Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 3 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (3)

3. A little woman is not a death-free gold medal for love
Once upon a time in a movie, there was a gentle woman who said to the domineering woman: "My mother said that men like gentle women." Then, under the angry and desperate eyes of the domineering woman, she rode a horse with the handsome guy and left in the dust. . . .

Many women who want to marry well will use the magic weapon of "gentleness".But tenderness is an open secret.The secret book has been made public, so it is not a secret book.

Tenderness is like some kind of cultural shirt, everywhere.Every girl can't wait to chisel the word "gentle" on her forehead.No matter who it is, they know how to pretend to be a little girl once in a while, to be coquettish, charming, and teasing again.

If your ideal is to marry an ordinary man and live a real fireworks life, then please continue to use the above tricks.You must know that ordinary men are not very picky eaters.It is a blessing that you are willing to marry them.

But if your ideal is more than that, I hope to find a high-quality man to appreciate and admire you.Even if you're more ambitious, put away those old tricks.Because of the same uniform cultural shirts, he must have turned his stomach.

You use the routine of counterfeit products to capture luxury goods, but you can only let "luxury goods" see through your shabby bones, your fatigue, artificiality and superficiality.

It's better to talk to him heartlessly and make him think you are really funny and cute; or say bravely, handsome guy, you are mine!Such an opening statement is even more refreshing.

The general competition in love is to compare who can "pretend" better.

High-end love competitions have always been about not "pretending" than anyone else.

Remember, there has never been a gold medal for avoiding death in love, and the most taboo thing is to do one size fits all.The more successful a man is, the more he hates seeing the same woman all day long.

People who have met Liang Yan all think that she is a rare good-tempered girl who is willing to dedicate herself to men, almost to the point of obedience.But several of her relationships were less than ideal.Liang Yan's gentle retreat, but in exchange for a man's arrogance.

Recently, she met a nice man who works as a lobby manager in a hotel and looks like a successful man at a young age.Now I am pursuing her, more eager and proactive.

Liang Yan told me that she was really scared and didn't know whether she should accept such a man.I simply understood the situation.

The lobby manager Xiao F's parents are both teachers and have a harmonious marriage. Xiao F is a man with a strong career ambition and owns a house and a car.For Liang Yan, this condition is already married.And after a side-by-side investigation, he didn't have any messy feelings.Belongs to a man with a more specific feeling.

Little F was born in a teacher's family, and his parents have a good relationship, which shows that he is a well-educated and qualified person, and he is easy to believe in feelings.

I told Liang Yan, be brave and don't be afraid.Such a good man, and with the sincerity of dating, it would be a pity to miss him.Liang Yan also felt that the opportunity was rare, so she started dating him.

After a while, Liang Yan asked me in confusion, she dare not treat him too well now.However, I am afraid that because I am not good enough, I will give others an opportunity to take advantage of it.So very contradictory.

In the process of talking, I found that Liang Yan's love mode is a little bit better than before, but it still has a weakness of being too submissive.So little F gradually became less popular than before.

Liang Yan's problem is not in choosing a man, but in the way of falling in love.

In fact, crows are generally black in the world.Many girls pin their hopes on choosing a man.Hope to choose a flawless, god-level man.However, even if you meet this kind of man, you can't control him.

It can be seen that choosing a man is not the most important thing, the key is to be able to control men.

The red rabbit and BMW are the most difficult to control.The higher the level and the better the man, the more difficult it is to control.

When we need a good horse, don't match it with an inferior saddle.When we want to choose a high-quality man or even a diamond man, we should not use inferior wisdom.

When "Golden Branch Desire" was broadcast, Erchun once said: "First-class women can't ask for second, second-class women are indifferent, and third-class women are obedient and obedient." It can be seen that Liang Yan's bottom line in seeking truth in love sign.

She uses routines instead of wisdom.Routine love is synonymous with inferior wisdom.

Looking back at Liang Yan's previous relationships, she once fell in love with Xiao A for a few months, and then moved in together, serving Xiao A like a grandson.So little A has nothing to do every day, playing games and MMs on the Internet all day long.All he needs to do is lift his foot when Liang Yan wipes the floor.Just like that, he was restless, feeling that Liang Yan was disturbing his play.

He is even more picky when eating, and will be furious if he doesn't like his appetite.Although he hugged Liang Yan afterwards and apologized.But it left an irreparable psychological shadow on her.

Now, in Xiao F's love, Liang Yan has made progress.At least she realized that blindly submissiveness was not enough.But now she has added a new bad habit-acting like a baby and acting.

There is nothing wrong with acting like a baby, but you must know that acting like a baby is also a public formula in the little girl's secret book.Village women in the mountains can take it out and show off at will.

As Xiao F's profession, seeing a lot of diabolical and angry people must make him sick.Originally, what he valued Liang Yan was because of her simple temperament, an assimilated temperament that was not stained by sensuality.

The entanglement point of Xiao F is, why is this woman more and more similar to the women I am used to?
And Liang Yan's entanglement is, should I treat him better?Or a bad point?I want to be closer to him?Or just a little more distant?

The entanglement points of men and women often run counter to each other.So trying to figure out a man's psychology is simply a wrong entrance.How can a wrong entrance lead to a correct ending?
Therefore, it doesn't matter whether you are close or far, the key is that you have to be "ruthless".

Happiness requires a bit of "ruthless" strength, to tame the most naughty "Lion Cong" like Wu Meiniang, iron whip, hammer and dagger, she said, if you can't tame it, then kill it, such a broken horse, what else do you need? use? !That's what it takes to be a woman.So she tamed two generations of emperors.

That's why successful people have ugly wives, because they hold whips instead of flowers.

Women who rely too much on "little woman tactics" will only make men look down on you, despise you, think you are weak and incompetent, or have ulterior motives.The action taken because of thinking about his hobbies is itself a despicable thing.

Only cheap goods are sold loudly on the street stalls, trying to please the passing customers.And the real luxury goods have always been placed on the counters of high-end shopping malls coldly.

Go with your own thoughts and believe that men exist to please you.If a relationship, even a man, can't please you, then no matter how good he is, what does it matter to you?Can it give you happiness?
Take your own preferences as the starting point, be true to yourself, be cruel to him, be rebellious, don't be so obedient, don't be so obedient, and don't let him see you standing still no matter where he goes.

(End of this chapter)