Life management lessons of choice and abandonment

Chapter 19 With a grateful heart, build yourself a spiritual paradise (2)
A person who always lives with a grateful heart knows how to respect life, labor, and creation.

Thanking parents is the first step of gratitude

If mothers give their children tenderness like a trickle and meticulous care in life, then what fathers give their children is strength like rivers and mountains, spiritual encouragement and support.Father's love is implicit and deep, and father's love is like a mountain. "returning a Favour many times more".In a civilized society, being grateful to one's parents is one's basic responsibility and obligation.

On a sunny day, all kinds of birds in the forest flew out of their nests, and their wonderful singing brought vitality to the silent forest.

But the hoopoes and its old mate couldn't fly out of their nests. Their bodies were already too weak, their feathers had become dry and dull, and their eyes were blinded by nebula.The old hoopoe feels that his children have grown up and can live independently, and they can leave this world without complaint or regret.

But this morning, the eldest son of the old hoopoe came to visit them with some delicious food.When the little hoopoe found its elderly parents in poor health, it flew to tell the news to its brothers and sisters.

The hoopoe's sons and daughters soon arrived. They gathered in front of their parents' old nest. One bird said: "Our life is the greatest gift of our parents. They have fed us with the milk of love. Now they They are old, sick, blind, and unable to support themselves. We must help them heal their illnesses and take good care of them. This is our sacred duty as children!"

After speaking, the young hoopoes immediately acted.Some fly to build warm new homes, some flap their wings to catch insects, and some fly to the woods to find medicine to cure diseases.The new house was completed soon, and the children carefully helped their parents move in.In order to keep their parents warm, they also carefully feed them spring water, and use their sharp beaks to help comb the old hoopoe's shaggy down and easily broken feathers.The children who flew to the forest also found herbs that could cure blindness.Although the medicine is very slow and needs to wait patiently, the little hoopoes never let their parents stay at home alone for a moment, and always wait by their parents in turn.

The happy day finally came. The hoopoe and its old partner opened their eyes and looked around. They recognized the appearance of their child.

We are growing up day by day, but our parents are getting old day by day. What can we do to repay their kindness of nurturing?The hoopoes who know kindness know to use their pure love to cure their parents' illnesses in order to repay the kindness of nurturing.What about us?

There are too many choices in a person's life, but the only ones who cannot choose are parents.They gave us the most important thing in the world, which is life.Mom and Dad don't need a lot of money. Their request is very simple, and it may be just a warm phone call.I often go home and have a look, "Talk about the troubles of life to my mother, and talk to my father about work. I often go home and have a look. It will not be easy for the family to make a great contribution in life, so just try to be safe."

Thanking our parents is the first step for us to be grateful to the society. We must love our parents well.

Gratitude is an ability to move towards excellence
In Jiantian, which is fiercely competitive, having a grateful heart is also one of the conditions for you to achieve excellence.People who are grateful are proactive, optimistic, enterprising, dedicated and fun in their lives, and their future prospects are limitless.

Before Niu Gensheng founded the Mengniu brand, he was an employee of Yili.There, through his own efforts, Niu Gensheng realized a magnificent turn from an ordinary bottle washing worker to a deputy general manager.Then, it took him another 10 years to build Yili into a well-known brand in China.But later due to some unexpected factors, Niu Gensheng was forced to resign.

Did he become dissatisfied and give up gratitude?In fact, on the contrary, Niu Gensheng is always grateful, repays grievances with kindness, sincerely treats everyone who has shown him kindness, and stretches out his hands without hesitation when they are in trouble.Because he kept telling himself: Although Yili had brought him pain, it was more because of the accumulation of valuable experience and the establishment of a commercial platform.With a broad mind, a peaceful mind, and the warmth, confidence, firmness, and kindness brought by the spirit of gratitude, Niu Gensheng quickly made a comeback, founded the "Mengniu" brand, and created a sales myth in just a few years.

