We are all the same in the pursuit of our dreams

Chapter 11 The best relationship is to grow together (4)
He suddenly remembered that when everyone gathered together to play Bixian, they said that Wanzimo's future husband was named Zhang; he also remembered that she gave him a set of baby tableware for no reason on his birthday.Coupled with the fact that they had been separated for many years and they met again in this vast crowd, he suddenly realized that the fate between them seemed to be destined.

Realizing this, he has the unwavering courage to confess to her, to tell her that he has always liked her.

This time, without the slightest hesitation, he said to her in the most determined tone in his life: "Mo, I have had a crush on you since high school. At that time, I didn't know that it was called liking. I didn't understand it until I graduated from high school. Later , you went to Beijing to go to university. I was afraid of disturbing your life, so I didn't tell you. But now, since fate has brought us together again, I don't want to miss this opportunity. I want to tell you what I have kept in my heart for a long time, I like you, I want to be with you. Only with you can my life be complete."

After listening to Lao Zhang's simple but sincere confession, Wan Zimo was deeply moved by an emotion called moving.She has never been in a relationship, as if she is waiting for this day, for a suitable person.

If there is really a predestined fate, this is it.

Later, in Lao Zhang's words: "She was very moved after hearing my confession, and then she coyly stayed with me."

Later, they got married and had a lovely daughter named Dudu.

Facts have proved how timely Lao Zhang's confession was that year, and how wise and powerful Wan Zimo's decision was.After they got together, they got along well and lived a beautiful and happy life.

One night when her daughter Dudu refused to sleep, Wanzimo couldn't help but say a few words to her, pretending to be angry, but Dudu pouted and was also angry with her mother, and turned her back to her mother and refused to turn around.No matter how much Wanzimo coaxed her, she refused to turn around.

Lao Zhang thought to himself: Great, I am finally angry with my mother. My daughter hasn't hugged me to sleep for a long time. This is a rare opportunity!So he said to his daughter: "Dudu, come to Dad, Dad likes baby Dudu, let's ignore Mom."

As a result, Dudu turned around in an instant, climbed onto Wanzimo and lay on her stomach, hugged her tightly and said, "Mom, I love you."

Wanzimo was speechless for a while, then looked at Lao Zhang and said silently: "God assists!"

Lao Zhang wept silently.

Once Marukomo took his daughter to an amusement park to drive a bumper car. After driving, he felt good about himself, so he said to Lao Zhang, "I'm quite talented at driving! Why don't I get a driver's license? If it happens to the end of the world, it's also a disaster." a survival skill."

Lao Zhang responded lightly: "You must know that some people who drive poorly have killed people in driving schools, or died by themselves."

Since then, Marukomo never mentioned the driver's license test again.

Lao Zhang didn't intend to scare her, but felt that her sense of direction was too poor, so he was worried about her driving.Her sense of direction was so poor that she could get lost in school for four years.If she is familiar with the route from school point A to point B, if she is at point C and going to point B, she can only go back to point A before walking to point B.

Once they ate together at a hot pot restaurant near the National People's Congress. After dinner, they took a walk together, walking along the road from the back entrance of the National People's Congress to the west gate of Peking University.Wanzimo walked all the way and said, "Where is this? It's very prosperous, and I've never been here before." She stopped suddenly while talking, then turned and pointed to a building behind her and said, "Uh, this It’s the off-campus dormitory of Peking University where I lived before.”

Lao Zhang said very speechlessly: "Didn't you say that you have never been here?"

Marukomo said with an innocent face: "I really have never been here, but I don't know why, my dormitory is here."

Lao Zhang was speechless again.

In fact, two people need to complement each other to live together: Wanzimo's sense of direction is almost okay, anyway, Lao Zhang will be her compass; it doesn't matter if Wanzimo can't drive, anyway, Lao Zhang will be her driver for the rest of her life.

The two of them complement each other not only in terms of skills, but also in the division of labor in the family.At each stage, they will hold a family meeting to discuss how to balance the relationship between personal development and family, and to discuss what kind of lifestyle is most suitable for them.

When the first family meeting was held, they were both living the life of [-]-to-[-] office workers, but they both felt that the jobs they held were not their dreams.So they decided to change their way of life.

However, it is impossible for two people to resign at the same time to pursue their dreams. They must first fill their stomachs before they can have the strength to pursue their dreams.In the end, Lao Zhang decided to let Wan Zimo pursue his dream first, and he stayed in the original company to maintain his family's food and clothing.If Wan Zimo finally realizes his dream and stabilizes, he will come to support Lao Zhang in pursuing his dream.

At that time, Wanzimo had become a company executive with an annual salary of 50 yuan. However, in order to realize her dream of writing, she resigned despite her parents' opposition.Lao Zhang fully supported her: "Just do what you like, even if you don't succeed in the end, we have worked hard and we will have no regrets."

With the support of Lao Zhang, Wanzimo seemed to have taken a reassurance and devoted himself to his writing career.When serializing novels, she got up at 05:30 every morning and started writing until [-]:[-] pm.In the time and space when there is no novel serialization, she is always conceiving new novels.Her hobbies have been rooted in her life and she cannot give up.

In the end, her efforts paid off, and within three years, she has become the most well-known writer of mystery romance novels in China.

Seeing Wanzimo find her life dream and work so hard for it, Lao Zhang feels proud of her from the bottom of his heart.

After Wanzimo's writing career stabilized, Lao Zhang resigned and set up his own company with a few friends.He doesn't know if starting a business is his dream, but if the company's affairs conflict with Wanzimo's writing career and he can't take care of his family and children, he will temporarily put down his work and take care of his family, while also serving as Wanzimo's writing career. The agent helped her negotiate the copyright of her works, created a good writing space for her, and allowed her to write without distractions.

