Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support
Chapter 7 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart
Chapter 7 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (7)
7. A vixen tends to have a harmless face
The woman often said worriedly that she was afraid that he would be seduced by that vixen!
The woman who was cheated on was even more furious. That bitch robbed me of my man, so I fought her hard!
In the eyes of women, slut is synonymous with vixen, but the degree of anger is different; in the eyes of men, slut is also synonymous with vixen, but the depth of lust is different.
Search for the keywords of vixen, charming, sexy, hot body, charming eyes, kung fu in bed, frivolous, coquettish. . .
When thinking of vixen, women without exception think of Daji, Meixi, Baosi, and Zhao Hede. . . . . .
But in fact, many of the things that lead to the disintegration of families and the end of years of love are often subverting the traditional meaning-"benign vixen".
A benign vixen may be hidden among your boudoirs, colleagues, and acquaintances. She is gentle, respectful and thrifty, suitable for IKEA, a little pretty, but never attractive.Many people still have the innocent appearance of their student days.Maybe it's a girl you know.In short, no matter what, you would never have imagined that she would actually become a signal flare in danger in your life. With just such a slight pull, your life would be smashed to pieces.
And part of the responsibility for the cultivation of a "benign vixen" lies with you - indifference, neglect, and inexplicable sense of superiority.
A few years ago, the newspaper published such a news that the husband of a female white-collar worker was caught cheating, who was the target?It turned out to be the ugly little nanny at home.And the female white-collar workers are all good-looking, elegant and decent, and they are definitely worthy wives on the stage.
So the crowd became angry and argued endlessly.The point is, how could he fall in love with a nanny?
In a woman's world, it seems that the uniqueness of love is extremely holy, and no one is allowed to touch her own love!But, do women really have love and cleanliness?
No, there are many women who actually just satisfy their little vanity in their love fantasy.
"I'm so pissed off, I didn't expect that shameless mistress to be an old woman, wanting beauty but not beauty, wanting money but not money, a fat pig, her waist is like a lifebuoy, and this bitch is hiding it like a treasure. ..." A married woman said angrily
Say.
"Why isn't he picky? This kind of man is really disgusting, just forget about the divorce!" My girlfriend added angrily.
"Resolutely divorce, I feel disgusted when I think of him being crushed by a sow!" Such a resoluteness is not without a vicious tongue.
Look, for women, cheating is not a matter of life and death, it is a problem, cheating must be beautiful and have values.
A bad world view can be forgiven, but a bad "value" cannot be forgiven!The grade of a man's infidelity represents the worth of a woman.After a man cheats, women often don't focus on his cheating, but what kind of woman the other party is.
What hits women the most is not a man's flirtatiousness, but promiscuity!Originally thought that he had a discerning eye, but who would have thought that he was actually a boar breeding station, as long as he saw a woman, he would run naked naked.It turns out that I am not the most special one.This is the minefield of women's love and cleanliness.
Here is a case, a friend of mine Xiaoli.She belongs to the girl who has been relatively smooth since she was a child. When she was in school, she not only got excellent grades, but also served as a literary and art committee member. She is the kind of girl who is good at singing and dancing, and is quite eye-catching.Because this kind of girl is more focused, it is inevitable that she will be a little arrogant.After graduation, she signed a contract with a foreign company, which made her classmates quite jealous.After working for two years, I met a sympathetic object, Xiao K.
IT elite male Xiao K works in a large company with a monthly salary of [-]. The young man is very capable and has a bright future.This pair is considered a standard male and female appearance, and everyone thinks that their marriage is a certainty.
Speaking of this pair, there are still some twists and turns in the middle, which caught my attention.That is, they formally communicated after a year of acquaintance.In other words, for a year in between, the man hesitated and hesitated.I inquired carefully.It turned out that Xiaoli met Xiao K through the introduction of her colleague Xiaoyan. At that time, Xiaoyan said regretfully, "It's a pity that I'm already engaged, so it's a waste of money for you."Although Xiaoli felt a little uncomfortable, she was still very grateful to Xiaoyan.After all, many girls hold such high-quality stocks, and they are usually greedy to keep them as spare tires.
