We are all the same in the pursuit of our dreams

Chapter 8 The best relationship is to grow together (1)
Time will tell--

Simple love, the longest;

The companionship in the ordinary is the most at ease;

People who understand you are the warmest.

Love is very simple, we miss each other every day, and when we think of you, we smile.

I held your hand when I was young, and we can walk together in this life.

Every girl hopes to have her own promised day, and they all look forward to the day when the promise is fulfilled, the day when the dream comes true, and the day when happiness comes.And all those who are persistent in love deserve that day.

Xin Zai is a southern girl.Her hometown has picturesque mountains and rivers, beautiful scenery, and the people she nourishes are also beautiful.Xin Zai loves to laugh, when he smiles, the tails of his eyes are slightly upturned, which has a unique style.If it happened that she was wearing a cheongsam, she would be so charming in an instant, and people couldn't help but feel excited.

Xin Zai's skin is very good, white and delicate, and I am the same age, but I can't find a trace of fine lines on my face, so we are often asked about the secrets of skin care.She was very calm, "There is no secret, but the face is big and does not look old."

I once saw a photo of Lu Yi’s wife Bao Lei on Weibo, and found that she looked similar to Xin Zai. I quickly told Xin Zai about this new discovery. : "Are you sure I'm not the big-faced version of Bao Lei?"

Xin Zi's sweet appearance has a man's heart. Apart from showing off her short hair all the time, she also likes to play games and watch heavy-duty movies such as "The Walking Dead".

Of course, the most manly thing Xin Zi has ever done in her life is that she took the initiative to pursue boys when she was young, showing the great courage of a girl, thus achieving a good marriage between her and Mr. H.

Mr. H is the older brother of a good sister from Xinzi Primary School.One time, Xin Zai went to play at a good sister's house, saw her brother for the first time, and at the first glance, Xin Zai felt like a deer bumping inside.Later, the good sisters whispered in Xin Zai's ears from time to time: My brother took the No. 1 exam again, my brother won the Olympiad champion, and my brother was named a sports model...

Xin Zi pretended to be impatient and responded: "Your brother is not my brother, why mention him so much?" Having said that, once a good sister doesn't mention her excellent "this person should only exist in the sky, How many times can we see each other in the world", she was quite disappointed in her heart.And every time she went back to her good sister's house, she was always looking forward to and nervous, and she was a little embarrassed to see Mr. H.If Mr. H was not at home on the day she went, she would feel lost for a long time.

Later, Mr. H went to high school, Xin Zai went to junior high school; Mr. H went to university, and Xin Zai went to high school.Later, Mr. H graduated from university and worked in city G. Xin Zai applied for a university in city G during the college entrance examination.

Xin Zai finally got her wish and came to the city where Mr. H worked. Although the city of G was unfamiliar, because of Mr. H, she felt that this city was inexplicably kind and familiar.

Xin Zai took the initiative to have dinner with Mr. H, euphemistically calling it a "citizen dinner", and relying on his good relationship with his sister, he said that when she came to this strange city, his brother as a friend should protect her. Mr. H nodded repeatedly when he heard the words, "Yes, yes, brother really has to take care of you when you come here."

Xin Zai complained in his heart: Returning your elder brother and elder brother is really a papaya-headed person who doesn't understand that he is interested in you?A girl took the initiative to look for you, and she took the initiative to look for you more than once. Do you really think I have so much free time to talk about my hometown?

Mr. H is a typical high-quality man in science and engineering, with a high IQ, but a little weak in EQ, and he doesn't understand the twists and turns of girls' thoughts.But what makes Xin Zi happy is that he hasn't been in a relationship yet!The male god she has been thinking about is still guarding his body like a jade!As long as he is still "waiting in his boudoir", she has a chance to become his girlfriend!

But no matter how Xin Zai insinuated, Mr. H, the man of science and technology, remained steadfast.

