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Chapter 9 With such scheming, you can plunder his heart (9)

9. If you play chess with a master, you are afraid that you will not be able to stretch

The most thrilling "game" chess game in love often happens at the beginning.

At first, men treat women like a cat playing with a mouse with a playful mentality of hunting.Many women were secretly delighted, thinking that the man's eagerness to attack allowed them to control the overall situation.

Unexpectedly, their overall slack just made them fall into the trap carefully woven by the hunter.So the hunter began to cast doubts, flickering.The woman exclaimed in triumph, "Oops, I've fallen for him!"
But it was too late, and the women were caught in a dilemma.Men began to loom.To advance, it seems too urgent, to retreat, a sincere heart has already been offered, and I feel unwilling.

Thus, entered the first stalemate stage - ambiguous.

I thought the ending would be clear, but who knows that I have become a slave of love.When a man comes out, he is happy, but if he doesn't, he is sad.A heart followed him up and down.

Many women ask me, how to win in ambiguity?
The more eager the women who interrogated me, the more I worried about their prospects.

Girls, there is really no other way than to ruthlessly cut off the back road.

Many women imitate Zhao Min, I must let him know which one he really loves!
However, life is much crueler than TV dramas!When a beautiful prey is delivered to the door, the man's choice is often to store it in the warehouse.When you want to eat, take it out and have a look.

The love of many women has actually been defeated at the beginning.

The most exciting part of a man's love depends on whether his moves are fierce and decisive, and whether his pursuit is twists and turns.

The wonderful thing about a woman's love is whether she accepts the move calmly and whether she turns around with a heart of stone.

A shrewd man knows how to talk about love into nine consecutive rings, with falsehood and reality, so that you can't find the point of focus.

A shrewd woman knows how to talk about love as a cold fragrance pill, and smell the fragrance through the curtain, but she can't find anyone.

A smart woman knows how to stand by and watch in her love.She knows that the best love only requires a man to write and act in a one-man show.You can comment on it yourself in the audience.

Women who are not smart enough often think that love is a police movie.Chasing a dog to the death, chicken flying dog jumping.As a result, he lost his self-esteem and lost his worth.

Love is a knockout game, don't let your self-esteem lose at the starting line.For men, low self-esteem is the bargaining chip for controlling prey in the future.For a woman, losing her self-esteem is equivalent to losing the capital for future negotiations.

Women who are lucky enough to win in the trials will have a chance to enter the second knockout round - the cold war stage.

My friend Xiaoli asked me, what should I do in a cold war with my boyfriend?You know, Scorpio men are masters in the cold war.

I watched her looking through the constellations, citing the classics, looking anxious, and I saw her faltering on the road to love in the future.No matter whether she wins this battle or not, she will lose.

Even if her boyfriend takes the initiative to talk to her, she can sense her urgency with just a few words of dialogue.

Because you are thinking about it, and you can't let go of it.When the prey arrives, it will show the appearance of eagerness and devotion.

Love is a battlefield without gunpowder. The comparison is not about who has enough scheming, but who has a strong psychological quality.Your concern about gains and losses has already made you out of the game in his heart.

His initiative and passivity are just gestures, not the essence of victory or defeat.

Men occasionally have a kind of intimacy and compassion for low-end prey.His initiative may not represent peace, but provocation.

When a man has the chance to win, he likes to use various means to verify his victory.Whether low profile or high profile.He can switch modes arbitrarily, and play with you in the palm of his hand.

Why?Because your heart is not cruel enough, you are too dependent on your own feelings!
Women have love "abuse" syndrome, like to look up at the gap, and immerse themselves in the fantasy of heroes and beauties.

There is always a kind of "heroic devotion fantasy" in women's hearts.After the man in front of her was infinitely heightened and widened by her, she entrusted her full of love to his hands.But in the end she became the man's love slave, the rag girl.

When the marionette is not tight, I'm afraid that the one pulling the rope is not the overlord of Chu who values ​​love and righteousness, but the treacherous little bastard.

As everyone knows, the most taboo thing about love is not the absence of scheming, but poor demeanor.If you fulfill his demeanor, you will lose your temperament and shatter your aura.One point less in your halo, one point less of his admiration for you.

Because the man's fantasy about love is to prostrate and kneel at the feet of the goddess.People are somewhat "slavish" in love.

A man's love has a heart of power and comparison.The lower your surrender point, the faster you fall, the less worth you are, and the farther you are from his sincerity.A man's sincerity is prepared for luxury, and the better the man, the more so.

A truly powerful beauty has never been an easy prey to be tamed.

Baosi's face is always arrogant and indifferent, and the princes of Fenghuo opera only buy her a smile, and the "smile" is not bad.After Mrs. Xi was plundered, because of her second marriage, she had nothing to say for three years.Patience is not high.

A real vixen is not necessarily beautiful, but it must be very difficult to please.

Xiaoli said that she understood all these principles, but she was very afraid that he would not turn back.

So, within a week, Xiaoli collapsed and finally made that phone call.

As a result, her boyfriend has become more indifferent to her since then, coming and going when called.Xiaoli suffered even more from this.what to do?This time, she was even more unwilling to give up, and she was stuck in a quagmire, unable to extricate herself.

Woman, you are cruel to yourself and quit the poison of love.Don't be so dependent.

Many women are financially independent and emotionally dependent.Why not try it upside down.Emotionally independent, financially dependent?

Women, don't think of losing so scary, you are not a three-year-old child, you have the energy to love yourself.

Fear of losing is almost the weakness of all women in love.A shrewd man grasps this weakness, stretches your patience thinner and thinner, lowers your bottom line further and lower, steps on your heart from now on, and completes his glorious image.

If you can't stretch yourself to play suicide?That's even better, since then his love history has become tragic and legendary.Once upon a time, a girl killed herself for me.

Fear of losing will make wisdom obey the orders of the flustered heart and make your battle line crumble!

A clever hunter has always known how to pass through the heart.You thought you were waiting for a love affair, but in fact, on the opposite side, he was holding the bowl of gut-piercing poison.

what to do?Countless girls like Xiaoli asked me.

To completely get rid of his restraint mentally.First of all, tell yourself that this man is just a scumbag who deserves to be beaten, he is not a hero, he is just a creature that has not yet evolved.In fact, tell yourself, I can let go, I can afford to lose.Again, if you don't have a career, find some hobbies.Why not have dinner with friends and drink tea with handsome men.

As for him, if he wants to stretch, then stretch to the end.What use am I to a man who can't make me happy?

After such a decision, perhaps, a miracle will really appear.

You may suddenly discover, after a fierce struggle, that thing called sincerity in a man.

(End of this chapter)