Niu Gensheng's rise lies in the power of gratitude in his heart. Because of the feeling of gratitude in his heart, he can not complain about others, and make a comeback with the spirit of gratitude in the midst of failure.At work, people who know how to be grateful will be more popular.Because those who know how to be grateful will regard the company's wealth as a treasure, take care of it carefully, not allow others to spoil it, and always think about safeguarding the company's interests.Relevant experts said that when many well-known companies recruit college graduates, what they value is not the scores on the transcripts, but the way they deal with problems and the speed at which they integrate into the company. In other words, whether they can have a grateful heart Be a person and do things with your heart.Be thankful is active up the manner that ponders over He Qian low, it is the behavior of spontaneity.When a person knows how to be grateful, he will turn gratitude into an action full of love and practice it in his life.

Gratitude is a kind of responsibility, self-reliance, self-esteem and the spiritual realm of pursuing a sunny life!An employee who knows how to be grateful wants to improve his ability and performance, and even become a key employee of the company. In addition to being dedicated to his job and taking responsibility, he must also be good at thinking and use methods and creativity to improve himself and help the company.The genius we usually call is actually an ordinary person who focuses his attention on a certain direction and spends years exploring and thinking hard. The growth of an excellent employee is also such a process.

Once you feel grateful, you can be willing and go all out no matter what you do, and you can grasp the opportunity in time when it comes.Gratitude is not only a good attitude, but also a spirit of dedication. When you work with a feeling of gratitude, you will work more happily, and you will work better, so that you will gradually move towards excellence.

Gratitude is a philosophy of life, gratitude is a kind of wisdom in life, and gratitude is the ability to learn to be a human being and achieve a sunny life.

you are fighting for your future

When we regard work as a part of life, we will learn more knowledge from it, accumulate more experience, and find happiness in the process of devoting ourselves to work.Maybe all of this won't have an immediate effect, but what is certain is that when "not working well" becomes a habit, it can destroy your job.

Yang Hua is now a programmer in a software company.Yang Hua, who majored in computer science, was very lucky to work in this large software company after graduation.In the first month of work, because she just graduated and still had some things to deal with in school, she often asked for leave. In addition, she lived far away from the company, so she often couldn't commute to and from get off work on time.Fortunately, she has excellent professional skills and solved many procedural problems with her colleagues. Obviously, the company also values ​​her work ability.

After dealing with school affairs, Yang Hua still goes to work as he did in the first month, coming when he has a job, leaving when he doesn't have a job, arriving late and leaving early, and even dragging his colleagues to go shopping during working hours.Once, the company came with an urgent task, and the boss couldn't find her when he arranged the work.Afterwards, a colleague quietly reminded her, but she said "no big deal", leaving her colleague speechless.

She thinks that her work ability is enough, and she doesn't have to worry about other things.The result can be imagined: in the evaluation after the probationary period, Yang Hua passed the business evaluation, but got stuck in the evaluation of the company's management rules and systems, and she could only bear the outcome of being eliminated.

Irresponsibility at work is costing your boss, but it is even more damaging to yourself.People who are grateful for their work know that on the surface, a person's work is beneficial to the company and the boss, but in fact the ultimate beneficiary is still himself.

Life will always reward everyone, whether it is honor or wealth, the premise is that you must change your thinking and understanding, and strive to cultivate your work spirit of conscientiousness.Only after a person possesses the spirit of conscientiousness will he have the power to change everything.

When you try to take responsibility for your work, your life will change a lot, and your work will change because of it.In fact, what changes is not life and work, but a person's work attitude.It is your work ethic that sets you apart from others.Such a dedicated, active and responsible working attitude and spirit will broaden your thinking and make your work more active.

Work is your guarantee of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Work brings you fun and eliminates worries.Be grateful for your work, start from small things, and you will find that you are not far from success.

Be grateful for your work and be responsible for your work, and you will find that you are the biggest winner.

failure is the prelude to success
There is a truth that failure is the mother of success.Prince Charles of the United Kingdom said, "If a man does not experience failure, his success is a hypocritical and short-lived honor."

Be grateful for failure, any successful process will inevitably encounter failure, it can be said that there is no success without failure.Every failure wakes us up and lets us rule out a way that doesn't work.Failure is like a rope, with which a strong person can climb high, take risks, and step into a new world.Failure is a huge wealth on the road of our life; failure makes our life more exciting.Be grateful for failure, and be grateful for the unique charm it gives us.

