Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 31

10. Be vigilant, men who carry the past love virus

Women are most likely to fall in love with "resentful men", with Tony Leung's melancholy eyes, and affectionate styles with a taste of wanting to talk.It seems to lure you to chase, but also seems to be afraid of you to chase.

How seductive, how sexy!

Women also have a "desire to conquer", but their desire to conquer is not a strong man, but a weak man.

When a man puts himself in the position of a "pet" in love, he is only a few feet away from a woman's sincerity.

Some people will retort that he is chasing after me, the more I look at him, the more I hate him, I hate cheap men!
However, "resentful man" is different from "slutty man". In the love of cheap man, there is a strong persecution: I love you, so you must return the same love to me!I love you, how can you not love me?
If the woman refuses to agree, he will become more entangled, and it is nothing more than a strong desire to conquer!
Everyone has a rebellious psychology, and it is no different in love.Where there is oppression, there is resistance!

Therefore, a low profile does not mean entanglement.Instead, let go of all "weapons" and pursuits, let go of all strength, and act like a victim, so that women's defenses will be removed.

Even weak women have the urge to shoot at the table: This man needs me to save!
With what to save?With maternal love, with feminine perfection.

"Before he met me, he had suffered a serious emotional injury, and he hadn't gotten out of it for 8 years." This is how many girls confide when they fall into the trap of "resentful men".

Rather than saying that they think they have met a "love saint", it is better to say that the time has finally come for them to show their strengths and prove that they are unique!
The melancholy and complaining man gave the women of "The Virgin Mary Syndrome" a stage to show their brilliance.

As long as you think about it, you will understand the pitfalls and deceptions!Unfortunately, women are often hypnotized by the desire to perform.

A truly affectionate man finds it difficult to talk about his past hurts.Because he thinks he is a man.He has a sense of shame.

A truly responsible man will often not tear up his wounds casually for women to see, in exchange for sympathy and love.And a responsible man often shoulders the unbearable past, and does not let his new love be involved in the shadow of the old.

He can't bear you to bear every penny for him, and is only willing to swallow silently and alone.This is not only respect for the previous woman, but also love for you!

It's a pity that most women often misread the signals of men, and are willing to take poison and play the role of female savior.

It's just that this kind of role replacement is very charming, and it can highlight their charm as women!
They want him to know: In this world, not all women are so bad, there is a kind of perfection, a kind of good, which you have never experienced.

In front of the "love-wounded" man, the women play the Virgin Mary, the angel of love, donating their bodies, money, and even love, stepping on their own hard work and humbleness, and handing the security of this world to the hands of men.

It's a pity that what they rewarded the women was unscrupulous betrayal and injury.

Often, they will come to rescue "with fresh wounds" and say: Hello, they all.

The hearts of the "Holy Mother and women" immediately softened into a mess.Like a mother who forgives a naughty child.

Therefore, so many good women will love the scum in the eyes of the world.Those men who "carry the past love virus" will infect your life with the terrible love syphilis, which cannot be cured for a long time.

Lin Yiwei had a short marriage history.It lasted for a short period of three years, but it ended because of a cheating husband.This man turned out to be an athlete, and Lin Yiwei was a dancer.Many of the men who chased Lin Yiwei back then were rich and powerful.Why didn't Lin Yiwei choose those diamond men?Because the athlete boyfriend is tall and handsome, and has a sense of security.

Girls often make regrettable choices when they are young.Just because of lust or some flashy sense of security.

Their positioning on security is also unique.In many cases, we have found through summarization that many girls' inner security orientation is not about being tall, but about being able to fight, or being able to play with a puller with ease!
It can be seen that men's sense of power has always been the mysterious weapon to defeat money.

After a failed marriage, Lin Yiwei no longer focuses on lust or superficial power. She decides to find a man who can bring her wealth.

Determined to let herself "live a good life" instead of "being abused", she soon attracted the pursuit of many successful people because she was sociable.Among them, there is a diamond boy, Z, who is very attentive to her.This diamond man is in the machinery business and is said to be worth at least tens of millions.The diamond boy Xiao Z soon became fascinated by Lin Yiwei, who has a pure appearance, a good figure, and a background in dancing.

In fact, this is not the only one chasing her, and the one with the best conditions is not Xiao Z.Moreover, Xiao Z has been divorced and has a daughter who is studying abroad.Men will love their daughters very much, so in terms of family property in the future, it is estimated that Lin Yiwei will not have much luck.But this is not the main point, because Xiao Z is really generous to her.She accidentally mentioned what she liked, and Xiao Z asked someone to bring it from Hong Kong the next day.

For a beautiful girl like Lin Yiwei who is quite sophisticated and has a city mansion, it is not difficult to attract a few generous men.Based on this alone, she still couldn't make up her mind to choose Xiao Z.

The turning point came on the day of Xiao Z's birthday, the two went to the Bund for dinner, both of them drank some wine, and the words gradually opened up.Facing the night and the revolving lights, Xiao Z began to talk about his first marriage, which was shorter than Lin Yiwei's and only lasted two years. After the woman went abroad, he was inseparable for another eight years.In the past eight years, he has been unable to let her go, even if she betrayed him, she quickly married a foreign man, just lusting for a better life.

