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Chapter 36 What Men Don't Want You to Know (5)

5. Don't let his peach blossom forest become your peach blossom garden
Are we in love?Or is it just an ambiguous game?
When the romance between a man and a woman reaches the stalemate stage of chess, there will often be a blank spot.You don't know if passing from this point is a bridge of love or an abyss!So I trembled with fear, walking on thin ice, for fear that if I was not careful, I would lose my love.

A man who can flirt with a woman is often a master of emotion, with falsehood and reality, but just keeps a distance.

The beauty Xiaoqing met a man named Xiao K who was very good at keeping a distance. The two met at a party organized by Tongcheng.com, and they felt good at the time, so they tried to date.Eat and eat, make appointments, regularly report online every day, and report on the situation of the day.Little K has two apartments, two cars, and is engaged in the financial industry. It can be said that the conditions are good.Such a man with good conditions has waited until the age of 35 and has not yet married.This can't help but confuse Xiaoqing and her girlfriends.What's even more rare is that he was quite self-conscious, and every time he sent Xiaoqing downstairs, he kissed her and left.Never ask to go up and sit and take advantage of the opportunity.

Xiaoqing thinks she has met the one she is destined for.Elegant, delicate, and there is a degree of advancement and retreat.Xiaoqing was fascinated by him for a time, and even longed in her heart for him to show further.Soon, Little K was transferred to other places due to work.But their love affair seems to be more intense than before.Little K chats with Xiaoqing almost every night, or chats on the phone.On the Internet, Xiao K is much more active, and often makes some ambiguous jokes to tease Xiaoqing.Xiaoqing felt that Xiao K seemed to know a kind of love manipulation technique.Holding Xiaoqing in his hand is like a puppet.Time is near and time is far.Sometimes serious, sometimes ambiguous, sometimes melancholic.Xiaoqing, a good girl with little experience in love, was captured by this cunning hunter, and even began to fantasize about the scene of them living together.

Later, Xiaoqing asked Xiao K to come and see him, and Xiao K readily agreed, but in the next few days, she remained motionless and remained ambiguous on the Internet.As a last resort, Xiaoqing suggested that she could also visit him.But Little K hesitated and made a lot of excuses.

The girlfriends became vigilant, and they said to Xiaoqing, don't be a liar, at such an age, he probably even has children, right?Do you know his background?Where does he work?Have you seen his ID?Don't he be a pervert?Or there is a physical problem!It was only then that Xiao Qing realized that she only cared about her relationship and had no doubts at all.

With this mess of doubts, Xiaoqing thought carefully.Xiaoqing is 28 years old and has already entered the ranks of leftover women. She is a girl born and raised in this city with working-class parents, but at least she has prepared a small house for her.To be honest, based on her appearance and family background, there are not a few boys who pursue her.The reason why she stayed unmarried is because she wanted to find that "feeling" person.And the appearance of little K just satisfied her love fantasy.

So far we can analyze that the "emotional hunter" has specifically identified the inner blank spots of girls who are passionate, and controlled the girl's "emotional weakness" by means of a series of fabricated techniques.So what is the "emotional weakness" of a girl like Xiaoqing?

On the surface, she yearns for a love that is as pure and free of impurities as "Peach Blossom Spring", and even shows a certain "love and cleanliness".For example, she thinks that a man who sends her downstairs and doesn't ask to go upstairs, a man who doesn't take the initiative to profit is a good man.

right?Only half right.We must pay attention to that any emotional teaching material, talk of experience and cheats must grasp a principle-combined with actual combat and used flexibly.

On the battlefield of emotion, everything changes rapidly.You must know yourself and the enemy in order to be victorious in all battles.

Little K belongs to the man that Xiaoqing can't see through. Every movement of this kind of man may be planned.It can be said that every move of his chess is not easy!
So why didn't he develop further with Xiaoqing?

Low-end men like sex scenes, it is best to chat online and get off the bed.

High-end men like to be ambiguous, because they are more eager to live among thousands of flowers without even touching their bodies!
When a man cultivates to a certain stage, he will inevitably have an understanding of the women around him.What kind of trouble can be caused and what kind of trouble can't be caused, they are like a mirror in their hearts.What kind of woman can be withdrawn after playing, what kind of woman is cultivated slowly, and slowly panned, there is also an account book.

A man has a "view of power" in marriage. When his own conditions are better, he especially needs to choose slowly.Women who are classified into this part often have certain conditions.But I was not so sure, so I observed slowly, measured, compared, and evaluated all aspects.

Men have a "beast view" in love.Women who are of little value for use are basically classified into this category.This type of women is generally more relaxed, just for fun.

Men like Little K are "love merchants" lurking in the marriage and love market. They basically talk about marriage with their abacus.Advance and retreat, false and true, first hoist the curiosity of the prey and hook it in mid-air.Then, while they were struggling, they carefully selected, identified, or looked for new prey.

Let's analyze Xiaoqing's "emotional weakness".Xiaoqing said to her friend, I just want a man who can give me a sense of security, refined, delicate, considerate, and able to communicate with me.

On the surface, there is no problem at all.Xiaoqing is a girl in the spiritual realm, and she has a lot of room for fantasy about love.I want a safe and steady life.

However, is this really the case?
The first battle of love—accurate positioning of self-needs.

Xiaoqing was left for a while, what she wanted in her heart was definitely not an honest and reliable man.It's a man who is emotional, passionate, can bring her different life experiences, and has a material foundation to support all of this!Moreover, this man should only love her and give her a sense of security.

The sense of security that a woman wants does not point to all men, but only to the man she wants to love—a combination of God and movie stars.

This kind of woman does not realize that her "love point" is high, and this "love point" is not a material condition in the ordinary sense, but closer to an illusory level.He can figure out her mind and give her care and love in time.His love can't be too monotonous and boring, it should be interesting and interesting.Can not be a pool of stagnant water, there must be passion.There must also be uniqueness and a sense of stability.Make her comfortable without restricting her too tightly.Know when to appear and when to disappear.In short, it is a lover tailor-made for her spiritual realm.

To put it simply, Xiaoqing doesn't even know herself, what she needs is essentially a sense of security with the thrill of adventure.

Confused, right?That's right, many affectionate girls, especially those who are more literary, have plots of love adventures in their hearts.The more frail and obedient girl she looks on the surface, the more she is half iceberg and half flame inside.

A seasoned "hunter" like Xiao K just grasped Xiao Qing's characteristics and deliberately made the road of love not so smooth. On the one hand, he desperately created obstacles, and on the other hand, he approached tenderly.Xiaoqing gradually sank after this surprise.

During this period, Xiao K disappeared for a while, and Xiaoqing came to me anxiously and asked what should I do?At this moment, Xiao Qing faintly felt that she was not his only "girlfriend", and he didn't even give her the concept.

I said, Little K will definitely appear again.Men have an investment cost problem for women, either spending money or time.Time, the weight value is different in each man.In achievement type man, time is money, also be a kind of emotional investment likewise.

I said to Little K, for this man, no matter passive or active, you are determined.

Women all have a "sad" complex, and cunning hunters tend to satisfy this complex.Love one foot deep and one foot shallow, let your heart always hang in the air, so that his interests can be maximized.

Why is he evasive and ambiguous?Don't be serious, he just wants to arouse your curiosity and let you fall into a deep layer.You take a step, and he gains a step.When your IQ disappears completely, then he can take control of your life logically.This is the best love hunter who "advances through retreat".

When a girl with a dream of Peach Blossom Land meets a man with Peach Blossom Forest, the former loves purely, and the latter loves shrewdly and realistically!
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