I asked Xiaoli, what is the relationship between Xiaoyan and that boy?Xiaoli said that they met on the dating site in the same city. It was said that they dated for a short time at first, and then Xiaoyan's family arranged a blind date.In order to prevent him from getting lost and doing stupid things, I said to help him introduce a girlfriend.
Xiaoli said that Xiao K told her this only recently. Xiao K is a person who values his own secrets very much and keeps silent about the past.On this point, she still noticed that Xiaoyan's profile picture was flickering on Xiao K's desktop from time to time.Suspicious and questioned, Little K couldn't be entangled, so he revealed a little bit.
I asked Xiaoli if she suspected that Xiao K was having an affair with Xiaoyan?
Xiaoli said frankly that she doubted her.But recently, little K has been very kind to herself, picking her up from get off work, sending her flowers, and making soup.
I asked her, what about Xiaoyan?
Xiaoli said that she is married and is now eight months pregnant.
I advised Xiaoli to be careful of Xiaoyan, and don't rush to get married, and to observe it coldly for a while.Xiaoli was a little unhappy, she said that little K is currently holding her in the palm of his hand and caring for her very much.As a small episode like Xiaoyan, it should have passed long ago.Besides, I am better than Xiaoyan.
Talking about this, I feel more and more uneasy.I have a faint feeling that there are some problems lurking before them.
The next development was even more jaw-dropping. Xiao K directly proposed to get the certificate, and Xiaoli almost fainted from happiness.She thinks that little K is sincere.But not long after, Xiao K postponed the matter of obtaining the certificate on the grounds that he would go to study after a while.At this time, they were already living together.
The reason why many bad loves, cheating men can survive in the marriage and love market, and live a very nourishing life, is due to the woman's love fantasy cortex.There is a special area in women's brains that is used to beautify love and whitewash peace for men.When the hidden danger reaches this area, it will be automatically ejected.
Are they aware of hidden dangers?Yes, but most girls are not very strong.
In relationships, many girls are often self-hypnotized.Many unrealistic love scenes have been stored in their thinking space early - from movies, Korean dramas, and magazines. . . . . .These "love fantasy toxins" tend to take root earlier and ambush deeper.So when faced with the real reality, many girls unconsciously give up rational thinking.Directly entered the "preset" plot.
In other words, many girls are falling in love with their own love illusions, and they are caught in the halo of "love".Falling in love for love's sake lacks the necessary vigilance.
Another one, which I think deserves the attention of all good girls, is why do men fall in love with babysitters?Why do men like people who are not as good as us?
At the beginning when she agreed to associate with Xiao K, Xiaoli was somewhat complacent.Her appearance and talent are above Xiaoyan.She thinks this is a man Xiaoyan can't handle.So when Little K chased her, she felt it was a matter of course in her heart.This is the psychological model in which excellent girls are prone to suffer.It is believed that the "excellent aura" can repel all intruders.As a result, many excellent girls are robbed of their boyfriends by people who are not as good as themselves.
Excellence is an addition in terms of studies and career, but a subtraction in love. No matter how good you are, as long as you are in his hands, he will inevitably look around.A man's view of marriage is "the view of power", and a man's view of love is basically equivalent to the "view of beasts". If you can do it, you must spare no effort to do it, and if you can't, you will temporarily reserve it and wait for an opportunity.
A lot of derailments and cheating are carried out under the banner of confidante, brother and sister.The reason why he didn't cheat was because the timing was not enough.
When it's time to tear your face apart, your excellence will become his handle instead.For example, in the nanny case, the man told everyone that it was the aura of his wife that made him breathless, and that he needed a weaker woman who could arouse his desire for protection and make him feel like a man.
Take a look, this is the cheating man's superb acting guide.
