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Chapter 8 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (8)

8. Use the "spare tire" method to attack the main battlefield of love

Are you a love "spare tire" expert?

Is your lover a love backup?

What will you do when one day you find out that you are just a lover's spare tire?

If you are each other's spare tires, then when the spare tire meets the spare tire, will the ending be madness or destruction?
I accompanied a younger sister to find a person who understands the Book of Changes to help calculate her love.After the younger sister entered the door, she expressed for a long time. The expert understood it, and said with a smile, is she going to choose from several boys?Then count them separately.It's okay, many girls come with the horoscopes of several boys.Look at the female college students nearby, there are plenty of them.

I couldn't help but laugh.

It seems that the "spare tire" method has been widely laid out.The Jews say, don't put all your eggs in one basket.How savvy people are nowadays, if they are afraid of being beaten by chickens and eggs, which one is not hidden by all kinds of martial arts.

People's doubts in the past were, can you guarantee that you are the lover's favorite?He loves you more than anyone in the past?
Now people's doubt is, can you guarantee that you are the only one your lover is dating right now?
Look, everyone's expectations for love are gradually decreasing.Women are confident and bold to "collect stamps", not to mention men who are born to want wives and concubines.

Jian Dan recently discovered that her boyfriend Xiao F actually has several girlfriends who are flirting with each other.Boyfriend Xu Liang of course didn’t admit it, and he deliberately pretended to be bored and said: “These women are so troublesome, they always consult him with trivial matters. Xiao A, I had a quarrel with my boyfriend and asked him to mediate. Little J who is a programmer , often consult him about business issues. Oh, and little Y, who keeps asking me to help her find a boyfriend. Oh, it’s really annoying. Speaking of which, little K seems to mean a little bit to me, but I told her , I just see her as a younger sister."

I told her the example of Xiaoli in the previous section.Tell Jian Dan, don't take it lightly no matter what.

Jian Dan did not live with her boyfriend because their units are far away.Not cohabiting, that is, not integrating into each other's lives.This stage is the stage where men are most likely to "hidden".

We know that man is an animal with no middle ground in love.Where there are beasts, the beasts will never be spared.It's like a bunch of attractive grapes placed in front of you, can you resist eating them?Changing to cherries, watermelons, and strawberries is the same, and they are all fruits for you.Likewise, to men, it is all women.

Women like to prove uniqueness and irreplaceability, men are more inclined to blur boundaries.When a woman asks a man, why do you like me, the answer she wants is actually the uniqueness that distinguishes her from other women.

Men think that women are emotional vanity animals, hoping that men will please their ears all the time.

In fact, women are even more insecure animals. They need men to use more words to prove their uniqueness.What they want is not "I like you", but "You are the most special, no one can shake my heart except you."

Without proof of uniqueness, they cannot rest assured.

As far as Jian Dan's personal conditions are concerned, he is generous and decent, working as a supervisor in a hotel. The height of 170 belongs to the more eye-catching girl.Before falling in love, some rich men had clearly expressed their intention to date her.There is also a rich man who is still pursuing her to this day.

But Jian Dan, who has received strict education since she was a child, is a girl with a traditional view on marriage and love.She feels that there is no ambiguity in feelings, love is love, and not love is not love.So he "slapped" all the suitors to death.Boyfriend Xiao F belongs to the rich second generation. At that time, Jian Dan did not agree to date because she felt that the rich second generation were all parasites.Xiao F has exhausted all his tricks in front of her, and tried to show his active side in his career.Little F opened his own Internet company, and it is running well.After a long time of grinding, I almost jumped off the building and cut my wrists, and I was lucky enough to embrace the beauty.

From these analyzes we can see that Jian Dan is the kind of person who looks arrogant and fortified on the outside, but is very soft on the inside.

Our several types of girls in real life:
Easy to defend but hard to attack, it looks like Leng Ao is struggling to catch up, but once he catches up, he can be done once and for all.This kind of girl's bottom line is easy to let go again and again, infinitely tolerant of men.Because she has decided in her heart that she is yours.So unless it is absolutely necessary, I will not do anything to betray you.For example, the type of Jane Dan.

Easy to attack but hard to defend, this type of girl seems to be docile and easy to catch.But if you think you're done with it, you're dead wrong.This kind of good girl, many boys will have a desire to protect her.There are also many temptations, and you don't know how to refuse, which will bring trouble to your relationship.A clear example of this case is Lu Xiaoman.

