Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 24

3. To be a vixen, you must learn to blur the focus and force the edge
For a long time, people have had a misunderstanding about the concept of "vixen".

People think that the neckline is low enough, the hem of the skirt is high enough, the eyes are charming enough, the behavior is sloppy enough, the tone of voice is sweet enough, with black silk mesh and smoky makeup.The blatant "sao" breath that can be smelled across the three alleys is a skilled vixen.

In fact, this is just a "vix apprentice" with poor skills. This kind of charming trick is not so much outdated as it has never really been taught.

Love Hunter has always been the most dedicated "Actor".You are obviously charming, but he is flirtatious, one back and one back.You earn enough drama addiction, he earns enough box office.You have to win spiritually, and he has to benefit physically.Who do you say wins and who loses?
The "apprentice fox spirits" ridiculed the man for being stupid and stupid. In fact, if he is wise and stupid, if he is willing to come out to play, he must do a full set of plays.It's nothing more than exempting the ticket price for the VIP "sex VIP" seat!Nowadays, if you want to eat "overlord's meal", you can't be popular if you blindly play tricks, play tricks, be cute, play pitiful, and play dumb, men are not inferior to women at all!
The true patriarch of the vixen spirit, who has been enlightened for thousands of years, can cause countless heroes to bow their heads, trigger wars between the two countries, and make the world restless, all of them are deep dives.

They often dress poorly, wear a little powder, and have a lazy and dazed look on their faces.Slight temptation, sneak attack with small eyes, quite good at "scattered and soft eyes", and does not give people a sense of aggression.On the contrary, it can make the men let go of their full vigilance.They are not blindly docile, nor are they domineering.None of them has a fixed personality, and they are all innocent.

Just like an apple with good color, fragrance and taste, you want to bite it with all your heart, but you can't find the "bite".

In a word, you can't see through her tricks and tricks for a vixen with a deep morality, because she is full of dots, and any good point of her is messy and scattered.

A vixen without focus is the public enemy of the world.

26-year-old Fu Jingjing has always been called a "vixen" by men and women. In addition, she is good at communication, has many friends of the opposite sex, and her clothes and ways of doing things are fashionable and open.She is a makeup stylist who does makeup for models and actors.So it is unambiguous to put on makeup for yourself.All kinds of conditions were woven together, and a vixen badge was awarded to her.

Fu Jingjing felt aggrieved. In fact, she was a traditional girl, and the purpose of dating was to get married.There are quite a few people chasing her, many of them are men with families or big bosses who ask her to be their lover.

Fu Jingjing doesn't get along well in the love scene. In the relationship, her boyfriend is more gentle and considerate to her. Occasionally, he will have a little romance and hold a birthday party for her.

But after a period of dating, she will reveal her intention to get married, such as how many children we will have in the future, and the children will be sent to the UK for education, and so on.At this time, the boyfriend is vague or changes the subject.After a period of time, she will find that her boyfriend starts to be busy, traveling on business, working overtime, and there are fewer opportunities to meet each other.

She wondered, she was supposed to be stylish, pretty, financially independent and have a good career.Can be regarded as young and promising.Why can't you catch a man?Besides, the men she falls in love with are not the kind of flamboyants, especially the ones she picks out from thousands of thousands, they are all a little responsible. Why do they all disappear when it comes to marriage?What's wrong with her?Fu Jingjing felt that the title of "Fox Spirit" was too much for her to bear.

However, if it is allowed to marry two and three bedrooms, men will consider collecting her.

Under the analysis and suggestion of her best friend, Fu Jingjing thought that the way she met men was wrong, and she should not look for men within the scope of work contact.In short, people who are associated with the literary and art circles are not very reliable.There is a lack of a basis of trust with each other.

Fu Jingjing began asking people to introduce her, targeting at some corporate executives, scientific research units, enterprises and public institutions, science and engineering industries, etc., who had less contact with women.At the beginning, these men were also amazed by her, and they threw olive branches, gifts, and dinners one after another.When she wanted to talk about marriage, they left in a nonchalant manner.Finally, there was a man, Little G, who was doing business in Hong Kong and had tens of millions of assets. 35 years old, single.He wanted to marry Fu Jingjing.But Fu Jingjing had to resign and become a full-time housewife.And live in Shenzhen.He bought a villa there and ran on both sides.

Fu Jingjing thought about it and agreed.It's not that she's in a hurry to get married, it's mainly because of the behavior of those men that hit her hard.She even had self-cognitive hallucinations, thinking that there must be something wrong with herself, so no one would dare to marry her.

There are honest men who tell her.Metaphorically speaking, you are like an exquisite toothbrush in an exquisite tooth bowl, but in a communal washing room.Men worry that everyone will come and use it.

Although Fu Jingjing yelled that she was wronged, but as a woman like the "apprentice fox spirit", as long as the dusty atmosphere persisted, it would be difficult to truly arouse the trust of men.

In fact, the analogy of the toothbrush is also because the man took her face into consideration and didn't speak well.

It's not because of how high her value is, a woman who is too dusty, even if she is very stunning, a man still has frivolous thoughts.

Because the breath around them is too close to lust and too far away from true love.In true love, lust will not occupy the main space. In true love, there are always some pure and small thoughts.

True love is a big house with bright and clean windows, and lust is just a door in it.When you can only evoke the idea that a man keeps pushing that door open, those other important qualities of love, other doors, are ignored by him.

Maybe you live in your heart with a virtuous wife who can make soup with her hands, but he has no room to experience it.

In love, there must be some gaps to turn around, and don't be overcrowded by lust.