The cheating men who kill people invisible are not the ones looking left and right on the street and being warned by their girlfriends twisting their ears, but these are the ones who say half a sentence, hide half a sentence, are crazy, hot and cold, and propose marriage without warning.
But where there is something unusual, there must be an unusual conspiracy.The scheming cheating man had already rehearsed the good show before it even started.In other words, all your subsequent reactions are within his expectations.
Sure enough, soon Xiaoli came to me again, saying that little K couldn't even be seen recently, and that she was on a business trip, so why didn't she even make a phone call?Closed training is not allowed to call, send messages?
At this time, Xiaoyan's child was two months old.I told Xiaoli without hesitation that there is something wrong with this man, usually he is cheating.Now Xiaoli was silent.
A man doesn't want you to enter his inner world too much, obviously he doesn't put you in the position of his own family.
When a man loves a woman briefly, he puts you in the prey's position and brings you down with testosterone.
When a man loves a woman for a long time, he will put her in the position of relatives and melt you with gentle love.
The way to judge whether a man loves you is not the passionate performance at the beginning of the relationship, but whether he is willing to let you into his heart and his life after a year.This is how he accepts you.
Xiaoli still decided to give this man another chance, saying maybe he was really busy and she shouldn't be suspicious.I let out a long sigh and let her go.
After another half a year, Xiaoli came to see me with a haggard face. She said, you are right, Xiao K really cheated.These people are all of average beauty, not sexy beauties.She cannot accept such a failure.
"I don't think they deserve to be vixen. How can a vixen be so fat and ugly?!"
Xiaoli has expressed the feelings of many women, but this is the inferiority of men.Unless you can uproot a man's desire, otherwise, you have to clear the field for the "benign vixen" lineup around you.
Women have a love illusion system, and men have a desire illusion function.
Don't think that they are gentle, courteous, thrifty, and clumsy, so they are not worthy of being your enemy.In the eyes of a man with strong desires, a toad can also become a fairy!
(End of this chapter)
7. A vixen tends to have a harmless face
The woman often said worriedly that she was afraid that he would be seduced by that vixen!
The woman who was cheated on was even more furious. That bitch robbed me of my man, so I fought her hard!
In the eyes of women, slut is synonymous with vixen, but the degree of anger is different; in the eyes of men, slut is also synonymous with vixen, but the depth of lust is different.
Search for the keywords of vixen, charming, sexy, hot body, charming eyes, kung fu in bed, frivolous, coquettish. . .
When thinking of vixen, women without exception think of Daji, Meixi, Baosi, and Zhao Hede. . . . . .
But in fact, many of the things that lead to the disintegration of families and the end of years of love are often subverting the traditional meaning-"benign vixen".
A benign vixen may be hidden among your boudoirs, colleagues, and acquaintances. She is gentle, respectful and thrifty, suitable for IKEA, a little pretty, but never attractive.Many people still have the innocent appearance of their student days.Maybe it's a girl you know.In short, no matter what, you would never have imagined that she would actually become a signal flare in danger in your life. With just such a slight pull, your life would be smashed to pieces.
And part of the responsibility for the cultivation of a "benign vixen" lies with you - indifference, neglect, and inexplicable sense of superiority.
A few years ago, the newspaper published such a news that the husband of a female white-collar worker was caught cheating, who was the target?It turned out to be the ugly little nanny at home.And the female white-collar workers are all good-looking, elegant and decent, and they are definitely worthy wives on the stage.
So the crowd became angry and argued endlessly.The point is, how could he fall in love with a nanny?
In a woman's world, it seems that the uniqueness of love is extremely holy, and no one is allowed to touch her own love!But, do women really have love and cleanliness?
No, there are many women who actually just satisfy their little vanity in their love fantasy.
"I'm so pissed off, I didn't expect that shameless mistress to be an old woman, wanting beauty but not beauty, wanting money but not money, a fat pig, her waist is like a lifebuoy, and this bitch is hiding it like a treasure. ..." A married woman said angrily
Say.
