The Complete Works of Wolf Road

Chapter 12 Possessing a strong mentality like a wolf (2)
Some people are lucky enough to be born with a positive attitude, others have to work hard to get it.The process of development is simple: Do your favorite job or make it your clear goal to work on your favorite job in the future.

Lack of money and many other circumstances that you can't immediately overcome may force you into a job you don't like, but nothing can stop you from deciding in your own mind a definite purpose in life, and no one can stop you Make this goal a reality, and no one can stop you from injecting positivity into your plan.

If you have passion, you are almost invincible.

A positive attitude is an important prerequisite for success in life.Do you change the world, or does the world change you?If you want to change your world, you must remove the shadow of shrinking and inferiority in your heart.Only with a positive attitude can you bow your head to difficulties and setbacks, fully mobilize your inherent potential, and make your wishes come true.

The reason why a positive attitude will make people achieve what they want and succeed is because everyone has huge potential waiting to be developed; the reason why a negative attitude will make people weak and incompetent and fail is because they have given up the greatness. The development of potential, let the potential sleep there, wasted in vain.

A positive attitude can tap and develop people's great potential and make people have infinite power. On the contrary, if you hold a negative attitude, then you will only be in a sigh of fate, and it is difficult to taste the joy of success.

Any success does not fall from the sky. As long as you develop your potential with a positive attitude, you will have endless energy and your ability will become stronger the more you use it.On the contrary, if you hold a negative attitude and don't develop your potential, then you can only lament the unfair fate, and the more negative you are, the more incompetent you will be!

Everyone has great potential, but most people only develop a small part of it.

With internal motivation, firm confidence, tenacious perseverance, and the promotion of a positive attitude, people can display amazing creativity, and even an ordinary person can create miracles.Because people have unlimited potential to develop.

If a person thinks of success, he may succeed; if he thinks of failure, he will fail.The more one expects, the more one gets; the less one expects, the less one gets.Success comes from those who have a sense of success, and failure comes from those who unconsciously let themselves have a sense of failure.

A negative attitude leads to failure, and a positive attitude leads to success.The positive awareness of self-confidence is a great force that gives energy to our actions in life.Confidence also comes from the conscious and subconscious.

Consciousness and subconsciousness are the "first golden keys" to success.Human consciousness and subconscious mind have great ability to manipulate human destiny.If the consciousness gives the subconscious a goal, the subconscious will act to achieve this goal; if the conscious gives the subconscious an instruction, the subconscious will carry out the instruction seriously.

There is such a legend: There was a studious carpenter who went to repair the chair for the court one day. He not only worked very seriously and carefully, but also modified the chair the judge sat on.Someone asked him why.

He explained: "I was going to make this chair last until I sat on it as a judge myself. The carpenter did become a judge and sat on this chair.

Believe that you can succeed, often you can succeed, this is the human mentality at work.In other words, the conscious mind decides the "what to do" and the subconscious mind sorts out the "how to do it".

4 Cultivate wolf-like leadership skills

The alpha wolf is the leader of the wolf pack, and also the most handsome among the wolves. It has a strong body and infinite wisdom. It is the decision-maker and executor who leads the wolf pack to survive.

For us, if we want to be a wolf, we must first believe that we are a wolf.

If a person wants to become a strong man like a wolf, he must get the support and help of others, and he also needs the cooperation of others. If he wants to get the support and cooperation of others, he must have considerable management skills and leadership skills.

No one is born a leader, and no one is born great at managing.The quality and management ability of a leader is acquired through hard work and learning, and it can be acquired through cultivation.Just like in a pack of wolves, the alpha wolf is not born, but becomes the alpha wolf through continuous hard work and learning.The alpha wolf not only enjoys various privileges, but also assumes various responsibilities.

Management ability is inseparable from your "leadership temperament" and excellent management ability, they go hand in hand.Because this quality and ability enables you to do things that you would not or could not do otherwise.

So, what makes us a wolf?How to cultivate our leadership and management skills?In other words, how to make others willing to cooperate with us, support and help us succeed?

To do this, you have to be a popular person.

To make yourself a popular person, pleasing others is not the best way, the key is to cultivate your characteristics.

If you just blindly please others, you may be pleasing temporarily, but not for a long time, because you lose yourself in the process of pleasing.Thus, over time, you may find that your circle of association expands, while yourself feeling more and more lonely.

So, it is not the best way to please others at the cost of losing yourself to make others like you, you have to really like yourself for who you really are.This is the basis for making yourself a popular person.

Cultivate your favorite qualities, those special things about you that are dear to you.If you really want someone to be your friend, he should like these qualities in you.You are just cultivating for these traits and for yourself, never try to pander to others just to impress them.In that case, you will not only lose the chance of success, but also lose everything you want.

For us, what qualities should we cultivate?