Until one day, Mr. H and Xin Zai finished their meal, sent her downstairs to the dormitory, and solemnly announced to her that next month he would be seconded by the company to work in another city.

Xin Zi really wanted to swear in his heart: I ×!I gave up my beloved martial arts book for you and devoted myself to studying hard. I finally passed the exam in City G, and finally breathed the air of the same city as you. In the end, you were lucky and planned to leave me and go to another place!

However, on the surface, he still wanted to maintain a ladylike posture. Xin Zai pretended to be calm, and smiled sweetly, "It's a good thing, coming back from the secondment means a salary increase and a promotion. When you get rich, don't forget about me!"

"That's right! My brother is rich, so naturally I can't forget my sister." Mr. H patted his chest and promised.

At this time, Xin Zai felt that "brother" and "sister" were particularly harsh, and shouted in his heart: I don't want your money, I want your love!I don't want to be your sister, I want to be your girlfriend!
Seeing that Mr. H, who is restless, is going to leave City G for another city, Xin Zai has a sense of urgency of "not now, but when". The technique of restraint didn't work at all, she had to use her trump card, she had to confess her love to him boldly and directly.

So she plucked up her courage and said to Mr. H: "Well... I seem... I seem to like you... I'll be your girlfriend, okay?"

Seeing Xin Zi blushing and saying these words seriously, Mr. H couldn't react for a while, and stood there for a while.

Xin Zi was so nervous that he didn't know where to put his hands, he secretly speculated: It's over, it's over, he must be scared by me!It's over, won't even my younger sister be able to do it in the future?
It seemed like a long time before Mr. H said: "Let me think about it, can I reply to you on QQ tomorrow afternoon?"

Xin Zi was a little bit unwilling, didn't they all say that women chase men's interlayer yarn?Is this yarn? Is this yarn?This is obviously a huge and incomparably high mountain!

Fortunately, Mr. H did not reject her face to face, but said "consider it", it seems that she still has a little chance.

Back in the dormitory, Xin Zai still couldn't hide her excitement. The roommates saw her pacing back and forth in the dormitory. If these steps were added up, it would probably be three kilometers.A roommate asked her suspiciously: "What's the matter, do you exercise to lose weight?"

Another roommate who has a good relationship with her said: "It's probably because she confessed to her brother H and was rejected!"

Xin Zai stopped and almost jumped up, "You're the one who got rejected!"

The time waiting for Mr. H's reply seemed extremely long. Xin Zai opened QQ early in the morning the next day, and waited until one, two, three, four, five, six o'clock in the afternoon...Looking at the sun gradually setting, Xin Zi's heart went cold.

At 06:30, Mr. H's chat box finally popped up on QQ, and Xin Zi's heart was beating happily.She opened the dialogue box cautiously, closed her eyes, took a deep breath, and told herself to herself: People plan things, God makes things happen.Then, she opened her eyes and looked at the words on the computer screen nervously - "I thought about what you said yesterday, let's try it."

Although Mr. H's reply was as calm as ever, it was enough to make Xin Zi shout long live in his heart!

Although the relationship is confirmed, Mr. H still upholds the principle that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and he is even indifferent to his girlfriend. Even the first date was proposed by Xin Zai.

At the time when the park was holding the Apricot Blossom Festival, Xin Zai asked Mr. H to go to the park to see the apricot blossoms. He said that he was busy with something and tried to meet her at the park as soon as possible.

Looking at the sea of ​​apricot blossoms all over the mountains and plains, Xin Zai secretly applauded for his choice, this place is so beautiful!It is indeed a good place to fall in love!

It's a pity that even the beautiful scenery is unaccompanied, and it seems a bit boring.Xin Zai wandered around the park for a long time but did not wait for Mr. H.But she didn't know where the belief came from, she firmly believed that Mr. H would definitely come.

Later, the sky changed suddenly, and the dark clouds overwhelmed the top. Seeing that a heavy rain was about to come, the tourists all around scattered like birds and beasts.

