Workplace experience in "Ode to Joy"

Chapter 6 Can I Talk About an Office Romance?
//@Lin Bai and the snail//@阿雅1117
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I watched "Ode to Joy" yesterday, and one of the episodes that left a deep impression on me was about Xiaoqiu reporting to Supervisor Bai at the company, and after being temporarily suspended, he came back and told Fan Shengmei and Andy.Both An Di and Fan Shengmei have the same opinion: Xiao Qiu will be expelled from the company because she broke the rules of the world.

Xiaoqiu has always insisted that she has done nothing wrong, and she does not understand why the company should fire her instead of rewarding her.It could be seen that after hearing Fan Shengmei and Andy's words, Xiao Qiu was not happy.Yes, in general, the truth is not so pleasant.

Later, Xiaoqiu called the person in the company who she played well, and the person said on the phone: "Xiaoqiu, you did nothing wrong. Now the company may let you stay at home to reward you for reporting meritorious deeds. Don't worry, after two days God will let you back." After hearing this, Xiaoqiu was very happy.

However, the reality is cruel, and Xiaoqiu soon received a call from the company's personnel department, officially notifying her of her dismissal.As Fan Shengmei and Andy speculated, Xiaoqiu was suspected of covering up.

Xiaoqiu said: "I reported him." The personnel said: "Yes, because you made a good report, we will pay you this month's salary." The subtext is that we dare not use you anymore.

I have to admire the views of Fan Shengmei and Andy, two old professionals in the workplace.

After watching this episode, I was quite emotional.If I hadn’t graduated and saw this kind of workplace drama plot, I would definitely feel emotional: the society is so dark, and the workplace is so dark.But now I don’t think that way anymore. Some people may say that my three views are not correct, but the boss really dare not use people who can’t control their mouths in the workplace.As said in the play, who hasn't ordered something unclean?Once you have a conflict of interest, it's really scary to talk about things everywhere.If Xiaoqiu hadn't broken up with Supervisor Bai and there was a conflict of interest, she would definitely not have reported it.

Everyone has their own moral bottom line, what is your bottom line, you have to be clear, and you have to keep your bottom line.It's also best not to do anything illegal.

There is no need for false justice in the workplace.In the adult world, most of the time, there is no right or wrong, only pros and cons.

Also, office romances are so dangerous, no wonder many companies expressly prohibit office romances.Here's @阿雅1117's opinion on office romance.

By the third episode, Yang Zi fell in love with her male boss, Supervisor Bai.Jiang Xin advised Yang Zi not to fall in love.Because office romances are the least allowed.And once the incident happens, girls will suffer even more!
Why is this?

First of all, although Yang Zi and Director Bai are not directly subordinates.Yang Zi is in charge of the reimbursement, and Director Bai is the one who reviews the reimbursement.If there are people who have overlapping work and restrict each other, such as accountants and cashiers, once a relationship occurs, it is easy to cover up and collude with each other, which will cause losses to the company.To avoid this danger, companies ban office romances.This matter, the company is not wrong!

Some rookies in the workplace are very strange. They always shout "true love is invincible, true love is great".But once they are asked to pay a small price for their "true love", such as changing jobs or something, they can cry like hell, as if the whole world is a big devil, and only they are the pure "princes and princesses".

Is the company wronged?After buying endowment insurance, maternity insurance, unemployment insurance for you, paying the housing provident fund, and paying your monthly salary, you ask it to pay for your love.Please, the company is not your mother!
Secondly, why do girls suffer more?Because China's traditional love model is male big female small.In this couple of men and women in the play, the girl is likely to be the one who entered the company later. Her position is relatively junior. To put it bluntly, she is actually relatively irrelevant!When laying off people after the incident, if you were the boss, who would you lay off?At this time, if the man is willing to take responsibility, the result is not too bad, that is, to grit his teeth and find another job; No money.

To sum up, the workplace ethics of this episode is: office romance is not impossible to talk about, but you have to talk about it with the determination to be fired, and then ask yourself if it is worth it!Instead of crying "the company is unfair" after the incident.

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