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Chapter 53 Behavioral Habits: Excellent Evidence That Reveals Inner Secrets (2)
According to folklore, Liu Bowen saw Zhu Yuanzhang's sleeping appearance and believed that Zhu Yuanzhang was in the shape of a dragon and a phoenix, so he wholeheartedly assisted Zhu Yuanzhang to achieve his imperial career.Zhu Yuanzhang, the emperor of the Ming Dynasty, who is commonly known as the stinky head emperor, once wrote an arrogant poem: "The sky is a tent and the ground is a felt. The sun, moon and stars accompany me to sleep. I dare not stretch my feet long at night, for fear that the mountains and rivers will be pierced."

Not only physiognomists, psychoanalysts and body language researchers also attach great importance to sleeping positions, believing that sleep, which takes up one-third of a lifetime, is the time when people's subconscious is most likely to emerge.Different sleeping positions are actually reflections of different personalities and deep consciousness.

In addition, body language experts believe that sleeping posture can also reveal a person's weaker and sicker parts.For example, people with a poor stomach and intestines are used to sleeping with their bodies curled up, and their hands will be placed on their stomachs unconsciously.

It is impossible for a person to maintain one position while sleeping until dawn.It is more frequent to turn over and change positions when you are in light sleep or when you are about to wake up, but when you enter the stage of deep sleep, you can usually maintain a sleeping position for several 10 minutes, or even several hours.Therefore, judging a person's personality by sleeping posture depends on the sleeping posture during deep sleep.

In the process of deep sleep, the legs and body are bent, lying on one side, and at the same time, objects such as pillows or dolls are held in the arms, like a fetus or immature child, people with this sleeping position usually They are all very insecure people in life, relatively weak and vulnerable.They have relatively poor sense of independence and are very eager to be protected by others. Of course, they will not easily do some risky things.They always have a strong dependence on a familiar character or environment, but they are more afraid of unfamiliar characters and environments.They lack the ability to think logically and do things out of order. Often one thing has already happened and they haven't even done the preparations.They do not have a strong sense of responsibility, and tend to choose to escape in the face of difficulties.

Some people fall asleep with their bodies half-curled up. People who sleep in this half-fetal position usually have a very strong sense of security and self-control.Therefore, they have strong judgment and adaptability to the environment.

People who sleep in a supine position usually have a strong sense of security and self-confidence, and have a very strong personality. Their childhood is also very happy, and they have been the focus of their families since childhood.Therefore, their minds will be very sound, and most of them are very cheerful and generous. They are more enthusiastic, kind, and compassionate, and they can have a good insight into the psychology of others and understand their needs.They are people who are willing to give alms, and they are quite mature in thinking, they can often prioritize people and things, and know what they should do to achieve the best results.They generally have a strong sense of responsibility, and they will not shirk their responsibilities or choose to escape when they encounter problems, but face them bravely, or even take the initiative.Their excellent qualities have won the respect of others, and because they can make accurate judgments on various things, they can easily gain the trust of others and create good interpersonal relationships for themselves.

Some people sleep in a side-lying position with their ankles crossed, which indicates that they are generally rigid and inflexible in life.Therefore, interpersonal relationships will be very tense.Also, they can be very irritable.

Keep a side-lying position when sleeping and completely overlap the feet, calves, knees and ankles. Such people are very good at handling various relationships in life, and can also maintain considerable consistency in life and work. They will try to follow Doing what others ask for will easily gain the favor of others.

People who sleep on the right side will have a regular life and be more punctual.However, they often pay too much attention to details, such people are suitable for working in the laboratory.

Some people are in a kneeling position when falling asleep, indicating that this person may suffer from insomnia, and generally it is difficult to fall asleep.So, in this posture, they hope that the night will be over quickly so that they can quickly return to the activities of the day.

People who sleep in a prone position usually have strong self-confidence and outstanding abilities.For the most part, they hold themselves pretty well.They have a very clear sense of who they are and what they do.For the goal they pursue, their attitude is perseverance, confidence and ability to achieve it.They are more adaptable and know how to adjust themselves.In addition, they can also hide their true feelings very well without letting others see a little flaw.

