The Complete Works of Wolf Road

Chapter 19 Possessing a Strong Personality Like a Wolf (4)
As soon as useful thoughts and ideas flash into your mind, write them down immediately.Whatever you do, "Come on and wait a while"

Will cause a waste of time.It is true that some things require careful consideration and time.But for less important or urgent matters, it is the best policy to do it right away.

However, some people have a very bad procrastination style. Things that can be handled easily are delayed for days and weeks; things that can be done within a few days are gone for months.Some people consciously "kick the ball" to the problems that need to be solved, you kick me, I kick you, which leads to extremely low work efficiency.As everyone knows, the things that have been delayed will still need to be done in the future, and it will take more energy to do it.

Delay is bound to pay a higher price.People who can procrastinate are always unhappy and tired.He is constantly oppressed by the work that should be done but not done. "If you have nothing to worry about, it is a good time in the world."Procrastinators often feel time pressure because their minds are not empty.Procrastination does not save time and energy, on the contrary, it makes you exhausted and exhausted.Not only does it not help, but it wastes precious time in vain.

The bad habit of procrastination, to put it bluntly, is to temporarily relieve the fear deep in my heart.

First, the fear of failure.It seems that if you delay everything, you will not face failure immediately, and you can comfort yourself: I will make it, but I am not ready yet.At the same time, procrastination can leave a step for failure. If you procrastinate until the last moment, even if you don’t do well, you have an excuse to say that it is already very good to have such a performance in such a short period of time.

Second, fear is less than human.If you procrastinate to the end, you can stop doing it if you can, which not only eliminates the fear of being inferior to others if you can't do it well, but also satisfies your vanity.Tell others that if it were me, I would definitely do better than them.

Such a person will not achieve anything throughout his life.They are often intimidated by work, and they do not have the confidence to challenge their work.

To be a successful person, we must develop the habit of doing things right away.Do it immediately when something happens, not only can overcome the habit of procrastination, but also can take the opportunity of "the stupid bird flies first".Over time, great wisdom and courage will inevitably be cultivated.

The philosopher Seneca said: "The greatest loss of time is procrastination, anticipation and dependence on the future."

9 focus on success without distractions

When a wolf captures its prey, once it chooses its target, it is always so focused when attacking the target. It will not be affected by the prey that is very close to it, and it will always focus on chasing the selected target. .The wolf's spirit of persevering towards the goal is worth learning from us humans.

Concentration is the best way for us to succeed, and it is also one of the decisive factors for a person's success.Concentration, focus on goals, and perseverance are important qualities that humans need to learn from wolves.

As long as we set a clear goal, we should first control our attention.Controlling attention, the process of coordinating all thoughts, faculties, and directing their common forces toward a given goal, is both a natural outgrowth and an important aid to many of the other principles of success.Focusing on a single goal has ensured the success of countless people and organizations.

No matter what your job is, you must stay focused on your clear goals.Concentration projects an image of your definite purpose onto your conscious mind, where it remains until the image is received by your subconscious mind and concrete action.

When you can focus your attention on a positive, definite goal and force it to be your central thought, you are tuning your subconscious mind to contribute to its achievement.When you have controlled your attention so that it is fixed on your definite object, you can use it as a medium for actively employing the principle of autosuggestion in no other way.The purpose of controlling attention is to keep busy thinking that helps to achieve definite goals.If you don't control your attention, your mind will be flooded with negative influences.

The object of your intentional focus becomes the dominant influence in your environment.If you keep thinking about poverty or the material signs of poverty, those influences will be imprinted on your subconscious mind through autosuggestion, and finally your mind will have a poverty consciousness, that's why so many people complain about them The reason for living in poverty.If your central thoughts are success and security, then through autosuggestion, it will work in the same way, and the result will be a sense of success and security.

The second is to never shirk responsibility for failure.Successful people will focus on one thing at a time, and will not be distracted, so that everything is clear and loose.Concentration also leads to another valuable asset—a good memory.

Successful people are so focused on their goals that they have no time to worry about anything else.They focus on doing one thing until they succeed, then set new goals and keep trying.If you fail, find out why and face the problem calmly so that you can avoid making the same mistake again.Don’t try to make excuses, avoid responsibility for your failure, or try to blame others, these will only make you repeat the same mistakes. "Concentration" itself is not magical, it is just controlling attention.As long as a person concentrates, he can adjust his mind so that it can receive all the thought waves of space.In this way, the whole world will become an open book for you to read at will.

Don't be broad and general, but be refined and specialized. This is the requirement of today's era.In this era when the social division of labor is becoming more and more detailed and specialized fields are becoming more and more refined, if a person disperses his energy, he is doomed to fail.

