Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 4 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (4)

4. Knowing you and loving you are inversely proportional functions

"If you are a beautiful woman, you will inevitably want to use your beauty to commit murder; if you are a talented woman, you will inevitably want to rely on your talent to be arrogant."

Now beauties are gathering together, talented women collide with cars, and talented women are more flooded than artificial beauties.Artificial beauties need money, and if they are groomed to star level, they need a lot of money, which is beyond the reach of girls from ordinary families.It’s much easier for talented women. Now that higher education is commonplace, anyone can pretend to be a literary young woman by watching petty bourgeoisie movies or flipping through fashion magazines.

It stands to reason that literary and artistic young women are sentimental and tasteful, so they should be a hot commodity in the marriage and love market.In fact, on the contrary, they are slow-selling goods.

Among older young women, literary and artistic young women account for a large proportion, almost the main force.This is really a social phenomenon worthy of reflection.

The 26-year-old Benny is a literary young woman. She often doodles and has published several magazines.I will also write some lyrics.What's rare is that she still has a bit of beauty, and she still turns heads on the street.

Such a girl is arrogant and arrogant. She has talked with her boyfriend three or four times, and the conditions are not bad. The strange thing is that Benny always has the enthusiasm to explore at the beginning, but after a while, she feels uninterested.Slowly, her immobile character also made the boy more and more tired.

Later, she met a warm and cheerful boy, Little K, who worked as a programmer in a well-known company with a monthly salary of over [-].

For the boy, the Bernie family was a hundred satisfactions.Benny's job as a clerk in a company is not a very sought-after qualification.In the eyes of parents and relatives and friends, to find such a boy with potential stocks is already a super-level performance.

The boy's work is relatively busy, and most of the time to contact Benny is after 11 o'clock.Bernie is an introverted character, most of the time the boy barely finds some jokes and talks about it.The boy was extroverted and lively, informal, and didn't have much thought in his mind, but Bernie felt lost.

What is less?She doesn't know either.I just feel that a symptom called "love myasthenia gravis" is slowly penetrating into her love texture.Love, instead of bringing her passion, brought her a lot of emptiness and exhaustion.

When she calmed down, she also asked herself what kind of life she wanted to live.

I told Benny, this boy seems to love you, he has potential, he is willing to work hard, and he is willing to spend time to please you.Don't be picky about this.After passing this village, I'm afraid there will be no such shop.

Bernie thought about it and said something that shocked me.She said, I think he doesn't understand me.

This is the "thinking dead end" of talented women.What many talented women yearn for is not the life of raising eyebrows together, but the classic love that is like the version of "Dream of Red Mansions" who know each other and cherish each other.

She hoped that the boy would say something like, "Sister, I'm afraid your illness will be cured before mine will be cured", or he would send a handkerchief to her in the middle of the night and ask her to write a poem.A "Dream of Red Mansions" has killed as many literary women as Qiong Yao's drama.

The key is that the dream is very tragic, but the reality is very staggering.Don't try to think who is a roundworm in someone's stomach, he is not a fortune teller or a fortune teller on the street, and he is not an immortal.He is not your father, besides, even your father may not be able to understand the messy code in your mind.

Ask yourself, do you understand yourself?Since you can't understand yourself, why do you expect others to understand you?
In fact, what a talented woman requires others to understand, to put it bluntly, is her own uniqueness and difference.The love she is looking forward to is the love deep in the soul.For example, he must clearly know that she is different from other women, and she is different from many soulless women.She is not a toothbrush that can be replaced at will, she should be water and air.This is a talented woman, and the potential superiority of young literary and artistic women is at play.

However, a truth that relatively few people will know is that loving you is actually an inverse proportional function to understanding you.For a man, it's not that the more he understands you, the more he loves you, but the less he understands you, the more he loves you.

Speaking of this, Benny thought for a while, and said that she had dated a boyfriend, Xiao A, who was also a young man of literature and art, and wrote many pure literature works.This is a boy who hurt her deeply.She really admired him, asked him for advice, and was gradually attracted by his erudition and talent, and fell in love with him truly.

That relationship was short, so short that she kept blocking it in her mind.There were only two months between them, and it can be said that they died before they developed a formal relationship, but the toxin of the "understand you" model has always remained in the texture of her love, causing her love ability to gradually weaken in the future .

It's really like a gradual onset of "love myasthenia gravis".

Going back to this short-term relationship, what is the reason for the relationship to be "aborted"?It turns out that it is rooted in the "understanding" of young literary and artistic youths.Because they can see each other's thoughts at a glance.

A woman wants to understand a man, the more she understands, the more she depends on him, just like her child, the more she understands, the more she loves, and the more she loves, the deeper she is.Men are different. Men like to explore and study women they don't understand.This woman needs to be a little lively, a little playful, a little rebellious, and a little well-behaved. He needs to see her in a fog, three parts true and seven parts false.In this way, he is eager to see through her.

Once, like a peeled orange, he confessed his heart nakedly in front of him, he completely lost interest in continuing.

Women are always looking for a man who has something in common, and men are always looking for a woman who is different.

This is why it is easier for boys who are engaged in science to pursue girls who are engaged in liberal arts.Because of the mystery, the desire to explore is aroused.

After listening to my analysis, Bernie slowly stretched her frowning brows.She said that she would think about it when she went back, and try her best to get along with Laughing K.From today onwards, she will learn to treat herself as an ordinary girl, get rid of these sour thoughts, and seriously face a relationship that is full of oil and salt.

Falling from the clouds to the mortal world, can Benny succeed in her transformation?I silently bless in my heart.

(End of this chapter)