Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 43 The "curve" principle of love, let you win with a high profile (3)

3. Don't be greedy, be gentle and release slowly

In love, women often use "tenderness" as a bait to try to open the diamond man's heart.But he often tries his best, but he still can't grasp the erratic heart of the diamond man.

Some girls who are slanting their swords, just expose their shortcomings, and pour their pungentness, power, willfulness, and coquettishness in front of men, but the men say infinitely tolerantly: "Oh, you are such a bad girl, and I will love you!"

Who dares to say that men like "feminine" women?

In fact, the more a woman "bullies and dominates" in love, the more severe and ruthless a woman is, the more reckless her life will be, and the higher her level of happiness will be!
Asked them, they said very imposingly: Men are for abuse!A woman must live out her vigor in order to live out her happiness!
At that time, various ladies' schools came into being, and as many ladies as there were trained, there were as many "lost girls".They were all "tricked" by men!

It is wrong to say that a man's mouth is wrong.In fact, men misunderstand their real needs.

Men's interpretation of "femininity" is often a ridiculous fallacy.

In the eyes of women, the pungent man-in-law is chased by a diamond man!The girl didn't have a high degree of education, she was chubby, a little dark, and had a high voice, which seemed to have nothing to do with femininity.

However, the diamond man said that she is a weak woman who needs protection.He said, a girl, why pretend to be strong!It's heartbreaking to hide the weakness.

Could it be that the judgment of a man who is fascinated by lust is so absurd?

Hear, then, the doctrine of men's unexpected tenderness:
For example, girl A is gentle and tender, but she always maintains a tender attitude. After a long time, a man's taste buds become numb, his sense of touch becomes dull, and no amount of tenderness can be felt.

For example, girl B is pungent, and she teaches men a set of tricks. She occasionally releases a little gentle drizzle, and men want it like rain after a long drought.

Therefore, the "tenderness" perceived from the pungent girl is actually much more!
It's better to admire the man's "slut philosophy" deeply.

There was once a girl who was beautiful, gentle and talented, envied and hated by many girls. Everyone thought that she took away our brilliance!She is definitely the focus of men's eyes!

But the girl tried to fall in love three times, all of which failed.Later, she got married, and her husband was mediocre, bad-tempered, and beat her up.In the end, she actually cheated and openly appeared everywhere with the "little three".The once proud girl in the eyes of everyone has been tortured into a bitter woman.

She went to the forum where resentful women gathered to post photos of her husband and "little three".Talking about my unfortunate experience, I no longer have the tenderness of the past.The "culprit" was revealed by the meddlesome people on the forum, and the license plate numbers and workplaces of her husband and "little three" were all exposed.

Now his husband insisted on a divorce. She cried and fainted in the Civil Affairs Bureau, but she failed to win back her husband's heart!

What's even more bizarre is that "Little San" is actually a woman with the characteristics of a shrew, with a loud voice and confidence, she often grabs men's ears and yells at them, and threatens to break up every now and then, but that super-slut man loves her to death.

His friend asked him, why?Isn't the original partner much more virtuous and docile than the mistress?And the external conditions are obviously much better!

Guess what the man said?
The man said: "She always puts on the airs of a lady, there is no interest in the family, I think she never regards me as her own. Besides, she is not gentle, it is just on the surface, in fact she is always nagging and willful .”

After that post was made public, the man became even more angry: "I didn't expect you to be such an ignorant, vicious woman. If I knew you were like this, I would have done it earlier!"

As soon as this remark came out, public opinion was in an uproar, and one after another crusade against the contemporary "Chen Shimei".

Think about it carefully, this woman usually indulges men too much and releases her tenderness too much.So one time is not good enough, the contrast is sharp enough.

Not being willful all the time, and being willful once in a while is the law of heaven.

Always gentle, occasionally crazy once in a while, she is a crazy woman and a crazy woman.

People are not afraid of not being good enough all the time, they are afraid that they are good once they are released!
Regardless of the past dynasties, kneeling on the washboard and being chased all over the ground by a woman with a feather duster are the most secret "sadomasochism" complexes in a man's heart.

This is similar to a mother disciplining a recalcitrant son.

But often, women who are not smart enough have only learned the superficiality, but have not yet learned the essence.Their good maternal nature to men is a kind of pampering of "loving mothers who lose their children", rather than strict discipline.

Someone summed up the "half-sugar doctrine" love method, which means don't give a man too much sweetness at a time, half of the sweetness is enough.

Half is too much!
Remember, candy is used to reward obedient children, for bad children, there is no bite, give him a feather duster and let him face the wall!

Most men are still in the physiological lactation period and are very attached to their mothers, so he looks forward to reliving the feeling of being pampered in the past by this woman.

Women also have the "Electra" complex, but the love women expect is kindness and love, which is the double satisfaction of material and spirit.

And what men think of as doting is discipline, which is the double superposition of discipline and discipline.Therefore, men are never afraid of harsh, unsympathetic women.They are men's instructors, and they are men's second mothers.

As long as you are willing to take care of him, he will have a real sense of security, and he will feel that you love and love him so much!
This is the most secret "complex" in the heart that even men don't know.

A smart woman will grit her teeth with a smile, pretending to be angry and chasing after her. When she smiles angrily, when she is angry and happy, her femininity is brought to the extreme, and in the heart of a man, she will leave an unforgettable memory.

That kind of feeling similar to family affection is the love in a man's heart.

(End of this chapter)