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Chapter 38 What Men Don't Want You to Know (7)

7. Hard Control, Soft Landing—Scheming Men Are a Kind of Syphilis

Women are the most emotionally entangled animals.

Love is a woman's greatest weakness, and it is also a matter of a woman's life.

Before meeting love, every woman has a bunch of standards.

Handsome, sunny, mature, able to take care of me and love me.

Don't be too handsome, be specific, and only love me.

Duojin is mature and treats me like a daughter.

Entrepreneurial, can give me a bright future.

Conditions cover conditions, and large conditions cover small conditions.In particular, a young woman's imagination of love cannot be flawed at all.

Therefore, they are more severe than the trial of Lord Hades, and some are even accurate to face shape, eye shape, skin color, and minor living habits.

Some girls are even accurate: Don't those who don't know how to take the initiative to help me carry my bag!Don't you see that I'm sickly and overwhelmed?This judging standard is really embarrassing.

All kinds of excellent conditions were completely negated by an inconspicuous detail.

However, these picky eaters are easy to indulge in a relationship that everyone is not optimistic about, and give up all the previous principles.

The man came from a poor family, dark complexion, machismo, not careful enough, lazy, and a big talker.But this girl is so in love with her that she is dying!

Then he left a message on the blog: "I know he has nothing to recommend, but I just love him so much that I can't extricate myself!"

It can be seen that love is the most unreasonable.Falling in love, all conditions are not conditions.All obstacles cannot be called obstacles.

The moment you dedicate your rationality, your "emotions" are at his disposal.He told you to die standing up, you would never dare to live on your knees.

Girls keep getting caught up in strange love paradoxes.

Some girls fall in love with a married diamond man, while indulging in his little care and what she thinks is full of tender love.At the same time, he asked me anxiously: How can I get a bright ending?

Women, what they miss most is still marriage.This is the weakness of women's collective feelings.No matter how heart-piercingly you fall in love, after all, you still yearn for the peace and stability of this world where you can open your hands calmly under the sun.

25-year-old Qin Xiaoqin is an interpreter for a Fortune 500 company.Young and beautiful, she had a good prospect of marriage.As a result, she fell in love with her leader untimely.Everyone slandered her as "hidden rules".Only she knew in her heart that she was really in love.The leader has dark skin and is only 1 meters tall.In the past, Qin Xiaoqin's goal was very strict. He was stuck at 70 or above, had a good figure, fair skin, an oval face, a sunny person, lively and mature. . .Now, when I met the "Nemesis" in my life, all those conditions have gone to hell.

She said that at the beginning, the leader was very kind to her. Once she had an accident and complained about stomach pain on Weibo, the leader drove for an hour in the middle of the night to her place, and gave her the black chicken soup bought at the restaurant. Snacks and even sanitary napkins!She, who lacked her father's love since she was a child, was immediately moved.Later, he kept texting her frequently, sending flowers, and small gifts (girls' bracelets, puppets, etc.).After persisting for four months, she finally "fell".She clearly knew that he had a family.

She said that his marriage was arranged by his parents for the mutual benefit of the two families. In fact, he never touched his wife at all.

She said that he was so kind to her, and she felt full of confidence and security in front of him.In his eyes, she is a priceless treasure, more beautiful and noble than a star.

But later, when she gradually increased her emotional weight, he gradually cooled down, did not send text messages, and rarely called.She even took the initiative to contact.When she contacted him, he was still full of enthusiasm, but when he hung up the phone, he seemed to have evaporated from the world!
We met at work on weekdays, and he also looks like a businessman.But she knew that he still loved her, but because of the distraction of people, he just knew how to bury his emotions deeply. . .

She told me, I know he really loves me, but he has a responsibility to his parents and the whole family.I am not afraid, with her love, I am very satisfied.

I was speechless after hearing this story.

Girl, beware of your emotional flood, restrain your "emotional flood"!A middle-aged man who can make a young woman give up all the conditions and the opportunity to stand in the sun and have a good relationship, but mortgage all her emotional chips into love must be a man with a lot of scheming.

You have no idea how deep his water is.You don't even know where you are in his heart.

Yes, a middle-aged man who cheats has a low self-esteem in his heart. He knows that he is using his brains to exchange for your youth, and youth is the thing that makes wealth and power feel inferior.

In the face of expensive youth and beauty, he really can't give you anything, so when you approach infinitely, he can only escape infinitely.What he needs is a space to advance and retreat.

And he knows how to be roundabout, not to kill things.This is shown in that he will often praise you, saying that you are the best woman he has ever met.In this way, you can attack when you advance, and you can defend when you retreat.Add some of his difficulties and responsibilities as condiments to mobilize emotions, even if you really split up in the future, you will not hate him, let alone take revenge on him.

His only bargaining chip is to make you think that he loves you deeply, but he just bears it infinitely. . .His performance can arouse multiple emotions in your heart and make you want to stop!
This kind of mind manipulation technique seems weak, but it actually carries the poison of "emotional injury". A little carelessness is enough to smash you to pieces.Moreover, human nature is a bit fond of "darkness", because the little glimmer of love brewing in the dark is very charming!You have to break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly, and struggle out from the gap, to see the depth of emotion!

However, if you blindly indulge your emotions, you will gradually not like the love standing under the sun.You will think it is superficial and straightforward, without aftertaste.

This is like a drug addict who is too deeply confused by "addiction", because he is greedy for the feeling of taking a bite, and is unable to extricate himself!
The most vicious scheming in the world is not naked harm, but occupying a young girl's future happiness in the name of love.

This kind of man's "soft landing" has a taste of "hard control". His scheming is to use virtual love to make your emotional cage, and confine your youth and happiness.

His love is scheming and selfish enough.

Qin Xiaoqin asked me unwillingly, if he had no feelings for me, would he be so kind to me?Although he doesn't always contact me, he never loses money to me.

If you are unwilling to be generous with money and things, and unwilling to give up time, then how can you be willing to continue to spend with him?

Yes, he does like you, but a man's liking is too cold, and that kind of liking cannot stand any test and scrutiny of "reality".His family, career, wife, children, everything is a bargaining chip to destroy that little love.

Really, that bit of love is nothing compared to his life.

No matter how realistic men are, they will also be infatuated with cute flowers, charming flowers, and charming flowers. They appreciate the beauty of flowers, but this does not mean that they will give up the whole spring for one flower!

Please take a step back, be cruel and rational to yourself, and see clearly the overall situation of your love, his greed and your vanity.

If you still say: "I only want his love, his heart, and leave the future to fate."

Then, after admiring your youthful courage, I can't help but remind you that if you can afford it now, you must know how to let it go in the future.

The "life and death love" in front of you is a matter between the two of you, and you have to walk alone in the future.

If you can't be cruel, please be transparent, open-minded, and strong!
(End of this chapter)