Lin Yiwei was moved by his mixed feelings of hatred and love. After all, she was still a little girl in her heart and had never seen any big scenes.She felt that in this impetuous age, such an infatuated man is really rare, which shows that his feelings are very heavy.That night, Xiao Z burst into tears.Lin Yiwei was very surprised and moved when she saw that such a domineering and domineering man had a soft side.

On that night, their relationship had a real breakthrough.When she woke up in the hotel, Lin Yiwei felt a little regretful, thinking that this was too hasty?If he has achieved his goal, will he not pay attention to her?

Little Z immediately dispelled Lin Yiwei's worries with practical actions.He proposed to set up a dance training school for Lin Yiwei, he would invest and Lin Yiwei would run it.

Lin Yiwei naturally couldn't ask for it. 28 years old is an embarrassing age for a dancer.Changing careers and doing business is a good way out, and it is also a guarantee for the future.

The only regret is that he didn't say to marry her.If he doesn't speak, it's not easy for her to force a marriage.

She thought, maybe he needs time to observe slowly.Isn't trial marriage popular now?
Lin Yiwei's thinking is very simple, and she is [-]% devoted to this relationship.In the beginning, it was Little Z who took care of Lin Yiwei. Slowly, Lin Yiwei's maternal aura came out, and she found that Little Z was actually domineering on the outside, but fragile like a little boy on the inside.

Therefore, she can be said to be so considerate to little Z that he doesn't even need to tie the tie, and she peels the fruit and delivers it to his mouth.

Xiao Z always said that Lin Yiwei is a girl suitable to be a wife, and she is really lucky to meet her in this life.

But when Lin Yiwei mentioned marriage, he was vague.He said that he was hurt too deeply by women in the past, and he no longer had the energy to love again. He finally regained love, but he didn't have the guts to get married again, and he was afraid of being hurt again.

"Isn't it good that we are like this? If you have financial concerns, you can take care of the money. Cars, houses, whatever you want can be taken. Only marriage is my scar, and I am afraid to touch it. But I do love you."

Lin Yiwei is upset, she is not a gold digger, what she actually wants is a real marriage.If no one married her, she would feel that there was something wrong with her attractiveness.

Couldn't she have a happy marriage?Isn't she worthy?

At this time, a man who proved her charm appeared. 35-year-old K opened a pharmaceutical factory and was worth tens of millions.They met on the "Donkey Friends" forum.After that, Little K has been very kind to Lin Yiwei.Although she rejected him many times, saying that she had a boyfriend, Xiao K still did not retreat because of this.

It can be said that Lin Yiwei lived with Xiao Z for a year, and Xiao K chased him for a year.

When Lin Yiwei had another dispute with Xiao Z about her marriage, Xiao Z's tough attitude hurt her, and she cried and confide in Xiao K.Little K said, if he doesn't marry you, if I marry you, I can give you a marriage.

The next day, Little K went to find Lin Yiwei and brought her household registration book and real estate certificate.Lin Yiwei was taken aback, she didn't expect Xiao K to have such deep affection for her.

At this time, Xiao Z got the news that there would be an earthquake, and people were panicked.Little Z was negotiating business in a dangerous area, and drove thousands of miles back regardless of the danger, crying, begging, giving gifts, and showing her injured arm, saying that in order to come back to see her being hit by a collapsed building , almost died.

She already had "The Virgin Mary Syndrome", and he grabbed her "weakness" and kept performing, how could she not be soft-hearted?
She rejected Xiao K, and seeing his sad and unbelievable eyes, she felt extremely sad.But there is no way, she was eaten to death by this man who "carried the virus of past love"!

I said to Lin Yiwei, break up with this man quickly, not only will he not marry you, but I suspect that he has not divorced at all!

Lin Yiwei was taken aback, and repeatedly said it was impossible, Xiao Z is not such a person, he is very emotional.

This kind of man who carries the love virus likes to use the concept of grievance to confuse his true feelings, making women think that he is really affectionate.

In fact, betrayal is a matter for both parties. The badness of the ex-girlfriend cannot set off his goodness at all.A girl with a little IQ can figure it out if she thinks about it, it's probably because he didn't do well enough.Such as flirtatious, cheating. . .

Sure enough, my prophecy was right, Xiao Z really broke up with his ex-wife, not only that, he also entangled with another woman, just because this woman is helpful to his career.

Little Z began to perform curses and vows again, and practiced bitter tricks in an attempt to soften Lin Yiwei.He said that he really didn't love that woman, he was just using her connections, and she was the one who kept pestering him.As for his ex-wife, his explanation was that they were already in name only because they were afraid that their daughter would hate him.

The chilled Lin Yiwei didn't want to hear any more explanation from him, so she walked away.At this time, she wanted to go to Xiao K again, but she couldn't save face anyway.A better marriage was ruined by such a bad man.

"Resentful men" are actually popular "drugs" in the marriage and love market, although they will have the characteristics of a gentleman, such as elegance, generosity, and a high bottom line of lust.However, under that gorgeous coat is a heart full of desire and dissatisfaction.

Some men are greedy for "sex", some men are greedy for "love", greedy for everything.The key is not whether his temperament is pure or not, but his inducing posture, which makes you lose time, money, and happiness.

So, don't try to save men who "carry the love virus", and don't let their bad luck touch your future happiness.

Remember, they are capable of taking responsibility for their own emotions.

A man who is incapable of controlling his emotions is not worthy of your love.

(End of this chapter)