Learn how to be alone.You may be surprised, but that doesn't contradict how to be liked.If a person can't get along well with himself, what else can he expect from others, and how can he expect others to get along well with you?Besides, all alpha wolves are actually lonely.

Develop an ability to see others as individuals and appreciate individual differences.To "please" others, you must first learn how to "please" others.Each of us has different characteristics that are enough to be respected and admired, but it is difficult to appreciate the characteristics of others until you find out what is unique about each person.

Develop your ability to have fun.You slow yourself down and savor what you're doing.At the same time, try to involve yourself in what is going on around you.Because if you are a bystander in everything, you will feel that you are not important, and the things around you are not important.Then, look forward to all the pleasant things that will happen, and if they do, celebrate them and continue to reinforce your pleasant feelings.

Do not ridicule anyone.If a wolf always speaks bad words to other wolves because he is a wolf, he will probably be attacked by a pack of wolves soon.In the same way, if you ridicule others in everything, you may feel that people in the world are self-centered and only care about their own interests, and you will think that no one in the world is sincere and tolerant.Everyone wants to take advantage of everyone else and give nothing at all.Worse than the sarcasm itself, you have to keep using it to cover up your immorality until you've turned your nose up at the whole world, the whole of humanity.

Be prepared to confront others if you have opposing opinions on matters that are important to you.This has a lot to do with knowing your purpose and the validation of others, as well as letting others know that you have strong beliefs and strong feelings.It's hard to be popular in a crowd if you don't value traits.

Try to develop the ability to feel and care about other people's experiences.

Learn to share the happiness of friends.You made yourself, so you can mold yourself into your ideal self.

Do these points, and you will become a popular person.Although this is still a certain distance from the management ability and wolf temperament we want to cultivate, at least it has laid a good foundation for it.

The following aspects can enable us to develop our leadership skills as quickly as possible:

Exchange ideas with those you want to influence.This is the secret recipe for getting others—your co-workers, friends, customers, employees, etc. to do "the way you want them to."

Consider the problem as thoughtfully as possible, and think more about what is not in line with human nature when dealing with things.Everyone uses his own method to lead others, but there is always a best and most ideal method that is in line with human nature.

Try to pursue progress.Believe that you and others can still improve, and you must promote actions that help improve.In every industry, only those who strive for excellence can be continuously promoted.Leaders, especially real leaders, are sorely lacking.People who are content with the status quo think that everything is normal and need to improve more than those who are radical people think that there is room for improvement, and think of ways to do better and more.

Take a moment to talk, confer, or engage in healthy reflection with yourself.Leaders are extraordinarily busy.And it's true, they're really busy.But what we ordinary people often overlook is that leaders spend a lot of time every day thinking alone.People who can't stand loneliness try to keep their brains blank, they try to avoid using their brains, and psychologically they have been frightened by their own thoughts.These people will become narrow-minded and short-sighted as the years go by, and their behavior will become ridiculously childish, and they will certainly not have a style of perseverance and poise.A person who ignores the thinking ability of his own brain cannot be a good manager and leader.

The most important job of leadership and management is to think, and the best preparation for the road to leadership is also to think.Therefore, I hope you can spare a certain amount of time every day to practice reasonable independent thinking, and try to think in the direction of success.Over time, you will find that you have cultivated your leadership temperament and your managerial ability.

At this time, you are getting closer and closer to becoming a wolf!
5 Never be timid when it's time to take risks

The most important thing for the wolves to realize their ambitions is to dare to take risks, but the adventurous actions of the wolves are based on rationality.

If a wolf does not have the spirit of adventure, it will not challenge animals stronger than itself. When food is scarce, sometimes wolves have no choice but to use their adventures to challenge those seemingly impossible things.

As individuals, we must also have the adventurous spirit of wolves if we want to realize our ambitions and dreams.Ambition and dreams are never easy to come by, sometimes accompanied by huge risks.Therefore, even if a person lacks the spirit of adventure, even if he thinks about it and does it, he may not achieve anything and his dreams will come true.The first requirement of taking risks in life is to be brave, but not to take risks blindly.The most important thing for a successful person is to have a clear goal, to do it bravely and take risks under the call of the goal.

Be adventurous when you are about to take an unusual action.There are many people in the world who lack courage, dare not take risks, and only want to be safe, so they accomplish nothing.

Of course, taking risks does not mean being careless and reckless, nor is it just talking about progress without ignoring reality.We need to distinguish clearly which ones are daring and which ones are reckless and reckless.

At some point, we must take big and courageous action.When it comes to taking risks in life and work, many people often hesitate and keep their confidence from being sublimated.Maybe this kind of people just know too much about everything, so they are naturally cautious, always putting off major decisions, and sometimes even indifferent.