"Why isn't he picky? This kind of man is really disgusting, just forget about the divorce!" My girlfriend added angrily.
"Resolutely divorce, I feel disgusted when I think of him being crushed by a sow!" Such a resoluteness is not without a vicious tongue.
Look, for women, cheating is not a matter of life and death, it is a problem, cheating must be beautiful and have values.
A bad world view can be forgiven, but a bad "value" cannot be forgiven!The grade of a man's infidelity represents the worth of a woman.After a man cheats, women often don't focus on his cheating, but what kind of woman the other party is.
What hits women the most is not a man's flirtatiousness, but promiscuity!Originally thought that he had a discerning eye, but who would have thought that he was actually a boar breeding station, as long as he saw a woman, he would run naked naked.It turns out that I am not the most special one.This is the minefield of women's love and cleanliness.
Here is a case, a friend of mine Xiaoli.She belongs to the girl who has been relatively smooth since she was a child. When she was in school, she not only got excellent grades, but also served as a literary and art committee member. She is the kind of girl who is good at singing and dancing, and is quite eye-catching.Because this kind of girl is more focused, it is inevitable that she will be a little arrogant.After graduation, she signed a contract with a foreign company, which made her classmates quite jealous.After working for two years, I met a sympathetic object, Xiao K.
IT elite male Xiao K works in a large company with a monthly salary of [-]. The young man is very capable and has a bright future.This pair is considered a standard male and female appearance, and everyone thinks that their marriage is a certainty.
Speaking of this pair, there are still some twists and turns in the middle, which caught my attention.That is, they formally communicated after a year of acquaintance.In other words, for a year in between, the man hesitated and hesitated.I inquired carefully.It turned out that Xiaoli met Xiao K through the introduction of her colleague Xiaoyan. At that time, Xiaoyan said regretfully, "It's a pity that I'm already engaged, so it's a waste of money for you."Although Xiaoli felt a little uncomfortable, she was still very grateful to Xiaoyan.After all, many girls hold such high-quality stocks, and they are usually greedy to keep them as spare tires.
I asked Xiaoli, what is the relationship between Xiaoyan and that boy?Xiaoli said that they met on the dating site in the same city. It was said that they dated for a short time at first, and then Xiaoyan's family arranged a blind date.In order to prevent him from getting lost and doing stupid things, I said to help him introduce a girlfriend.
Xiaoli said that Xiao K told her this only recently. Xiao K is a person who values his own secrets very much and keeps silent about the past.On this point, she still noticed that Xiaoyan's profile picture was flickering on Xiao K's desktop from time to time.Suspicious and questioned, Little K couldn't be entangled, so he revealed a little bit.
I asked Xiaoli if she suspected that Xiao K was having an affair with Xiaoyan?
Xiaoli said frankly that she doubted her.But recently, little K has been very kind to herself, picking her up from get off work, sending her flowers, and making soup.
I asked her, what about Xiaoyan?
Xiaoli said that she is married and is now eight months pregnant.
I advised Xiaoli to be careful of Xiaoyan, and don't rush to get married, and to observe it coldly for a while.Xiaoli was a little unhappy, she said that little K is currently holding her in the palm of his hand and caring for her very much.As a small episode like Xiaoyan, it should have passed long ago.Besides, I am better than Xiaoyan.
Talking about this, I feel more and more uneasy.I have a faint feeling that there are some problems lurking before them.
The next development was even more jaw-dropping. Xiao K directly proposed to get the certificate, and Xiaoli almost fainted from happiness.She thinks that little K is sincere.But not long after, Xiao K postponed the matter of obtaining the certificate on the grounds that he would go to study after a while.At this time, they were already living together.
The reason why many bad loves, cheating men can survive in the marriage and love market, and live a very nourishing life, is due to the woman's love fantasy cortex.There is a special area in women's brains that is used to beautify love and whitewash peace for men.When the hidden danger reaches this area, it will be automatically ejected.
