Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 29

8. To be certain and certain is the taboo of the art of war in love
There is a need for side effects in relationships.No matter how clear the relationship is, it also needs ambiguity to play the side drum.

Only home players, no cheerleaders, who is willing to work hard?It's tedious to think about.

Too clear expressions can easily make people feel tired.

Too transparent contribution, it is easy for people to turn a blind eye.

It's not that human nature is cold, but that in good love, there is always room for doubt.

Like Baoyu and Daiyu in "A Dream of Red Mansions", they have a deep relationship, but there are always suspicious factors intruding.Baochai is one, Xiangyun is one, and those maidservants are not cheap.Later, he broke into a Baoqin in a hurry.The small world of the two of them suddenly became turbulent, and the grass and trees were full of soldiers.Everyone only saw the two of them arguing upside down, but they didn't see each other's hearts gradually getting closer.

They reached a "cool" point of love in "mutual abuse", and love has a sense of existence.

Yes, love suddenly becomes worth looking forward to when there are gaps worthy of scrutiny and not [-]% certainty.

Between Baoyu and Daiyu, it is a "heart guessing" relay race.It is not easy for them to complete the great project of love in a big feudal family.However, it is precisely because it is not easy that the preciousness of the sincerity gradually revealed bit by bit.

Thinking about it carefully, they didn't express it clearly before, that kind of relationship can be regarded as the love between brothers and sisters.It's just that the onlookers occasionally made a few jokes, which aroused the oil blossoms in the hearts of the parties and readers.Afterwards, it was just Baoyu grabbing Xiren's hand foolishly, and talking nonsense, it was nothing more than: I got sick all over because of you.
Therefore, no matter how hot your love is, you must learn to express it slowly, learn to cast doubts and play tricks.This is not only scheming, but also a skill of talking about love.

A good technique can touch the heart of the other party when talking about love, and leave an indelible impression on the other party.

And bad skills will make the love that could have been beautiful become tasteless.

Sometimes, he (she) said, you are too good, so I am not good enough for you.

In fact, you are too stupid, you let me lose the passion to love.

Lust that is too easy to satisfy, a sincere heart, is insignificant.

Only the love that is not easy to achieve will make the other party feel anxious and full of expectations.

Love is afraid of being looked at directly, and even more afraid of being stared at.

Therefore, don't be too passionate, don't love too much, these are the indestructible truths in the love field.

Lin Wanwan fell in love with a handsome guy.I met this handsome guy in the Food City, and based on a rough estimate, from his clothes, the car he wore, and the watch he was wearing, Lin Wanwan felt that he must be Xiaokai.Even if they are not rich second generation, they are quite well off.

That's when she thought about it.How to do it?The chance to meet was just a little bit, and it passed in an instant.

The other girls must think that everything depends on fate, and they can only look at the ocean and sigh at his back.

Many women say that they are conservative and not close to masculinity. It is better to say that they are timid, inferior and have a strong love "inertia".They either don't believe in fate, or they believe in it to the end.Staying at home, nestling, and having a special sense of accomplishment, excited to see people say, I am a house girl.

These women actually have very poor resistance to stress, and cannot withstand a little spiritual disturbance.They never dared to think about being rejected by a man.Of course, more importantly, no man will come to your door.

People who believe in fate may not create fate, let alone use fate to create fate.

In addition, there may not necessarily be a "fate" specially prepared for you in the world.For things like fate, diligence is also welcome, and laziness is rejected.

Let's see how Lin Wanwan creates fate.

She immediately sat down opposite the handsome guy with her rice bowl in her hand and said, is there anyone in this position?
Then find a way to start the handsome language system.When the handsome guy was interested in talking to her, she started asking for his cell phone number and the two exchanged.

After returning home, she sent a message saying: Handsome guy, you belong to me!
Not to mention, the handsome guy is really itchy.Why?Don't men hate active women?

No, men never hate women taking the initiative, they just hate the way they take the initiative.in the wrong way,

Being active is different from taking initiative, being lively and clever is different from being frivolous and superficial.Lin Wanwan gave the man the feeling that she was very clever, cute and tricky.

With this first impression as a basis, her subsequent behavior will not be classified as frivolous.

Later, in the process of dating, Lin Wanwan was not very sure, but gave the handsome guy room to advance and retreat.For one thing, Lin Wanwan didn't mind telling handsome guys about her suitors, and she didn't refuse their flowers and small gifts.