People who like to sleep on the side of the bed, they often feel insecure, they are more rational, they can control themselves, and try not to show this emotion, because they know that the fact may not be like this, it is just their own wishful thinking.They have a certain tolerance, and if they have not reached a certain limit, they will not easily fight back or get angry.

When sleeping, the whole person lies on the bed diagonally. This type of people is often quite arbitrary.Although they are shrewd and capable in doing things, they will never compromise with others. They will do whatever they say, and others are not allowed to raise objections.They are happy to lead others, so that all things are done under their own direct supervision.They have a strong desire for power, once grasped, they will not let go easily, and the more they grasp it, they will never share it with others.

Sleeping with your feet outside the bed is quite tiring. Most people of this type are busy with work and don't have much time to rest.Their attitude towards life is quite positive and optimistic, and most of the time they appear energetic and lively, and they are more enthusiastic and kind.Most of them have certain strength and ability, can participate in many things, and their life rhythm is quite fast.

People who sleep face down, with their head between their arms, their knees tucked in under their chest, and their back facing outwards, usually have a strong defensive mentality, and this mentality exists all the time. Ready to strike anytime.They have a relatively strong sense of autonomy, and they will not obey the orders and manipulations of others, do things they do not want to do, and will not bow to power. If someone forces them, they will take necessary measures.

Sitting and sleeping with hands on both sides and legs stretched out, this sleeping position is rare in life, but it still exists.This type of people is always in a high tension, and their life rhythm is usually quite fast and very regular.What time and what to do every day seems to have been fixed, and in the process, their bodies and minds naturally formed certain rules, just like conditioned reflexes.

Sleeping with fists clenched, as if ready for a fight, this type of person who puts his fists on the pillow or under his body indicates that he is trying to control this positive emotion.If you are lying on your back or sleeping on your side, with your fists facing outwards, it means to demonstrate to others.

People who sleep with their arms and legs crossed have a stronger sense of self-defense and do not allow others to violate themselves.Their character is fragile and it is difficult to bear some kind of injury.They are relatively indifferent to people, often suppress themselves and refuse to reveal their true feelings.

For a person's body movements during sleep, generally only very intimate relationships can be observed.But if we want to find more accurate information, we might as well find some appropriate opportunities to observe, which may allow us to know more valuable information, thereby promoting the early realization of our goals.

People who like to take off their clothes and sleep naked, he (she) yearns for freedom and lightness - the body that is bound for a day is enough, when he (she) goes home alone at night, he (she) thinks that he (she) should be completely liberated Own.

From his (her) behavior, we know that he (she) is a person who lives by sensibility. Generally, when doing things, he (she) always relies on his (her) sensibility to make decisions.For example, when he (she) meets a new person, he (she) does not follow the usual method to get to know this person, but to get to know this person completely by his own intuition, to see if he (she) is worth getting acquainted with by himself.Therefore, his (her) social success and failure experience are almost the same.

This means that he (she) will be criticized by others. In work and life, some people will criticize him (her) for being irrational and preferring to be emotional.But he (she) is unmoved, thinking that too much rationality will make him lose a lot of fun.

§§§ Section [-] Look at character from eating habits
Experts point out that the manner of eating can easily reveal a person's true character.

People who pay attention to neatness when eating, not only pay attention to the cleanliness of the tableware, but also pick up a little bread crumbs that fall on the table during eating, and will stack the used plates or snack baskets so that the waiter can take them away.This kind of person often appreciates the efforts made by others. If they meet someone who also likes tidiness, it is easy to become friends with them.

People who drink soup and make noise while chewing food not only have eating habits that are disgusting to others, but such behavior also shows their deep-rooted tendency to withdraw.They often turn a blind eye to the person sitting next to them, and they don't consider the feelings of others.

Some people add condiments at the end of the food, before they have tasted it at all, which is not only an insult to the cook, but also shows his natural adventurous character.This kind of person is more sloppy in doing things, and it is easy to bring unnecessary troubles to himself and others.

A person who chatters while eating because he is too eager to talk to others to swallow his food.People of this type tend to be impatient and aggressive in their dealings.

