Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 20 Self-worth depends on oneself, noble people depend on wisdom to give their lives (9)

9. Do daily necessities or luxury items: Do you dare to be a luxury item for his soul?

Every woman knows that marrying a diamond man requires pure and careful thinking.

As long as you act like you're not close relatives with "Qian", and your eyes and demeanor lean toward innocence, you won't have to worry about not being able to pinch the diamond man's seven inches.

As everyone knows, this is just superficial work and cannot reach the dermis.

He likes you, just wants to play with you.If you are willing to act, there will naturally be people who are willing to watch the whole show for free.In the economy and society, everyone is under great pressure, and there are clowns, which are naturally welcome.

When he gets tired of watching it, he will keep silent and show you the suspense.Unless, you can change to a more exciting scene and continue to play it hard for him.

So, it's not that the diamond man lacks scheming, it's just that he doesn't like to expose your drama.Because the "sell power" of your performance can improve his "sense of worth".

A vulgar diamond man, he only likes women whose status and wealth match his, because his wife always needs something he can afford.

A tasteful diamond man, in addition to secular factors, will also pay attention to model matching.

A cold man is easily attracted to a cold and arrogant woman.

A rational man prefers women who are also rational and self-sufficient.

A warm man is more likely to be moved by an innocent and gentle woman.

It has been said that people like what they don't have in themselves.This statement is only on the surface.Don't forget, a man who is cold on the outside may have a soft heart, so he will fall in love with an innocent and romantic warm woman.A man who is gentle on the outside may be cold on the inside, so he will unexpectedly fall in love with a woman who is more cruel and cold-blooded than him.

If you want to have expensive love, you must first have insightful wisdom and cruel luggage.

It is necessary to look at the overall situation of love with the sobriety of evacuation, so that the ending is clear enough.The self-satisfied and cautious plan seems to invite you into the urn, but in fact it is a cocoon.Your intelligence is a passing line, so you can't blame him for being shortlisted for his "daily necessities" storage warehouse.

If you want to make daily necessities, the procedures are not complicated.As long as you have the right amount of beauty and not too obvious influence, you can get the entry ticket.

However, paper towels, toothpaste, towels, and razors can all be replaced by the same kind, and it does not affect the essence of their lives.

Only by going deep into the back garden of the diamond man's mind and being a luxury in his mind can he never forget you and regard you as the most unique one.If you want to get a VIP ticket, you have to measure his personality and tailor your clothes accordingly, and re-standardize your behavior style.

He is elegant you, and you have to be elegant.He is arrogant, and you are even more arrogant than him.If he has a bit of taste, you must be familiar with the history and allusions of red wine, and don't just say: I have drunk a bottle of red wine worth tens of thousands. . .Let him see through the vulgarity in your bones at a glance.

Yi Shu's "The Story of Roses", the omnipotent yellow rose in love, once fell in love with Zhuang Guodong passionately.But he lost to his girlfriend who was as "cold" as him.The painter's girlfriend is as sharp-tongued as he is, indifferent and arrogant, and has the same hard heart, unable to be moved by the emotions around him!

Why doesn't he love roses?Rose's burning passion overwhelmed him.

To conquer the heart of a cold and arrogant man, one must have the ability to restrain him, such as academic expertise, so that he can feel that your talent is not inferior to his.The second is to be more "cold" than him, able to speak three points, but not five points.Also, learn to use your eyes.If you can't get over your warm traits, take your enthusiasm slow and simmer slowly.Men who have been soaked in cold water for a long time, their perception is not obvious, so "emotional nourishment" must not be eager for success.Otherwise, you will be totally lost.

People's magnetic field often attracts people with similar characteristics to themselves.

It's hard to imagine a serious person falling in love with a woman who chatters like a sparrow.Perhaps, he will like lively traits, but he is definitely rational and lively with a sense of proportion.A mature man will often not love a superficial and childish woman.Unless, there is also a child living in his heart, maturity and stability are only his protective color.Or, this woman's innocence is just an appearance, and she is very rational inside.

When we discuss similar matching, we often put too much trust in appearance, and the appearance of many people is just a protective color of their true character.Therefore, only a truly wise woman can break through the thick layer of ice on the diamond man's body and find the ray of sunshine in his heart.

Among Anrui's good friends, she is not the most beautiful, nor is she the tallest, nor is she the most professional.At the white-collar blind date held in Beijing, Anya pointed to one of the men and said, I want him to be my husband.

That man was indifferent and arrogant, but because of his excellent conditions, he was the focus of the audience.Especially the red convertible sports car he drove over made all the women's eyes shine, and they were all eager to try and "catch him".

Among Anrui's friends, Qianqian is the sweetest.Lin Lan has long legs and a thin waist, with a model figure.An Rui has a bachelor's degree and works as a white-collar worker in an office building. He is 165 cm tall, a little pure and pretty.But compared to socializing, she is not as good as the eloquent Qianqian, and compared to being glamorous, she is not as good as Lin Lan.She is a little cold and very rational.

She could tell at a glance that the man, let's call him Xiao A, was a man who was arrogant on the outside, but tender on the inside, rational on the fourth, and defensive on the inside.In other words, his little sunshine was covered by layers of haze.At that party, their sisters came out on top, and Xiao A went on dates with them respectively to deliberate on suitable dating partners.

Unexpectedly, after a while, An Rui won.

So where did these girlfriends of hers fail?Qianqian has more than enough communication skills, but not enough knowledge reserves.In other words, she lacks depth and is poor.Communicative competence, first of all, is secular communicative competence.But the cold and arrogant little A has always flaunted his uniqueness and disdains the world.So he just felt that Qianqian was sweet on the outside, but worldly in her bones.Looking at Lin Lan again, Lin Lan loves luxury goods, decorations, and dresses up like models.All men have animal cells. At first, he thought it was quite a face to have such a girlfriend, but after a long time, he started to be picky again.Coupled with Lin Lan's arrogant appearance - this is the key point to attract little A.But the heart is warm-hearted, and once it finds its prey, it will desperately pursue it.I can't wait to contact him every second, and try to be nice to him.As a result, Xiao A was naturally frightened and ran away, almost changing his mobile phone number.

This kind of man is generally very cautious and never causes troubles that are not easy to solve.

An Rui is much calmer, and in her heart, she defines Little A as a friend.So she didn't treat him specially, it was as cordial and natural as talking to a friend.In addition, Little A is an architect, so Anrui supplemented her knowledge of architecture and European painting. When Little A talked about professional topics, she always listened attentively, and often made finishing touches.Xiao A was very pleased, and sincerely appreciated Anrui more.

Anrui is very good at communicating with each other, and tries not to take the initiative. If he wants to take the initiative, he will greet him at the end, neither urgent nor polite and respectful.

An Rui is a woman with a very rational heart, she can advance or retreat, and she knows how to accept everything when she sees it.Would rather lose than rush.Therefore, Little A's defense system gradually melted away, and he found that he could no longer do without An Rui.

The reason why An Rui can enter the back garden of the cold and proud diamond man and become a luxury in his heart is because she has the rationality and calmness to watch love from the other side.

so.Good love requires planning.

A love that is caught off guard is often inelegant and full of fallacies, making it difficult to satisfy the other party.

And the pre-designed love, not rushing or impatient, finding the best angle, will easily capture her heart.

Because you give each other affectionately, the other party loses respect for you.Humans tend to like opponents who are evenly matched.Either mind to match, or heart to match.The more well-informed a man is, the less likely he is to love an indulgent woman.

Don't move too fast, use too much force, be careful not to lose grace.A person who cannot make the opposite sex look up must not be so cute.

(End of this chapter)