At that time, mobile phones were not yet popular, so she ran all the way to the public phone booth and called Mr. H's pager.While waiting for the plane to resume, she was very anxious.Seeing lightning flashes across the sky, she stomped her feet anxiously, call back quickly!If you don't come back, I will be struck by lightning!

God seems to have heard her voice, Mr. H finally recovered.The phone was connected, and as soon as he said "Hello", Xin Zai asked, "Have you come yet? Why can't I find you?"

Mr. H replied in his usual calm and breezy tone: "I just finished my work and was planning to go there, but seeing the bad weather, I thought you might have left, so I didn't go. Don't you Will it still be in the park?"

Go ahead!Accompanied by the rumbling thunder, the unknown fire in Xin Zi's heart also ran wild.

"You didn't come, that's just fine. I didn't go either." Xin Zi hung up the phone with a click.After hanging up the phone, tears flowed down disobediently, and at this time the rain also poured down in response to the scene.

Xin Zai was walking carelessly in the rain. She couldn't tell which was the rain on her face and which was her tears. Since she couldn't tell the difference, what's the point of crying?
Whoever falls in love first loses.She is willing to gamble and admit defeat.

Xin Zai thought that after being exposed to the heavy rain, he would suffer a serious illness no matter what.After all, she suffered great physical and mental trauma.But when she woke up the next day, she was still alive and well, nothing happened.If she is sick, she can at least play the role of Sister Lin, maybe it will arouse Mr. H's pity and sympathy.If he saw himself alive and kicking, he probably really thought she didn't go to the park yesterday!Alas, I really want to save face and suffer!

Xin Zi was secretly complaining for herself, when her roommate called her: "Xin Zi, someone is looking for you!"

Who will look for me?Xin Zai went downstairs suspiciously.Walking downstairs, who else is that tall boy standing not far from the door of their dormitory, if not Mr. H?Xiaobian, come to apologize!Xin Zai put on a high posture, walked up to him with his head held high, and asked in a cold voice as much as possible: "What are you here for?"

"I'm here to find my girlfriend." Mr. H's tone this time was unprecedentedly gentle.

Xin Zi's heart softened all of a sudden.She must have owed him too much in her previous life, and she was doomed to fall in his love in this life.

For nearly a month, Xin Zai and Mr. H have been in a casual relationship. Although he seldom shows romantic tenderness, she can finally be with the person she likes, in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend. Words are a great satisfaction.Sometimes, she would think about it from another angle: I guess I am the only one who can bear such a boring man like Mr. H!In this way, there is no need to worry that others will rob him when he goes to other places.My vision is really good, I chose a man who makes people feel safe!
Later, Mr. H left City G to work in another city, and they could only have a long-distance relationship.

On the first day he left, Xin Zai missed him.The day after he left, Xin Zai missed him, missed him.On the third day after he left, Xin Zai missed him, missed him, missed him.Xin Zai felt that he was about to become the heroine in Qiong Yao's book.A lot of thoughts stimulated her creative inspiration, and she began to write novels in her spare time.

Perhaps it was because Mr. H had just arrived in other places and needed a period of adaptation, or because he was too busy with work. In short, most of the time, Xin Zi took the initiative to contact him and call him.

In long-distance relationships, there are fewer gatherings and more separations, which is not conducive to the cultivation of budding feelings. In addition, Mr. H is not proactive enough, and Xin Zi simply spends less time contacting him. Whenever he has time, he puts his feelings on the characters in the novel. .

At this moment, a handsome guy L with good looks and family background appeared beside Xin Zi. The most important thing is that he likes Xin Zi and treats her very well.Xin Zai, who has always been treated coldly by Mr. H, feels a different kind of care.

After getting along for a long time, Xin Zai wondered if the balance in his heart was more inclined to L.He made her feel warm and comfortable with him.With Mr. H, she has been giving continuously and getting very little response.But with L, she paid very little, but got his meticulous care.

