Thank you for making me so strong

Chapter 17
It's not that Xia Yu is sensitive, more and more marriages have been in trouble recently.Xia Yu found that there seemed to be more single-parent families around her. Among the students she taught, there were many single-parent families.

Once, Xia Yu asked the students to write a small English composition, "Grateful".

Xia Yu thinks what she said in class is wonderful enough to impress students to write a good article: "In our lives, there are many people who need us to be grateful, such as parents, teachers, For example, friends, for example..."

"I can write anything, but I don't write gratitude to teachers, because I won't be grateful to any teachers, and I don't like them." Her student Li Hua interrupted Xia Yu suddenly.

"What, you don't appreciate any teacher?" Xia Yu was surprised. What did Li Hua mean by that?Are they targeting me and thinking that my teaching is not good?
"Yes, I just don't appreciate any teacher." When Li Hua said this, he raised his head with a provocative look, as if he was speaking to Xia Yu.

"Why? Didn't you acquire the knowledge with the help of the teacher?" Xia Yu's voice became louder. What do you mean by this sentence?Xia Yu wanted to question Li Hua, but she didn't say so, because she knew that as a teacher who might be dismissed at any time, it was best not to have conflicts with students, and if there were conflicts, it would be her own bad luck.Teaching in a private school, the dean made it very clear that students are our parents.Since the students are their parents, which teacher dares to offend these parents?

"I just don't feel grateful to the teachers, because when I was in middle school, none of the teachers liked me. They isolated me, saying that I was a bad student and would lead good children to bad. In the eyes of my former class teacher, as long as there is one student who I said a word, and she immediately turned bad. It was like I was a plague. But I am not so bad, I think I am a good boy, so I am not grateful to any teacher." The more Li Hua said, the more excited he was, and he almost shed tears.

"There is such a thing?" Xia Yu was surprised.

"This is my personal experience, but I am grateful to my best friend, she is my middle school classmate, I remember when the whole world abandoned me, she was the only one by my side, I will always remember Hers, so I am not grateful to any teacher, I am only grateful to my peers."

"Then you can write gratitude to your classmates. As long as there are people who are grateful, you can complete this composition." Xia Yu didn't want to confront the students head-on, so she found a step down, and she felt that Li Hua was a problem student.

When get out of class was over, Xia Yu happened to meet Li Hua's head teacher, so he started talking about Li Hua.

"Li Hua in your class is already 17 years old, why is he still so rebellious?" Xia Yu told Li Hua's class teacher what happened just now.

"I'm sorry, Teacher Xia, don't be as knowledgeable as Li Hua. She was born in a single-parent family and has a weird personality. When she was young, her father abandoned her mother and daughter to find a new love. She didn't get the love of her father. So she was hurt. In middle school, all the teachers and classmates rejected her and isolated her. She spoke very harshly, but she was indeed a poor child." Li Hua's class teacher was very understanding.

"So it's like this." Xia Yu's dissatisfaction with Li Hua disappeared, replaced by sympathy.

"Yes, in the class I lead, there are many children from single-parent families. They are all smart and good children, but because of the single-parent families, parents have to support their families, so they don't have more time and energy to discipline them. So they have a lot of problems, and their academic performance is not good, so they can only come to our school. If they live in a normal family and have parents to discipline them, the situation will definitely be much better than it is now."

"Are there many single-parent families in our school?"

"According to the family information of the students collected by our head teacher, there are a lot of children in single-parent families, and the marriage seems to be very unstable now."

"I thought my child's class was a special case, because his class teacher also told me about this, saying that many students in the class are single-parent families. I didn't expect this to be the case in our school. It seems that marriages are really unstable now." Xia Yu was thoughtful.

Not long after, some good friends around Xia Yu also got divorced for no reason.What touched Xia Yu the most was that Chen Ming's marriage hit the rocks. This seemed unbelievable to Xia Yu. She never thought that Chen Ming's family was always facing a serious crisis.

