The psychology of the aura that makes your heart strong

Chapter 2 Aura, the powerful inner energy that changes destiny
"The aura is so great!" It is said that this is the coolest and most fashionable compliment to people at the moment, if you don't know it, you are too outdated!Everyone has their own unique aura, whether it is friendly, humorous, or full of passion...the aura emphasizes the influence and appeal on the people and things around them.If a person has no aura, no matter how good the facial features and fashionable clothes are, they will be like inanimate objects and will not win long-term attention.The aura can be cultivated. There is no one born with a strong aura in the world. Some acquired psychological construction, such as cultivating self-confidence, can transform the aura amazingly.

Aura is not something illusory

When we hear the word "aura", we are likely to have an inexplicable, mysterious and mysterious feeling, because we can't touch it, we can't see it, and many people use it to lead us to metaphysical research.

In fact, aura is a research object of modern psychology and communication.Not only is it not mysterious, but it can be understood from a scientific point of view, and if the method is appropriate, it can be improved and cultivated.

There is an example that illustrates the problem very well.

At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, all the lords competed for the throne. After Cao Cao wiped out Yuan Shao and pacified the north, his prestige was greatly enhanced.After that, Emperor Xian issued an edict, and Cao Cao was promoted from Duke Wei to King Wei.Cao Cao at this time can be said to be proud of his spring breeze.At this time, the Huns sent envoys to meet the emperor of Han. When the envoys heard that Cao Cao had been proclaimed king of Wei, they proposed to congratulate the king of Wei.After Cao Cao agreed, he felt that he was not handsome enough, but he wanted to show his prestige in front of foreigners.After much deliberation, he asked Shang Shu Cui Yan to be his substitute to meet the Huns envoys.Cui Yan was a famous scholar at the end of the Han Dynasty, and he was very prestigious in the ruling and opposition parties. Moreover, Cui Yan's niece was also the wife of Cao Cao's fourth son, Cao Zhi, and the Cao and Cui families were relatives.Cui Yan is not only tall and tall, but also has a beard that is four feet long, so he is known as a bearded man.The description of Cui Yan's appearance in Chen Shou's "Three Kingdoms" is: "The voice is tall and smooth, the eyebrows are clear, the beard is four feet long, and he is very dignified." This shows that his appearance is by no means ordinary. The book "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Rong Zhi" once described this incident: Cui Yan sat upright in the middle and accepted the congratulations from the Huns envoy, but Cao Cao pretended to be a guard, holding a steel knife, standing upright beside the couch.After the interview, Cao Cao sent someone to ask the Xiongnu envoy what his impression was.The envoy said without hesitation: "The king of Wei is handsome and elegant, and the man holding the knife on the side of the couch is majestic, very approachable, and he is a true hero!" It can be seen that this Hun envoy is by no means an ordinary person. He can see Cui Yan's deep-seated flaws through Cui Yan's superficial "elegance": lack of might, which means that he does not have Cao Cao's kind of heroism that shines from his bones.After this word reached Cao Cao's ears, he was very proud.

According to "Wei's Spring and Autumn Annals" records: "Wu Wang's appearance is short, but the gods are handsome." That is to say, although Cao Cao is relatively short, he is very aura, but Cao Cao still has some inferiority complex about his appearance.At that time, Cao Cao only paid attention to the external appearance, but ignored the inner temperament of people, and made a small joke with himself.

If you ask what is aura, psychologists will tell you that aura is feeling; communication scientists will tell you that aura is influence.These two sentences are both true, but they are not complete separately.

When two people come into contact with each other, one party will always give the other a certain feeling, that is, there must be something in the former that can convey a certain message to the other party.This is to understand aura from a psychological point of view: we call this kind of thing in people, this kind of thing that makes others feel, aura.The psychological aura is the source of how people feel to others.

From the perspective of interpersonal relations, aura is the ability to influence others or whether multiple people can coexist peacefully.

In terms of the essence of the aura, it comes from the overall state of the mind and body. The aura is the physical and mental state that people feel and influence others.

The aura exists because of the existence of the recipient. When a person is alone, this concept is not valid, and this kind of thing does not exist.In order to express it vividly, people usually draw a circle with each person as the center and a radius of one meter to represent the personal aura.However, please keep this fact in mind: the circle itself does not exist, it only exists in people's imagination and words.In this way, we can avoid the misunderstanding of metaphysics.

The aura of successful people is very strong, and the understanding of their aura can be summed up in the following points:
(1) An aura is an aura that makes you who you are, not someone else.Appearance and props certainly have an effect, but the aura ultimately comes from the heart.A person with aura, others respect him, approach him, be attracted by him, dare not ignore him at will, despise him, it doesn't have to be as strong as the small universe of Saint Seiya, he has to reject people thousands of miles away, and he has to be alone Eyes can kill anyone, but others' legs are weak and trembling.

(2) The aura is a kind of innate energy. A strong aura can infect people, and it can also drive the emotions of people around. This kind of energy is still a luminous body, so that people around can unconsciously focus on the person who owns it. body.

