, but after thinking about it, I think we should tell everyone this cruel fact in an honest and frank manner.

Yes, what I'm going to tell you is this - inside of each of us there is a nagging ghost who babbles in our consciousness all the time, commenting on everything in our lives, and, It never had a good word to say.In its eyes we have nothing, no strengths, only weaknesses.Its greatest joy is to beat and belittle us, to let us destroy ourselves!No matter how good and perfect we do, it can pick out a bunch of faults to blame us, make us despair, let us down, let us be hit hard, and finally let us sink!Don't doubt its "professional level" and "maliciousness", it can really do it!
Consider your own experience:
When you were in middle school, you got an A in a math test. You were very happy, but a voice suddenly sounded in your heart: "Do you think you have a good grade? Don't be naive, you just got an A. There are twenty students in your class. Ten A's, and two A+'s, you're nowhere near that."

When you were in college, you fell in love with a cheerful girl, confessed for the first time, you succeeded, and you were ecstatic, at this moment, the inner voice sounded again: "Cut, fool, you two have no results, she just Playing with you. Her father is a member of parliament, her mother is an entrepreneur, and she is a princess. And you have no money, no status, no background, no ability, you are a poor boy through and through, and the princess will not marry You poor boy, give up!"

After graduating, you find a good job, your boss appreciates you, you boldly propose a highly creative proposal to him, you are very satisfied, but the voice in your heart starts to clamor again: " Do you think your suggestions are novel and pertinent? Don’t be stupid, your suggestions are a bunch of nonsense in the eyes of others!"

Do you find that voice annoying?Do you think there is some truth to what the voice said?Are you afraid of that voice?Are you tired of that voice?Ever wondered where the hell that sound was coming from?

What?Did you guess it?Yes, I have to admit, you are very smart, yes, this helpless voice is made by your inner nagging ghost.Believe me, it doesn't want you to have a good time, as long as happiness, health, happiness, success and other good things get close to you, it will do everything possible to drive them away!

Perhaps, you will say, the nagging ghost's criticism is also very reasonable sometimes, yes, yes, this annoying nagging guy will occasionally say a few harsh words of advice, but that does not change its essence.Appropriate nitpicking and criticism can indeed make people progress, and humility is indeed a virtue. However, if everything is too much, too much nagging, too much criticism, and too much pickiness, it can only bring disaster to people.And the nagging ghost in your heart obviously doesn't understand what is "passed", let alone what is enough. Destroying your original healthy and positive self-image and eroding your soul have always been its favorite things to do.Its nagging words are like viruses, spreading crazily in your heart, and over time, it will be fatal.

So, no matter when and where you are, no matter your own situation is good or bad, no matter you are strong or weak, no matter you are honorable or ordinary, just remember one thing and shut up your inner nagging ghost immediately .

(End of this chapter)