The growth of a sweet wife

Chapter 70

Of course, I didn't intend to run away from home because of this matter.

Until one day, my brother had a fight with Lin Su.

Chen Yun never took me back, and I didn't want to go back. I wanted the divorce agreement from my brother. My brother was afraid that my impulsiveness would cause eternal hatred, so he detained it, and even said to me: "You have to If you want a divorce, go to him yourself, I won’t be the messenger, and there will be no people inside and outside.” I had no choice but to stop talking about the divorce for now, Concubine Han called me several times, apologizing and blaming myself Yes, I repeatedly emphasized that Chen Yun didn't mean that, but I just said: "Even if there were no such things, our conflicts would be stimulated." I can't tolerate the fact that he pretends to be a sunny day.

Brother has nothing to say to her little nephew, the newborn group often buys this and that for Kexin, wishing that the first thing Kexin said was "Uncle".When I came back with Kexin, he even bought a crib. When Kexin cried so much, even I didn’t bother to coax her, he would swing around in the living room with Kexin in his arms to coax her.

I think if Lin Su is pregnant, my brother will be very happy. My brother is almost thirty and he should have a child, but maybe it is because of the child that they have conflicts.

Lin Su's marriage leave is over, and the bureau wants her to go back to work.

My brother is strongly against it. She thinks that the police job is really not a good job for a woman, especially for a married woman. She hopes that she can be at home.

And Lin Su is definitely a strong woman who pursues herself, otherwise she would not have such a high position at a young age, and she is also very good in her career. She can grow her hair long for my brother, but not Means she can give up her career for marriage.

My brother is a first-class big man. He thinks that if he doesn't have the ability to support his wife and children, he can let his wife go to work, but he has this ability, and at present he needs a child and wants to have a child. If Lin Su's job is just sitting in an office and doing clerical work, and it doesn't affect having children, it's understandable that he can tolerate it for the sake of love, but Lin Su's job is very likely to be a knife and a gun, very likely There will be dangers, as a man, he can't let his woman have the slightest chance of being hurt.

So they had a serious discussion about whether to go back to work.

"There's nothing wrong with me being a woman, but that doesn't mean I can't have my own job, my career and my dreams?"

"I didn't ask you to give up your career and dreams, but I think you already have a family and shouldn't be engaged in such a dangerous job."

"The police is a great and noble job, I am proud of my job, and I don't think there is any danger in it, as long as it is a job, there will be certain dangers, even if you are a manure picker, there will be natural disasters and man-made disasters On the day of drowning in the dung hill." It is difficult for my brother to understand this analogy.

"That's right, you're right, but the manure pickers are all men, and no woman picks manure." My brother told me a long time later that he meant that the police job was suitable for men and not for women, because Lin Su suddenly compared the manure picker with the policeman, so my brother naturally compared the two.

"Then you mean that work is your men's business, and we women should stay at home, take care of our husbands and children, be a three-turn woman, and revolve around the family, husband, and children all day long? Then you Is it not to be an ignorant woman and child in the eyes of a man?"

"I didn't ask you to be a third-rank woman, and I don't care about having a vase by my side. I'm very happy that my wife is capable, and I'm very proud that I married a female police officer, but can you think about it from my perspective, Why do I get married? I want to have a family, I don’t want to be alone anymore, I want to have a wife and children, you have to investigate cases every day in this job, maybe you need swords and swords, can you get pregnant? "

"Ha, so you got married just to find a woman to have children? That's easy, how many women want to have children with you? What do you want me for?"

"I married you because I love you. Children are the crystallization of love?"

"Han Hai, in your eyes, a woman is a tool to give birth to a child, don't you think that I am willing to give birth to a man like Xiaohe, and be a housewife at home, relying on my husband to enjoy the food, and finally what? If you accidentally offend your mother-in-law, your husband will tell you to leave and leave the house. You are penniless, and the economic base determines the superstructure. If she has her own business, would Chen Yun dare to say such a thing to her? Fortunately, she has you as a brother, if No, who would take her in? She was kicked out of the house by her fiancé two years ago and was homeless, so she came to BJ to join you. What is the reason in the final analysis? It is not because she is incompetent. If it was me, which man would dare to let her go? I'm going to get lost, I'll throw the divorce certificate on his face right away, I'm still waiting for him to pick it up, just dream, can I live without him?" I just happened to pass by when she said this, and I heard it clearly Chu.

