Men need to understand, women need to love

Chapter 1 You have misunderstood men for a long time
what kind of woman do men like to help

Behind a good man there is often a hard-working woman, and behind a successful woman there are often more successful men.

It is always easy for people to understand that men help women as an ambiguous relationship, but they don’t know that some women give their bodies and get only some small favors, while smarter women are from the very beginning. A sustainable development program has been established among useful men, the most successful example of which is the actor Tang Wei.It was Lai Shengchuan who gave her the opportunity to stand in front of Ang Lee, and it was Ang Lee who gave her the opportunity to stand in front of Jiang Zhiqiang and many American directors.How can a woman who is not astonishing in appearance get the selfless help of two big-name directors successively?The reason is simply that she has the ability to be recognized and paid first.

Many women have such a misunderstanding, thinking that facing a man who is more powerful than themselves, the most convenient way to get his help is sexual attraction.Indeed, where there are both sexes, there is sexual attraction. However, if you are just acting like a baby and proficient in seduction, men will treat you as a pet instead of a partner. And have you ever seen people willing to let their pets take on important tasks?A man who can spare no effort to help you in the long journey of professional development must be the ball you can catch from him, and you conquer him in some way, not capture him one night.

It is not difficult to understand why many young women sleep with powerful men, but he is stingy in helping her further in her career.From a man's point of view, since you have waves, why do you need to have brains, and rely on the pocket money I gave you to live a little life, isn't it good?
Rather than saying that Ang Lee discovered Tang Wei, it is better to say that "Lust, Caution" is a mutual fulfillment between Ang Lee and Tang Wei.There are many girls who want to become famous, but there are probably very few actresses who are capable of playing Wang Jiazhi and are willing to play naked.From this point of view, there is an ambiguous relationship between him and her. This kind of ambiguity is not physical but psychological. It can even be said to be a rare acquaintance between men and women.When women can talk to successful men at a higher level, they actually can't bear to develop this relationship into bed, which is a bit vulgar after all, not to mention that there will never be a shortage of bed partners around successful men.

"You are useful" is the premise that a man is willing to help a woman.If the woman is still willing to be wronged for him, he will feel that he is her boss and it is necessary to cover her.

Tang Wei exchanged Ang Lee's passionate confession with no complaints and no regrets after being banned: "I will definitely try my best to take care of Tang Wei." In ordinary life, we can also see similar stories.The conscientious female subordinate blocked an arrow for her male boss at a critical moment. He was safe and sound, but she fell into a trough temporarily.However, soon, people discovered that she was standing on a higher starting line, and it was self-explanatory who was behind it.

Men who mess around in love are often law-abiding in the workplace.So we see many women who have been wronged emotionally, and finally leave the stage lonely, but the men sing "I let you live", and the women who shield the guns for men in the workplace, once the men are prosperous, they are always the first. think of her.Because in love, men feel helpless to be in debt, but in business, men understand that debts must be repaid.

A capable and ideal woman who has helped him in his career, but he can't let her get along better, then his success is flawed.

But in the workplace, for a woman who has been spared no effort to help a man, what inspires him is not his pity for weak women, but his responsibility and obligation to his partner.This requires women to be precise about their own gender advantages - not to use it is a waste, and to use it too much will be looked down upon by the other party.How to control scale?The solution is not to be good at calculation, but to have a clear goal.If you set your goal as a career and make unremitting efforts, men will naturally see that you are not a mistress who can be kept at home.The problem with women is that sometimes they confuse the two, thinking that if they get this man, they will get a career, but they don't know that a successful man is often not suitable for obtaining, but only suitable for use.When you try hard to get him, you are probably exhausted or notorious, and you can only watch your career ruined by scandal.

Show your own advantages in front of men, I will help you, you will help me, you are more successful than me, but I also have my own advantages.If you want a man to help you realize your career dreams, you have to rein in the urge to throw on his femininity in a hurry.A woman's figure and a man's thinking are more of a long-term attraction to them.

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