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Chapter 58 Men and women are different: tear off the veil to see the essence (2)
He is always doubting your feelings for him, always doubting your loyalty to him, and even restricting your actions and forbidding you to associate with other opposite sexes.After all, this kind of man is a person without self-confidence. Living with him, not only will he be nervous, and he will always be on guard against offending him, and no matter how careful he is, he will not be able to avoid one war after another.Instead of explaining and arguing endlessly, it's better to break up as soon as possible, because even if you clean yourself up to the point of drawing a prison, you still can't escape his suspicious sight.

5. The weak-willed type

Poor self-control and lack of rationality are the characteristics of this kind of men. They often become addicts. Whether it is smoking, alcohol, drugs, or gambling, they will sink deeper and deeper, and it is difficult to extricate themselves.Repenting again and again, and committing again and again, the same plot is always repeated.Don't expect such people to take any responsibility for the family, because they have no sense of responsibility at all, no assertiveness, and will always be a child who will never grow up in terms of personality.Marry him, but also have to take on the additional responsibility of "education" to prevent him from going astray.Rather than finding a husband, it is better to say that I have found a son.

6. Individualistic

If you have known him for a long time, he has never offered to do anything for you, never bought flowers, invited you to dinner, or even bought a small ice cream. Be careful.There is a kind of man like this, who has no one else in his eyes except himself, whether it is parents, colleagues or lovers, don't even think about getting the slightest care from him.You can eat delicious food by yourself, and drink delicious food by yourself. You are rushing in and out of the kitchen to cook, but he eats by himself without waiting for you.This kind of man actually lacks the ability to love others, he doesn't think about others, and he has no sense of responsibility for the family. If you marry such a man, you will only be unlucky for the rest of your life.

7. The money-obsessed type

Most of these men have suffered from lack of money, but now that they have money in their hands, they are deplorably reduced to slaves of money.In their eyes, money is omnipotent, it can buy love, and it can also compensate youth.For the woman they like, they spend as much money as water to show their love; when they get tired of it, they kick it away, and of course throw a wad of banknotes as compensation at the same time, so that they won't feel ashamed in their hearts.With such a man, no matter how much true love you pay, there is a price, because he just treats feelings as a transaction.Only a woman who loves the most, can you be as "chic" as him?

§§§Section [-] Looking at women from body language

A woman's body language not only allows some shy information to flow naturally, but also makes a woman look more attractive.It is difficult for men to understand women deeply if they cannot read women's body language in a timely and effective manner.

1. Looking at women from the head
Women who are used to raising their heads usually think highly of themselves, arrogant and domineering.Perhaps it is because their conditions are generally good, and there are more men who pursue them, so they have very high demands on men, but they seldom really understand the painstaking efforts of men.Women who are used to bowing their heads are usually introverted and gentle. Although they sometimes appear to lack passion, they can take care of men carefully and considerately.Women who are accustomed to tilting their heads are usually full of curiosity, but stubborn; this kind of woman is most likely to fall in love with a man at first sight, but has no patience to stay with him for a lifetime.

2. See women from hands and arms
A handshake is the only chance a man has to touch a strange woman's body, and a woman is happy to seize this rare opportunity to convey her message.A woman with dry palms is outgoing, which may also indicate that she has no special interest in the meeting; a woman with wet palms is more withdrawn, which may also indicate that she is nervous or frightened.To find the difference between the two depends on whether her eyes are dodging or slightly closed.Women with palms up when shaking hands are mostly submissive and easy to get along with, while women with palms down are mostly competitive and unwilling to be subdued.The woman who only holds out her finger is more sophisticated, miserly and greedy, and at the same time conveys a contemptuous meaning.

The body language of a woman's arms is generally achieved by crossing her arms.

The standard crossed arms posture has no special meaning, but it is an instinctive self-protection of women, but if it is maintained for a long time, it shows a negative attitude.The gesture of clasping the arms with both hands suggests nervousness and overwhelm.The one-arms-folded gesture is body language a woman uses when she lacks confidence or is in an unfamiliar situation, signaling she needs help.The concealed folded arms are the traditional posture of women who often appear in public, and most of these women are hypocritical and sophisticated.

3. Look at a woman from the arm
Women who swing their left and right arms up and down when walking are often enthusiastic and carefree, fantasizing, and don't like outdoor sports.Women who hardly swing their left and right arms when walking are realistic and utilitarian. They like love as much as they like sports, and their purpose seems to be only for themselves.Most of the women whose arms are naturally upturned when they are quiet are warm and cheerful, love to communicate and dare to love and hate.Most of the women with drooping arms are docile, single-minded and persistent in love.

4. See women from their breasts
Women who like to stick out their breasts must be full of self-confidence, and they rarely have traditional concepts of female inferiority in their hearts. They are representatives of modern new women, and they also show that their mentality is healthy and positive.Women who like breasts are definitely not so confident, or they are naturally shy. Their outlook on life is relatively negative, sentimental, longing for love but lacking courage, and they just wait silently.