Women desperately pursue sensuality, thinking that a man's love is driven by lust, lust, through the mysterious Eden of love.

In fact, men are only driven by lust, but never held hostage by lust.If the passion is too hot, it will cover the way to the true heart.Once you give him a clear path of reality, he will immediately cut off the back path of lust.

Because a realistic and rational man will separate desire from love, love from life!
When Fu Jingjing got engaged to Xiao G, Xiao G suddenly regretted it. At this time, they had been living together for more than three months.Little G said, I admit that you are a woman who is attractive to men, and I can't match you in terms of physical fit with any woman.But you are not suitable to be a wife, so I want you to continue to be my lover.

Fu Jingjing slapped him and moved out of the villa.She was angry and sad.What made her even more angry was that the reason why Xiao G broke up with her resolutely and completely was because he fell in love with another woman.

The woman is divorced and has a three-year-old daughter.The appearance is sweet, although she is in her 30s, she has the air of a girl next door.Little G said, she needs my care more than you, she is very weak and confused.And you, you are very independent and strong, and you have so many friends of the opposite sex to help you, I believe you will have a good life.

Fu Jingjing told me that I am neither independent nor strong, and my heart is full of holes.But I was afraid that men would bother me to be dependent, so I tried my best to pretend to be independent.I was afraid that men would hate me for spending money, so I bought flowers myself.What is not suitable for me to be a wife?Why did I lose at the hands of such a woman?What is it about her that attracts men more than me?
I asked in detail about that woman A.I told her that deep wisdom is hidden in all seemingly simple knowledge.So is she.

She doesn't look good, especially from a worldly point of view.

First, there is no scheming, confusion, and people always need to worry about it.

From another point of view, this kind of woman will make men raise some pure and small thoughts, and inspire them to be more humane.For example, to stimulate their desire for protection and care.This kind of woman will make men worry, and worry is the pure little thought in love.

Second, the appearance is sweet, but not aggressive.

Generally, this kind of woman will make people feel gentle, but not threatened.Men running around in the mall are very defensive, and they usually don't like women who are in the same way as them, such as Fu Jingjing, who seem to be well-informed and calculating.What they like is women who let them relax and let their brains rest.This feeling of relaxation is a sense of stability of the soul.

There is a paradox here.Do men need a secure woman, or a less secure woman?

Relationship experts tell us that men need women who are less secure.

It makes sense, but many people don't understand it properly.Why do you say that?
Many people understand insecurity as romantic, social, and aggressive. In essence, men like women who are not aggressive, but have no "bite" to grasp.

First of all, don't be too sexy, just three points.Not old-fashioned, not rustic, keeping up with the trend, and not intentionally showing flesh.

Secondly, there should be no more and no less communication, a certain amount of room for friends, a few followers and confidantes, but not too many.For details, please refer to Lin Huiyin.

Again, the general direction is aggressive, and the small direction is dependent.

This woman must have an aggressive personality, with dreams and pursuits, but this dream cannot completely coincide with love.That is, she has a certain degree of freedom.As for Xiao Xiang, she knows how to surrender to men without being arrogant.

In other words, men like women who are assertive, but not too assertive.

This reminds me of a person in ancient times, Mrs. Peach Blossom.She is such a woman.There is also Baosi, Baosi is also indifferent to men.Men are obsessed with them.Of course they don't have aggressive traits either.

A "soft but not weak" woman seems to be obedient, but in fact she never deliberately pleases a man.It looks easy, but it is actually very difficult.Because they are gentle on the outside, but inside they have their own pursuits, their own standards and principles.

They will not be controlled by lust, will not be confused by men's love and kindness, and will not be driven by the love emotions created by men.They look like they need protection, but inside they don't seem to need anything.

Whether it's wealth, the pampering of men, the envy of the world, and all kinds of benefits you can think of, they are all indifferent, without flattering and flattering smiles.

Understand?girls?

"Voxen Apprentice" woman, putting temptation on the table is tantamount to sending weakness to men.The "Cheats of Love" they wove is an outdated EQ guide.For them, men have always only had a flirtatious heart, but no real affection.The so-called true feelings shown in the show are nothing more than being greedy for some physical benefits.

What's even more sad is that "dominant vixens" often have the mind of a good family. They don't hesitate to lower their social status and try their best to please men, but they don't know that this is the worst move.

When your whole body is covered with handles that he can hold, your worth can be calculated in terms of weight.First of all, your heart is not considered true by him.Secondly, you are already conquered by him overnight tea.

You don't take the gratitude and desire to conquer in love, so how can you ask for his sincerity?
The hidden vixen is the invincible killer in love.She will sink or even suffocate men a little bit.She has always been indifferent to a man's sincerity, just treat it as a drama, a performance.

Their posture is weak and their minds are relaxed.Only when you can let it go, you can get it.

In the field of love, a woman who can really make a man fall in love is a woman who will not be moved by a man's emotions. She has indifference and tranquility in her heart. This calmness alone, which is invulnerable to everything, confuses men.

When a man knows that his wealth, lust, and pampering cannot please you, and he can't find a fulcrum to control you, he will really pay attention and try hard to find a way to please you.

This process is called the sincerity of a man.

As a woman, if she can learn to focus blurredly, she will be able to break down a man's lust and bring out a little pure little thought.To be a woman, you will be able to work hard on the edge, so that you can make yourself fall in love, and the years will be peaceful.

Don't take it too seriously, and don't take it too seriously.It is the essence of women like Lin Huiyin who are proud of being in love.

(End of this chapter)