Chen Ming is Xia Yu's friend, and they have a very close relationship.The two often take their children out to play together, and usually talk about everything.

Chen Ming is a typical good wife and mother. She is good-looking and gentle.Chen Ming worked as an accountant in a company before getting married, and later got married on a blind date and had children.After giving birth, she has been looking after the child at home and cooking for her husband.

Chen Ming's husband is 6 years older than her. He is very taciturn. It is a typical husband and wife family. The husband has a stable job and a good income.The hostess does not have a job, and she is wholeheartedly concerned about the children's basic necessities of life.The child is also very competitive. In school, he is doing well in all aspects.

"To tell you the truth, I have no requirements for life, and I don't have too many ideas. As long as I have something to eat, it's fine. Why do women have to live so tired? I don't want to live so tired. You see , it’s already very hard to take care of the children at home, why do you have to go out to support the family?” Chen Ming saw that Xia Yu never had time to go out early and return late every day, and the children were often hungry and full, so he often persuaded She doesn't tire herself out.

"To be honest, I don't want to work so hard. I get up early and come home late every day, and the children can't be taken care of well. But otherwise, there is no other way. No one has enmity with money. Besides, do you trust men so much? What?" Xia Yu thought of the days when she was idle at home, it was a very unhappy life, Xia Yu felt like a waste, also like a mouse living in the dark, afraid of meeting acquaintances, and the quality of marriage was not good.

"I think Zhang Jie of your family is an honest man, and he won't do anything out of the ordinary." Listening to Chen Ming's words, he still tied his destiny to the waist of the man's trousers, wondering if Chen Ming had his own mental journey back then.

"Hehe." Xia Yu didn't pick up the words, because she didn't want to deny it, but she couldn't be sure.

Knowing people, knowing face but not knowing heart, who would believe that he is an honest person?There are no so-called honest people in the world, Xia Yu is not happy when she thinks about Zhang Jie's mobile phone password and perfume.

"So, why are you so tired?"

"One person, one way of life." Xia Yu didn't want to raise this question more, and Chen Ming wanted to go out to find a job. Although it might not be easy to find a job, it would be no problem to support himself.But she did not go out to find a job, perhaps out of inertia.

Maybe it's because she doesn't have a high level or a low level, she has nothing to do with it, and she doesn't have a solid academic qualifications, so it's natural that she won't get a good job.Chen Ming didn't bother to do bad jobs, and being isolated from the world for a long time, Chen Ming became more and more lazy, so she could only idle at home.

"Actually, you can live more comfortably, as long as you have enough money to spend." Xia Yu knew that Chen Ming was lonely, and wanted to find a full-time friend to accompany her, but Xia Yu didn't want to accompany her. Xia Yu had a sense of superiority in front of Chen Ming, although The job is unstable, but at least I have an independent source of income.

Work has just improved recently, Xia Yu still wants to climb higher, earn more money, and live a better life, preferably earning more money than Zhang Jie, so ask Zhang Jie to take a look at her, and have a higher position at home Some.

"I want to be comfortable, but the tree wants to be quiet and the wind keeps blowing, so I don't feel at ease at home. I found that as long as I go well for a while, there will definitely be troubles. Therefore, living in the big waves, every day It’s a little bumpy, but I feel a little more at ease in my heart.”

"You think too much, I won't have so many thoughts." Chen Ming said.

Xia Yu didn't believe that these were Chen Ming's sincere words. Everyone has their own way of life, and no one can replace others. Xia Yu knew that without a job, there would be no sense of security.

Not long after, Chen Ming, who had been claiming that he didn't want to work, suddenly talked to Xia Yu about work.

"I also want to find a job and do it. The children are getting bigger and bigger. I'm bored at home all day, but I don't know what to do."

"Yeah, at least find something to do, so I feel at ease."

