Chapter 26

5. Don't get lost in "getting and not getting", scheming requires ambushes
Women who are too superstitious about the art of love and warfare are often easily misled by "scheming".

Women who are too entangled in "getting" and "not getting" are often easily deceived by "smart".

Many women fight conscientiously against men's desires, nothing more than gaining "cherishment" by prolonging "pre-bed play".

Their so-called "not getting it" is a risky move by soldiers to buy "insurance" for their long-term happiness and stability.

More women don't have such tolerance, they don't have enough strength to lift it up, and they don't think enough to put it down.So several ups and downs, but accelerated the time of the fall.

The 26-year-old Xiaoxuan is a very scheming girl, and she can be called a beauty among her friends.Every girl has at least one boudoir strategist.She once successfully helped several boudoirs through the tug-of-war period of love and won a beautiful love.

However, when she finally met the right man, her IQ was wiped out.

Xiaoxuan is a girl with a pure appearance and a cunning heart.

Because girls are often in a state of zero IQ when they are in love.

Xiaoxuan's love has an introducer, but it is also a long-distance relationship.Because Xiaoxuan is a magazine editor, she has the opportunity to meet authors from all over the country, and some of them become friends after coming and going.There are more women than men in magazine offices.To pan for gold in the sand, there must be sand, right?But a girl like Xiaoxuan who is so talented, beautiful and warm-hearted seems destined not to be left behind.Otherwise, her friends will feel that the law of heaven is too much to tolerate.

Therefore, many well-meaning authors helped to introduce.The man, Little K, was highly recommended by the author. The conditions of the man are relatively small. He has two houses in the local area and a car worth hundreds of thousands. 35 years old, not young, but not old either.unmarried.Xiaoxuan is a girl with Electra complex. When she sees a man older than herself, she will feel a sense of intimacy.Of course, there is also the sense of security brought by economic strength.

Because this relationship was introduced by a friend, it cannot be regarded as a pure network. At least there is an insurance policy, and someone helped to check it out.

Because of the distance, the relationship between the two first started online.The initial progress was similar to that of online dating. In the beginning, the two talked non-stop until the early hours of the morning.Then the video, and then a small amount of sweet talk.What follows is a slightly ambiguous affair.

The biggest achievement brought to Xiaoxuan during those days was not only the sense of happiness at the beginning of the relationship, but also the confidence to be sought after and admired by men as a woman.

So during that time, Xiaoxuan's skin was full of luster and her eyes were full of radiance. Many people were amazed by her changes.

Half a year later, they all have the desire to meet each other, or to live together.Little K said that he is a traditional person, and the purpose of dating is to get married.But he proposed a trial marriage.Little K's reason is very good. At his age, the reason why he has been single is that there are too many choices, which makes him undecided.But after getting in touch with Xiaoxuan, he likes Xiaoxuan's lively and clever character, and there is a calm aura inside, which seems to be very ignorant, but also seems to be very deep.The entanglement of this character aroused the man's enthusiasm for exploration.Of course, the original attraction of appearance and figure also contributed a lot.

Now Xiaoxuan is worried.She agrees, that's not in line with her usual strategy.But if he refuses, he is very afraid of losing such a man with good conditions.

The real intelligence of a woman comes from a decisive ability and a cruel attitude.

Women often dare to fire a deadly shot in other people's love battles, and are not afraid of misfiring.Because of that war, she just watched from the other side.

On the battlefield of their own love, women are often ready to surrender at any time and try to avoid confrontation with men.Because she was afraid that her happiness would be turned on her back.

Xiaoxuan is naturally cautious, like walking on thin ice.She just said that she was busy with work and tried to delay the meeting.To his panic, Little K actually gradually reduced the density of contact with her.

Is he in a period of fatigue?Or is there another new love?Or is it a way to punish me and force me to submit?
I said that men are pragmatic and rational animals, and are not easily controlled by emotions. The enthusiasm at the beginning is due to the attributes of animals.But after waking up, he will have a rational assessment of the fate of this relationship.

During this cooling-off period, the girl's personality and details of life may be examined from many aspects, and then compared with other people to determine which girl will make him live more comfortably.It might even help his future.

At the same time, the man's "retreat signal" is likely to be a smoke bomb.They are the most cunning hunters, they just want to corner you so that you can fall in love with him unconsciously.

got it?A clever hunter who likes to play psychological warfare with women.They know that to disintegrate women's "chastity line", women need to create the illusion and energy of "love" themselves.So they tried all means, just to make the "sex scenes" more arbitrary in the future.

Many women will be "hit" at this pass.It is the sudden cooling of a man after his continuous enthusiasm.

Soon, Xiaoxuan went to his city to meet him.The two lived a "trial marriage" life.

After a few months of trial marriage, a lot of conflicts emerged between the two.Little K, a man, thinks that Xiaoxuan has poor living ability and strong personality, and she is not as cuddly as he thought before.Always creating trouble and obstacles for him.Xiaoxuan thinks that Little K is not only not considerate enough to him, but also never reports his whereabouts.The most exaggerated thing is that he always answers the phone, and those women still haven't let go!

Xiaoxuan said with regret that it would have been better if she hadn't easily agreed to him at the beginning, and it would have been better if it had been delayed for a while.

Girls, in fact, don't pin your hopes of manipulating men on delaying physical contact.Sometimes, there's no way to know if he really loves you without taking a chance.

Of course, before taking this step, you first ask yourself, how many realistic chips do you have?How many places are there that can make a man unable to let go?You must have a comprehensive assessment of yourself.

You know, feelings are not afraid of the touchstone of the "bed", what is afraid of is that you bet all your treasures on the "bed".

Gamblers who have lost all their money will often put all their chips on the table, but the end result is to cut their flesh and blood, and few of them can get out of the game unscathed.

When you use the "posture" of a gambler to make fun of a man's desire, you lose not only your body, but also your sincerity.

The man will curse in his heart: What are you pretending to be?

Obviously unable to let go, but insisting on holding on to it, is really trying to die.If you have the ability, why don't you come and show him?
Women like to use "reservedness" to manipulate men's lust. They are complacent and think that men are in the palm of their hands.

But men understand that women's reserve is nothing but snow on the ground, which will melt if given some sunlight.

Many simple methods can make women give up the bottom line of restraint, such as caring for illness, psychological counseling, caring for subtleties, and sweet words just right.

But there are few ways for men to relax the boundaries of "marriage".Men have the most realistic considerations about marriage.This has nothing to do with not only desire, but even love.

This is the biggest difference between men and women.

Women are in love, men are in lust.When desire meets love, the more primitive person wins.Because he is not restrained by emotions, he is even less afraid of losing.

Emotion is the most vulnerable link in a person.Women, only by letting go of your feelings can you stand on the same starting line of emotional intelligence as the hunter with simple desires.

It's not that men can't see through women's tricks, they just like to play tricks because they know where the ultimate goal is.

Why do we say that there is no trick to win?It's because you don't care completely and decisively will make you invincible in all battles.

When you are no longer controlled by lust and worry about gains and losses, and you can stabilize your mind, you can truly know how to control a man's emotions.

Many women are obsessed with studying the scale between gains and losses, but miss the calm demeanor between gains and losses.Only a woman who can hold her own aura can see the fiber ups and downs of love, so as to grasp the "critical point" between gains and losses.

It is often not rose petals but thorn bushes that fill the road of love with "scheming to copy".Don't be superstitious about "learning" scheming.Remember, to learn is to forget.This is the highest philosophy of love.

(End of this chapter)

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