Super top students: the most efficient learning method for top students

Chapter 54 Step [-] of Efficient Learning - Adjusting Mindset

learning is a kind of growth

How to know your unique self

"People are valuable with self-knowledge".To learn well, you must first know yourself.Know your own shortcomings and advantages, accept yourself, and improve yourself.

Maybe the following similar phenomena have appeared in children, but it doesn't matter, the important thing is to understand these and understand yourself:
1. The transformation from "Apex" to "Shooting Star"
In the past, he was a dazzling "top student" in school. Since another him came, he has become a "shooting star", and his brilliance is fleeting...

2. Raising hands to answer questions is inversely proportional to age
People say: "Loneliness is inversely proportional to age, happiness is inversely proportional to age, creativity is inversely proportional to age..." Raising your hand to answer questions in class is also inversely proportional to your child's age.

3. How to deal with children who "love to show off"
Showing off is a common feature of teenagers, and there is no one who doesn't like showing off. In fact, this is a normal phenomenon.

4. Why lose yourself if you lose the "Three Good Students"
"Three good students" is just a title, just a means of motivation.For children, the most important thing is to improve themselves, not just to get a certificate.

5. Keep kids from learning for their parents

Learning is their own business, but children feel that they are learning for their parents.Homework is for parents, exams are for parents, and it also makes parents distressed...

6. We don’t know why we study
Learning is what students must do, but many students ask: "Why should I study? What is the purpose of studying?" Therefore, there are many "bell-ringing monks" in the school.

7. Why do children always like to set up obstacles for others in their studies?
"Whoever is stronger than me must kill him."This kind of villain mentality has been shown in many students. He always likes to set up obstacles for students who study better than himself, and act as a "villain" in learning.Think about it, what is the psychological cause of this?
8. We're so blind to the answers
In the classroom that just finished the exam, what is everyone doing? Most of the people are busy answering the answers, accompanied by cheers and frustration. The answer is like an imperial decree to the students, and the students are like courtiers. The answer is always right .

9. Cheating on exams is all about vanity

Test scores are to children what the numbers on a bank card are to adults.In order to get high scores, they will do anything - cheat, but the scores obtained by cheating are only short-lived.

10. An "ugly duckling" can also become a "white swan"

"If you say you can do it, you can do it, and if you can't do it, you can do it." This sentence contains the power of suggestion.So, give your child a positive psychological hint and tell him: "You can win."

11. Why we are indifferent to criticism

People often say "the more you see, the more you get used to it".For children, if parents criticize a lot, they will get used to it.

12. Why do some people like to fight against their parents?
Tell him to go east, he will go west; he will not do what he is told to do, and he must do what he is not asked to do.This is because the children have entered the psychological weaning period and have a rebellious psychology.

13. What should I do if I feel "stage fright" as soon as I take the exam

The examination room is like a battlefield, and God favors brave fighters.Candidates must face the word "courage" if they want to succeed in the examination room.

Reaching the pinnacle of learning requires the company of will
Su Dongpo once said: "Those who have achieved great things in ancient times are not only talented but also have perseverance." A strong will is a necessary psychological quality for a person to succeed. Only by persevering and persevering can one fully realize oneself life goals.

1. Don’t dare to write the questions you know how to do

No matter how you look at the questions you can’t do, you don’t know how to do them, and you don’t dare to write the questions you can do. You always doubt your own thinking, so this is how the “blank test paper” came about.

2. "Game far, learn pro"

In the paradise of games, we are generals and emperors; in real life, we are the losers of learning.So, we like to soar in the gaming heaven.

3. Only want to succeed, afraid of failure

A celebrity once said: "Success is not so much a cup of sweet wine as it is a cup of bitter wine, which is the accumulation of the bitter juice of many failures." If we are afraid of failure, we will be farther and farther away from success.

4. Why good students are more likely to "cannot afford to lose"

We who live in applause and flowers, a failure makes us feel "out of favor", as if we are about to be thrown into the cold palace.

5. Why do some people always like to procrastinate homework?
Laziness is the enemy of progress.Eliminating inertia is necessary to make progress academically.

6. Why can't I learn anything

To bury your head in doing things is to persevere.It is not difficult to bury your head in one thing, but it takes perseverance to persist in doing everything.

Good grades must have a good mood
A good mood can relieve physical fatigue and pain better than taking ten good medicines.Learning is a combination of mental and physical labor.

Therefore, children should maintain a good mood while studying.

1. What to do if you are afraid of learning mathematics

The fear of discipline does not come from the discipline, but from ourselves.

2. Quench your anger
We should always tell ourselves, "Impulse is the devil", and we should avoid impulsiveness in learning. Only with a peaceful mind can we study with peace of mind.

3. It is better not to shout the slogan of the exam
"The examination room is like a battlefield" is to make us pay attention to the examination, but the parents say that they don't mean it, but we listen to it...

4. Eliminate the troubles of the previous questions in the exam for yourself
As the saying goes: "There is no pressure in the well to produce oil, and people are light and light without pressure." In the exam, if we are under too much pressure, we will be overwhelmed and unable to stand up.

5. Don't fail

As the saying goes, "Therefore, when heaven will send a great mission to people, they must first suffer their minds and wills, exhaust their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and do things that they don't want to do. Therefore, they must move their hearts and minds, and gain what they can't do."Let yourself see failure as a gift from God.

6. Why do I want to go to the toilet after class
The various abnormal behaviors of many students in class come from fear of class, fear of class comes from fear of learning, fear of learning comes from lack of confidence in themselves...

7. Why do I get scared when I mention school

School is an important place for us to learn. There are kind teachers and dear students there. It is a paradise for us to grow up. However, some students are afraid to go to school and find various excuses to refuse to go to school.

8. What to do if you are afraid of answering questions in class

Shyness is a wall that separates us from the outside world.You should exercise yourself consciously at ordinary times.

9. De-stress yourself

Studies and exams are an invisible pressure for students who are good or bad in their studies.We should also decompress ourselves!
Learning well is inseparable from a sound personality

We don't have to envy the talents of others, and we don't need to lament our own mediocrity. Everyone has their own personality charm.

The most important thing is to know your own personality and develop it.For us, only by understanding and developing individuality can we improve our studies and achieve good grades.

1. Because I don’t like studying, I skip school
Shakespeare once said: "Study must be in line with your own interests before you can benefit." Because I don't like learning, I avoid learning.

2. Good memory but can't remember English
English learning is inseparable from memorizing words. The source of being able to remember everything but not being able to remember English words is the lack of interest in English subjects.

3. Always regard students with better grades than him as "thorn in the side"

Learning is one's own business. Many students like to punish themselves with other people's achievements, and they will only go into a narrow corner in the end.

4. Why do students who study well still feel frightened?

"Ever victorious generals" have never existed since ancient times.But many children who have studied well just want to sit on the throne of the ever-victorious general, and they are always afraid that they will be kicked out one day...

5. I always feel that helping others affects my study
"On a dry fruit tree, don't want to pick big sweet pears; those who are greedy for self-interest, don't want to make good grades." Learning is an interactive process, and only by helping each other can we go further on the road of learning.

6. Allow yourself to free up mental space for others
Loneliness is like a glass of poisoned wine to us growing up. The more we drink, the deeper the poison will be.

(End of this chapter)