Secondly, Lin Wanwan is not very hot, but hot and cold.Most of the time, it was the handsome guy who was contacting her.

How did she manage to make the handsome guy calm down step by step, and gradually develop true love for her?

In fact, Lin Wanwan knew that there were many girls who wanted to compete for a handsome guy, and she definitely had no chance of winning.So, she took the way of heating first and then cooling.

It should be noted that this kind of heat is a girl's heat, not a man's kind of heat that carries lust.That must have scared the man away.

She would send a message every day, sometimes making jokes, and sometimes caring about him.Why?Not to tell him how I like you.Instead, create a sense of presence.

Because a very good man also has a sense of insecurity deep in his soul.The more excellent you are, the more you are afraid of losing everything.Many excellent men are afraid that if they lose their careers and everything, women will no longer love him.

Of course, the sense of existence must not evolve into a flood of lust, submerging a man's need for freedom.Because men have two attributes of security and free space at the same time.

Once people fall in love, they are menacing.Smart people know how to suppress their feelings, know how to arrange their feelings, and use them to manipulate the other person's feelings.

Half a month later, Lin Wanwan suddenly became lazy and often "forgot" to text the handsome guy.The handsome guy became active, called Lin Wanwan and asked her out to play.

Lin Wanwan always answers the phone, maintains a certain degree of enthusiasm, and will say some interesting things to make the handsome guy happy.If you go out to play, you may not obey the order.But the reason will be very satisfactory, there is no room for doubt.

Of course, this is a dangerous move for the soldiers. Only by letting go of the fear of losing can you play the difficult game.

At this time, the home court changed, and it became a handsome guy chasing Lin Wanwan.

The handsome guy is full of worries about her.One is through long-term contact, the handsome guy knows that Lin Wanwan is a likable girl, and she is beautiful, and there must be more than N people chasing such a girl.If you don't work hard, what should you do if you are chased away?

You must know that men's sense of competition and urgency are much sharper than women's, and they are also much more suspicious than women.It's just that women often talk about it, and men hide it in their hearts.

Secondly, Lin Wanwan's gentle attitude is like water at 70 degrees. Let's say it's gentle, it's really hot.But let's talk about it, there is still a lot of room for development.

Therefore, Lin Wanwan not only aroused the handsome guy's curiosity, but also aroused his desire to conquer.

Finally, the handsome guy caught the handle. He stayed at Lin Wanwan's unit and found that Lin Wanwan got out of a red BMW, and the owner of the car was also a handsome guy.

He was furious, and immediately had a fierce quarrel with Lin Wanwan.Afterwards, Lin Wanwan used the excuse that he didn't trust people, so she didn't answer the phone or reply to the message, and she had the intention of breaking up.

The handsome guy was so anxious that he kept apologizing, saying, I was wrong baby.Then send flowers, give gifts.After coaxing for a week, Lin Wanwan finally got a smile.

Another week later, for the handsome guy's birthday, Lin Wanwan gave him a hand-woven scarf.

The handsome guy didn't say anything, but was so touched that he died.So, he fell in love with Lin Wanwan thoroughly.The two then finalized their wedding date.

Because this kind of "goodness" is not easy to come by, so "moving" can reach the bottom of a man's heart.

In the bottom of a man's heart, there is a through train of love, and only a woman with ingenuity can find that channel.Superficial love, love without suspense, cannot support a "moving" scene.

So, don't complain about the hypocrisy of men's love, don't complain about men's indifference, and don't say that men are unintentional single-celled animals.

Failure to reach a man's heart proves that your "magic power" has yet to be cultivated.

A person in love is like a pan of boiling oil.The intervention of a little "drop of lust" from the outside will cause an uproar.

Bystanders find it troublesome: Do we need to torture each other like this?Can't it be simple?
In fact, the parties had fun.Some suspicion is not a bad thing, but a seasoning agent for feelings.

Even without the intervention of external factors, people with high emotional intelligence will still manage love into a series of nine, which is mysterious and unpredictable.

A real master will make you unable to guess his (her) true intentions for 10 or 20 years.At that moment, I seemed to love you, and at that moment, I suddenly couldn't grasp it.

Does he (she) love me?How much do you love me?Is it my favorite?

When I meet such a master, I can only tell you: God knows.

When you allow love to have room for doubt, when there is suspicion, the sincerity can't wait to find you.

Because meeting opponents in chess is the happiest thing in love.

(End of this chapter)