"Shut up..." My brother slapped her across the face. "First: Xiaohe came to seek refuge with me because she was pregnant. Second: She was not kicked out by others, but because of her strong character, she wanted to leave. Third: Xiaohe is not incompetent. She has no problem supporting herself with her education and experience. Fourth: He is my sister, and I am willing to raise her. If the person who told him to go away was not Chen Yun, if it wasn’t for the fact that I have known him for so many years, I know him well, let alone a child. He didn't do it on purpose, even if she did it on purpose, I won't let her go back to the Chen family to be wronged. Finally, it is your woman's responsibility and obligation to have children. If you don't go out to work, no one will force you to go. When you go out to work, you must first fulfill your obligations."

I am very grateful to my brother for protecting me like this.But after listening to it, I feel very sad.

Yes, I have been working for three years, and I took three years of salary to mix with my boyfriend and have no private money of my own, so he only needs to freeze the card, and I will have no money.

Fortunately, my elder brother raised me, provided me with food and drink, fortunately, my elder brother has the ability.And I was just grateful in my heart, and never cared about separating my brother's from mine. I always thought that he was my brother, and it was only right and proper for him to raise me.And I know my brother wouldn't mind, but now he's not just my brother, he's someone else's husband, with a woman who shares his bed with him much more than I have with him.

I have been married to Chen Yun for a year, and there has been no money dispute between us, and I have never thought about this issue carefully, maybe because his family has money, I feel that I can find money anytime, anywhere, And I have always been rich in my card, I know he is raising me, but I am pregnant with a child, can I go out to work after I give birth?And I don't plan to stay at home all the time. How can I say that I have to wait until the child is one year old before talking about going out to work?What's more, I just weaned my child from breastfeeding and the mother has prejudice against me. If I say I want to go out to work, will they agree?But I didn't expect that I was so useless in the eyes of others.

The more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable, the more I think about it, the more angry I get, the more angry I think, the more I think of Chen Yun saying "You don't seem to have a job now!" This sentence became particularly harsh, so did he despise me too?

I remembered what my mother-in-law said, "If she goes out to work, I will follow you!" Does she dislike me too?

In the final analysis, isn't it because she has no skills?
These words have been echoing in my ears, just like flies flying into my ears and lingering.

Yes, I really have no skills?I am a little woman, and I never thought about what kind of accomplishments I would have in my career. To be a woman in the arms of a man is my long-cherished wish in my life. I was born attached to a man. In my world, love is more important than career Many, if I have to choose between career and love, I will choose love without hesitation, just like an old saying: A man cannot be without power for a day, and a little girl cannot be without love for a day.I am a woman, and I have inherited the pedantic ideas of my ancestors for thousands of generations. The male dominates the outside and the woman dominates the inside. It has not changed since ancient times, but it does not mean that I am willing to be a man's accessory. It is not that I have left. Men just cannot survive.

I have my ability to survive, and I have been self-reliant since high school. My strong and stubbornness completely inherited my mother's personality and style. After the divorce, she refused to take a penny from my father. We lived together in the rural area of ​​Shanghai. In the small yard, she opened a small grocery department in the countryside. She got up early and played around to earn my tuition, and sent me to the best high school. She didn’t do it until I had income after graduation. At that time, I was in I rented a small house in a nearby alley, went to school during the day, and worked part-time at night to earn living expenses for myself.I have also lived a hard life, and I am also independent and self-reliant.I was admitted to Fudan University with excellent grades, and my grades have always been outstanding. Even with part-time study and love, I also got a double degree in college. When I graduated, the school directly recommended me to work in a multinational company. At that time, the company was cooperating with Yunjia Hotel, and the project was quite challenging, so I was allowed to go there. Although I was a bit careless and careless, I didn’t miss anything after working for three years, and I did my job very well. , my only shortcoming is that I have no ambitions, get by, and have low self-motivation. In my heart, love is the first, so I don’t have too many demands on myself in my career. I think that my salary is enough for me to eat and drink. It’s enough to cheat the mall with spare money, and you don’t need to look at the price when you buy things.

Now it seems that my point of view is all wrong. A woman has nothing without a career.If you don't have a financial foundation, you will be bullied. Women must be independent.

I'm going to get a job right now.But the second I had this idea, Kexin cried, she woke up, I hugged her, looked at her delicate little nose and eyes, yes, dear Kexin , what will you do if I go to work?
(End of this chapter)