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Chapter 2 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (2)

2. Before loving him, quit loving

Su Peipei recently met a man he couldn't handle.At the beginning, he was as passionate as usual, and the courteousness of his pursuit was no worse than that of previous men who had pursued her.In the beginning, Su Peipei didn't pay much attention to him at all, but only saw that he was in good condition, so he kept him as a spare tire.Because Su Peipei's nonchalant detachment aroused his competitive spirit, he became more and more relentless in his pursuit.

Su Peipei is actually a girl who takes her feelings seriously, not an "emotional stamp collector".There is a reason for this state of affairs.

The 27-year-old Su Peipei is a standard beauty, and it is not surprising that there are men chasing after her.It's a pity that God was eccentric and gave her beauty, but didn't assign her a high-ranking emotional intelligence.Su Peipei has many relationships, all of which started with hotness and ended with coldness.The temperature difference between front and back made her shy, and she didn't dare to open her heart for a long time.

Later, she was finally moved by the man's enthusiasm, and began to fully open up her heart, asking about his health and wellbeing.She spared no effort to use the tricks that ordinary little women can use, but unexpectedly, the man became indifferent and evasive.Originally, he proposed to marry her, but now it has been postponed indefinitely.

Su Peipei really didn't understand what the problem was.She thought that men are indeed a difficult species, no wonder people say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

At this time, a worse news came.Xiaoyun, her best friend in middle school, is getting married, and it will be a splendid marriage.A man owns a house, a car and a family business in Beijing.Xiaoyun is an ordinary-looking girl, and she is not as good as Su Peipei in anything. Why is she so lucky?
Is there really such a thing as wealth and life?Su Peipei was not reconciled to being more confused, and his mood was extremely depressed.

I asked Su Peipei, is Xiaoyun a scheming girl?Su Peipei thought for a while and nodded.I asked her about her relationship with men, and got to know Xiaoyun briefly.The answer surfaced.

I said to Su Peipei, if you want a man to love you, don't be too anxious to give your heart at the initial stage.That is to say, when your identity is being pursued, never do what a girlfriend should do; when your identity is a girlfriend, never do what a wife should do.

Looking at Su Peipei's puzzled eyes, I knew she didn't understand.

In fact, many girls with simple brains have agreed to look for a truth.As long as a woman is obedient and obedient, and willing to treat men well, men will cherish this relationship.

right?Can't say it's wrong.It was wrong, they used the wrong time.

When a man pursues a woman, he pays attention to the heat.Because men have wolf nature and hunting nature.Hormones in male animals give them the flair and drive to chase.

When he was in the primary stage of pursuit, it was the stage where he was most interested in hunting. At this stage, what they needed was—difficulty.The more difficult you are, the harder it is to get your hands on them. They are full of enthusiasm and interest.

On the contrary, the performance of women in the primary stage is much less important.Because women have a sense of defense, in the face of a strong attack, most women will choose to escape.Therefore, for an experienced hunting veteran, your evasion is not a reason for him to give up chasing.On the contrary, it may become a signal for him to move forward bravely.Because this game becomes more interesting.

Many girls fall into the quagmire of feelings and are unable to extricate themselves precisely because they have not grasped this hurdle in the primary stage.If you meet a more innocent boy, or a more responsible man, although he also feels uninterested, but for that promise, he is still willing to continue with you.

The bad thing is, you run into an old hand.After you've taken the bait, he feels the game can be over.At this time, his withdrawal and departure may bring a scar that is difficult to erase to the emotional girl.

You mean, you have to be lukewarm to him all the time, and keep his appetite?Su Peipei asked suspiciously.

Of course not, I'm asking you to seize the moment.I said to Su Peipei.

Many girls lack the ability to judge the situation and be flexible in their relationships.

Men treat women like stir-fried vegetables, just wanting a quick result.Women are like simmering soup to men, they need to be simmered on a low fire, and the slower the result, the better.But it does not mean an infinite delay, this will also consume a man's patience, especially the kind who associates with you with sincerity.

Timing is the magic weapon for emotional victory.

Look back at Xiaoyun's feelings again.Her man, Kai, is a high-quality man with some financial strength. Such a man will definitely not be hanged on a tree, although he is not just casting a net.But when it comes to marriage and love, he still has a few options.He slowly picks and scours among these objects.In fact, Xiaoyun, who is not considered outstanding in appearance, was not the best choice.Xiaoyun is also well aware of this.

The key is that Xiaoyun is scheming and knows how to advance and retreat.When men are hot, Xiaoyun is knowledgeable and reasonable, and sometimes lively and funny.If a man doesn't point to the topic, she will never ask for the result first.As for whether you love me?How much do you love me?She didn't even say stupid things like that.

Kai, who is used to seeing "baby girls", is very puzzled by her calm and unfeeling attitude.It made a deeper impression on her.He felt that this was a special girl.He felt that at least she wouldn't plot anything against him.

In fact, Xiaoyun also likes the excellent Kai very much in her heart, but she knows how much competition she faces.And men like Kai are very assertive.Being enthusiastic is the worst move for him.

The best trick is static electricity.Pretend not to love him.Like a prey, attract his pursuit.

At this time, many girls jumped the wall in a hurry. In order to get this "long-term meal ticket", many girls kept calling him, some left him messages, caring, and some even threw themselves into his arms.Only Xiaoyun is always calm.She was always there, and when he was in trouble, she listened.When he was happy, she also accompanied the joy.However, she never expressed her feelings deeply from beginning to end.

Until she became his girlfriend, she would call, send messages, and express occasionally.But, definitely not too much.Don't ask about his private life.That is to say, she is not doing what a wife should be doing.

It is conceivable that as a wife, she will not be more nervous about her husband than other wives.

Her magic weapon is to always do less than where she is.

After I finished the analysis, I looked at Su Peipei again. She seemed to be thoughtful and understood a lot.But she was still not sure about the control of the speed.

I taught her the last trick.If you are really indecisive, there is another trick that is the most ruthless.That is, before you decide to love him, quit loving him.

Forget about loving him while he still loves you.Not pretending, but seriously forgetting.Tell yourself that he is just an ordinary man, a suitor, or a better friend, and that I don't have to love him that much.

Quit loving him in order to finally win his love.When there is really no way out, not to love is the best weapon.

(End of this chapter)