Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 1 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (1)

1. Let his thoughts become your Happy Valley
Love is a game of life and death, but also a game of scheming.

After fighting, the "crazy man" and "resentful woman" were all pulled out.

Love is a heart-wrenching journey, and love is a heart-wrenching practice.

Whoever has the highest morals will be able to find out the "heart" of the other party.

"What on earth is he thinking? Does he like me? Does he love me? Why don't I feel loved?"

That's because you lack the ability to control his "emotions".

Everyone is jealous of vixen, and everyone is jealous of "three thousand pets in one body".

"Aside from Hu Meizi seducing men, what else can they do!"

"What's so good about her? What do you want? How can you be so fascinated by that man?"

"That's right, she's the mother of a three-year-old child, and she's three years older than his wife! That man still wants to divorce her because of her, I really can't figure it out!"

She doesn't need to know anything, she only needs to know one thing, which is to be able to win a man's heart.She is an emotional magician, she knows how to make a man's thoughts become her happy place.Therefore, she will make men lose their minds and lose their minds.

Many women believe that love is well-founded, as long as they are armed with the art of war, there will be no fortress that cannot be conquered.

Love can indeed be found according to the picture, but love also needs to be shaped by things.

A smart woman will let a man do his own thing and plan his life carefully.

They will not take love too seriously, but regard love as a part of the whole life plan.

They will not pay too much attention to a certain man, label him "love", and the love in this life will be completed by him.

In fact, everyone is love, and it's all a drama in your life story, why take it too seriously, and why be too persistent?

He is a pawn in the chess game of your life, but you cannot turn him into a "general" pawn.

As long as you let go of your attachment to his "importance", you are truly invincible.

Only when you are in a hurry can men have the motivation to chase you.

Therefore, if you want to pick a good man, you need enough "love".

If you want to "surrender" the thoughts of a high-quality man, you must be "ruthless" enough.

Women can have goals, but don't aim for a man's love.

Trapped by love, it is difficult to win a thousand miles.

The 28-year-old Li Ya suddenly hit a big luck and picked up a returnee man.This man's family is well-off, and his parents are well-known figures in the local area.But Li Ya has a general education, freelance, and works as an illustrator for many companies.

It seems that this profession is quite artistic.In fact, what the turtle man is fascinated by is Ya Li's artistic temperament.And this girl has aura and ideas.

Ya Li met him on a TV show, he went to find a marriage, and Ya Li sent a friend to find a marriage.Hai Guinan turned around and no one took a fancy to it, but she was attracted by Yali who was dressed in plain and elegant clothes without losing her taste.Yali has a slightly lively personality, like an elf in the crowd, a bit eccentric.The turtle man is introverted and somewhat melancholy.

He said that when he saw Yali, he seemed to have forgotten all his troubles.After that, the two got along very easily.

A girl like Yali has a weak appearance and an independent heart.In other words, she has her own set of ideas.She is strong in this regard.

Later, the turtle man took her home, but his parents disagreed at first, saying that this girl is not good enough for you.Later, his father had a private conversation with Yali. After the conversation, his father said, I think this girl is pretty good, and I agree with you.

It turned out that from the conversation, his father not only found that Yali was well-bred, neither humble nor overbearing, but also had a clearer view of future plans.And very down-to-earth, not the kind of floating girl.

That is to say, the well-informed father thinks that Ya Li is a "potential stock".

In the midst of everyone's objections, Yali has been dating the turtle man very relaxedly, without putting any pressure on him.

Yali is easygoing and humorous, and brings a lot of happiness to the turtle man.With Ya Li's "spiritual nourishment", the company run by the turtle man is getting better and better.

In their hearts, there is still a superstitious idea that this woman is "Wanfu".

In fact, a woman with a "Wangve" appearance can actually make her husband happy.A woman who can make a man's life easy and confident will naturally make him achieve success in his career.

A year later, relying on her years of hard work and management, Yali became a jewelry designer and gained fame and status in this city.Their love also has a happy result.

Women who can often grasp high-quality men have layered personalities, and they are by no means purely dependent or simply strong.

I have seen an excellent girl who has a good career and can make a lot of money, but treats her boyfriend like a bird.For things like changing light bulbs, lifting important things, and even opening drinks, she asked her boyfriend to do it, and there was a hint of coquettishness between her eyebrows and eyes.

But for my career, it is really hard work.This is a kind of hidden strength.Don't underestimate this strength.This is often the fatal injury of high-quality men.

This kind of strength represents that a woman has a plan for her own life and can take responsibility for her own life.

And her dependence is not an emotional dependence, but a dependence on trivial matters, which makes men feel "useful".Be careful not to make room for men.This is unmatched by many imposing women.

Many girls are not responsible for themselves at all. Once they fall in love, they leave their emotions to men to play with and ravage them. They find it very pleasant.

In fact, such people are often easily abandoned, and it is difficult to have a good marriage.Because you have no ability to manipulate your own life.It's like driving a car. You don't have the steering wheel at all, or you don't know how to control the steering wheel, but you are eager to suddenly come up with an all-round passenger to help you get it all done.Is this realistic?
Every man is a passenger you pull when driving, which is actually an accidental event.Love is an accident in an accident.How can you not be often disappointed when you expect too much from chance?
Some women said to me: She tried her best to be nice to her boyfriend, even taught him to overdraft her credit card, but he was indifferent, sometimes saying that we should live in this way, sometimes not answering calls or messages for a few days, and reluctantly answered , is also a irritability, all kinds of irritability.He always finds fault with her and is dissatisfied with her.

She said, I changed a lot according to his request, including the details of dressing and eating, but he is still not satisfied. How can I make him satisfied?How can I get him back to his initial enthusiasm for me?

I say, if you want to please him, first have the guts to please him less.Why do you want to satisfy him? In your life, you should first satisfy yourself!
Only when you have settled your set of thoughts, plans, and values, and have an aggressive life plan, can you let him revolve around you and run with you.

If you put all your emotions in his hands, ask him to be responsible for your emotions, to please you all the time, to make you happy all the time, first you have to ask yourself, how much capital do you have?
Do you have a good career and a reputation, making him look good?
Are you so rich that he is reluctant to give up on you?

You are young and beautiful, prettier than ordinary women, does that make him inseparable from you?

Do you keep making progress and let him respect you and love you?

If not, then you must at least be calm enough to be indifferent to feelings and not be drawn by his emotions. In turn, you can hold his emotions.An infatuated woman is not only not cute enough, but also appears to be unmotivated.It is inevitable that she will lose the respect of men for her.

Many women will ask, how to catch him, how to make him more enthusiastic.What to do, I can't do without him, I will die if I leave him.

I can tell you that when you think this way, the defeat has already appeared.

If you decide to give up your expectations of him, reshape your life.Put it down, you still have a glimmer of life, let him look at your worth again in doubt.

If you give him your full attention, make your mind his playground.Then, you will never be able to live comfortably in his love.

The most mysterious wizards often have a heart that is not moved by external objects.In this way, he can manipulate external objects.

Learn to be indifferent, learn to be aggressive, learn to surpass, let his thoughts become your happy place.

(End of this chapter)