A person who wants to succeed must have the spirit of adventure. If he is afraid of failure, does not take risks, seeks stability and fears chaos, and lives a smooth life, although he is reliable and peaceful, he is just a sad and boring person, a coward.The most regrettable thing is that this person has buried his own potential.He could have picked the fruit of success and shared the greatest joy of success, but he was willing to give it up.Instead of causing such remorse and regret, it is better to venture out and explore bravely.Instead of living a mediocre life, it is better to be a hero who dares to take risks.

One year, the local economy in Danville, USA was depressed, and many factories and stores closed down one after another. Even those that were not closed for a while were forced to sell off their piles of stock at a reduced price. The price was as low as 1 dollar, which could buy 100 pairs of socks.

At that time, John Gambs was still a small technician in a weaving factory.He immediately used the money he had saved to buy cheap goods.

Seeing his stupidity, people openly laughed at him as a fool!

John Gambs was indifferent to the ridicule of others, and still bought the goods sold by various factories and shops, and rented a large warehouse to store the goods.

His wife advised him not to buy these things that others sold at a low price, because the amount of money they have saved over the years is limited, and it is going to be used for child rearing expenses.If this move loses everything, the consequences will be disastrous.

Regarding his wife's worried advice, Gambus laughed and comforted her: "After three months, we will be able to make a fortune with these cheap goods."

It seems that Gambos' words cannot be fulfilled.

After more than 10 days, those factories sold at a low price and could not find a buyer, so they transported all the inventories by car and burned them, so as to stabilize the prices in the market.

Seeing that others were already burning the goods, Gambus's wife couldn't help feeling very anxious and complained about Gambus.Regarding his wife's complaints, Gambos said nothing.

Finally, the U.S. government took urgent action to stabilize prices in Danville and strongly supported the resumption of business there.

At the same time, due to the excessive burning of goods in the Danville area, the inventory is scarce, and the price of goods is soaring day by day.John Gambles immediately sold out a large number of goods in his inventory, so that he could make a lot of money, and secondly, he could stabilize the market price and prevent it from skyrocketing.

When he decided to sell the goods, his wife advised him not to sell the goods temporarily, because the prices were still soaring day by day.

He said calmly: "It's time to sell. If you delay for a while, you will regret it."

Sure enough, as soon as Gambus's stock was sold out, prices dropped.His wife admired his vision.

Later, Gambos used the money he earned to open five department stores, and the business was very busy.

Gambles finally became the most important business giant in the United States.

It should be said here that the spirit of adventure is not an expedition, but the actions of explorers must have enough spirit of adventure.Therefore, Zheng He's voyages to the West, Zhang Qian's voyages to the Western Regions, Columbus's discovery of the New World, and Magellan's voyage around the world all possess the greatest adventurous spirit of mankind.Without this, success is out of their reach.

Some people are always worried about failure, and they will always find various reasons to keep themselves from taking risks.In the end, they accomplish nothing and can only look at others enviously.Some people are always afraid of difficulties and push some meaningful things to others, but when others get applause and flowers after going through all kinds of dangers, they regret that they should not have given up the opportunity in the first place.Some people are afraid to take risks, because they always want to lie in the harbor of happiness-the calm and calm, and they are extremely nostalgic for ease and comfort.After all, risk is often the fuse of failure, which often means giving up everything you have achieved, and it means taking on many difficulties and pressures.Perhaps there is no need for challenges in being a human being, and being stable is the best.So will our world progress?Is human civilization and prosperity a dead letter?
We should know that it is impossible to be [-]% sure of doing anything or completing any kind of work.Even in our daily lives, there are often risks, but at a lower rate.Risks can cause you to fail, but if you take them out of the way, your rewards will be far greater than if you didn't take the risk.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: There is no road in the world, if there are many people walking, it becomes a road.How rare it is to dare to be the first to eat crabs.Otherwise, there would not be so many great men, famous scientists, entrepreneurs and Nobel laureates in the world.For example, the restless great inventor Edison, in order to invent the electric light and develop an economical and applicable filament, he endured the risk of hundreds of failures and finally succeeded.Another example is Franklin who invented the steamship. At the beginning, people laughed at his ship as Franklin's monster, and admired him making a fool of himself with the mentality of watching the excitement.But he didn't back down, tried and failed repeatedly, kept improving, and finally achieved extraordinary success.There are also the Wright brothers who invented the airplane, dared to imagine incredible things, and even paid the price of their lives, opening up a way for future generations to fly into the sky.Today's people have finally realized their dream of flying freely in the sky.

When we say that something is risky, it often means that it is relatively difficult to complete this matter, there are many uncertain factors, and the insurance factor is relatively small.Therefore, people are generally reluctant to take risks.But successful people often like to take risks, because they know that risk is like a dangerous shoal. After crossing this shoal, there will be calm and the joy of victory.The first person who dares to eat crabs can often become a successful person.

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