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Chapter 139 Wisdom is worse than wisdom hidden 2
Volume 3 Chapter 2 Wisdom is exposed, it is better to hide it than wisdom [-]
make some harmless mistakes
Sometimes, an inadvertent negligence can reveal your best talent.Jealousy usually takes the form of rejection of others, and the more polite the act of jealousy, the more harmful it is.The reason why jealousy regards perfect things as mistakes is that people cannot tolerate perfection.People who are often jealous will become Argos, the hundred-eyed giant, always using all eyes to find small flaws, just to appease the inner jealousy.Rebuke is like lightning, always striking the highest places.Because of this, even a great poet like Homer fails.When prudence can be guaranteed, you can also pretend to lose wisdom and courage, so as to eliminate the malice of others and no longer wanton poisoning.Then, like a matador, you can wave your red cape before the envious bull, and when it unleashes its wrath, you can escape safely and preserve your immortality.

——"The Book of Wisdom"

People who look perfect are easily envied and hated, so looking better than others is often very dangerous, and the most dangerous of all dangers is to look flawless. Envy often creates silent enemies .In order to deflect the jealousy of others and to appear more human to yourself, it is wise to show your own flaws and weaknesses occasionally, and to acknowledge harmless advice.

There is a clean-cut politician in the United States, who has never had any stains in his life and is almost a perfect person. He enjoys a good reputation among the people and has also aroused the interest of the press.

A reporter once visited him in order to obtain some scandalous information about him.However, before he had time to exchange pleasantries, the politician said to the reporter who wanted to question him: "It's still a long time, we can talk slowly." The reporter was surprised by the politician's calm attitude.

After a long time, the servant brought the coffee to the table. The politician took a sip of the coffee and immediately shouted: "Oh! It's so hot!" The coffee cup rolled to the ground.After the servants cleaned it up, the politician inserted the cigarette upside down into his mouth and lit it through the filter.At this time, the reporter hurriedly reminded: "Sir, you took the cigarette upside down." After the politician heard this, he hurriedly held the cigarette upright, but unexpectedly knocked the ashtray to the ground.

The usually personable and high-ranking politician made a series of fools, which surprised the reporter. Unknowingly, the original challenging mood disappeared, and he even had a sense of intimacy with the other party.

In fact, this whole process was actually arranged by politicians.When people discover that a great authority figure also has many weaknesses, past suspicions and resistance to him disappear, and a certain degree of intimacy with the other person, driven by sympathy, develops.

In dealing with people, to make others relax their vigilance towards you and create a sense of intimacy, as long as you subtly and unobtrusively expose some insignificant shortcomings in front of others, make a little fool of yourself, and show that you are not a superior, perfect person. Your "perfect person" can make people breathe a sigh of relief when they associate with you, and they will not be your enemy.For example, successful people talk more about their failure experiences and real troubles in front of others, giving people the feeling that "success is not easy" and "successful people are not perfect".For those whose current economic situation is not as good as yours, you can properly tell your own difficulties, such as poor health or many difficulties at work, so that the other party feels that "so he also has so many troubles." Some professionally skilled people, it is best Explain that you know nothing about other fields, and reveal some low-level mistakes you have made in your daily life.

In fact, there are very few people who can achieve perfection, just out of their own competitiveness or vanity, some people always want to show themselves to be perfect, which is actually a stupid way of life.A person who is well versed in the wisdom of survival should know that: fulfilling the competitive spirit of others will make others like you more and allow yourself to obtain a good interpersonal relationship.This is still very easy to achieve, as long as some innocuous glitches are occasionally exposed.

However, when you arrange the flaws, you must be very natural. Don't let the other party understand that you deliberately let him win, otherwise you will feel that you are hypocritical.The problem you face is that you can still hold on to your rationality at the beginning, but later in the game, your emotions become impulsive and competitive, and you refuse to make any more concessions.Or whether intentionally or unconsciously, no matter in expression, tone, or manner, it is inevitable to reveal the meaning of deliberate concession, and then it is a waste of effort.

(End of this chapter)