After a while, Xia Yu suddenly remembered that she hadn't contacted Chen Ming for a long time, so she called Chen Ming.Chen Ming's cell phone got through, but no one answered the phone. Xia Yu thought that maybe she was busy, so she waited for Chen Ming to call back, but after waiting for a long time, there was no response. Xia Yu was very puzzled. I know if Chen Ming is far away.

Xia Yu had never encountered such a thing before, every time Xia Yu called her, she would call back soon, but this time it was very abnormal, Chen Ming never returned the call.

"Why? Did she go on a trip?" Xia Yu and Zhang Jie analyzed the matter.

"It is very likely, or there is something, it is inconvenient to contact."

"Or the phone is lost." Xia Yu also thought of this possibility.

Not long after, Xia Yu heard the terrible news that Chen Ming and her husband divorced.

This is what Professor Wang's wife told Xia Yu. She has extensive contacts and many friends, so she is very well informed. She claims to know everything: "I don't believe it, but this is the truth."

"Terrible truth." Hearing this news, Xia Yu opened his mouth for a long time but did not close it.how is this possible?

Xia Yu felt that a safe atmosphere had been destroyed.Divorce is like a huge shock wave, and it hits acquaintances the hardest.

"Many people find it incredible that many people in the hospital have not seen Chen Ming's family for a while, and they have not even seen his children." Professor Wang's wife said.

"Aren't they having a good time?"

"On the outside, there doesn't seem to be any sign of divorce."

"By the way, some time ago, I heard that Chen Ming was looking for a job. This is the only abnormal phenomenon."

"It is said that the child belongs to the husband, and Chen Ming's husband took the child to another unit. The house belongs to Chen Ming, but Chen Ming rented out the house, and it is said that the next step is to sell the house."

"It seems that she wants to change her environment to become invisible, and she simply stops contacting everyone around her."

Xia Yu understood Chen Ming, she didn't want people around to see her injury, so she fled far away from her original environment and avoided all acquaintances.

A few days later, Professor Wang's wife continued to broadcast the latest developments of Chen Ming's incident to Xia Yu, "Chen Ming and his wife have been divorced for a long time. It has been a few years since they divorced and never left home. Look at the young people these days. It's so unreasonable, I really don't understand what is going on with them."

"The most unlucky thing is Chen Ming. She doesn't even have a child, which means that her whole being has been emptied." Mrs. Wang said.

"Housewife is the most unsafe job, with no salary, no status, and no respect. When the time comes, when a man changes his mind, he will have nothing." Yu didn't know if Chen Ming would be her next, and she felt a layer of insecurity in her heart.

"Yeah, I really don't understand. Both of them are good people, why can't they be together? There is no third party, is it because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good?" Mrs. Wang analyzed, she always wanted to put everything together. Everything is understood.

"It seems that the two of them broke up because they couldn't stop living together."

"It must be that Chen Ming is isolated from the world, and the common language between the two is getting less and less, which eventually leads to the breakdown of the family. It is terrible for women to not work and leave society." Zhang Jie said.

"What common language? We've been together for so many years. What should be said has already been said. What else needs to be said?"

"Women still have to work."

"Perhaps her husband regards her as a burden, and if he gets the chance, he will get rid of her as soon as possible?" Xia Yu said.

"How do you know, maybe it was Chen Ming who proposed the divorce." Zhang Jie said.

"It's impossible. She doesn't even have a job. She only cares about her children and family. After the divorce, is she going to drink Northwest Wind? It must be the man's problem. You men don't have a good thing. You only know how to ask women to pay, but you don't live up to it." Responsibility." Xia Yu said angrily, then turned her head and left, but in her heart, she knew that what Zhang Jie said still had some truth, but she was just angry.

The death of a rabbit and the death of a fox hurt its kind, and the matter of Chen Ming is a lesson from the past.With so many lessons learned from the past, Xia Yu's question marks about the smell of Zhang Jie's perfume have increased a lot, and her safety vigilance has increased again.

Where did Zhang Jie's scent come from?It became a knot in Xia Yu's heart.

(End of this chapter)