Distance can produce beauty, but the distance is far less warm and real than the care around you.

Xin Zai wanted to tell Mr. H her inner feelings frankly, so she made a long phone call to him one night, and she said a lot.

She said that she may have fallen in love with someone else, and she felt that Mr. H did not love her enough, so she might as well choose someone who loved her more, so that she would not be so tired.She said that she had liked Mr. H since she was a child, and had watched sports news for him for three years, but after so many years, he was still indifferent to her. Even if she became a lover, she still didn't feel much love from him.She also said that she came to City G because of him, just to be by his side and see him often, but he still left her...

Mr. H listened quietly, with mixed feelings in his heart.

The next day, Mr. H parachuted into City G, appeared in front of Xin Zi, and told her that he couldn't live without her.

He said that after hearing that phone call, he realized that the little girl he once regarded as his sister loved him so much!He said that when he heard her say that he might like someone else, his heart suddenly felt empty, and it was at this time that he realized how much he loved her!He also said that he used to think that a man stands at 30, and that a man should be busy with his career before he is [-], so that he is qualified to have a romantic relationship and be responsible for his family in the future, so he accepted the company's arrangement to go to another place, but now, He decided to return to G City for her.Get a fucking raise!Get a fucking promotion!He only wants her!
After finishing speaking, he hugged the beautiful girl in front of him tightly, never wanting to let go.

After this incident, Xin Zai finally took control of love. Mr. H knows how to give and cherish better than before.

Xin Zai said with a smile that the facts have proved that the existence of competitors is still very necessary.

However, she still feels that men don't know how to cherish love that is too easy to get.If she has a daughter in the future, she will definitely tell her: Don't chase men, make yourself great, let men chase you, and take the lead in love.

In fact, I don’t think it’s so important whether a man chases a woman or a woman chases a man. It doesn’t matter who dominates in love. The key is whether you have met the right person. The key is whether you love each other enough. The key is that you are together. Not happy.

Later, Xin Zai married Mr. H and gave birth to a fat boy.They have now lived a peaceful life——

Xin Zai asked Mr. H when he was bored: "If one day we don't recognize each other, you can only ask me one question, what would you ask?"

He asked without hesitation: "How did you become like this?"

Xin Zi endured it and gave him another chance.

This time he finally thought for a while, and asked cautiously: "Is it still cured?"

Xin Zi's heart shattered into pieces in an instant.

On a certain Christmas Eve, Xin Zai accompanied Mr. H to watch his favorite "Band of Brothers" at home for the thousand and one time. The lines of the plot were familiar to him, and Mr. H still watched it with gusto.

Xin Zai asked in confusion: "Can we change the movie we haven't seen?"

Mr. H replied confidently: "This is it! I used to watch the DVD version, but now it's Blu-ray."

Xin Zi fainted.

For a while, Xin Zai thought about changing her handbag, but Mr. H said he would give her one.It was rare for him to take the initiative to deliver the bag, and Xin Zi was very excited.

Unexpectedly, I almost lost my breath when I glanced at it-it turned out to be a pink transparent card holder!Is there such a thing as a bully?
In the end, he also happily said: "It's a pair. You are pink, I am green, and it is a couple."

Well, card packs are packs too.

The family bought a new hair clipper, and Mr. H asked Xin Zai to cut his hair.She was surprised by his rare trust in her, and he said generously: "It's a big deal with a bald head!"

As a result... he became bald.

Mr. H, with his shaved head, often has a grim face, which makes people look shy.I don't know if it was because of this reason that he was called into the small black room at the airport security check for no reason.As a result, a plush toy, an electric monkey, and a set of Transformers models were found from his mysterious black backpack.

Xin Zi imagined that scene, it should be similar to a killer with a Hello Kitty in his arms in the movie.

Mr. H, a man in science and engineering, is still the same as before, with more intelligence than romance.But Xin Zai believes that no one in this world loves her more than him.

(End of this chapter)