Are they aware of hidden dangers?Yes, but most girls are not very strong.
In relationships, many girls are often self-hypnotized.Many unrealistic love scenes have been stored in their thinking space early - from movies, Korean dramas, and magazines. . . . . .These "love fantasy toxins" tend to take root earlier and ambush deeper.So when faced with the real reality, many girls unconsciously give up rational thinking.Directly entered the "preset" plot.
In other words, many girls are falling in love with their own love illusions, and they are caught in the halo of "love".Falling in love for love's sake lacks the necessary vigilance.
Another one, which I think deserves the attention of all good girls, is why do men fall in love with babysitters?Why do men like people who are not as good as us?
At the beginning when she agreed to associate with Xiao K, Xiaoli was somewhat complacent.Her appearance and talent are above Xiaoyan.She thinks this is a man Xiaoyan can't handle.So when Little K chased her, she felt it was a matter of course in her heart.This is the psychological model in which excellent girls are prone to suffer.It is believed that the "excellent aura" can repel all intruders.As a result, many excellent girls are robbed of their boyfriends by people who are not as good as themselves.
Excellence is an addition in terms of studies and career, but a subtraction in love. No matter how good you are, as long as you are in his hands, he will inevitably look around.A man's view of marriage is "the view of power", and a man's view of love is basically equivalent to the "view of beasts". If you can do it, you must spare no effort to do it, and if you can't, you will temporarily reserve it and wait for an opportunity.
A lot of derailments and cheating are carried out under the banner of confidante, brother and sister.The reason why he didn't cheat was because the timing was not enough.
When it's time to tear your face apart, your excellence will become his handle instead.For example, in the nanny case, the man told everyone that it was the aura of his wife that made him breathless, and that he needed a weaker woman who could arouse his desire for protection and make him feel like a man.
Take a look, this is the cheating man's superb acting guide.
The cheating men who kill people invisible are not the ones looking left and right on the street and being warned by their girlfriends twisting their ears, but these are the ones who say half a sentence, hide half a sentence, are crazy, hot and cold, and propose marriage without warning.
But where there is something unusual, there must be an unusual conspiracy.The scheming cheating man had already rehearsed the good show before it even started.In other words, all your subsequent reactions are within his expectations.
Sure enough, soon Xiaoli came to me again, saying that little K couldn't even be seen recently, and that she was on a business trip, so why didn't she even make a phone call?Closed training is not allowed to call, send messages?
At this time, Xiaoyan's child was two months old.I told Xiaoli without hesitation that there is something wrong with this man, usually he is cheating.Now Xiaoli was silent.
A man doesn't want you to enter his inner world too much, obviously he doesn't put you in the position of his own family.
When a man loves a woman briefly, he puts you in the prey's position and brings you down with testosterone.
When a man loves a woman for a long time, he will put her in the position of relatives and melt you with gentle love.
The way to judge whether a man loves you is not the passionate performance at the beginning of the relationship, but whether he is willing to let you into his heart and his life after a year.This is how he accepts you.
Xiaoli still decided to give this man another chance, saying maybe he was really busy and she shouldn't be suspicious.I let out a long sigh and let her go.
After another half a year, Xiaoli came to see me with a haggard face. She said, you are right, Xiao K really cheated.These people are all of average beauty, not sexy beauties.She cannot accept such a failure.
"I don't think they deserve to be vixen. How can a vixen be so fat and ugly?!"
Xiaoli has expressed the feelings of many women, but this is the inferiority of men.Unless you can uproot a man's desire, otherwise, you have to clear the field for the "benign vixen" lineup around you.
Women have a love illusion system, and men have a desire illusion function.
Don't think that they are gentle, courteous, thrifty, and clumsy, so they are not worthy of being your enemy.In the eyes of a man with strong desires, a toad can also become a fairy!
(End of this chapter)
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