Mirage type, this type of girl is quite special, and there are few cases in reality.It belongs to the best.When I was chasing, the clouds and mountains were shrouded in mist, and it seemed that I was about to catch up. I always felt that it was almost too close, and it seemed that it was close, but it was far away.So I chased and chased.Even if she got it, she still had reservations. On the surface, she looked innocent and straightforward, but in reality she was unpredictable.There may be a group of men kneeling under the pomegranate skirt.If you don't perform well, you may be eliminated at any time.This kind of woman may look weak and sympathetic on the surface, but in fact she is the most difficult to deal with, and may never be able to deal with it.The most eye-catching example of this case is Lin Huiyin.

Jian Dan's side was cleared, and she soon discovered that little F was in constant trouble.There are endless phone calls every day, and they answer them mysteriously in the kitchen.Ask him, he has a lot of excuses, business contacts, work secrets, or helping other women deal with family disputes.The more Jian Dan thought about it, the more worried she became, and suggested that she change her job and move here to live with Xiao F.Unexpectedly, Xiao F was evasive. He said that the business being discussed is a commercial secret, and it is not good to have her present.

Jian Dan secretly learned some hacking techniques and cracked Little F's so-called confidential documents.As a result, Jian Dan almost died of anger.He kept the chat records with all the MMs, some said deep, some shallow, some talked about love, some were ambiguous, and he also sorted out the strategy of each MM, it is simply a battlefield record book!It turned out that Jian Dan was just a spare tire, and it wasn't the most important thing.The most important spare tire is in another city, which he has to follow up every day.

Love has a time allocation mechanism. Apart from work, a man gives all his "spare tires" a timetable.The more important points are allocated, the less important points are reduced.The main follow-up will be contacted on the next day at most, and the less important ones will be contacted every three to five days.and so on.

There are two types of spare tire men: one is dominated by desire, and the other is dominated by interests.Desire-dominated, like the "paoliang people" on the Internet, the picture is fresh and interesting, trying to taste all kinds of flowers.Men dominated by interests are generally more practical, and the women they need must be helpful to their careers.To put it bluntly, this kind of person is just looking for a stepping stone.When it comes to marriage, this kind of man compares carefully, weighs the pros and cons, and must choose the one that is most beneficial to him.There is also a relatively rare, emotional needs.Some men have been repeatedly frustrated in reality, so they develop their confidante in many ways, shape themselves into supermen, collect the admiration and attention of girls, and satisfy the sense of accomplishment that they cannot obtain in real life.

But no matter what kind of spare tire boy he is, he is the kind of cheating boy who has no sense of responsibility.After discovering, they will all be shot to death, and there will be no future troubles.

Jian Dan said that the matter has not reached the point of no control, and she has the confidence to restore the relationship.

Why can girls tolerate cheating men?Why do playboys do so well in the marriage and love market, making girls jealous of them?

Girls who are in love have a princess mentality - they think that all "rivals in love" are set up to set off their beauty and excellence.Their existence may just prove her excellence.

A girl in love has a harem mentality—she will regard a man as the supreme king, and his multiple choices are actually proving her irreplaceability.

Every woman has a harem plot.This is the true meaning of a bad man being loved.

A bad man, at least he has the ability to restrain a woman!Women love "Pagoda Town River Demon".After a while, she realized that she was so charming and invincible.

Surrounded by jewels and emeralds, the bad man is surrounded by beauties, but he chooses himself.

Women love to open the Pandora's box of love, expecting a surprise from a man.A man's heart is the only best, even if he is not the only one, he must strive to be the first.

Ken said "you're the only" man, not smart enough, because he let women see all his cards
The man who is willing to say "you are the number one" is smart enough, because he hides his hole cards, but he has figured out the dominoes in a woman's heart.

Love has a competitive mechanism. Not only men love competition, but women also love competition.Often when doing one thing, without competition, it is easy for people to relax and become unmotivated.A thing you are used to, suddenly someone wants to grab it from you, and the process immediately becomes interesting.Make you have to re-examine the value of this thing.

I told Jian Dan that if you really don't want to let go, then you should carry the "spare tire method" to attack the main battlefield of love.Now if there is a man chasing you, don't refuse to die.Be vague and nonchalant, let them see a glimmer of hope.Those who have been chased before can find a way to pull them back.In short, we can't let that kid be too peaceful.Then his attention may be attracted.Naturally, there is no time to arrange and deploy other battlefields.

Specifically how to do it, you can refer to your boyfriend's method.A bad woman is a good university to transform a man, and a bad man is also a good teacher for a bad woman.The best way to deal with this kind of cheating man is to learn now and sell now, and treat him in his own way.

Disrupt his schedule, disrupt his overall plan.A woman must know how to be a surprise soldier in love, and catch a man by surprise at any time.Only "little prey" that is not easy to be tamed will make men excited.

Keep unconquered forever, always keep space even in marriage, and leave room, so that a man can use motivation to treat you well, and then treat you as his only one.

(End of this chapter)