Some people were puzzled by this. Even Lao Zhang's parents felt that his son was a bit worthless. How could he give up his career to support his wife's career?The strange eyes of the people around him bothered Lao Zhang at first, which made him a little bit embarrassed, but every time he saw Wan Zimo can concentrate on doing what she likes, and saw her go up step by step, getting closer and closer to her dream. The closer he got, the more he felt those strange eyes were nothing.

Wanzimo felt that she was able to realize her dream and her writing career developed so smoothly, absolutely inseparable from Lao Zhang's full support and help.He solves all the troubles outside of writing for her, so that she can devote herself to writing without any worries, and can achieve such good results.

Dreams and feelings complement each other. Only when the relationship is stable and the family is harmonious can dreams be supported.

It is said that only a successful career is considered a success, and it belongs to a dream.In fact, is it not a dream and a kind of success that a happy love and a happy family are not?

If a dream is a dream, Lao Zhang once dreamed of being with Wanzimo, and now he and her live happily every day.In this regard, he has achieved his dream.

When you fall in love with someone deeply, Ta will become your belief, and sometimes, in order to fulfill Ta's dream, you will temporarily make concessions to your career.Seeing Ta getting closer and closer to your dream, you will feel gratified from the bottom of your heart, as if your dream has come true.In this life, Ta is your whole world, loving Ta is your dream.

For Lao Zhang, Wanzimo is his belief, and loving her well is his biggest dream in this life.

Across the ocean to see you

If time goes back, I will still know and love him as before, even if I have to endure the pain of long-distance love in different places.Only after experiencing such joys and sorrows can we understand that it is not easy to love each other.And in this life, only he, just because it is him, firmly believes that even if thousands of rivers and mountains are separated, we will stay together for a lifetime.This is our love, unique.

One day, I clicked on Douban Radio, and when the familiar melody of the baby's song "Across the Ocean to See You" sounded, for a moment, it was like going back in time, and my heart became soft.

When we like a song, it is often because the song evokes our memories, or the lyrics fit the mood at the time, speak your heart, generate strong resonance, and then fall in love with the song.

And falling in love with this song usually has a story behind it.

The song "Across the Ocean to See You" is so familiar to me that even if I haven't listened to it for many years, I can still sing it word for word.This is my favorite song when I was in a long-distance relationship, and I must order it every time I go to KTV.

Hearing this song again, the time when I fell in love with him but separated in two places came surging.A song will lead to a story, and being infatuated with a song is often because of the nostalgia for the time related to it.

I met him on the college campus.I am a sophomore and he is a senior.From getting acquainted to falling in love, we spent a year of pure and beautiful time on campus.But no matter how beautiful it is, he has to face parting after all. After graduation, he has to leave the campus and go to work in another place.

On the day of parting, Xuzhou, where it rarely rains, was cloudy and rainy, setting off the melancholy of the departed.

I went to the train station to see him off, stood on the platform, watched the train going away, and even though I said I would cry, I still couldn't help but shed tears.

Although I kept saying to myself in my heart that the separation is short, it is for the next reunion.However, since then, no one has helped me occupy a seat every day to accompany me to study at night, no one has gone to the small shop downstairs in my dormitory late at night to cook instant noodles just to see me, and no one has ever taken a bicycle with me. I went to every corner of the campus...

As long as I think of these, my heart seems to be empty, and I feel an indescribable sense of loss.

In the next two years, I will be in Xuzhou and he will be in Suzhou.He and I are located in the northernmost and southernmost parts of Jiangsu Province, thousands of miles apart, and we can no longer just meet each other.Across the distance, no one knows what will happen in two years.

The day he left, missing is inevitable.

When I broke off the disposable chopsticks before eating, I would remember that he had done this for me before. After breaking the chopsticks, he would rub the two chopsticks against each other a few times, saying that it would not scratch my hands.

When I was thirsty during self-study last night, I remembered that he would hand over a bottle of fresh orange juice or crystal grapes at this time.If you accidentally kiss that night, your mouth will be filled with sweet and fruity flavors.

When it suddenly rained outside the classroom, I remembered that he used to send text messages asking me which teaching building I was in. When I walked to the door after class, I would definitely see him waiting for me in the rain with an umbrella.

When passing by the canteen downstairs in the dormitory, I would think of him standing here and calling my name loudly, and then I went downstairs to eat instant noodles with him.Two people, one big bowl.He said that when he was not in a relationship, he thought it was unhygienic for couples to eat the same bowl of noodles, but now he just feels warm.

The same place, without the same people, was extremely unaccustomed at first.

Walking in the familiar campus, I often think, what is he doing at the moment?

I can't see each other often, and I have to save some money on phone bills. I have little time to surf the Internet every day in class, and mobile phone text messages are the most common way of contact.

Every morning, he would send me a text message to wake me up: "Little lazy pig, wake up." The roommates call this time "wake up time", which is more punctual than the alarm clock.Every night before going to bed, he is afraid that I will be bored alone, so he will send text messages to chat with me, which I call "bed chat time".

During the day, he would send ordinary text messages such as "Have you eaten?", "The weather is cold, remember to add clothes", "What are you doing now".

Sometimes I will reply hypocritically: "I didn't do anything today, I was just thinking about you."

Just texting and calling to keep in touch is not enough.No matter how beautiful the text is, it is not as warm as companionship.We meet once every other month, either he comes or I go.

(End of this chapter)