Pierre Cardin is the greatest fashion design master in France and even the world, and he can be called a man of the world today.Pierre Cardin, who was born in a poor peasant family, showed a talent for fashion design in his childhood, and completed his first fashion work at the age of 7.Since then, he traveled to Paris alone, constantly innovating in the clothing industry, and created the Cardin era of the clothing industry.At the same time, Cardin also established dozens of industrial empires such as clothing, catering, and furniture with his own business genius-the Cardin Empire, and he became a wealthy man because of this.

Pierre Cardin was born in a poor family, and he has cultivated a strong will not to be discouraged and to fight hard since he was a child.When he was 2 years old, he and his family embarked on a journey away from home in order to escape poverty and war; when he was 14, he gave up his studies and went to a small local tailor shop as an apprentice; when he was 16, he left home alone , In order to make a living, he worked as a store clerk, an accountant for the Red Cross Society, and even a domestic servant.The experience of suffering did not obliterate his inherent nature.

After brewing for many years, the ideal fireworks finally found a breakthrough. After the "World War II", Pierre Cardin came to Paris, the flower capital he dreamed of, and became an outstanding senior fashion designer.However, he was not satisfied with this, and he wanted to accept a new challenge, which was to take the first step of independent operation and start a theater operation in Paris.The reality is cruel. Although Kadan, who knows nothing about business, had the support and help of several friends, he still failed to avoid the heavy blow of failure. body", when Kadan was only 28 years old.Kadan, who encountered failure at the beginning of his business circle, did not suffer from a setback and depression, but burst out with more vigorous fighting spirit.Before long, Cardin started a tailor.He redoubled his efforts, and with his extremely rich imagination, he designed many fashionable and unique fashions in the ready-to-wear industry, and soon regained his vitality. In 1950, Cardin poured all his savings and opened the first theater costume company. This is where Cardin showed his talents and also the starting point for the rise of the Cardin Empire.

Difficulties and failures did not stop Pierre Cardin's progress.Some people say that it is best to test a person when he fails, to see if failure can arouse him more courage; to see if failure can make him work harder; to see if failure can make him discover new strength and tap potential; After he failed, was he stronger or just disheartened.One of the secrets of success in life lies in how to face failure.Some people see failure as a blow, and his previous failure planted the seeds of the next failure, which is the real loser.Others see failure as a gain, with each failure increasing the chances of success the next time.After repeated defeats and repeated battles, the fighting spirit will become stronger each time, and the more you fight, the more courageous you will be, and the final victory will come naturally.

Suo Ran from the United Kingdom pointed out: "Failure should not be the cause of depression and loss of ambition, but should be a fresh stimulus." Failure is not terrible, the key is to have the courage and mentality to stand up from where you fell.Every failure is actually an opportunity to surpass. Escaping from failure and avoiding failure will deprive a person of his vitality and right to grow, turning him into a walking dead.Therefore, failure is an important driving force for self-improvement.Each failure sharpens your skills, sharpens your courage, tests your patience, and develops your abilities.

Voltaire, a French Enlightenment thinker, said: "Life is full of thorns, and the only way we know is to step quickly over those thorns." Life cannot be smooth sailing, and all kinds of failures require us to face them bravely and deal with them broad-mindedly .When setbacks and failures come, do you blindly complain about life and become depressed and sluggish from then on, or are you full of gratitude for life and get back up after falling?

Failure can also be an opportunity for success.Jut Fili said: "Failure is the beginning of going to a higher position." The reason why many people win the final victory is only because of their repeated defeats.For those who have never met a big failure, he sometimes does not know what a big victory is.In fact, if you can regard failure as a compulsory homework in life, most of the failures will bring you some unexpected benefits!Failure creates opportunities for success. When you return to the starting point, you must first learn to face failure with a smile.

Life is not smooth, but it also shows that life needs tempering. "The harder the flint is beaten, the brighter the light it emits." It is this kind of beating that makes it shine.So Flint needs to thank those knocks.The same goes for people, thank fate, you have been growing.If you are pessimistic and lost, you will not be able to see the corner where the sun shines, but if you face life with a smile, you don’t have to wait for others to give you sunshine, because you have become your own sun.

On the journey of life, we must face failure with a grateful attitude, because on the road of life, there are few smooth sailing and many twists and turns. Success is composed of countless failures.In the face of setbacks and failures, we must have a never-say-die mentality.

We should be grateful for the test of failure and find a new way out of failure, so that we can hope to win the crown of success.

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