Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 23

2. Don’t be the final version of the prodigal son, but be an upgraded version of the prodigal son if you want to

Men don't know that women always have a little "wandering" temperament in love, and good girls also "have evil intentions" and want to burn with passion.Love in a woman's heart is more like a tent that you carry with you, rather than an umbrella that can be used in both weather and rain.

Men think that the ultimate pursuit of women is wealth.So all of them went into battle, playing games for wealth.But they don't know that in that side, the women are so fascinated by the prodigal sons who have nothing, they are chasing and dedicating themselves, but they also want to pursue the love in their hearts.

The man can't help but wonder: woman, what do you want?
Women are born obsessed with a feeling called "dreams".Men are easily bound by reason, and women are easily fed by feelings.

Men are seldom really won over by romantic women, they only talk about sex, not love.But women are easy to fall into the hands of "prodigal sons in love".They cannot store sex and love in two folders.Often, they are bundled sales, buy one get one free.

In particular, the wandering traits of the "prodigal son in love" satisfy their fantasy space for love.

In fact, women are not obsessed with prodigal sons themselves, but like the "casual" attitude in love.Because it is not bound by time and space, it is very close to the essence of love.

Women more or less suffer from "prodigal son syndrome".Even if they are well-clothed, well-fed and stable in this world, they can't stop their hearts that are precarious for love.

Xiaoyun is such a girl who suffers from "Prodigal Son Syndrome".Her condition is not bad, she is 160 tall and has a delicate and exquisite figure. Although she was born in the north, she has the frame of a southern girl.To use one word to describe it is "I feel pity".

The family introduced many partners to her, and among them, three men with good conditions were infatuated with her.A start-up company with several million assets.One is a civil servant with very good work benefits.The other works in a scientific research institute. He is very down-to-earth and handsome.

Surprisingly, Xiaoyun didn't choose any of them. Instead, she left her family and business and went to another city to find a man who sold paintings everywhere.

This painter, with a vigorous heart, vowed to do the same career as Van Gogh in his lifetime.Xiaoyun didn't know much about painting, but she was moved to tears by his talent and ambition.She imagined that one day, his art exhibition would be a success, and she would be the driving force behind the mining and cultivation of potential stocks.That feeling intoxicated her.

In this way, Xiaoyun gave a girl the most precious three years.Her family is quite rich.But her parents cut off her financial resources for a long time because of anger.Xiaoyun resigned again. The artist doesn't make any money at present, so she has been relying on her for maintenance.

Later, Xiaoyun worked as an interpreter during the day and set up a street stall to sell clothes at night.He worked hard to raise funds for his art exhibition.

But what do painters do?He often goes to bars to find inspiration, and hangs around with all kinds of girls.Xiaoyun once cried and made a fuss because of this, and the artist bangs his head against the wall or smashes the glass with his hands excitedly every time, saying that he really has nothing but looking for inspiration.

Every time, Xiaoyun's heart softened.

Later, Xiaoyun's family finally forgave her, thinking that she was 28 and not too young, so they urged her to marry the painter as soon as possible.Xiaoyun kept an eye out in advance and didn't tell the painter her family's financial situation.

The painter refused to get married. He said that he could only consider marriage after he had a successful career.

So Xiaoyun took her exhausted body after the abortion, and continued to support the painter's life in the pain and suffering of her heart.

So will the painter give Xiaoyun the stability in this world she wants?
No, unless Xiaoyun told him that her family could help him pay for the art exhibition.

The real secret of women's pursuit of stability in this world is: ask the most unlikely prodigal son for stability in this world.

Both men and women like to pursue an "unnecessary" love.

The true meaning of love is: seeking possibility from impossible options.Or, try something impossible.

This is the most tangled life ever!

In short, love looks more like messing up your own life!I had to drink and cry for a long night before I silently said to myself: Enough is enough, it's time to find the right person.

Why can't women get around the situation set by the prodigal son in love?

The main reason is: life is short, and women don't want to lose themselves.

The auxiliary reason is: love with a sense of distance will arouse their enthusiasm for exploration.

If you think your heart is limited and you don’t want to hand over your heart to a man, then when you meet the following types of men, please wear a “gas mask” and a “heart of stone”.

Emotional Flammables:
A cynical painter who relies on the temperament of Van Gogh and Monet
Desire to write a shocking book, preferably a man who can win a Nobel Prize
A man who has published a collection of poems, or who can't leave his mouth

A senior traveling friend, a well-informed man who has traveled around the world
Commenting on current affairs, a man suspected of being an angry youth
Men's nightclub exercise machine
A man with melancholy traits carrying a "Love Memories Disk"

A friend of women, a man who often makes jokes among women

A man with Parisian characteristics, a man who kisses forcefully without saying a word, and lives with love and passion

The above are "suspects" and may not be all hits. Girls need to keep their eyes open and carefully identify them.Don't believe in the "feeling" you put into it, but believe in the "intuition" before you fainted at the beginning.

In short, the mobile phone is always busy, QQ appears and disappears from time to time, whereabouts are not in a straight line, and promises are never fulfilled.This kind of men all belong to the "prodigal son in love".Responsibility for them directly equals death.They would rather connect with the god of death than spend time in trivial lives.

It's not that you're not good enough or attractive enough; it's not that he doesn't want to give you stability in this world.It's that he doesn't have this thing at all.You are going to the wrong person!
Xiaoyun said that even though she knew he was like this, she still couldn't restrain her heartache.In his repeated betrayals, she also wanted to leave him cruelly, but he always hugged her and cried, saying: "Baby, I'm sorry, I will let you live a good life when my art exhibition is opened. I am not love." They, it is my artistic creation that needs fresh inspiration, you don't understand..."

I asked Xiaoyun, "Are you soft-hearted?"

Xiaoyun let out a long sigh: "My man said it in tears, if you don't believe him, who do you believe?"

Xiaoyun's true heartfelt voice is: Besides, I'm so nice, who can he love if he doesn't love me?
Xiaoyun confuses the concepts of "goodness" and "freshness".In fact, whether you are good or not is different from his need for novelty.No matter how good you are, he also needs freshness.He doesn't leave you because no woman is willing to give so wholeheartedly for him.What's more, there are financial sponsors.

No matter how romantic a man's temperament is, it cannot be separated from a real interest.

When you are not a woman who can die without novelty, you will never understand the feelings of this type of man.There is a blank spot in their hearts, forever waiting for a fresher woman to activate it.

Some talented men always desire life to be adventurous and exciting, because this is a good way to stimulate inspiration.If you are not a woman with the same characteristics, please don't challenge the difficulty easily.

Unless, you are also a woman with artistic qualities.That way, in the tug-of-war, in the torment of getting what you want, you have a chance to win his sincerity.

Want to know what kind of woman can finally regain the "prodigal son in love"?

Not fettered by any feelings, but not romantic.Come and go like the wind, elusive.Emotionally indifferent, but full of enthusiasm for artistic creation.

More importantly, her world has many doors.He just came in and sat down.

Therefore, for the prodigal son in love, the enthusiasm of rushing to the battlefield with gunpowder will only make your liver and gallbladder split, and your heart and mind will be broken!

If you want to do it, just be an "upgraded prodigal son", more "artistic" than him, more "erratic" than him, more suspenseful than him, and less caring than him.Full of passion for the cause, only 3 minutes of enthusiasm for him.

In short, torturing him along his route is the right way.

Don't be afraid that the "abuse" is not deep enough, for the pain of being torn apart and the joy of being redeemed, the emotional turmoil and suffering.He feels more deeply than you, and loves him much more!For him, this is a spiritual performance art!

(End of this chapter)