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Chapter 59 Men and women are different: tear off the veil to see the essence (3)
In the era of "money worship", the scene of economic prosperity is entirely supported by a group of women who are "shopping" or "prodigal".So women, when you feel ashamed of buying too much, think about your contribution to the economy of society!If you still want to know how much your shopping habits reveal your personality, please take a look at the following analysis!
The quick-fix type, whether buying a hairpin or a set of furniture, is as urgent as ever and just wants to settle the payment, and doesn't want to waste an extra minute when shopping.Whether the purchased items are suitable or not is a matter for later.Such a woman is lively and active, and speaks quickly.

Half-hearted type, this kind of woman lacks judgment and never knows what she needs.Shopping is a painful thing for her, and even the people who shop with her and the shop assistants have to suffer.

Independent type, this type of people think that shopping is their own business and has nothing to do with others. They only buy what they like, and they are unwilling to accept other people's opinions.This is strong-willed, independent woman.

You must buy it, no matter whether it is suitable or not, and regardless of the price, as long as you are fancy, you must buy it.This kind of woman is easily impulsive and moody.

The uninitiated type, if she is not accompanied by someone when she goes shopping, she will not be able to buy anything anyway; if she is accompanied by a friend, then the items she buys must be the style that the friend likes, which may not be suitable for her.In a nutshell, this kind of woman is very dependent.

Think before you act, shopping must go through four stages of observation, thinking, analysis, and judgment. If you don't really like it, you will never make a deal carelessly.Therefore, they are also the women who are the most knowledgeable and know how to shop, and they don't waste a penny easily.Generally speaking, this kind of woman is steady, prudent, responsible and disciplined.

Firm type, this type of woman clearly knows the brand and size she wants to buy when shopping, as long as the item is what she needs, she will buy it immediately without any fuss.Most of them have a generous, demure, resolute personality.

§§§Section [-] Knowing women's likes and dislikes from accessories

What kind of accessories does a person choose to match his personality?The best results can only be achieved if they match each other.And this choice is the exposure of a person's character.A person's personality can often be observed through the accessories he wears.

People who like to wear bracelets are mostly energetic, energetic and energetic.Most of them are smarter and wiser, and have a certain specialty.They are a group of people with pursuit and ideals.Most of the time, they know what they want, and they will take the initiative to pursue what they want. Even when they feel confused, they will not give up, but will explore in the process of action.Hands are the necessary carrier for displaying bracelets. During this display process, people can communicate emotionally with each other.

People who like to wear earrings generally have a strong desire for self-expression. They really want to show their value, status and identity to others, so as to attract the attention of others and leave a deep impression on them.Under normal circumstances, they are very concerned about what other people think of them.

Rings are relatively common ornaments, which are often a symbol of personal taste, social status and economic status.The ring you choose and the finger you wear it on represent more than one person's values.Wearing the ring on the little finger is very vivid, it means that the person likes splendor; wearing it on the index finger, it means that the person has a straightforward and strong personality; wearing it on the middle finger represents tradition and balance.

Pay attention to clothing, pay attention to the overall matching, and often wear a brooch. Such people attach great importance to their own image in the eyes of others.They are more careful and prudent in dealing with others, and will not make a decision hastily.They have certain suspicions and will not easily trust a certain person, even for very good friends, they have certain reservations.They hope that they can attract the attention of others, but they are always used to cover up this psychology with a modest attitude.

I like to use jewelry as decorations, which play a certain role in embellishing clothing. In many cases, this is not to highlight my personality, but to match the overall shape and achieve a relatively harmonious level.Such people can be called perfectionists, they always strive for perfection in everything.Their desire for self-expression is not too strong, and they care more about whether they can fully integrate into a certain atmosphere and mingle with other people.

Those who like to wear bulky, voluminous, brilliant and eye-catching jewellery, love to show off and show off, and they always attract the attention of many people wherever they go.They are more enthusiastic, and this emotion will be contagious to others.They are more active and optimistic, and love fantasy.

People who like to wear small and inconspicuous jewelry are mostly modest and steady.Most of their hearts are very peaceful, and they can maintain a calm expression in front of anything.They generally don't want to attract the attention of others, and it's better to be casual and natural.

The selected decorations have a strong national style. Generally speaking, such people have quite distinct personalities, and they always have their own unique thinking and insights.

