Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 35 What Men Don't Want You to Know (4)

4. A woman's charm is not necessarily equal to a man's "ambiguous" technique
The bottom line of many men's love is the "Magino" line of defense. It seems that the fortress is fortified, but in fact it is useless.

In love, I am most afraid of meeting a man with the "Maginot Line of Defense". This kind of man often pretends to be deep, but is easily attacked by "the enthusiasm of women".All the women chasing them have the spirit of candy and the coquettishness of a vixen, and they swore to hang themselves on this tree.

There are several reasons for the formation of spare tires.

One is the "meat-eating" man, this kind of man is directly turned into a beast, demonized, can be firmly despised, and quickly withdraw without any nostalgia.

One is the "grass-eating" man, who collects women's admiration and admiration, clarifies his own value, or searches for "love" everywhere to fill the void in his heart.This kind of man does not count cheating, but it is unresolved, which makes women worry about it, for fear that if they are not careful, the "fox spirit" brand sticky hook will be firmly attached to their men.

The third category is "fungi-eating", which converts the love model into a business model, plans and operates love according to the business model, and treats all kinds of lovers as customers to follow up, maintain, and select the best, and finally maximize the benefits.

Many men operate across categories, keeping their spirits in mind, feeling the conditions, and thinking about face.So men are a realistic and greedy species.

In the example in the previous section, Xiao Ru’s boyfriend, Xiao A, is such a greedy male animal.

He is ambitious and intends to start a career, so he will naturally pay attention to a woman like Linda who has a family background and can go to the United States.He thinks that such a woman can provide him with a platform for his career, and secondly, her aura will give him a lot of face when he brings it out.

Men often say that women are vain, but a woman's small vanity is no match for a man's big calculations.

Women's vanity is aimed at "things".A man's vanity goes straight to his "heart".

Women measure the depth of love they get by "things".Men discover their own value through the "peripheral halo".This aura naturally includes those women who can add to his aura.Such as appearance, figure, fame, wealth, social status.

For women, the more expensive the gift, the more genuine the man's affection.Women have been calculating how deep a man's "love" is.

For men, the more aura a woman has, the more face a man has.A man has been calculating how much "benefit" a woman can bring him.

Therefore, women seem to be materialistic, but they are actually idealistic, and men seem to be emotional, but they are actually utilitarian.

A man's view of love is like visiting a kiln, wanting to pinch any flower that is brighter, eating as much as he has, for fear of missing something.A man's view of marriage is like choosing a noble concubine or a queen, and searching for treasures in treasures, it must be the best of the best.

Xiao Ru's boyfriend, Xiao A, was a "grass-eating man" when he was in college, that is, when he was relatively young.He needs lots of girls to love him, to fill his void, to prove his charm.Otherwise he will feel insecure.

After entering the society, Xiao A became a "fungus-eating man". When he met Linda, he immediately paid attention to her as a "key spare tire".Linda's boyfriend is waiting for her in the United States, but all of this is not Xiao A's concern. He believes that his few tricks will make Linda his possession.

But Linda is a "three nos" woman, her rank is higher than that of little A, she is erratic and difficult to grasp, and she never gives clear promises.After several rounds, Little A gradually lost the wind.Instead, it became Linda's "spare tire".

Under Linda's hot and cold treatment, Xiao A thought of Xiao Ru again. This girlfriend is very good and reliable, and she never plays tricks or tricks.At this moment, he remembered Xiaoru's kindness, so he turned his head and turned full power, and once again "single-heartedly" to Xiaoru.

Let's re-examine Xiaoru's love from the perspective of childhood A, and we can see what happened to the hot and cold of the cheating man.

The previous prey escaped and let them catch the "spare tire No. [-]".Some girls with low morals will believe the one-sided words of men, thinking that they are really busy and motivated.

He immediately went to Xiaoru's house and staged the bitter tricks mentioned in the previous section, the "victim"'s accusation and other dramas, in order to make the girls sympathize with him and stimulate their motherhood.Then continue to use body language, such as booing and asking for warmth, pick up vegetables and pull stools and other warm offensives, and win Xiaoru again.

In the beginning, Xiao Ru was determined not to give her a chance. Xiao Ru was the kind of person who would never change her mind if she wanted to love her, and would be decisive if she said she didn't love her.Belongs to the noble and backbone girl.Xiao A even moved out of her parents, friends, and in short, it took a lot of trouble to get Xiao Ru back.

When Xiao Ru dated him again, after Xiao A continued to be enthusiastic for a while, he repeated his old tricks and began to travel frequently, suspenseful when he had nothing to do, in short, he was supernatural.

It turned out that Linda came back from the United States and told Xiao A that she broke up with her boyfriend.Compared with the simple-minded Xiao Ru, Linda has a feminine charm, which is also more attractive to Xiao A.Of course, little A couldn't wait to continue to be enthusiastic about Linda.

We know that men are realistic animals, and when they encounter love, they are more of a career model.

In Xiao A's eyes, Linda and Xiao Ru are like two customers, and he will naturally follow up with the customer who can place a big order.

The disheartened Xiaoru made up her mind to break it off completely, and resolutely refused to give the cheating man a third chance.During this period, she accepted a boy who had been chasing her.Family background, character, appearance and career prospects are even better than Little A.

Linda is also a woman of vanity. Not long after, her boyfriend in the United States extended an olive branch to her again, and she kicked off the "spare tire" again.Then he planned to repeat the old tricks and influence Xiaoru again.

Up to now, he has been chasing Xiaoru for three years. Not only has Xiaoru never looked back, but she will soon marry the man who is devoted to her.

Looking at Xiaoru with a happy face, I think that this kind of backbone and independent girl is qualified to have a perfect marriage.

God is fair, everyone has the opportunity to encounter "setbacks" in love.A backbone woman like Xiaoru has achieved the "three no's": no entanglement, no nostalgia, and no turning back.

Women often think that winning in the harem of a man's love scene proves that they are infinitely attractive.

Women often think that if they have the art of "fascination", they are qualified to be pampered by three thousand people.

More often, women's "fascination" skills are no match for men's "ambiguous" skills.Even though you have exhausted all 36 tricks, he is dragging you, ignoring you, catching you, and making you restless.Your careful scheming can't find his five-finger love magic mountain.

Don't play tricks with cheating men, because you can't grasp the speed of "falling".

Don't play tricks with the spare tire guy, because you don't know if he is playing tricks or not.

The scheming, wisdom, time, and entanglement spent in love will all be excuses and entanglements of "cannot do without him".The most difficult knot in the world is to be split with a sword, leaving no future troubles.

Therefore, cut the mess with a sharp knife, and break it when it is broken.Love needs swordsmanship, not "cheap" skills.The smartest woman in love has the most "ruthless" heart.Your cruelty makes the enemy admire you.Your cruelty is the eternal regret in his heart!

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