(3) Aura has nothing to do with passion. When you stand on the stage, release your inner passion, and pour your passion into the performance, you will naturally form an aura, and the subtlety and plainness that has been cultivated to the top also have an aura.If you see a person who looks like no one else, but your eyes are unconsciously attracted to him, it means that his aura is very strong.

(4) Aura is a powerful inner attraction, it is like a kind of momentum.Generally, people with aura have a natural look in their eyes, they are not restrained, and they will not be influenced by the surrounding environment.They don't need to deliberately show their differences in the crowd, and they don't even care about everyone's gaze, but the more they do this, the more they will attract others' attention.

Aura Master's Explanation of Aura
Ted Andrews is the world's most respected aura guru, and he has unique insights into aura.The following is part of the aura theory of the aura master.

Each of us has an aura that surrounds the body.

Everyone must have seen or felt the existence of the aura.It's just that most people ignore or misinterpret this experience.

Let me tell you, the mystics in the world may have different views on the world, but there is one thing they can definitely agree on, that is, they can all see the shining halo around the human head, which is actually the aura. part.

However, the aura is not only seen by mystics.In fact, with study and persistent practice, everyone can feel its presence and even be able to appreciate it with the naked eye.Believe me, this is not an incredible thing. The preparation you need to do is to stop deliberately ignoring its existence and to recognize it boldly.

To have this ability, you need to spend a little time, improve your understanding, practice a lot, and persevere.

For some of the following questions, if your answer is mostly "yes", it means that you have clearly felt the existence of the aura.If your answer is a lot of "No", your sensory ability is sleeping and you should wake it up.

(1) Have you ever felt the existence of the aura?

(2) Do you feel tired when you are with certain people?
(3) Do you associate someone with a particular color? (For example, you always think someone is yellow.)
(4) If someone is staring at you intently, can you feel it?

(5) Do you like or dislike someone at the first glance?

(6) Have you ever had this kind of experience: No matter how a person shows indifference on the outside, you can feel his true inner feelings?

(7) When you are in an occasion, although you can't know for sure whether someone is there, but your senses tell you that he is also there?
(8) Are there any sounds, colors or smells that make you feel comfortable or uncomfortable?

(9) Does lightning or thunder make you feel jittery?
(10) Do some people excite or energize you more than others?
(11) When you walk into a certain room, do you feel nervous, restless or angry?Are there any houses that make you want to stay, while others just make you want to leave sooner?

(12) Have you ever had the experience of deliberately ignoring or setting aside your first impression of someone, only to find that impression to be extremely accurate?
(13) Do you feel that your sibling's room is different from yours?Does your parent's room feel different to you than your child's room?

I believe that you have experienced all of the above feelings, or most of them, but it is difficult to explain them with common sense.When we really can't make sense, we will all use the excuse of "feeling" to dismiss these doubts.But in fact, every incredible phenomenon in this world has its own reasonable explanation.The key is whether you can jump out of your own thinking mode and accept some new ways of seeing the world.

Compared with adults, children are more likely to observe and experience such things as aura, and they often express this experience in doodles.Look at children's drawings, they will paint different characters in different colors, which adults feel weird.This is because, in their view, the energies of different people are subtly different, and their auras are also of different colors.

However, when uninformed adults saw the children's drawings, they just thought it was ridiculous: "Why is the sky around my mother purple?" "Why is the cat green and pink?" "Why did you paint your brother blue? "There is indeed no green and pink cat in the world, and my brother is certainly not blue. These are just children seeing the colors of different auras and expressing them with crayons.Unfortunately, adult criticism and correction ruthlessly kill this unique way of feeling in children, just as our parents ruthlessly killed this innate ability in us.

get to know our aura

Based on the theory of aura guru Ted Andrews, we can understand it from some basic common sense.

1. Each aura has its own frequency, and each aura is unique

No two auras are exactly the same in the world.Perhaps the aura has some things in common, such as sound, light, electromagnetic and other elements, but the strength and intensity will never be exactly the same.Everyone has their own aura frequency.

When your aura is on a similar frequency to someone's, you will naturally be attracted to each other, and it will be easier for you to "fit in" with him.This is not surprising, this natural kinship means that you have similar auras, that you have similar frequencies on a physical, emotional, mental or spiritual level.However, some people's aura frequency will be so different from yours that you will hate this person at first sight, and you will be extremely uncomfortable and even emotional around him.

Most of the time, what other people leave you, or the first impression you leave on others, can precisely reflect whether your aura frequency is coordinated with his or not.There is nothing wrong with those people who resent you, it's just that at a certain moment, your aura can't resonate.Perhaps, when you get along for a long time, those dissonant notes will gradually become harmonious. This is an example of "opposites attract" that we often see.

Through practice, we can learn to control and change the frequency of our aura, so that we can communicate and cooperate with others more easily and smoothly.It's an ancient technique called morphing, where you adjust the energy you release from yourself to fit your surroundings and characters.Often, deformation occurs naturally, like a mild form of self-preservation.However, our purpose is to let you learn to control this behavior consciously, and make drastic or slight changes according to actual needs, so that you can perfectly integrate yourself into the environment.

