Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 28

7. Playing hard to get, or playing hard to get
I used to read Zhang Ailing, always lamented that this woman is too shrewd, she looks on the world's love with cold eyes, and her comments are extremely harsh.But I don't know why such a smart woman can be robbed of love by an ordinary widow!

Later, I realized that she was willing to "kneel" down, not because of insufficient emotional intelligence, but because she had a heart of worship for true love.

Keeping the "kneeling" position in love is not sober enough, but not wanting to be sober.

In the face of true love, the most powerful woman needs to seek shelter, and the most shrewd and rational woman wants to indulge her feelings and let her heart "soften" along with the trend.

What they worship is not any man, and what they indulge is not a certain lust, but a bowing and pious heart to the so-called "love"!

Men often play "playing hard to get", because love to men is just a game of lust.More often, they are the "smart hunters" who like to challenge the difficulty.

Women often "indulge in their passions", even if they feel that this man is not safe and reliable, they still indulge their feelings and indulge in it.Women are erotic fantasists and "beauticians", and the best heroines in tragic dramas.

In the one-act play of love, actresses actually work much harder than actors.

Women, when they don't love, are meaner than anyone else.The smartest men in the world cannot be compared with one or two.Once you fall in love, immediately confine your IQ and EQ, and let your dignity face the wall.I don't care if the sky is falling and the earth is falling, let's talk about masturbation first.

Although 30-year-old Li Ailin is a leftover female nail household, she looks sweet, looks very small, and has beautiful legs.A bit like Lin Chiling.It is still the result of "the heart is higher than the sky".The family was naturally anxious and introduced many partners to her, many of whom were obviously high-quality men.Among them, there are a few high-quality men who are sincerely optimistic about Li Ailin and want to have a development with her.Li Ailin chose a few with a little feeling, and tried to date them.In less than three months, she terminated the relationship one by one.She said three words, inappropriate.

The family asked why it was inappropriate?We see that those guys are all good. One is a graduate of Tsinghua University with an annual salary of 20.That kid is mature and steady, so steady.If you think people are dull and uninteresting, you just know how to read and study.The other is a violinist. His family background is good. His parents run a factory. After marrying, he has no worries about food and clothing. That child has a cheerful and lively personality, and is quite amusing.The most rare thing is that this young man has artistic talents, which will be beneficial to the cultivation of the next generation in the future.As a result, you feel that they have too many friends, are too independent, not delicate, and spend little time with you.Well, we found another one for you, a lawyer, elegant and delicate, and caring about his family.You are dissatisfied with this, saying that the lid of the coffin was seen at a glance, and life is boring these days.So how can we be energetic?Don't your parents, your aunts and uncles all come here like this?That's how life is.You child is stupid in studying, always thinking out of tune.

Her family didn't understand her very much, and Li Ailin was a bit talented, so she published a book about travel.I thought about it at home, the ancients were right, a woman who has no talent is a virtue.Women read a lot, but their thinking is very different from normal people!
The family said that by the end of the year at the latest, a marriage partner must be selected.Otherwise don't come into this house.

Li Ailin is also obstinate, you guys don't like me, so why don't I run away from home?It just so happened that Li Ailin needed to travel around for work, so she applied to go to Yunnan.The company does not have much business in Yunnan, so Li Ailin is traveling at public expense.Half a year later, she came back, brought back a man, and said she was going to get married.

The family members were overjoyed, thinking that she had finally gotten the hang of it and wanted to get married, but when they looked at this man again, something seemed wrong.This man is a freelancer, a photographer, and contributes manuscripts and pictures to some magazines on travel.The ideal is quite high, but it sounds quite unreliable.Be a famous traveler and write the most influential travel book.

We all know that a marriage can only be established if at least one of the two people has a solid financial foundation.

Li Ailin wants to travel the world.Although she works as a business manager in the company, she is a very talented person, the kind of person who is lazy, doesn't pay much attention to her work, and often wants to let her down.Now I meet someone who is even more unreliable than her, who simply runs around the world without knowing where the source of income is.Her parents were even more nervous.No, we must break up immediately.

Li Ailin got angry. At that time, you proposed a six-month deadline, but I did it and found a man to marry.Now that you are like this again, do you think you will be happy if I don’t marry you for the rest of my life?Then she went on a hunger strike, cried, and even threatened suicide.In the end, the two eloped to Yunnan together.

Li Ailin undoubtedly cut off all her escape routes, like a female warrior in love.But little G, he has nothing to lose, he was wandering in Yunnan, and now he has earned a big beauty for nothing.And talented, the writing fee can also help him maintain his life and provide funds for picking up girls.