On the contrary, a person who eats silently and concentrates on eating is likely to be a gourmet, who concentrates on food; the other may be shy or withdrawn, and is used to avoiding conversations and socializing with other people during meal time.

People who leave immediately after a quick meal are usually self-centered and oblivious to the time and care others put into preparing the food.

Taste and stop type of people, this type of people have a small appetite, most of them are conservative in personality, cautious in behavior, stick to the rules, more than stable but not aggressive, generally they can only be conservatives rather than entrepreneurs.

The wind and cloud type people, this type of people eat fast, almost gobble up, most of them are bold and energetic, have extraordinary energy, act decisively, treat others sincerely, and have a strong competitive spirit and enterprising spirit.

People who chew and swallow slowly, this type of people eat very slowly, like to chew carefully and taste slowly, they are careful and rigorous in handling things, never do things that are not sure, they are picky, and sometimes they are almost cruel to others.

People who eat too much, this kind of people eat without restraint, and they are bound to eat their favorite food. Most of them have a straightforward personality, have the ability to unite people, express their emotions, and never hide their inner emotions.

People who eat alone and can’t get fat. These people always like to eat alone and don’t want to share with others. Most of them are eccentric and self-admiring, but they are firm and steady, have a strong sense of responsibility, match their words with deeds, and keep their promises. The performance can often satisfy the boss.

People who come and go, they never choose food. They are easy-going, informal, vigorous, versatile, and can handle multiple jobs at the same time with ease.

Slow-minded people, they will spend time thinking about something over and over until they think there is no problem before making a final decision.In addition, they are also picky eaters. They are tortoise-type people, and they are most afraid of encountering unexpected unexpected situations, which often make them unprepared and tired of coping.

§§§Section [-] See the other party's temperament from driving habits

1. Judging from the type of car I like

Cars allow us to get to a certain place quickly.The different choices of cars can not only reflect the difference in the economic strength of the car owners, but also reflect the other party's taste and reflect the different personality characteristics of the other party.

People who like imported cars are generally skeptical about the quality of most domestic cars.Propaganda calls such as patriotism are difficult to impress him, and it is impossible for them to sacrifice their own interests for the country.

People who like jeeps are more able to bear hardships and stand hard work.Jeeps allow people to visit areas that many vehicles cannot reach.They left everyone in clouds of dust behind the car, trying to make a way for themselves.Jeeps, like them, not only can bear hardships and stand hard work, but also exist for hard work.They don't need air conditioning, fancy paintwork, power steering or electric brakes.All they need is a Marlboro in their sun-dried mouth.

People who like luxury cars may be rich or poor, but they like to look rich.They want to appear different and influential, and this tendency can also be seen in the cut of their clothes and the size of their houses.However, most of the feeling of success in their hearts comes from the praise of others, rather than the real self-affirmation from the heart.Seeing someone drive a Rolls Royce can make them uncomfortable all day.

People who like convertibles, don't want to be isolated from the world.Of course, they want the world to be in their car too, with the wind in their hair and the sun kissing their faces, and they love the carefree and masculine image that convertibles give them.

People who like coupes, like to control people.As soon as someone gets into the back seat of their car, they become their real captives, with no easy escape door.Two-door cars do have a special appeal for the man in control.They control the lives of others and don't care about others as long as they are comfortable and comfortable.

People who like four-door cars, respect people.Everyone has their own doorway and can get in and out of their car because they hate being rushed.They give everyone an outlet to show respect for the other person's right to choose, even if the other person chooses to leave them, they still respect the other person's decision.However, just because they do not attempt to control or limit others, others are willing to take their ride.

People who like fuel-efficient cars are very realistic.With gas prices skyrocketing, most people want their vehicles to be economical and fuel-efficient.So, if they choose a car in this category, they must be down-to-earth and very realistic.For them, the days of childhood self-indulgence are over, and now it is necessary to dress well and behave elegantly.What they are most concerned about is not how to obtain status, but to maintain the status they already have.

2. Judging from the preference for body color

According to the research of psychologists, a person's preference for the color of the car can also reflect his personality to a certain extent.

(End of this chapter)