learn psychology everyday

Chapter 1 Preface
Many people think that psychology is very mysterious, and even understand psychology as a kind of witchcraft. Just like a fortune teller, when a person stands in front of a psychologist, he should know what the person standing in front of him is thinking. what is it.This is obviously a misunderstanding of psychology, and it is the result of deifying psychology.

Some people say: "People who study psychology can see through other people's minds and know what they are thinking, which is amazing!" This kind of statement is to deify psychology. It is also possible to do it after contacting or communicating with people for a period of time.In fact, psychology is a science that studies the laws of human mental activities.Psychologists are only observing, researching or thinking about the psychological process of people indirectly, what is the difference between people and why there are such and such differences in accordance with scientific methods as much as possible, that is, human personality or individuality. Including needs and motivation, ability, temperament, personality and self-awareness, etc., so as to obtain general laws applicable to human beings, and then use these laws to better serve human production and practice.The essence of psychology is materialistic, which confirms its scientific nature. It is not mysterious. After the development of the material world to a certain extent, it is a different kind of exploration derived from people wanting to explore themselves, a great exploration, An exploration of what makes a human being.For us personally, we don't need to ask ourselves to be a professional psychology expert, but we should understand some psychological knowledge, understand ourselves and the people and things we have encountered or will encounter.Because modern society is complex and ever-changing, everyone is communicating and interacting with others all the time.In this turbulent sea of ​​life, to bypass the turbulent undercurrents and intricate reefs, to find a compass for the course of life, learn more psychology, and have the ability to understand other people's psychological changes and trends. The most important thing is that it can keep your life direction from being biased and get rid of the confusion of not knowing what to do; it enables you to have the ability to recognize the environment and distinguish others, so that everyone can calmly let their hearts rest in the heart of life when the situation changes suddenly. harbor.

Psychology is the most widely involved topic in modern life. No matter the basic necessities of life, life in the family, or interpersonal relationship at work, psychology is inseparable and requires a little understanding of psychology.This book will vividly and interestingly introduce the most common psychological phenomena in life from ten aspects.

The first is to get rid of the troubles of bad emotions.In life, there are always some dissatisfaction such as discomfort, pain and setbacks, and it is these dissatisfaction that affect our mood, restrain our emotions, and deprive us of happiness.Therefore, letting bad emotions vent, will avoid many psychological and physical diseases.

Second, how to be a popular "fox" in social interaction.To learn to communicate with people of different personalities, use different ways of communication, and be a "fox" who is popular everywhere, you need to actively understand some psychological knowledge of communication, skillfully use various effects, and impress others. Have a good impression, and at the same time help yourself overcome the negative effects of various effects in interpersonal communication.

Third, marriage and love are eternal topics for human beings.Getting along with lovers and couples is also the most complicated issue.If you want to have a romantic and happy love and marriage, you need to understand some psychology of marriage and love, so that you can grasp your own happiness and read the "difficult scriptures" as "happy scriptures".

Fourth, how to make yourself a good running antelope in the workplace.The workplace is like a battlefield, which is related to people's survival and the realization of self-worth.From the moment I first entered the workplace, the role of life has changed. In the new stage of life, in order to make myself the leader of life, understand various problems in the workplace, and understand the deep-seated psychological factors of the problems. important.

Fifth, success or failure is like an invisible hand, manipulating our thoughts and actions.What kind of mentality you hold determines what kind of destiny you have and what kind of life you have.People's hearts are really mysterious, some ideas will lead people to success, and some bad shadows will make us farther and farther away from success.

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In this era of increasingly fierce competition, all those who are committed to building a career, all those who are committed to expanding their network, all those who are committed to the pursuit of happiness, and all those who seek success in the workplace, can take the lead by learning and mastering relevant psychological knowledge , be invincible and become a strong man in life.

"A thousand miles begins with a single step".Let us start from reading this book, train ourselves to understand and learn psychology, and become a person who can make a difference!
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