2. Each aura will be exchanged with other auras
Everyone has probably had the experience of feeling like they're going crazy one day.The reason is not that you are really crazy, but that you were influenced by the aura of others in the process of contacting people that day.When you think about it, there must be a few people around you who are not easy to communicate with, whether you are talking to them on the phone or face to face, it will feel taxing.Sometimes in the middle of a conversation, this person will hang up on you inexplicably, or turn around and leave, and you will immediately feel like you have been punched by someone.Such aura interaction is obviously not healthy.The unhappiness you experience is caused by your aura not responding in communication.

3. The auras in contact with each other will leave imprints on each other

Just as other auras can affect you, so too can your aura leave an imprint on whoever you come in contact with, whether that's a person, an object, or a situation.The closer and longer you are in contact, the more obvious this imprint will be.

For example, if you sit in the same chair a lot, your traits stay around it and it becomes your chair.If you grew up with your own room, you must have felt very differently about it than your parents or siblings did.

Your aura will radiate in a unique form of energy and fill the space you are in, just like a lion on the African savannah who urinates on a piece of land to prove that he is the master of the land .There are many people who can't sleep well after changing the bed, because they don't have the familiar feeling on the strange bed.

We can look at the example of children.It is not easy to calm down a child when they are crying.However, you can try to give him the toys he often plays with in his hands and the blanket he often covers, and the child will calm down quickly.This is because the child's special imprint will be left on the child's favorite toys or commonly used blankets.When the child holds these things in his hand, he will feel comfortable.Sometimes, moms get really upset when they toss their kids' favorite things into the washing machine because the familiar smells are gone.

If the aura you face is very strong, your own aura will be driven by it and resonate with it.This is why the psychology of convergence has such a powerful influence.Of course, the power of the whole team is much stronger than the power of an individual. The more the individual has contact with the team, the more coordinated the individual's aura will be with the team, and the easier it will be to show the characteristics of the team.

The longer two people are in close contact, the more subtle and in-depth their aura interactions will be.During the lifelong relationship between parents (especially mothers) and their children, a considerable part of their aura will be shared with the child, and the auras of the two will continue to exchange and merge.In intimate relationships, the interaction of auras is about dynamically deepening and sharing.

Aura is a kind of self-shaping

Each of us has at least two images: one is the natural image, which is our inner true inner image; the other is the self-created image, which is shown to others through training and packaging, reflecting our value pursuit.Most people cannot see the former, but can easily perceive the latter.

If you are an impulsive person, and you want to portray yourself as a calm and stable person, and be recognized in a serious organization and field, you have to try to restrain your inner impulsive impetuosity, and learn and imitate to act A peaceful and steady character.Over time, the external performance of this character has stable characteristics, and the internal self-shaping has become a habit.At this time, it becomes "part of our personality", forming our aura together with the natural image.A seemingly complicated person may also be a simple person.

Your image is diverse, and your aura is full of changes, just like the complex desires in your heart!
This inner power is so powerful that a person can completely package himself into an image that is opposite to his original image with special training, so as to achieve the desired effect.For example, finding a job, making a friend, or achieving success in the field of relationship and family, mastering one's own destiny, and becoming a successful person in the eyes of most people.

A thousand people have a thousand auras.For us, the ideal type of aura is a combination of affinity and oppression.With this kind of aura, we can make others accept and obey us happily.This is the ultimate purpose of our aura cultivation.

The strength and nature of each aura is completely different.Attractive and powerful aura is the best state. People who have it usually belong to the core figures in society. Anyone who enters their sphere of influence is attracted, because they can always give us many positive feelings-happiness , Reliable, etc.We are willing to interact with them, and we are easily infected by them when interacting, and we become happy and reliable.Strong but repulsive auras are the worst. People who have them are usually outcasts of society. They give us such a dark, unreliable, unfriendly feeling that we usually choose to avoid them.The middle state is the attractive weak aura and the repulsive weak aura. Ordinary people have weak aura.

Some people are born with the influence of their parents and have a relatively strong aura.Some people are not big enough, and they still need to learn and exercise.What needs to be vigilant is that people who have a strong aura without exercise can easily abuse their abilities, which is very dangerous.Their aura generally comes from pride, and pride is one of the biggest reasons for people's failures, and it is also the fatal factor that prevents their aura from becoming truly strong.The ability cultivated through learning must be stronger than the natural one. Moreover, only through learning can you know how to freely control the aura, maintain humility, and reach the pinnacle of life.

Mental suggestion is a psychic weapon that we have been possessed since birth, a powerful psychological tool that can enable us to gain tremendous energy and enable us to achieve the best results in the worst circumstances.

Positive psychological hints are "stimulants" to stimulate the potential of the aura.Through psychological suggestion, we will learn to communicate with the soul more effectively, and communicate with the outside world through psychological suggestion, so as to better control the self-healing mechanism in our body, and heal and overcome negative psychology such as inferiority complex, anxiety, depression, sadness, fear, etc. Stimulate the potential of the body and mind, radiate the power of the soul, and enhance the energy of the aura.

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