What Xiao G did was just to be her "love phantom stand-in" and play a vigorous love with her.

In the eyes of more pragmatic girls, this period should be a "love investigation period", fully inspecting the details of men to see if they are suitable for marriage.

So what is Li Erin doing?She transformed this pragmatic investigation into a pragmatic "emotional alliance".She was moved to death by her love.She has no time to care about very practical issues.

Many times, people who fall in love will hold together and form an "emotional alliance" when encountering resistance.Governed by an emotion that seems to be in love with death.Actually, that is unreal, an illusion.It is the "emotional cancer" brought to us by long-term romance TV and books.It's as if love has to be like that, crying heart-piercingly, fighting over some obstacles, otherwise, it's not love, because the "love point" cannot be touched.

Therefore, for people like Li Ailin who are both talented and beautiful, and who pay special attention to the soul building project, these leftover women are actually very difficult to deal with, and their "love" point is very high.They are different from girls with high "marriage" points, and they are worse than them.

Because people with a high "marriage" point are often pragmatic, they think it's up for grabs, have some patience, endure it, and marry a real diamond man.But girls with a high "love" point often have no physical simulation, and their conditions are simply ethereal and cloudy.There is no fixed standard, as long as the man who can activate the phantom emotions in their hearts is the standard.

This is very dangerous, because those who can do this are often veterans in love.Only when they are okay, will they carefully ponder women's emotions and study countermeasures to break through the emotional defense line.

The truth of their conditions is: a man who can make them emotionally ups and downs, and a man who makes them difficult in love.

Some people say, isn't this looking for abuse?

That's right, the core of love for these beautiful and talented women is to find "abuse".Because only when emotions are suppressed to the extreme and all sorrows are released, if he gives even a little bit of sweetness, she will faint with joy.This is similar to the heart addiction of "taking drugs", which requires a feeling of cloud and mist.

Then the winning man is not the most handsome, nor the richest, nor the most suitable for marriage, but the man who is most able to create this "emotional mountain".

He doesn't need to be cute or outstanding, he is only responsible for creating illusions, making the other party feel that they can't live without him.

Little G, the traveler, is such a master of love.There is no doubt that he has many ambiguous girlfriends, and Li Ailin has also caught intimate photos of him with other girls.But this man is very sophistry, and Li Ailin has nothing to do with him.Who let her emotions be completely controlled by little G?
Why is it that Xiao G's character is so obviously rotten, and Li Ailin is so devoted, she doesn't even care about tearing up her face with her family, and wants to elope with him?
Because Xiao G is one of the few men who can step on her "love point".Without him, Li Ailin could get married, find a diamond man, or even live the life of a rich wife.However, she is almost like the walking dead.

This is the truth about this kind of beautiful and talented woman being "abuse" in love.

Since then, I haven't heard from Li Ailin for a long time.But I vaguely heard that she was doing odd jobs everywhere to make money for her boyfriend to hold a photo exhibition. His boyfriend was drinking and beating her, and his life was very bad.She wants face, and has never been in touch with family and friends.I couldn't help but sigh, feeling uncomfortable.

But there is no way, I can't live if I pretend to be "abuse".

Therefore, we know that the more shrewd and sober a woman is, the easier it is to indulge.Because of her "love" point, how difficult it is to be stepped on, there is as much desire.

The less desire a woman has, the crazier she is when her "desire" point is touched.Because of the previous brewing, she has already become unbearable!
When women worship love like truth, they become crazy and mentally retarded, making the world dumbfounded!

A lonely woman like Zhang Ailing is not as good as her in the eyes of the world. She has been suspended by the "love" in her heart for a long time.The "thirst" in my heart is infinitely magnified, like a wanderer in the desert who is in desperate need of water.

At this time, even a drop of turbid water is a fine nectar in her eyes.

Waiting for too long, lonely for too long, and forbearing for too long.So many "feelings" are like "toxins", which need to be released fiercely, whether it will make you heartbroken and smashed!

Women, they would rather play hard to get, shrewdly restrain their emotions, and bear half of them, than let their feelings be like kites with broken strings, unable to find their way home.

Find out your "spiritual acceptance point", and then gradually put in love.You must not let love fall into a plot and your back road break into a cliff just for the momentary "coolness".

If you want to maintain a graceful posture in love, try to be as tacky as possible.When the squeezing force is not too high, the bouncing force will naturally not be too high.

(End of this chapter)