The biggest difference between success and failure is not how much work a person has done, but how much meaningful work he has done.Among the losers, quite a few have worked hard enough to achieve greatness.However, their hard work is like destroying while building, and the final result is still a pile of fragments.They don't adapt to the environment and turn the products of their work into potential opportunities.They also failed to turn small failures into big opportunities for success.It can be said that their ability is not enough, and they have a lot of time, but doing too much is useless.

Third, successful people have their own focus of attention.A man who is proficient in one thing can do it better than anyone else, even if it is only a carrot.If he puts all his heart and soul into carefully cultivating the best radishes, he is an expert in "radish science" and will be recognized.If a person concentrates all his energies and wills on persistently pursuing a worthy cause, then his life will never fail.

The greatest people are the ones who give it their all and persevere, hammering and hammering the same place until their desire is fulfilled.The successful people of our time are those who know everything in their field, who are steadfast in their purpose, and who are single-minded and strive for excellence in what they do.

The reason why many people in life cannot finally realize their teenage dreams is that they dabble in too many fields at the same time, which inevitably distracts their energy, which hinders their progress and makes them achieve nothing in the end.They didn't take a wiser approach of concentrating on one area.

If a person pursues a goal with all his heart, he is rarely unsuccessful.The reason why a great man becomes a great man, and the reason why a successful person surpasses all living beings is that they can unswervingly look for a certain goal, and go all out for it, unswervingly determined. Their achievements and the concentration of their energy are often the same. proportional.

Having an unwavering goal is the common feature of all successful people. Once the goal is established, it will be ruined. If you don't succeed in the struggle, you will die in the struggle.This quality makes them invincible and invincible.

It is the clear understanding and persistent pursuit of the goal of one's own struggle that has created the final success.As they say, if you persevere and persevere, you can achieve anything.If you are impetuous with your heart, you will get nothing.

Fourth, dedication is a prerequisite for success.If you teach your child to walk with concentration and eyesight from an early age, he will usually reach his destination without worrying about falling.On the contrary, if he is distracted and absent-minded, he will most likely fall to the ground and become disfigured.

As a rule, what our heart desires can often be obtained through the thinking of the brain and the action of the hands.Likewise, the ebb and flow of knowledge, wealth, and success have inherent laws, just like the ebb and flow of the sea.In all success we can find this general trajectory: the undivided concentration of energy, the locking of all talents on some unwavering goal, the courageous enduring All kinds of difficulties and hardships, without hesitation, advance along the road full of happiness and glory, but also extremely difficult.

In fact, the same is true of our lives.In a harmonious life, no matter how talented you are, how broad and profound your knowledge is, there must be a core spirit, a core talent, and only in this way can your other talents as auxiliary forces be in their proper place.

Young people are often taught to aim high, but our goals must also be in line with our inner desires and be realistic.

If you only vaguely set a rough goal for yourself, hoping to adjust or change it in the course of action, then no matter how ambitious your goal is, it can only be as illusory as a mirage.

Although the tip of the needle is almost invisible and the blade of the ax is as thin as paper, they play a decisive role in piercing and cutting through thorns and thorns.Neither a needle nor an ax can function without a point and a blade.In life, those who can overcome difficulties and obstacles, and finally reach the pinnacle of success, must also be those who can specialize in a certain field, and have a sharp edge like the tip of a needle or an axe.

When a reporter interviewed Edison, he asked him: "What is the first element of success?"

Edison replied: "The ability to use the energy of your body and mind persistently on a certain problem without getting bored. Most people are doing many things during the 16 hours of sleep every day, and I only do one thing.

If they use that time in one direction, one purpose, they will be successful. "

Allow your mind to settle down and you will discover inner control and power.Focusing means becoming one with the universe in the here and now.You can clearly distinguish stationary from non-stationary states.When you are fully focused, you are unlikely to be angry, afraid, or in conflict.When you are truly engrossed, you are sure to smile.

Concentration is the state of being that can have a lasting effect on the way you think and do things.Focusing is empowering, and it is your choice whether to focus at any time.Focusing your attention has a positive effect not only on you, but also on your relationships with the outside world, and ultimately, other people's relationships with you.This positive influence can literally be felt in your surroundings.

Concentration enables you to come out as you are, to reveal your inner stability, your guiding principles for life.Nervousness can make it difficult to focus and think clearly, leading to imbalance.Nervousness can make a person feel out of shape or traumatized.The level of concentration that will really test you is whether you can persevere in the face of adversity, especially when you have strained relationships with others, when people are scared or feel out of balance and often lose eye contact during conversations.If you maintain balance and maintain eye contact when interacting with others, your relationships will have depth and clarity.

Focusing is also a way to keep the mind clear and focused. Focusing is also a form of meditation that allows a person to get out of the routine for a short period of time and connect with their inner self.

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