5. Look at women from waist movements
The movement of the waist is the silent language of the waist. Compared with men, women are much more subtle.A woman's waist is a sex symbol other than a woman's buttocks and chest, and it often expresses meaning with silent lines.Lines and colors are the most expressive silent language of human beings besides the vocal language.A woman's waist is just a line symbol, no matter how you look at it.

Bending down to meet people means bending down to salute is the meeting language of Japanese women. The curve formed by bending down is soft, docile and smooth, thus forming a smooth appearance and giving people a soft and beautiful feeling.

Akimbo, put your hands on your waist, this image is like the image of two hens fighting.This is a two-way outward expansion of women, expressing inner anger and strength.This kind of language is not used by ordinary women.However, Mrs. Yang, the "tofu beauty" described by Lu Xun, often used it, which shocked Lu Xun when she saw it.

Yang Yao, Yang Yao is an undefended city.This is called a woman's "defenseless signal."If a woman sits on the sofa and faces the opposite sex with her waist up, there are generally two situations: one is she has absolute trust and respect for the man in front of her, and she feels that he will not bring her harm; It is a trick of a prostitute, she tells the man in front of her: "Please follow me."

Twist the waist, twist the waist to make the waist appear S-shaped, which is a symbol of sex.Any woman who twists her waist or twists her hips contains a signal to provoke the opposite sex.You will often see this kind of language in the service girls and female models.When some superficial men saw models walking, they couldn't close their mouths for a long time, and they were dazed and lost in thought. Naturally, they would be despised by decent people.

§§§Section [-] Observing a woman's character from makeup
Like light makeup, most of these women do not have a strong desire to express themselves, and I hope that no one will find them.They just want to be able to get by, simply smear it so that they don't look particularly ugly.Most of them belong to the smart and intelligent type, and they will not waste time and energy in front of the dressing table; they often have their own ideas and dare to fight, so they are more likely to succeed; they have secrets that are kept secret, and they will even cherish them for a lifetime They don't disclose it to others; what they hope most is that others respect them and give them support and understanding for their unspeakable secrets.

Like heavy makeup, contrary to those who like light makeup, such people have a very strong desire to express themselves.They worked tirelessly to spray all kinds of chemicals on their faces, endured pain and used various tools to modify their facial features, in order to attract the attention of others in an extreme way, and the appreciation of the opposite sex often makes their hearts as sweet as honey.Avant-garde and openness are their ideological characteristics, and they maintain an appreciative attitude towards some bold and extreme behaviors.They are sincere and enthusiastic, and some malicious accusations will not hurt them much, and they will still respect others.

I don't like makeup at all. The poet Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty said "clear water produces hibiscus, and natural carvings" are the most appropriate and vivid metaphors for them, and this kind of beauty from nature often gives people a refreshing feeling. a feeling of.They don't look at problems on the surface, they will quietly explore the essence of things, and they also use their own eyes to analyze people.

Some people have started to wear makeup since childhood, and such people will continue the makeup theory and methods developed since childhood to adulthood, even middle age and old age.In fact, this is a kind of nostalgia at work. The beautiful past makes them have endless aftertaste, forgetting the troubles and unsatisfactory things in reality, but they still keep their heads clear and will not indulge in it and forget the reality.They are practical and will try their best to grasp all the present.They are warm, kind, understanding, and have many friends who can confide in them.

Some people spend most of their time on makeup. Such people do not hesitate to spend a huge price to accomplish their goals. They pursue perfection in everything, and they are typical perfectionists.They do everything they can to make their appearance satisfactory. The most important thing is that they are fully sure of their talents and financial resources, and the only thing they worry about is their appearance. In order to become a flawless and beautiful jade, they have to Constant self-examination, using makeup to cover up shortcomings, the result is just the opposite.

Some people pay special attention to a certain place when they put on makeup. Such people usually have a very clear understanding of themselves, know their own strengths and weaknesses, and are good at making use of their strengths and avoiding their weaknesses.They are full of confidence in themselves and firmly believe that efforts will be rewarded, so they will fight for their goals down-to-earth.They pay attention to reality, pay attention to reality, and will not indulge in illusory fantasies.They are calm and calm when encountering problems, and they are firm and decisive in their judgments, but their weakness of not being able to see the overall situation often makes them gain little.

There are also people who like to wear weird makeup, the eyelids are either dark or blue; the lips are sometimes black and sometimes red, sometimes the mouth is big, sometimes the mouth is small; the face is as red as a monkey's butt.People who like to wear such weird makeup regard this kind of makeup as a way of expressing their feelings.They usually have a strong rebellious mentality, mainly because they have been doted on by their families since they were young, and they always demand to say what they say, but real life often goes against their wishes, so they use some unconventional thoughts and behaviors to fight against society, but often fail. to success.

§§§ Section [-] Seeing Women’s Personality from Shopping

(End of this chapter)