§§§Section [-] See the "I Love You" Signals Clearly
When men and women are attracted, it is common to point at each other—not overtly with their fingers, but quietly and seductively with their eyes, arms, legs, feet and their toes.They point at each other and pick them out of the crowd, as if to unconsciously signal interest in each other, which also serves as an unconscious indicator as they articulate their intentions to those present.

So, when they express this signal in body language, can you recognize it?

1. The background of the gender signal
Whenever you study gender body language, you have to take into account the context in which things are happening.

Environmental factors, especially temperature, can strongly influence our body language—for example, we often wrap our arms around ourselves when it's cold.The seemingly defensive crossed-arms pose of your crush may simply be because he or she is freezing to death!Casual human interaction will be difficult in formal social situations that require people to adopt rigid postures.Tight or unusually fine clothing can also restrict natural body movements.

2. Two postures of "I love you"
If we're attracted to someone, it's usually for two main reasons: either we perceive a similarity between the two, or we expect complementarity.The similarity view holds that the people we are most attracted to are similar to us in many ways: from appearance, height, personality, background, to music preferences, beliefs, and even zodiac signs, you name it.The more tacit understanding between couples, the more they will want to share their space and build a long-term relationship together.Longtime relationship researcher Kathy Chubb calls this "similarity breeds satisfaction."

Complementarity theory suggests that we seek out qualities in a partner that we don't have.We become “whole” by forming relationships with people who complement us.This can lead us to form a dependent relationship, which puts unbearable stress on one or both parties.

The most ideal situation is probably a combination of these two very different conditions - the transitional state between "similarity" and "difference" is the main feature of the human condition.Faced with countless things full of contradictions, we are all trying to find solutions to achieve satisfaction.However, in the early stages of a romantic encounter, we are all conditioned to emphasize similarity.This can manifest itself in two forms: first, the repetition of gestures, and second, imitative behavior.

Posture repetition means that one person makes a certain body posture, and another person will follow suit accordingly, and assume a similar or even the same posture within 5 to 50 seconds.If you notice someone repeating your gesture, you can be sure they are comfortable with you and possibly attracted to you!You can test how interested they are in being "like you" by intentionally changing your body position and seeing if they change theirs as well.The more they change with you, the more "interesting" they are to you.

And when you follow the other party, if the other party keeps changing their posture as soon as you follow, they may unconsciously send you a "not interested" message, or say: "You are too aggressive, please slow down." In any case, you have to step back, physically and in body language, to let the enthusiasm cool down.

In fact, the best way to respond is to repeat the other person's posture without copying it.Show the same pose without repeating it all over again, so you can capture the spirit of the other person's pose.This is not a simple repetition of postures, but a tendency to imitate.

Studies have shown that whether it is a deeply in love couple or a close friend who has known each other for a long time, they automatically develop the ability to coordinate even the smallest movements, imitating each other's subtle facial twitches, nods and winks, lip quivering, speaking. Tone and intonation, speed of speech, slight nods or shakes of the head, down to subtle shrugs of the shoulders, gestures and non-verbal sounds.Not only may they subconsciously reach out for a drink at the same time as a friend or loved one, but they also smack their lips together and breathe together in appreciation of the contents.

There are two main types of imitation: full imitation and semi-imitation.If you are sitting face to face with a partner and they rest their right elbow on the table, you can put your left elbow on top to match your partner's right elbow (full imitation), or you can rest your right elbow on the table (half imitation).Which one to choose depends on your surroundings.If they sit opposite each other when eating, the couple may use the right hand to hold the chopsticks and put the food into their mouths at the same time, which is a semi-imitation.If they're standing side by side at the bar, it's easier, and more effective, to signal the sexes in body language with exact mimicry.

Body language in both sexes is significantly influenced by the distance we feel from others and the extent to which our personal space is violated.A common mistake men make is to overwhelm a woman by cornering her or pushing her against the edge of the bar.The beauty of barriers is this: You can create a private and safe haven by creating boundaries between your surroundings and those you're trying to seduce.A lot of established couples make it obvious that they link arms, or pull up their clothes to form a little tent, and kiss and cuddle inside, or even just use that lingering look that makes everything hidden in the world go away. escape invisible.In their world, lovers forget everything and are only crazy about each other's eyes.

Using our bodies as shields, we can successfully create barriers that protect the object of our desire and repel any potential predators or competitors.This is especially important at parties or informal social gatherings, where men are particularly competitive and ambitious in courting female partners.That's not to say women aren't competitive, they just tend to use a less aggressive style.

(End of this chapter)